The fact that his last response is correcting her spelling is my favorite part. Amazin’

This could be a convo between me and one of my first ex gf's. I am still baffled how she managed to delude me so hard.

She made me believe that it wasn't her fault. She managed to make me stay with her months after months despite all the evidence being there. Even when I had it directly infront of me she still talked her way out. It was insane.

Half a year after I eventually managed to cut contact, I read through some messages again. I was actually surprised how well I handled her bullshit and YET didn't decide to break up immediately.

Damn, what a harpie!

The entitlement. Psycho

No one is going to mention that she told the guy to kill himself for her cheating and him leaving? No one?

Reads too good to be real tbh

Its sad to watch women destroy themselves. We cant make them stop, and they beg us to fix it.

There*

These bitches are crazy. I'm still hiding like ann Frank from an ex who went full retard on me two years ago. Wow, I wouldnt have thought this shit was common. Woman fuck up and demand you man up and take her back. These heaux insane.

"Cheating is the most disgusting, hurtful, and disrespectful thing you could do to someone you say you love" (truth!) She keeps saying he'll regret not taking her back. Uh,noooo, I do believe he would regret it if he actually took her back.. Good for him for standing his ground. He deserves better.

Another ho baited. Another brother freed from the clutches of Satan's spawn. God's work will never be finished until I free up all my brothers!

This seems like the made up texts from r/niceguys.

Umm she sounds abusive as HELL

This one is a classic, and she makes his point for him by acting out exactly why he should never speak to her again. She runs the entire range from begging to rage and rejection, and gets nothing.

And anything women cant get with sex is what they instantly desire. Its like catnip to them.

Well done dude.

Spit out my drink when I read "I forgive you for leaving". She forgives him for leaving her when he caught her cheating on him. She thinks she's in a position to forgive him??? Female entitlement knows no boundaries!!!

Why not block her on the phone so she can’t text?

Extremely abusive once she doesn't get what she wants. Wow. If it was a male exhibing this behavior she would have called the cops .

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When I was 18 I had a girl do the same thing to me. 20 years later and she is still tripping that I wont talk to her or read her 20 page letters. Ignoring women is the weapon they cannot handle. Use it!

That is psycho.

To be fair, a break up can cause severe mental anguish and make you lose all sense of normalcy. There's a biochemical imbalance that occurs in your brain after suffering a traumatic loss. It can take years to "rewire" your brain back to normalcy.

This: https://i.imgur.com/ihMp8wS.jpg

This is where men and women talk quite different languages. Well, it's not really language, it's logic.

That statement makes perfect sense to women and they can't understand how and why he declines.

According to this offer:

1. he, the nice guy, gets "the prize" (her)
2. he, the nice guy, finishes first (see #1 above)
3. the other guy is the loser in this whole situation

According to us guys none of that makes any sense and it's exactly the opposite.

"You know you need me. I'm the only one who'll love you." Red flag yo, people who say that to their "loved one" usually are abusers.

How much do you want to bet she went back and screwed the guy she cheated on him with a few more times after the breakup. And she’s most likely been riding the CC on 20+ guys in those 3 years after the breakup. Now she knows she can’t do better and wants the person she knows she can cheat on back to pay for her life’s mistakes.

Highlight of the conversation:

"I slipped up. I wasn't in a relationship with him. You were the one who was supposed to stay. I didn't leave. I forgive you."

On a serious note, never engage. Drama is for bitches. Once you end something, keep it dead.

I sent this to my ex. Idiot laughed about it until I told her she did the same thing. That shut her up. "But I never cheated!" No just abused, starved, and almost killed me through sleep deprivation. And then threatened a false rape actuation. "I don't like being reminded of how cruel I was, it really hurts my feelings" is the direct quote of what she said to me.

"You were the one who was supposed to stay." Meaning she picked him for a relationship because she saw him as a man who would not leave her for her bad behavior. She could do whatever and whoever she wanted and he would accept it and stay with her. A simp.

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Well cheers to OP for going off her script and surprising her by kicking her out of his life. I have a former FWB who is toxic like this. She would constantly try to devalue me so I wouldn't try to find another women to take her place. Just like she tried with him, "I am the only who'll ever love you."

If a women ever attempts to devalue you in anyway, leave her. Kick her out of your life and move on. This tactic is to make sure you don't think you can do better and to put up with her toxic behavior and actions. Everyone of us deserves someone better than that. Strength and Honor brothers.

It's like a man has no right to expect anything from a woman. He can't even break up with a cheating woman and expect it to be over.

She expects him to forgive her. She thinks that she is entitled to his forgiveness after saying "sorry". She also thinks she's entitled to the complete restoration of the relationship. Well, no, you're not entitled to anything.

See what's happened? Women really truly think they're entitled to whatever they want. No, no they're not entitled to whatever they want.

Most women at other subreddits and other sites will say

"so what? Sure, this happens. Sure, she's an entitled bitch. But this doesn't happen often, and it doesn't happen to very many men, and it's so rare as to be basically negligible. It's just you stupid men at WAATGM who focus on the worst of the worst, the worst women, the worst human beings, doing the worst things. It's because you hang around terrible women, and you are around terrible women because you're terrible men."

Yeah, no.

This happens because women have massively overplayed their hands. This happens because no one ever holds women accountable for what they do and say. This happens because the pussy pass is real. This happens because people (including some men) allow women to get away with this sort of thing. This happens because of simple lack of accountability.

Start holding them accountable. Start calling women out on every shitty thing they do. Start imposing consequences. Refuse to accept shit from women.

I love posts like this. There's enough juiciness here for a long masturbation session.

How relieved do you think this guy is not to have a kid with this chick?

Trouble is she's probably screwing at least one other guy at the time of writing, she's simply aggressively looking for a promotion! The bitch wants to trade uo

As I see, it is his fault. She was feeling vulnerable and neglected. She wanted to be loved, desired, chased, cherished. She's coming back with a valuable experience. Isn't it nice? She can share those experiences with you and only with you. She's willing to FORGIVE you , and all defects and shortcomings of your personality. Consider yourself lucky. Man up and open your heart for her, you incel!!!! /s

Edit: added mandatory /s for minds who can't spot sarcasm

If I were him I’d ask her to let him fuck a few women and wait for him and then ghost her

Sean is also an idiot for not 100% blocking her.

The way she repeatedly texted "you're going to regret this" just scream projection and manipulation

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Correct me if I'm wrong, but I felt the Gas Lighting vibes in the mid convo.

by even engaging in a discourse with this person you are having somekind of "relationship", best thing to do is completely ignore them as if they were dead.

as long as you show that their words have any impact on you (by responding) you still give these crazy people hope, that they can wear you down.

Everytime I read that conversation, I want to clap and buy that guy a tequila shot. She would've cheated again had he taken her back, guaranteed. It's apparent what kind of person she is through those hysteria-filled messages.

I think this is more Dual Mating Strategy than WAATGM-ITM. That line there specifically says:

I wanted to fuck hot guys. I was excited to fuck another guy in our pre-marital home. I was excited to be used by another man, a fuckboy. My fiance though, he is my rock and foundation. I feel safe with him. I'm not worried about doing anything wrong in his eyes. I know he will forgive me because he is my servant and needs me more than I need him.

She wants her bucks with a side of fucks.

"please let me back in your life!"

"no"

"FUCK YOU! JUST FOR THAT I AM NEVER COMING BACK!!!"

"man the fuck up you pussy"

I thought that was the glorious highlight

This went on far too long. In all fairness, I might have done that in my younger years.

My response now would be something like:

"Oh. Hey. I didn't mean to interrupt. I will be back tomorrow"

The very next conversation would be her with all the shit she is going to say. And my response would be:

"Hey. Stop being so hard on yourself. You tried to be faithful and failed. We all do. But now we have a new set of rules in the relationship and I get to play by them too. Have a good night. Let's talk next week some time"

That's all. The more words, the more they have you. The more they keep the conversation going, the more power they gain.

Do NOT give up that power. You have the moral high ground. Never concede the moral high ground. It gives you pretty much carte blanche.

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*There

Fucking gold.

She’s not normal

She is only doing this because she can't find better after 3 years and she realizes that she wasted 5 years with the guy and then 3 more pining for him.

8 years of fertility lost. While the guy learned a valuable life lesson.

There is NOTHING innocent about that child...she ain't a woman!

This seems too ludicrous to be real. I hate this era. I can't help but feel suspicious that this is a ploy to karma farm. Something about the language of the "script" seems contrived, almost formulaic. I obviously don't know ultimately. OP, I'm sorry if this is actually real, but I feel skeptical.

She goes from zero to batshit crazy in no time. I like the way he corrects her spelling at the end.

this is clearly fake. realistic, but fake.

I love that final reply from the man

And people wonder why young men are dropping out of society...

He's a gentleman and a grammarian.

I would have turned read receipts on and left her on read.

Wow!! That's why I prefer being by myself! Women now days are complete wrecks!

She tried to gaslight him hard. Huge respect for him standing his ground and not crumbling.

This is a pretty common tactic where females will put on this mask and play the game of woo-ing the man back. It's a temporary plot but isn't sustainable, before too long they'll inevitably return to their old ways.

By fuck. That dude is lucky he got the fuck out.

Hell I’ll point out when he calls her out for still acting like a child when she doesn’t get her way. Shows that even before this cheating she was acting unruly. But he was willing to let it go and look past it (as the old love makes people dumb saying goes).

That whole bit in itself just makes him even luckier that he got out.

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I find it the most cathartic experience to read the shit women thing think they can get away with... Love you fucked up... literally... so get over it and dind some other simp willing to take your shit...

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah

*there

Oh man that grammar correct moment I actually died laughing

I’ve been waiting on this exact text for almost 2 years now... I am hopeful it doesn’t come. Most women pretend the guys they cheated on don’t exist, it’s too painful for them to think about. I think this would be an awesome feeling and I’m proud of this king for not simping. If you ever take back a cheating whore you will literally never have respect from her, she probably just wanted to see if she could get you again. Plus who wants to live with a spouse your never going to trust again? Great post! Love all you guys chin up and stay strong!

The moment you provide for a woman...it's over. She sees you like a provider more than a lover -aka just like a Dad.

And you know how women behave around their Dads. They close their legs shut and defy their Dads as they go sleep with other males for absolutely free.

The last part was hilarious.

You can feel the bipolar

Yeah this whore wanted a safe guy at home while she jumped all over Chads. Good for him for having self worth.

Uhm, you don’t accidentally slip on someone’s dick OR you don’t accidentally slip your dick in someone else. Cheating is cheating, cheaters are garbage

Bitch is crazy. Gaslighting, pity mongering, reverse pressuring, intimidation, baiting- all in one. But my man stood his ground. The ending is gold.

I don't want to excuse her behavior, just saying there is a a big difference between cheating spontaneous and let your affair in the fucking house you're living in with your fiance.

She was probably having an affair and this was not the first time, she fucked him, but the first time she got caught.

That last offer tho “She would let him do anything he wants “ I would have gladly accepted that offer , would have done all the most degrading stuff with her like golden shower, pissing in her asshole, making her swallow my spit on a daily basis, would have fucked her all holes like an animal, and then after a month or two, I would have broken up gladly

Two purposes served 1) REVENGE 2) Why not treat a whore, like a whore?

Three years this psycho has been trying to get back with this guy!

I'm enraged by the idea that it is somehow the guy's fault that she jumped onto Chad's dick and he should just "man up" and pretend it never happened.

She deserves to be left alone.

Been in the exact same scenario in my early 20s, kicked her out and blocked her everywhere on the spot before getting a vasectomy, so happy I didn't get married to that skank, really dodged a bullet with this one.

Wanna give this bro a high five lol.

I noticed he has her saved in his contacts as “cheating whore.”

You dodged a bullet, bro. Never look back.

This guy is awesome! His ex is a lunatic and incredibly manipulative.

You're not going to have messages like this from me. You'd only have the preview of her last unread message.

Damn, this made me miss my last relationship.... and every other fucking relationship I'll avoid until forever.

Wow... The shaming, mind games and sociopathy... Are all women like that just by nature or is it just skills acquired over time?!

"I forgive you for leaving"