My husband of two years is every girl's dream man -- the kindest, gentlest, most patient guy

LOL - every girl's dream cuckold-bux is more like it.

21 and second marriage. Anything she has to say after this is null and void.

This one's easy but I'm sure someone will still benefit from a translation:

I am 21 and on my second marriage.

"I am a huge, huge slut and also incredibly good at roping guillible weak men in."

My husband of two years is every girl's dream man -- the kindest, gentlest, most patient guy. He loves me for everything, including my flaws. I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever handle me.

"My husband is a complete Beta bitch"

So tell me, why am I cheating on him?

"Please tell me that I'm not morally responsible for my whoredom"

when I get a text, I hope so badly that it's from the other man, and when it's from my husband I feel disappointment

"I get the tingles from Chad but my husband dries me up like powder. I'm 21, what do you expect?"

I can't tell my husband -- it would ruin his life.

"I can't tell my husband -- even if the existence of his balls is the subject of an ongoing investigation, he might stop being my provider"

I want to leave him and live my own life, but I'm afraid to be on my own

"I want to ride the CC like any 21-year-old but I need an exit strategy that salvage my easy income"

I'm lost and confused.

"Pity me, for I'm a child and not accountable for my actions"

Never get involved with a divorce woman as they didn't honor their vows the first go around. Why marry a woman who can't keep her word?

Have some standards.

the kindest, gentlest, most patient guy

This is code speak for how much of a beta schlub who can't possibly turn her on he is. Every woman reading that article immediately understood this, and to most men the article doesn't make sense at all.

Any woman whose identity includes the notion that someone must be capable of handling her is not LTR material.

As if difficult, antisocial, bond-challenging behavior is a positive attribute.

Why are you cheating on him? Because he fails all your shit tests, bends over backwards to accommodate you and puts you before himself like the spineless pussy he was trained to be

If you are the smartest person in the room, it's time to find a new room. Always keep growing because you'll never peak. Never rest on your laurels. It's great knowing I'll never be good enough. It's motivation

Counseling? This bitch just needs to keep dickhopping until her time on the cock carousel is over. No need to shell out tons of money for therapy for a biological need that just wants to run its course.

It's all about the game and how you play it boys. Personally I don't endorse any LTR, but some guys like that shit. This is a new era and a new crop of women, with the same old women mentality. Rotate plates fellas. Learn the game, study the game and execute in the game. You're in the game whether you want to be Or not. It's up to you to decide if you're gonna shoot and score the ball, or get it stolen from you. I'm literally laughing while reading this: typical AWALT.

Oh snap, I just read this about 2 hours ago in my local paper. Dear Abby is one of guilty pleasures (scheidenfreude) and a gold mine of RP wisdom. This one was especially delicious.

21, divorced, already on a second marriage and cheating? Pretty much the definition of a stupid cunt that doesn't deserve respect.

Staying married to someone because you're afraid to be on your own is doing both of you a disservice.

The fucking nerve on this twat. Like things aren't bad enough, we got to also have some shills who preach divorce (who, surprise surprise, are women). She talks about quitting on the marriage like it's about quitting eating doughnuts: well, find out that it's not that easy. You ruin a man's life and you fuck up also the children, who guaranteed will find out later in life just what a great mother you were for bailing out just for a different dick to bounce on.

Lesson Learned - Nothing you do will ever be good enough.

Uh, this is not the lesson learned here.

The lesson is that this:

every girl's dream man -- the kindest, gentlest, most patient guy. He loves me for everything, including my flaws. I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever handle me.

Will lose to this:

We see the other man. He works for my parents. This situation is messy, and I don't know what to do

Had the husband been this:

every girl's dream man -- the biggest, self assured, most confident guy. He loves me for my entire body, including my asshole. I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever make me scream from multiple orgasm.

She would not be writing in to Dear Abbey

21 and already on her second marriage. I wonder how many men need to get burned before we as a society realize that girls who have been with even one previous partner make piss poor LTRs.

This is something that is hardwired into most eastern cultures and it's something that Americans prior to the sexual revolution were aware of. I used to hate these posts when I first subscibed to the red pill but now I enjoy seeing these guys get burned. If you try to talk some sense into them, they will argue like stubborn donkeys to defend their worldview because they are simply unwilling to change. Pass me some of that popcorn as we watch yet another "nice guy" get cuckolded...

I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever handle me.

That's really all she had to say. The rest is window dressing.

"Every girl's dream man" = every girl's dream beta. All the warm fuzzy comfort feelings but no rush of dopamine like they get when Chad texts them three letters ("DTF?").

She's worried honesty would "Ruin his life?"

Bullshit projection tactic to salve her ego. She know goddamn well he'd be better off without her skank ass, and is scared her gravy train will get ended unless she can get some sort of ironclad excuse to use when her behavior eventually comes to light.

Even bluepilled men aren't completely stupid, and thus most the valuable (financially exploitable) ones will instinctively shy away from committing to a woman that has managed to fuck up being married three times before she even hit 25.

Plus women that behave that badly also tend to hit the wall sooner and harder, since poor sexual impulse control is rarely isolated to just their sexual choices. It's a good bet she is starting to look rode hard and put away wet even at her age.

She knows, and she is scared. But yet, she continues to choose poorly.

Caveat Emptor.

hubby is a beta, parents employee is obviously tattoo'd chad thundercock

Well this is an easy one - she's a slut who can't give it up.

I can't tell my husband -- it would ruin his life. I'd rather just leave him without giving any reason than tell him the truth.

She wants to protect her reputation, period, end of story. She would be fine with it if he got run over by a truck. That way, she keeps all his assets!

That husbamd needs to use that dread game, hit the gym, act like the man, abbudance mentality, give her pussy a good hard fuck while slapping her ass harder than it has ever been slapped, and she will come begging back. That works, what he did before, des not.

So tell me, why am I cheating on him?

Because you're a whore with absolutely no inclination or ability to control your animal instincts.

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"If you can't stand me acting like a cunt, you don't deserve me when I'm dtf"

What's sad is that you don't have to be the push over submissive "good guy" type for this to happen to you.

I've had 2 different LTRs with women in where I feel as though I kept a very good frame with little tolerance for drama and nonsense. Attraction was high and sex was good and frequent.

Both ended up fooling around on me. When questioned why, none of the reasons they gave made any sense.

When I got more analytical about the time lines and lined up events in the relationship with the most likely starting point of the infidelity there was one constant.

Both girls started seeing other guys once an event or conversation had happened in which they realized they had me "on lock" and I wasn't going to fuck other girls. The instant that happened they started shopping elsewhere. No matter how great everything was before.

You wanna see a girls true colors? Convince her you're committed to her and only her. If there's ugly shit in there, it will come out fast.

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What is this?

This sounds like BPD behavior. Probably why she recommended seeking a licensed mental health professional. There is AWALT... and then there are women with mental health issues. It's like NAWALT... but not for the good reasons. Sadly its the crazy ones that know how to seduce you, and make you think "THIS IS NAWALT!"... and in many ways you're correct... but in even more ways, you are essentially selling your soul, and are dating a psycho with a pretty face... NEVER EVER EVER DATE A BORDERLINE.

I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever handle me.

Wait for it...

So tell me, why am I cheating on him?

Waiiiiiit for iiiiiit...

My husband of two years is...the kindest, gentlest, most patient guy...I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever handle me.

This isn't even out of context, as the ellipses are "journalistically integrous". This chick not only verbalizes but literally writes out something her hypergamous hindbrain is still incapable of processing. She can't see the answer, literally, in front of her eyes, with words she wrote herself, that she is cheating on her (second) husband simply because he puts up with her shit.

Because he, in all his "kindest, gentlest" ways, probably pedestalizes the shit out of her, which her forebrain tells her she wants, but her body tells her—in plain, dry, tinlgle-free terms—is unattractive.

It's like I always say; Virginia may be for lovers, but Florida is for fuck-ups.

Lesson Learned - Nothing you do will ever be good enough.

So... stop trying?

How about, "Nothing is a guarantee. Make calculated risks like a man and take the hit when it comes around and get back up."

I am 21 and on my second marriage. He loves me for everything, including my flaws. I honestly believe he is the only one who could ever handle me.

Red flags everywhere the eye can see.

The lesson to be learned from this clusterfuck of a relationship?

Never be Captain Save-A-Ho.

This is actually the reality you come to aspire to when your still plugged in. I just recently unplugged and this "dream guy" that the article is referring to is the quintessential beta even I was aspiring too. Its only after I started the inward journey of self realization that I found media's depiction of every "dream guy" to be a lie. Now what if this woman is realizing that this "dream guy" notion is also a lie on a subconscious level being attracted to any guy demonstrating an inkling of TRP? As a novice to to TRP I've noticed changes in female interactions with me and I just started implementing the strategies. As a student of sciences, you learn that nothing is absolute, just as AWALT is at best a generality. I would say more aptly that RPW is the invisible woman that will require x-ray vision to find. So STFU about AWALT this and that and become a SUPERMAN.