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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / The Big Question

A lot has gone through her in the pre-wall years. Now she needs a Real Man to be an accessory for her lifestyle.
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goodmansaysfuckyou

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Okayokayokay9999 5y ago

Men don’t give a shit about your career. We just want a wholesome woman. Unlike women we will happily date down. Women only date up.

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69problemCel 5y ago

She is 100% not 37

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Scourmont 5y ago

need someone who can handle my busy work schedule

Lemme translate for you, "I need a beta who is happy to stay at home while I'm at work getting railed over the desk by office chad and calling it 'overtime'"

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WadeWilsonsThoughts 5y ago

I kinda miss r/the_wall

Didn’t go there much but I did like visiting from time to time.

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RRFdev 5y ago

Been through a lot

Next.

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LightFTL 5y ago

“Someone who knows what they want.” Life doesn’t work that way. You get a job, it’s probably unrelated to your education or interests, you do your job everyday while perhaps studying new skills online and looking for higher paying work that also is unlikely to be what you studied for. Knowint what you want and ambition and such gets very few people anywhere. Think about how many people in the world actually fit into the “successful career” category you see in movies. An insanely tiny number.

Also, anyone else notice she said “they” instead of “he”? Interesting.

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Natinam 5y ago

37? Oof

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

This post drew out a lot of white knights, rule 3 violators, and whiny inspins. I'm going to address their protestations here.

Yes, the woman in the post is very attractive for her age. Yes, she's not the raging dumpster fire a fat single mom with purple hair is. But what snare do you think is more effective, and thus more dangerous: a spiked pit surrounded by signs that say "danger! Keep out!" or what appears to be a sumptuous feast that it turns out is poisoned?

Careerist women like her are their own worst enemy. Due to their hypergamy, women always want to marry up. As they raise their own status, their pool of men they perceive as worthy shrinks. And those men can (and frequently do) go with someone younger, hotter, tighter and with less mileage and baggage.

To lurking women whose feelings are hurt because the shoe fits: instead of railing against men and whining, why not acknowledge that feminism lied to you? Why not warn younger women not to go down the same path of loneliness and disappointment? Why not warn them that if they want to marry a good man, they need to lock him down while they're young and hot?

We both know the answer to that: because you're selfish, and misery loves company.

We will continue to warn young men about women's true nature, and there isn't a goddamn thing you can do about it.

Enjoy your cats!

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leartistoflife 5y ago

What is op with these females demanding all this shit while literally NEVER stating what they have to offer

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Silas-Gray 5y ago

Women don’t ever offer anything good tbh.

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cant-stand_ya 5y ago

Can't you see the half naked sagging tits?

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MrPaineUTI 5y ago

There's a whole lot of filters working hard to produce that smooth face too

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Mein_Tarnaccount 5y ago

What do they have to offer?

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A_Walt_Whitman 5y ago

What do they have to offer?

*Scratches head* *Shrug*

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plastische__liebe 5y ago

Starfish

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jihocech 5y ago

Womb and tits to breastfeed.

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Wrathful_Buddha 5y ago

Never negotiate with terrorists - Patrice O'Neal

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I_CAPE_RUNTS 5y ago

May he Rest in Pimp

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Overkillengine 5y ago

They just hope that men don't remember that there are millions of other women out there that have a pussy too.

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thenotoriousdougie 5y ago

Billions

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 5y ago

She knows what she has to offer and we know. Sex. If women had anything if value they would list it.

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pn1159 5y ago

This is so true. She says nothing about what she brings to the table.

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 5y ago

They never do because they know they have nothing to offer.

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Dspsblyuth 5y ago

I bet she can’t even make biscuits

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 5y ago

I bet she can't boil water.

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RRFdev 5y ago

She Has Been Through A Lot. So cooking rice is above her.

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imlastin 5y ago

Okay she’s pretty hot for 37. Would plow and allow her to be my sugar momma.

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Aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 5y ago

Attractive woman.

Someone will relationship her up.

This seems to be more common: late 30s/early 40s women, probably no kids, divorced/never married, looking for a relationship. They say they don't want marriage. They say they want just a relationship, every so often, something steady. But get serious enough, they will want marriage and commitment.

But someone will relationship her up.

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A_Walt_Whitman 5y ago

But someone will relationship her up.

Yup. Simps abound.

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

Most assuredly. There will be plenty of men trying to, but none of them will ever be rich, powerful, handsome, hung, or high status enough to qualify as a "man" (much less a RealMan^tm) in her eyes.

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Mein_Tarnaccount 5y ago

That's the funny thing. She'll never be happy and content, because she will always feel like she deserves more.

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plastische__liebe 5y ago

Attractive woman.

Photoshopped to hell and beyond

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Aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 5y ago

oh yeah. She's got the smoothing filters applied.

She's attractive enough, though, and that's all that's required.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Shit, just being thin puts her ahead of many women even younger than her.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

This is basically a job application (notice her attire), but she refuses to admit that she is the employee.

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dbbeebs 5y ago

Her cleavage is telling. I'll bet she wears

a bra but not in this photo. Ha!

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 5y ago

I've been through a lot

Translation: a lot has been through you!

and worked my butt off to get where I am.

So here, look at my flabby boob butt / tit tush.

I'm looking for a real man

Ye$ $he certainly i$.

someone who knows what they want.

They don't want you!

I'm looking for more than a hookup

Translation: I'm a used pocket pussy who had too many hookups in the past.

but need someone who can handle my busy schedule

Stryng indypyndynt wymyns!

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notacrackheadofficer 5y ago

I've been through a lot = I sat through 3 hours at the make up salon to prepare for this photo.

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jstrockmeyer 5y ago

That last line was also "dont get suspicious about working late or too many work trips. I still need to bang Johnny from Accounting"

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Overkillengine 5y ago

Or her boss.

Or the bartender.

Etc.

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logonsquestion 5y ago

Or the bouncer.

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Beecher-Frank 5y ago

I think the last line is more like “I work a lot and and won’t have much time for you, so you should be honored when I grace you with my presence, and when we do spend time together I’ll be stressed out from work”.

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DaLaohu 5y ago

This is the correct translation.

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UltimaterializerX 5y ago

She doesn’t have the 1000 cock stare and I doubt she’s slept around much. She just sacrificed the ability to marry well for her career is all. I know this type. Very well meaning, but independently driven woman who hits 40 and goes “uh oh”.

She’s about to learn the hard way just how hard feminism lied to her.

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zeepbar 5y ago

I agree with your take on this.

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ipromiseimnotaNazi 5y ago

She’s 37. Even if she hasn’t “slept around much” that really only means she’s had dozens of dicks instead of hundreds or thousands. And if she’s “successful” she has set the bar to a height less than 1% of the male population can clear.

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Deadwitch1 5y ago

I wish my wife was a “career woman”

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GoMake_me_a_sandwich 5y ago

I dunno, she got those saggy tits hanging out like she has got some experience showing them off to get ahead. She just knows how to put the lipstick on the pig.

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jihocech 5y ago

But not 37yo.

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lestrxb 5y ago

What defines the 1000 cock stare exactly?

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isthisthelasttime34 5y ago

It's an attempt at appearing innocent but being so hardened (no pun intended) by past experiences that they can't hide it. Once that innocence is lost, it can never be regained.

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UltimaterializerX 5y ago

Eyes with no life. No fire. Dead on the inside, and no amount of makeup or Photoshop can hide it.

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LightFTL 5y ago

It’s like looking at a living doll. The smile, the eyes, it’s all empty. Damn creepy.

I remember once I saw a porn vid of a blond girl. For most of the vid I thought it was a pretty sex doll, then she moved on her own and I freaked out for a moment. After that, I couldn’t keep watching. She was truly like a living sex doll and it was so disturbing I felt like crying. I mean, she was beautiful but totally empty and non-responsive outside of silently obeying orders or letting the guy position her and freezing however he put her. I mean, jusr what the hell did she go through to become like that?

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lestrxb 5y ago

I guess Amber Alena has this 1000 cock stare look. There is absolutely nothing behind those eyes. Dead inside.

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burnerPhone411 5y ago

I mean, just what the hell did she go through to become like that?

Uhh, you just described it? More often than not, girls working in the porn industry are trafficked.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

How?

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burnerPhone411 5y ago

You...want me to explain human trafficking to you?

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

I want you to explain how girls in porn industry are trafficked.

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burnerPhone411 5y ago

I did say most but essentially, by numbers, most of the girls you see in porn (in particular the free porn you might see on a site like Pornhub) are sex trafficked. I'm not talking about big companies with known actresses but the much smaller "companies" with no-name actresses are often buying sex trafficked women.

You just have to look at how child pornography is produced for proof. Many kids who are forced into child pornography are either kidnapped and sold or adopted by people specifically for the intention of selling the kid's body or making porn. Same goes for young women. They think they might be getting a normal modelling gig or being hired overseas for work, their passports and identification is stolen from them, and bish bash bosh, you got girls trapped in a sex trafficking and porn production ring.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

So far you have not provided any proof. You have made claims. I am asking for the proof that most women in porn most women in non-mainstream porn are trafficked.

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burnerPhone411 5y ago

Hmm, I doubt you'll accept any proof I do give you so I think this conversation is finished. Have a nice day.

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Cavannah 5y ago

A blank, borderline-unfocused gaze that manifests itself in people who are emotionally detached.

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jihocech 5y ago

Nothing. Like the Cock carousel.Or race. Or hate.

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42252252 5y ago

It's the kind of smile that's forced, that's usually present when someone has become so spiritually withered they can no longer feel joy. Look at how a genuinely good person smiles towards babies and puppies. They smile with their whole face because they're trying to convey happiness towards the lil' critter.

The cock stare is when there's disengaged eyes, with no facial muscle movement other than the bare minimum around the mouth. It's a poker face they're faking trying to pretend they're happy when they aren't.

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Original_Username7 5y ago

Better just to see it and learn to recognize it. This is the 10,000 cock stare, FYI.

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nadgobuyoo 5y ago

It's the loss of life you can see it in their eyes. No energy left in her after 1000 cocks.

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Dspsblyuth 5y ago

I can link you to ex wife’s Facebook if you really want to know

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hijoton 5y ago

Really hard to pinpoint. 1000 cock stare is like a veteran's PSTD 1000 yard stare.
Hard to describe yet once you see it, it hits your soul.

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lestrxb 5y ago

Like, I have heard the term before and I tried to see it, but I cant. Maybe one day it'll hit me.

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Older_Miggy 5y ago

Hang around, you'll see it in spades.

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PinBot1138 5y ago

Post-COVID, go to one of the higher end dining establishments (eg 5-star where the meals are easily $100) and look over to the bar for the women looking to be trophy wives. They all have the 1,000 cock stare, and it’s rather humorous to see how many guys they dismiss, not realizing that most of who they’re rolling their eyes at, are those that have spent their time studying and working hard instead of trying to be Chad Thundercock that they threw their youth at in their sugar baby years.

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AcrobaticAge 5y ago

It's easier to see in a before/after comparison. I would show you some irl cases close to me, but I don't want to dox them.

I suppose you can search pics of before/after feminism to see it.

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WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey 5y ago

I tried to see it,

Go look at most of the images of e-whores and e-thots (instagram is a great choice). You know. The ones that don't seem to offer anything but a fuckable pose in varying states of undress. Then (and I'm not kidding) take a piece of paper and block desirable bits. Everything but the eyes. You'll see it quickly (and frequently) without the distractions. Because if the eyes are the doorway to the soul that's how you see when it's withered and died.

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Milkpilled 5y ago

https://imgur.com/CqVrrsj

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lestrxb 5y ago

Is that it? Now it makes sense.

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SomeSqueakyCleanButt 5y ago

No one gives a fuck about your career, Miss Almost 40. We don't buy fragrant leftovers at the grocery store, so why the fuck would we buy them through tindr? Oh, you've sweetened the pot with your feminism and entitlement? Well in that case let me get my wallet!

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cursed133324 5y ago

She’s just going to find some handsome 41 yo chad tho instead of the fat used moms that date some wigger smoking cigarettes and driving an old shitty car. Women always win as long as they are attractive.

Also I think this picture is shopped with filters and makeup and whatever else women use

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Dspsblyuth 5y ago

Yeah I don’t care if a woman bags groceries for a living. I’m not dating her job

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42252252 5y ago

I just worked with someone like this. She adamantly believes that she'll be able to get a top-tier surgeon in plastics/Rad if she ends up becoming a captain at a major airline. I told her she can be the janitor at the airport for all these guys care.

I doubt anyone has ever presented the girl he's dating to his friends and heard them mutter under their breath "ew, he's dating a first officer? What a fool, might as well marry a mud farmer if she's not a captain"

Any guy that is impressed by titles is prolly a golddigger himself. An ex o' mine ended up marrying a guy like that, consumed with status. He's basically a genderswapped E-thot who spends all his time posting though.

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skeletonshorror 5y ago

Amen

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shrinkshooter 5y ago

Career women like this one have this misconception that if she works hard to raise her status, she'll be deserving of a man with a status higher than she would have otherwise been able to get. As another mod put it, career women see working their way up into esteemed, well paying, respectable positions as entry into an exclusive club. Like she'll now have access to hot ambitious guys who make twice as much as her six figure salary and has a collection of yachts, or something along those lines.

It doesn't work that way. And they don't know that. Feminism has lied to them. You know how guys are turned on by physically seeing sexually attractive women and their bodies? For this reason guys mistakenly think sending dick pics is a good idea. If seeing tits works for them, it must cut both ways, right? In much the same way, women's hypergamous instinct is something every woman innately understands. And feminism has taken that instinct and folded it into the propaganda, convincing women that not only is choosing career over family a strong empowering choice that makes you superior to the parallel universe person you'd be if you didn't, but also that you'll now be able to attract higher status, better-off men. Because those men will see more value in the higher status you've built for yourself. They'll see your paycheck and powerful friends and connections and the confidence with which you conduct yourself in the boardroom and they'll be drawn to you more than a lower status woman.

But those are NOT the metrics by which a woman's value is measured through the lens of male instinct. And in many ways this will work against her. As it's been said, a man at the top has his choice of all the women below him. A woman at the top has her choice of only the men above her. A man's increasing financial and social circle success brings more options to the table; a woman's increasing success only limits them.

So for all those guys out there who think we're sold a totally raw deal by feminism, you can ponder the irony of the above with a wry smile.

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Bing_Bang_Bam 5y ago

You're a smart dude

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alecesne 5y ago

This contains a logical explanation for both the dick pick paradox and the female CEO dilemma.

A lot of men know it is a largely unsuccessful tactic, but just like homeopathic medicine, decide to try anyway.

As for business and biology, it was hard to have a baby and work in a large firm as a husband and father. I can only imagine how much more demanding it would be to try and pull insane hours at stressful tasks while pregnant.

Honestly, a woman who does both has earned my respect.

But she doesn’t have to do both to find a good man. Rather, they are frequently inversely related.

Relationships where both partners are all career all the time squeeze out the family values. That doesn’t make it wrong. It’s a lifestyle choice. But it certainly reduces fecundity, and frequently leaves everyone involved feeling like something is missing despite “having everything.”

Or, I could be completely wrong. We’ll only have perspective on the post birth control world after a few more generations.

I suspect we’ll see a lot more “negative birthdate” idealism accompanied by the conscious dismantling of sexual dimorphism.

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maruadventurer 5y ago

As another mod put it, career women see working their way up into esteemed, well paying, respectable positions as entry into an exclusive club.

That seriously explains the motive of many to be in a MLM. They can scream 'self employed' and demand a higher SMV. Does not work of course. Most men don't care about the woman's occupation as long as its not illegal.

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Beecher-Frank 5y ago

The only reason women’s increasing success decreases their options is because they limit themselves to men who are above them in social status/income. They could date men of a lower social status/income but choose not to. I don’t think most men would mind dating a woman with a higher income or more “prestigious” job, as long as she has time for him and doesn’t work long hours or is stressed out a lot.

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27KHHV 5y ago

Exactly. Well said. Feminism and so called fake "equality" right? Until it comes time to pick a guy.

If they're not getting raw dogged by chad they're thinking that introverted IT guy, Mechanic, Electrician or Chef is too low ranking below them and their CEO-status attitude.

Women are fucking ridiculous and stupid.

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SuperGoxxer 5y ago

Can someone give me the Rick and Morty portal gun so I can get to a universe where women aren't all calculating whores?

Yeah, I know, unrealistic.

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maruadventurer 5y ago

They are all calculating. Whore or not.

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LightFTL 5y ago

Also, men have an instinctive drive to work and satisfaction from it. Women don’t and get that from taking care of family and home instead. So, a guy has further reduced intereste in successful women as he instinctively wants the kids raised by family but also craves going out and working. Obviously it would be hard to accept lower family income from the woman quitting or going part time compared to the man in the case of her making much more money than him.

Women are simply too selfish and greedy to place even their children above their lust for attention and ego.

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burnerPhone411 5y ago

When has work ever been instinct? Work is a modern invention post-agragarian society and it was never instinct. You did work for the motivation that it gave you food to eat, not because you as a male enjoyed it. And also, women still had to gather, farm, and help collect food in pre-agragarian society. If it's "instinct" to work for food, men should technically be the ones who did all the hunting, gathering, and food preparation but instead, women were in charge of the latter two.

You're also disregarding the fact that in Native American societies, women's opinions were also considered highly important and revered because they birthed children. Sure, men could fight and kill but women brought life into the world and therefore her opinion mattered for that reason. They worked and cared for the good of the tribe and that was their drive, not just the children they bore.

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SafeBendyStraw 5y ago

Found a woman on a dating site that wanted to measure salary-dicksize because she typically comes out ahead of men and presumably immediately turns them down. When I informed her that I make substantially more than her she got irate that I didn't want a career woman, I wanted a mother to my children. The perfect victim of feminism. Will send the transcript to anyone that wants it - absolute hell of a read.

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

I would encourage you to submit a post to the baby sub (r/whereallthegoodmenare).

cc: u/moorekom

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SuperGoxxer 5y ago

Please post that, with the names anonymized of course.

I'd be interested in how her hissy fit went down.

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SafeBendyStraw 5y ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre/comments/hgkam1/perfect_31_year_old_feminist_loses_it_realizing/

And you shall receive.

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Al_Walter_Chadwick 5y ago

As it's been said, a man at the top has his choice of all the women below him. A woman at the top has her choice of only the men above her. A man's increasing financial and social circle success brings more options to the table; a woman's increasing success only limits them.

This is BS. A woman at the top could get most guys below her, the problem is not that she's not wanted by those men, the problem is that she is unwilling to consider anyone she considers beneath her, socially, economically etc.

Sure, some men might feel emasculated by being with a woman who out-earns him, but for the majority, how much she earns or how fancy her title is won't matter much to them. The things that do matter is her youth, her looks, her temperament and if she's a caring person that would make a good mother.

The major obstacle is not that they guys below her don't want her, but that she won't even consider them.

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ALexusOhHaiNyan 5y ago

I’m inclined to agree. My sister refused to date a man that made less than her and that was a problem. She ended up with a doctor she’s incompatible with.

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Dspsblyuth 5y ago

Even if she did consider the guys below her she would never have the time to see them lol

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Texan2116 5y ago

The most well off person I know is a female friend, early 40s..Self made and probably a millionaire. And she says guys are intimidated by her success. Shes a cool chick, and I genuinely feel bad for her in this regard.

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maruadventurer 5y ago

And she says guys are intimidated by her success.

Likely. However I would point out that some of the most successful financial advisors are women and the male clients have few issues. I would suggest it would not be an issue, unless the woman is making it so.

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shrinkshooter 5y ago

A woman at the top could get most guys below her

Could. It is not bullshit. I am describing how women act according to their instincts. If you expect a woman to act against her own instincts when she has the freedom to follow them the problem lies with you. You are not thinking in terms of what is. A millionaire businesswoman COULD date a 50 year old McDonald's manager. She won't because it doesn't fulfill her instinctual needs, even if that man were to be a fantastic father.

I also said that a man at the top has his choice of all the women below him. You didn't take issue with that statement despite that fact that such a man COULD make a match with a woman above him. Is it possible? Yes. Is it going to happen? In the vast majority of cases, no. You're a human and you're limited to eating specific foods. Can you literally eat cow dung? Or rotting meat? Or tree bark? Yes. But you don't, because your instincts demand that you don't. That limit is still there, but I'm not using the term to describe something that is literally possible or not.

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Al_Walter_Chadwick 5y ago

The difference that you seem unable to grasp is that all of the restrictions in who can get who come, ultimately, from the women.

A man at the top has the choice of all the women below him BECAUSE the wast majority of the women below him will want to get with him. He'd most likely be willing to get with a good woman who is above him, as well, but the thing stopping him is that most of those women will reject him.

Conversely, the woman at the top is blocked from the men below her ONLY by herself. The majority of the men below her would happily get with her if she's a good woman.

Yet, what is it we keep hearing from women? Lots of complaints, to men, about there not existing any men for them to marry.

You may attribute this to whatever you like, but in the end, the only limits put on women's mating choices are created and maintained by women themselves.

If you saw a man, sitting on top of a pile of ripe fruit, juicy steaks, pizzas and hamburgers and crying over starving because there is no beluga caviar while refusing to consider any of the perfectly good food surrounding him, how much compassion would you spare that guy? Even IF he grew up on eating only beluga, and really never considered anything else, for his entire life?

That is women at the top's situation.

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shrinkshooter 5y ago

The difference that you seem unable to grasp

Unable to grasp, huh? I'm going to respond to a number of things in your post here by quoting things I've already said. Perhaps reevaluate making that statement.

is that all of the restrictions in who can get who come, ultimately, from the women.

No shit. I already addressed this and you apparently either ignored it or didn't comprehend the point I was making.

Conversely, the woman at the top is blocked from the men below her ONLY by herself.

Her instincts. She doesn't find men beneath her to be attractive long term options. Your problem is that you're blaming her for this. As I said in my last post, "If you expect a woman to act against her own instincts when she has the freedom to follow them the problem lies with you."

the only limits put on women's mating choices are created and maintained by women themselves.

Women don't "create" the limits. They follow them, and they are soft limits that develop with their puberty and self-assessment of worth. These are not arbitrary barriers pulled out of thin air. They are driven to assess their worth and make choices based on that worth relative to others.

If you saw a man, sitting on top of a pile of ripe fruit...

No. Imagine he's sitting on a gigantic pile of plain saltine crackers. He complains that there is "no real food to eat," and that all those fruits and pizzas and steaks and whatnot are in short supply. He'll eat those saltines, because at the end of the day it's still food and it's plentiful, but it's a last option and it isn't nourishing. If he gets a chance to eat some lobster or steak you better damn well expect he's going to take that chance.

The reason your analogy is wrong is because you're doing the assessment. This isn't how it would look from a woman's perspective. You're projecting your own feelings about the men she isn't attracted to onto the analogy with the subtext that it's unfair and she's a spoiled bitch. I already addressed that in this post almost two months ago but I'll quote the relevant section here:

With all that being said, it's worth noting that many of those women who are absolutely unhappy in their marriages and not content with their husbands, even if they're good men? That's not their fault, rationally speaking. There's nothing they can do about that. It's hypergamous instinct. No matter how great her husband is on paper, if he doesn't have the traits and behaviors that turn a woman on, she is going to be unhappy. You may logically argue "this guy is so great, how dare she complain about him," and logically you're correct, but you're dealing with irrational instinct, not rational logic. Your mouth will water when looking at a perfectly cut steak, not a pile of brown mush, even if you logically know the latter has all the nutrients and calories you'll need for the day and tastes amazing. In a monogamous system, you're going to have many, many unhappy women who feel "trapped" in a relationship with a man "beneath them." It's utterly unfair, but it's instinct, it's what evolution has wrought into women's sexual selection strategy. If you stop actively attempting to suppress women's instincts through culture, you start to backslide into natural equilibrium, which is basically what feminism is: the demand to the return of women to their primal instincts, a giant shit test that men on a societal level are collectively failing.

I told you that you're not looking at things as how they are. You're looking at things as how you think they should be, and complaining that they are not that way. Yes, a woman's choices from the top are limited only by "herself" (her instincts), and if you expect or demand that she act in any other way than along those lines, the issue is with reality not being the way you want it to be.

how much compassion would you spare that guy?

Leave your feelings out of this. That's the whole problem. "They have so many good choices 'beneath' them, how dare these women reject them! Their misery is of their own making and they deserve it! They certainly don't deserve compassion or sympathy for it! It's a problem they themselves created!"

The point here is that your ultimate complaint is saying women shouldn't act this way. They should and they will, because it is instinct. The only context in which they "shouldn't" act that way is in a world of fairness, balance, and idealism. Our world is not like that, and expecting a woman to act according to what is "fair" or "logically reasonable" as opposed to how she feels or what her instincts dictate is a rejection of the world as it actually is.

Now is there something more you'd like to claim that someone isn't "grasping?"

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Rock4GOD 5y ago

Mate this was way too well put. Congrats

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ALexusOhHaiNyan 5y ago

And while we don’t question a woman that doesn’t want dick pics. Feminism wishes to socially engineer and bully men into finding this woman just as attractive as her younger, prettier, less stressed out self. This is why feminists are so often neurotic, the double think takes a toll.

My one point of contention if I’m to be completely Purple would be a man of low financial but higher cultural status. A talented artist/musician etc who’s capable of nurturing and willing to stay at home might be the new counter to this but I think it’s a rarity. Time and culture may tell.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

You misunderstand feminism. Feminism's goal is to make ugly chicks beautiful. They are not neurotic because of feminism. They are feminist because they are ugly/ neurotic etc. Feminism is just a venue to amplify the worst traits of women and to make them socially acceptable.

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im_a_tumor666 5y ago

..not everything we do is about attracting men. I want to build a strong career for myself and my independence.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

That's great, but your own hypergamy will cause you to eliminate any men you feel are below you in status.

One day, your biological clock will go off, and you will want a husband and children. Thing is, by the time the clock goes off, your best years are behind you.

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shrinkshooter 5y ago

That's fine. I never claimed building a career was solely for attracting men. The point is that it's considered one of the many benefits (and note, also, that the major downsides of choosing this life path are never discussed) because feminism has encouraged women to believe so. Because of this, many women who are in your position set out to build their careers and they put off settling down and having a kid. Why bother doing that now, if putting it off can only be better? You get more money, you get independence, you aren't beholden to anyone (except your corporation), and by the time you've built your status you'll be able to land a better man than when you started out in the beginning of your career.

As stated, it doesn't work like that. And realize that your own instincts are going to be working against you. Unless you actively are aware of this (which you now are) and consciously suppress your instinct, you aren't going to be satisfied dating a father-material provider man if he makes significantly less than you do. Chances are you'll be unsatisfied even if you ARE aware of this. As you climb that ladder and build your career, your instincts will be limited the pool of available men that you find acceptable to date long term. In addition, putting your career first to build it requires time. Your value to men is, like it or not, solely lodged in your physical, sexual attractiveness combined with attractive motherly behaviors. The longer you wait to build a family, the more your sexual market value as a woman declines, unless you're under the age of 23 (23-25 is your sexual value peak). If you delay building a family until you're 30, you're going to have horrendously misplaced and overinflated concepts of what you 'deserve' and should be able to get in terms of a man's quality and commitment. It will be very, very likely that the man you ultimately become a long term partner and mother with is going to be a guy you feel you settled for.

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

Dude,

This comment has been removed, but your others remain.

We don't allow that white knight thing here. Women are adults and want to make decision for themselves. Therefore, THEY are responsible for the consequences of those decisions and actions. YOU, ME, US, and any other human with external genitalia has absolutely ZERO OBLIGATION bail them out.

You are young and still have much to learn. I pray that you do not have to learn it the hard way, like most of the rest of us in this sub.

We are here to help and educate men of all ages, but if you do not read the rules and abide by them, then you will not be allowed to stay and contribute.

Rule #1 No manshaming

"we're failing as fathers and husbands."

No we are not. Society has failed us by forcibly removing any authority that we had over our lives, family, and homes.

Rule #2 No White Knighting.

"I feel is protective anger..."

We have all felt that. That is a natural male instinct and women know this. They can and will use it against you to further their selfish agendas. You need to learn to get past that and if you cannot then you need to learn to control how it effects you.

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SuperGoxxer 5y ago

Yeah man, women have been short-circuiting the male protective reflex as long as time has existed.

And I get it, in a way, because its a powerful thing when a guy sets his mind on something.

I know you know this, just felt like typing it out here.

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LightFTL 5y ago

It’s impossible for us to fail as fathers and husbands when women keep abandoning us or divorce raping us or not letting us be in their or our children’s lives (in the case out out-of-wedlock). Women can claim we abused them or whatever but the complete lack of evidence makes it clear they’re lying.

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Milkpilled 5y ago

Alright, noted.

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AcrobaticAge 5y ago

We don't owe them shit. One way or another, all humans have been deceived about their paths in life.

They aren't children that need to be protected from the outside world. They are supposed to be adults; let them take responsibility for their own well being and discover what they are here for, just like us.

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Milkpilled 5y ago

Idk, I can't do that. For a while I tried to live and act with that principle but they do need to be protected. Men who face adversity, pain, and struggle become stronger after conquering it while women just get broken. I can't expect someone to endure the things I have if they can't possibly come out the other side improved.

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AcrobaticAge 5y ago

I understand your way of thinking.

I still don't care. Call me cynical if you must, but in my experience, you can certainly try to protect people around you, but there are many people out there you simply can't protect and many others that don't want to be saved.

It's way better to teach them how to be strong... if that's what they want.

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I-am-the-lul 5y ago

We are responsible for their well-being and we're failing as fathers and husbands.

Men no longer have the authority needed to be truly responsible for women.

Responsibility - Authority = Scapegoat/Slavery

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Milkpilled 5y ago

Good point. I don't let women into my life if they don't respect me out the gate, so I deal with that a lot less than when I was younger (and I'm only 25).

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I-am-the-lul 5y ago

Also, society no longer has men's back when it comes to being the head of the household, women on the other hand have society's, government's and law-enforcement backing up every poor choice they choose to make.

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TheLawandOrder 5y ago

Does that picture look like a stock photo to anyone else?

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Older_Miggy 5y ago

Yep.

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RRFdev 5y ago

Richer Karens actually can afford to have a photographer take their pictures.

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Smash and dash.

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NetherIndy 5y ago

I've worked with a number of "driven ass biatch since she was 13" professional women.

The only ones who are even somewhat happy in their relationships are those (and it's common enough to be a trope) who throw out all the conventional success markers. They tend to marry a man who's A) 6'2" and good-looking and B) otherwise useless. Constantly making an indie movie, managing a failing start-up restaurant, band-promoting, trying to become a wilderness guide doofuses.

They complain about their barely-employed stay-at-home husbands. But they're happier as a rule than the professional women trying to marry another Type A hard-charging business asshole.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

Correction: they're pretending to be happier.

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RRFdev 5y ago

When the culture is that marriages are for $$$ one is the money source and the other is the dependapotamus.

Either the money source is a male, or it's the other way around.

Forget even hinting that marriages are for relationships, bonding and happiness. Women would go REEEEEEEEEE at even hinting that or worse say to you "But that is what dating and finding yourself is about, sweetie"

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

Sounds like I just need to go to the gym and start an Indy movie production company, then find a DC Lawyer Cunt to marry and fund it.

By George I think that is a plan!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Nooooooo don't

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OpenImagination9 5y ago

I wonder what her definition of “real man” is? Is she looking for the money, the looks or ahem the abilities? All three are tough it’s actually becoming a market turning to men’s favor slowly.

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[deleted] 5y ago

37? Try 47

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prestidigibator 5y ago

Yeah, no way she is 37. If she is, imagine what she’ll look like at 47. Probably spending her time passing off poison apples to pretty twenty somethings.

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Mein_Tarnaccount 5y ago

At 37 she's just making their lives hell if they work under her.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

Probably spending her time passing off poison apples to pretty twenty somethings.

It's called feminism.

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couchpro34 5y ago

Seriously. If that's 3 years older than me looks like, no wonder people always think I look younger than I am. Holy shit.

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[deleted] 5y ago

Seriously, look at my profile pic, I'm 36, she looks damn near old enough to be my mom. And that probably has a filter on it.

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EndFCC230forReddit 5y ago

No offence, but you look rather old too

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 5y ago

She wants an FWB she lable a relationship.

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Ocinea 5y ago

She looks really ugly to me. Must be her sociopathic eyes.

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where_muh_good_mens 5y ago

I've been through a lot

I've had a lot of fun, but those cocks didn't stick around.

I worked my butt off to get where I'm at

Now it's time for you to work so I can enjoy female retirement like all my friends.

I'm looking for a real man

Now that I've gotten all my fun and career out of the way, I need a man to pick up where I want to leave off.

37

PuT A BaBbY in Me NOWWWWWWW

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Mein_Tarnaccount 5y ago

someone who can handle my busy schedule

Oh nose! If I don't put up with waiting all night for a 37-year-old all the time, she won't think me a real man! I sure better be prepared to rub her feet whenever she wakes me up at 3am, smelling like cigarettes and her boss.

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mustangfrank 5y ago

She is too good looking to be single. She is single for a reason. Alpha Bux, only.

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Weebie69 5y ago

She's been thrashed by a few hundred dudes, I reckon.

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Silas-Gray 5y ago

“Career” women are just party girls with jobs, try a few thousand.

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

Rule #2 my man.

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coldasbrice 5y ago

What i said was a debate?

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ChillinsVillain 5y ago

This reads like an advertisement for a real estate agent

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_MCMXCVI_ 5y ago

Anytime a woman says "real man" just know she's talking about what her own personal, subjective idea of a "real man" is. Which I would guess in her mind means, must make more than her, so that she can receive full benefit of having financial security without having to actually spend her own money. It usually comes down to money when women over 30 start talking about "I want a real man." No, you want a free house and a man-shaped ATM. Fuck outta here.

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Myplummms 5y ago

Wow, she is gorgeous. Good lord ❤️

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Natinam 5y ago

37

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Iceth_Thtea 5y ago

Women like this get dick scammed. The proof is in her profile. She's definitely been with a "Nigerian businessman" or two

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MattyK414 5y ago

I'm a masculine-acting career girl who is too busy to have a relationship.

Looking for: A VERY successful (rich) male, to help me make MY dreams come true...but I won't respect you, because I'm worth it!!!

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kyledontcare 5y ago

Her body screams, "worn out".

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

Rule #3

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VerdantFuppe 5y ago

Sure sure, good man.

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anoughnymoughs 5y ago

She's hot. I'll take her. She's buying dinner though.

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DangZagnut 5y ago

Busy work schedule, isn't that literally wanting an occasional hookup? Maybe a FWB?

Your "career" schedule makes you irrelevant to a relationship by definition.

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ransay3277 5y ago

Sign me up. Let's you and me produce a few autistic kids.

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makrelli 5y ago

Pure cringe tbh

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Altair1234ss 5y ago

I don't get it what is wrong with her profile just some girl looking for some guy

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GayyFieri 5y ago

I've never seen a woman 'work her butt off'. I've seen women that work at the level of a busy man but most are able to fuck around and take the credit of others. I'm sure she did the same, especially looking the way she does.

She thinks she works hard because she has no concept of hard work.

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Beautiful_Dust 5y ago

She wants to work hard, she needs to come to work for usps as a rural carrier. The pay is phenomenal but you earn every damn penny. On a bright note, no need to go to a gym...you get a damn good workout.

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GayyFieri 5y ago

I've worked at some pretty tough manual labor jobs with women at the same level. When I was in the warehouse all the women would cluster together and gossip while the men busted ass. If there was downtime men had to at least look busy. If a woman was taking it easy everyone laid off her just because. It's much worse in offices where it's easier to hide who does the real work.

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Beautiful_Dust 5y ago

I'm a rural mail carrier for usps. Since 2001. If a woman pulls that crap there, at least in a non supervisory position, she wont have a job for very long.

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BillyBronze09 5y ago

That cleavage is so sad

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laptopdragon 5y ago

hey, I bet there's lots of homeless men with a heart of gold and so much free time that can make her feel special every day.

I bet they are all "real men" too.

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"Project Save-A-HOmEless man"

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alivezombie23 5y ago

"and worked my butt off" By sending E-mails and scheduling meetings.

We don't see wahmen in actual labour intensive work such as electricians, plumbers, technicians, mechanics, construction workers, etc.

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thenotoriousdougie 5y ago

Another one on Tinder with her tits hanging out NOT looking for a hookup. Christ, want a REAL man whose NOT looking for a hookup?? Cover your tits and get off of Tinder.

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UTRuser74 5y ago

“My busy work schedule” means I’m usually under Chad and you have no right to ask me where I’ve been since you bought into the deal.

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Bing_Bang_Bam 5y ago

What's in it for the man? Occasional old-woman sex? Doesn't seem like a good deal.

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smfuel87 5y ago

"Worked my butt off to get where I am".

By that, do you mean the amount of effort you put in to use the legal system to financially rape your partner and stack alimony and child support onto your meager wage (If one at all) to get where you are at?

Go fuck yourself. Feminism ruined you and now you're little more than a wet hole for my temporary pleasure. I don't want it that way but your attitudes and entitlement make you useless and unattractive in every other measure.

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LotBuilder 5y ago

It baffles me that people “have been through a lot” wear it as a badge of courage... i’ve been through a lot and do everything in my power to forget it and move on

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Beautiful_Dust 5y ago

Absolutely

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Adventurous_Bandit 5y ago

"need someone who can handle my busy schedule"

Translation: I want a simp who's available whenever suits me better

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SoloTheFord 5y ago

I dated a woman who had "such a busy career" its all she talked about. And when i would ask if she wanted to go do things she would say she was too tired from working or saying she needs to get caught up with work and too busy. she was a glorified customer service rep/ receptionist for a train travel company. she would bail on our plans and goto an "art galley" which was just some dive building suite space in the ghetto part of town that her friiend had rented full of shitty fem art that noone bought. They would throw "viewing parties" every week. It was basically just an excuse to sound sophisticated. They spent more money than they made and would post it on facfebook and say BYOB for wine tasting! these delluded hipster Karens acted like they were some million dollar quality startup handing out invitations and it was a "legitimate business"

I started getting frustrated that she was so apparently busy and she would then join weird clubs like a volleyball beach team (mind you she was overweight and not very active, i think she just watched or was an assistant coach). she was constantly unavailable. She would only ever call or text me when she was having a crisis or wanted sex...eventually i found out she had a friend chad with benefits that she had been sleeping with for years even during our 3 month stint. When i broke it off with her because i was tired of her bullshit and lies, she said something like "my fwb is a better guy than you ever were."

It really drained me and I felt like a pos. But eventually realized she was an overcompensating, selfish, conniving, narcissistic bitch who treated me like i was below her and she only used me for attention and to show off to her friends when she was bored.

In before : "YoU aRe JuSt JeAlOuS, sHe Is A sTrOnG iNdEPeNdEnT W0oO0mAn!!!"

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Adventurous_Bandit 5y ago

Worked at a train travel company lol Makes sense why she was busy with Chad running a train on her! Lol

Don't worry, I know what you're talking about. I've been in your position and also the Chad in the past. Learn from that and become the one that pumps them and dump them. These bitches have nothing better to do, they wanna be entertained, and the vast majority of them are a bunch of "overcompensating, selfish, narcissistic" good for nothing who no matter how fat & fugly they are, think they're the hottest shit in town.

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Beautiful_Dust 5y ago

I know being female, its frowned upon for me to bash another woman, but this pissed me off. What a cold hearted bitch.

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SoloTheFord 5y ago

Thanks. Don't get me wrong I expect people - women to have lives and be busy with work and friends hell i encourage all that stuff but she would play mind games and avoid me unless she wanted something. I have had a few loving relationships with great women who were very independent but they wouldnt treat me like i was a stepping stone or pretend to like me to show me off to her friends when it suited her. Noone should treat anyone like that guy or girl.

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Beautiful_Dust 5y ago

Exactly!

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Milf_Hunter666 5y ago

Busy work schedule = Chad rotation

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RRFdev 5y ago

Never too busy for Chads.

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mr_kuk 5y ago

I have achieved Chad-hood and now I must have my reward in the form of a super human Chad.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

I'll rephrase it for you. I have become a man and I now want a Superman.

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Older_Miggy 5y ago

She looks like she brings something to the table

Yes. A bad attitude.

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SuperGoxxer 5y ago

She's pretty in her own way.

But I'm not stupid enough to think that the smile doesn't hide something else.

AWALT.

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lee1028 5y ago

20 plus years of raw pipe........

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ReasonableWish 5y ago

Dear Young Folks,

I'm in my mid 40's. Laugh all you want; you will get old faster than you think.

Anyway, I would 1000% date this woman....at least once. She may be crazy, or maybe just unlucky. Hard to say. But nothing ventured, nothing gained. And considering the level of other women out there, I'd say this one looks pretty darn good (but yeah, I agree this seems like a stock photo and a super-generic bio).

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thenotoriousdougie 5y ago

Don’t know about tinder but actual “dating” sites are chocked with fake profiles to entice guys into signing up and paying them money.

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justblowinoffsteamok 5y ago

Too late to have kids, will probably wind up in a lightly dysfunctional relationship with a grumpy professional man she refers to as her "partner." They will spend their days trying to make up for the emptiness they feel inside through travel, restaurants, spiritual dilettantism and eccentric hobbies.

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Bing_Bang_Bam 5y ago

Oh man! Glorious! Have an upvote! I'm saving that....

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justblowinoffsteamok 5y ago

Nah, at this stage in her life it's more likely that the guy is saying "Why do we need to get married just to prove something?" and she's going along with it, not acknowledging her secret bitterness about it.

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siuside 5y ago

Dude, this hit too close to home :( How'd you figure this out ?

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justblowinoffsteamok 5y ago

Why, are you the grumpy male "partner"?

It's just a type I've seen a bunch of time before. I guess there are worse fates in life. She's attractive and successful enough that she will probably land *someone* -- maybe even a decent looking and reasonably successful man. However said man will have his own issues because said man will either be a divorcee or a dude who doesn't want a family because of his own unhappy childhood or whatever resentment he has against life. Possibly both. Because that's the dating pool for this woman. She will probably get the cream of the crap but it will still be crap.

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siuside 5y ago

Not exactly grumpy but yes a "situationship" where I happen to be receiver since she is just rare ;) Alright it seems like you may know too much and I am intrigued by your thoughts and would like to subscribe to your newsletter (Friendly /s)

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swmbbf 5y ago

her tits actually made me sad.

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yuvrajsama 5y ago

you can really see the difference of skin between her face and skin around cleavage .she has applied a lot makeup to cover up . the skin is getting a lot older means if a guy really no future of settling down with her means body will not able to have kids and if so then it will be a lot harder

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Savixe 5y ago

I wont marry your career nor put my dick in your MBA.

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Silas-Gray 5y ago

Underrated comment.

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ashbash1119 5y ago

Idk she looks better than the 22 year old single mothers on here. And she clearly doesn't need a bailout. She's legit better than like 95% of women on dating apps in America.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

Just because something is better than shit does not make it edible.

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Snackwolf 5y ago

*saddlebags

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jihocech 5y ago

Too late.

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Uhtred_McUhtredson 5y ago

Looks like a real professional. I bet she’s a real ball buster.

Also, 37 is generous...

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malemanjul1 5y ago

Dick carrousel

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silly_birb 5y ago

Her busy schedule will open up after marriage whan she divorce rapes unless the beta can slave batter than average.

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SuperVeryDumbPerson 5y ago

Sugar mommy? I'm up for that. I'm just gonna be a stay at home husband while you and your busy work schedule provide for us both

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natensk 5y ago

We see the filters on your face.

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AshyBoneVR4 5y ago

She looks like a Karen or a Tiffany. Either way, I wouldn't insta pass on her just because of that bio. But she does seem kinda boring.

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WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Created By kevin32

Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.


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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

  • 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

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