@G_Petronius Most guys get some kind of sex, even if infrequent, of the duty variety, and/or with low SMV females. The problem here is that oneitis, the scarcity mentality is a disease that bypasses rational thought process + attractive can induce a drunk-like state in the male brain.
@dr_warlock sex as a "mistake" is something only men who never have sex can believe. The logistics of how you get from any situation to intercourse preclude the possibility of the act being in any way inadvertent.
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