Many times I hear guys making excuses of not gaming because they do not have wings or they are new to a city and they do not know anyone. In this field report I’ll go over strategies and techniques I use to game and lay girls without a wingman. I have been gaming solo for a number of years due to years of constant traveling and having to constantly meet new people. The following events transpired over the weekend.
Making Connections and Bridging People
The night before I went out to a nightclub, met a promoter who had girls looking for an after party. While heading out of the nightclub I see a guy and t-start talking to him, asking him how his night was and complimented him on his shirt. He tells me he’s having an after party and invites me, I tell him I’ll bring girls over. I bump into a promoter outside and he has about 7 girls with him, I tell him my friend is having an after party close by. The promoter is down, gives me his number to send him the address. He sends the address to a bunch of girls and when I arrive at the after party location I see about 15 girls all ready to have fun. (TIP: Always make friends with promoters, find a way to add value. In this case I was offering an after party location). Since I brought girls the host gave me props, gave me his number, and invited me to a pool party the next day.
Step 1 (What to do as soon as you enter the venue)
With about 6 hours of sleep I wake up the next morning, shower, eat breakfast and head to the pool party I was invited to. I arrive at the pool party and the guy who invited me is nowhere to be found, which is all good because there are a bunch of girls in bikinis ready to be gamed. I get a drink and get the bartender's name (I always get the name of the staff). While standing by the pool I see two guys drinking champagne, I compliment one of the guys on his sunglasses (Compliments are the gateway to making connections, fuck complimenting girls, always compliment the guys, ie: Nice shirt bro, nice watch, nice shoes where did you get it?, the way you're dressed you look like you run this place etc). He says thanks and I ask him if he is visiting or he lives in the city. We talk for a while and he offers me a glass of expensive champagne. I later find out these guys have reserved two of the most expensive cabana’s and have bottle service.
Afterwards I see a couple of Russian guys watching the world cup so I join them from a distance and start supporting Russia, they invite me over to their cabana to watch the game up close. The champagne guys come over and join us and refill my glass with some more champagne. (NOTE: At this time I’m not even focused on talking to girls, just guys).
A lot of PUA’s say as soon as you enter a venue game the first set you see, I disagree with this, I start with the guys and venue staff. Once the girls see you having fun and see you talking with staff they will gravitate towards you and start showing “choosing signals.”
Back to the story: Now I’m with five guys and their girlfriends in 3 cabana’s connected to each other drinking champagne while watching the world cup and having fun. This gets peoples attention and soon I see girls start to gravitate towards us, coming close to watch, asking what the score is, what team I support etc. My new Russian friends start offering me food and more drinks. What you want to do provide value not suck value. In this case the value I was providing was good vibes, good energy, and a shared interest in their soccer team.
Step 2 (Leveraging your social proof)
The Russian guys and their girfriends decide to leave to another pool party and the champagne boys decide to have some alone time with their girlfriends. This meant I had to leave the cabana’s. At this point I have built enough social proof to start talking to girls or meeting some more cool guys. I take off my shirt and jump into the pool, immediately one of the women in the pool calls me over and offers me drinks that she had smuggled into the venue. She says ‘Here try this drink, it’s got half a roofy in it” I reply “You might as well put a full roofy in it and take advantage of me.” She laughs and introduces me to her friends who are in town for a bachelorette party aka in town to get fucked and party.
They ask me if I’m friends with the Russian guys and the champagne boys, I tell them I just met them and they invited me over to hang with them (This demonstrates the type of person you are, you just met some high value guys and they invited you to come hang with them). I flirt with them a bit, they ask me where I’m from and if I’m single. They then tell me their going to hook me up with a girl since I’m a young single guy. They introduce me to a 21yr old HB8.5 with a nice ass. I game her a bit, leave talk to the bachelerette party girls and come back to her, I tell her and her friend I’m promoting at a club and they should join me (I know a lot of promoters at nightclubs in town so I always invite girls out). They agree and ask for my Instagram and tell me not to forget to follow them back. After a while I’m grabbing the 21yr old’s ass and we’re making out in the pool. Guys and girls take note and start talking to me and asking if that’s my girlfriend (pre-selection).
I text two of my promoter friends and they both have a table ready for me with bottomless drinks (These are promoters I met about 3 weeks ago & stayed in contact because they had fun with me and I brought girls over to their table - always be giving value).
Step 3 (Keep the momentum going)
Now that I have social proof and pre-selection as I walk around the venue I’m meeting staff and getting their names. Bouncers, door guys, bartenders, waitresses/waiters… all of them. But Xhaka how do I introduce myself to staff in a non-needy way? For example: I noticed one of the bouncers getting upset at a girl for splashing water from the pool and getting his shoes wet. Later on when I passed by him I said “Girls out here trying to mess up your fresh shoes, they need to act right”, he laughs, agrees and we chat for a while, then I say “By the way whats your name, nice to meet you, my name is Xhaka.” He tells me whenever I want to come to the venue I shouldn’t worry about it he’ll get me in regardless of the queue.
Afterwards I see a women with a nice ass walk out of the pool. I approach immediately, right off the bat she tells me she has a man. My go to response when a girl tells me she has a man is “Ok I’ll allow that” (Essentially you are saying you are allowing her to have a man, it’s very cocky but always gets a laugh). Once they laugh I quickly change the subject and continue the conversation as if she didn’t even mention having a man - blasé attitude. Next thing you know I’m rubbing her thighs and screening for logistics. She is staying at the hotel and she is in the city for fun. She then tells me she is married, and is here to have fun with her side piece. She wants my number so she can have fun with me later on as well (probably after the side piece is done with her). Her husband is probably at home with the kids thinking his wife is at a business conference, little does he know she’s at the pool with Xhaka grabbing her thighs (Guy’s don’t get married!). I later find out she has multiple side pieces. These hoes definitely aint loyal. I say bye to her as she goes up to her room to get ready for D&F (dinner & fucking) with her side piece.
STEP 4 (Leave no stone unturned)
I continue meeting staff members and approaching girls and giving them my instagram. These days I do not collect numbers, I give girls my instagram, let them watch me doing cool stuff on my stories and wait for them to slide in my DM’s with a message like “Hi Xhaka, where’s my invite?”
The pool party is winding down and people are leaving. I spot a Mexican HB9 with a nice ass (as you can tell I’m an ass-man). I approach her and immediately she is receptive, she is about to leave but she asks me for my instagram and says “I hope you’re not one of those people that don’t follow back” I smirk and reply “follow me and we’ll see.” She follows me and we part ways.
STEP 5 - Don’t quit while you’re ahead
It’s about 6pm now and I’m exhausted after running off 6hrs of sleep, day drinking, gaming in the hot sun for hours while maintaining high energy. I think to myself: It’s been a good day, met some cool people, had some makeouts, got a number of leads via instagram, maybe I should call it a day. My other option was to go to the club and meet up with the girls I invited or stay at the venue and game the night crowd. I have to make a quick decision because my phone battery is about to die which means no way to communicate with the girls or promoters and no way to call an uber to get back home so I’ll be stranded. I ask the bartendar and front desk personel for a charger and non of them have one. I’m screwed but I remain calm. I decide to get some food to eat and a redbull. While eating I start talking to an older gentleman next to me, who tells me to stay because the venue is going to be packed with chicks at 10pm. I chat with the bartenders and the gentleman (at this point my energy is really low). If you go out and you have no one to talk to, talk to the bartenders especially if they are guys, they are usually cool. Sometimes the women bartenders will think you’re trying to hit on them so I avoid talking to them for long unless they keep re-engaging me. Have a few interesting stories in your back pocket that you can share with them. In my case I told them that I had been at the venue the whole day and now I’m trying to reactivate so I can unleash the dragon (they laughed & asked if I wanted another redbull).
The Next Episode
10PM comes and the gentleman was right, the venue resets and there is fresh stock ready to be conquered by Xhaka. My phone is dead at this point, my friends are trying to get a hold of my to see what I’m up to that night, and promoters are trying to finalize table plans as well. There’s nothing else to do but keep gaming, I approach a Colombian lady and she shuts me down immediately,,,,,, cool, I move on. After a while I see girl with a tight dress and a fat ass that’ll swallow up a g-string (better than any of the girls I’ve previously mentioned). Immediately my energy is back. Carbohydrates and redbull didn't work but what worked was me seeing a fat ass and my energy has been restored. I approach her and she is receptive so I proceed. She asks me if I’m with friends so I tell her I was with friends but they left (As a lone wolf you’ll get this question a lot. My response: I was with friends but they had to leave so I thought I would stick around for a bit OR I came by myself to have an adventure and meet new people). After a while her friends come over and want to leave to another venue because they weren't having fun. She says bye and gives me a hug. I tell her I was about to leave but I’ll join her at the new location. She smiles and agrees (game on! - I know if I move her to another location I can isolate). She introduces me to her friends and we move to the other venue. The friends change their minds and decide to drive to another location. I tell them I took an uber so they offer to give me a ride to the next spot. I continue talking to the girl on the ride there to keep the momentum going.
We arrive and the venue is not good so we decide to go somewhere else. We get to the 3rd spot & it’s much better. I grab my girl and start dancing with her, she starts grinding on me. I bump into one of my friends (Met him 2 months ago during one of my lone wolf escapades) and introduce him to the girls. After the club closes we decide to go to another after party, and then one of the guys we meet invites us over to his apartment to continue the party.
End of the night
Its passed 4am, I’m getting closer to my girl, whispering in her ear and I go for the kiss. She kisses me back and I do my signature move (When I kiss a girl for the first time I’m the first to pull back, this keeps them wanting more and makes them think maybe you pulled back because you think they’re not a good kisser - they want to prove you wrong so they will re-engage & initiate the next kiss). Then she tells me she doesnt kiss guys she just met (you’re right). I tell her since we’ve been to so many venues together in one night, time has accelerated, and we have been thrusted into a time warp. This is all illogical bullshit that doesnt even make sense but girls eat this shit up. I always keep it illogical which spikes their emotions. Fast forward to 10mins: and we’re alone on the couch with one tit in my mouth. Her friends walk in and she suggests we move the party to her house. When we get to her house we all talk for a while, the friend goes to bed and then the fun begins. We go to the room, things get heated and I fuck the shit out of her, wake up in the morning and fuck her some more.
In the morning I check my phone and there are messages from my friends, promoters, & the girls I met at the pool party. The girls ended up flaking so it was a good thing I didn’t go to the nightclub.
Key Points
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Make friends with guys at the venue
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Make friends with staff at the venue
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Keep your energy high (but not hyper like a headless chicken)
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Be agile and socially malleable, ready to switch venues for better logistics
- If your friends don’t feel like going out and you do, just go out by yourself & use the tips outlined in this FR.
Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions on “Lone Wolf Game”
NukeBiscuit 6y ago
Superb report, OP.
This is great considering I prefer to do lone wolf gaming compared to gaming with wings (not that there's anything wrong with that). It's all about the adventure. And it also serves as a reminder for 30-somethings like myself that you're never too old to do stuff like this.
Cheers, man!
Plethora_Ethereal 6y ago
High quality. More of this, please!
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Thanks, I’m glad you found value in this.
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qx4758 6y ago
So, in order to game without a wingman, the first step is to get a wingman?
dr_warlock 6y ago
Game works on women of this caliber, but you need social capital as leverage for it to ‘activate’. Otherwise you’re nobody.
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Your strategy was textbook. I used to think going straight for the women showed confidence. Surely if I could approach them upon eye contact with no fear, that would give me bonus points. Yeah, nah. Going straight for the women almost never works. They actually see it as desperate. 7+ women need to witness you with status before you ‘qualify’. You dont think they’re watching, but they have a wider field of vision and look at you from the corner of their eyes, assessing you anonymously.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Totally agree, when I realized this my game went to another level. I’ve experimented on opening a girl pre-social proof and the same girl post-social proof. The outcome was phenomenal.
chaseexcellence 6y ago
What city do you live in? My cities club scene has died now. I used to be a club promoter. I do not know what cities the club scene is hot in anymore. I imagine NYC, Chicago, and L.A. I am just curious what city you live in that has a hot club scene.
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SuperBubsy 6y ago
Not directed at me, but get IG or snap at a minimum... It's 2018 and that's all girls do now.
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WarViper1337 6y ago
Instagram is literally an alter built for narcissism but as we all know narcissism is also built directly into female nature. It is not hard to use if your an attractive guy. Don't post selfies. Post videos and high quality pictures doing adventurous stuff. Go on a hiking trip and post a bunch of photos of the scenery and of you standing in cool locations. Have someone film you doing crazy shit at a party. Show off some expensive purchase you made. I honestly stay far away from it. I just can't ever be entertained by such shallow and mundane content and social media is not even required to pull high quality women if you know what you are doing. You deny a woman access to your social media and it will send her hamster spinning to your advantage sometimes.
SuperBubsy 6y ago
If you get IG I would get pictures of you with girls, you having fun and the main thing is the story, where OP mentioned just taking stories of your day; If you're at a party enjoying yourself--story. If grabbing drinks--story. Really anything. Also you might want to read up on the mere-exposure effect, makes people more comfortable with you
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Good report. A lot of people don't realize that most guys are pretty accepting assuming you have any sort of social skills.
During college I would just strike up conversations with random guys at parties or at the bars. I became friends with guys from the good frats on campus so I could get into any of their parties no problem without having to pay 1000 bucks to be in the frat.
While out at bars and clubs I can only recall a single time where a guy reacted negatively when I struck up a conversation with him but hey some people are just assholes.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Exactly, I have had guys act negatively. I just smile and move on.
kyzen142 6y ago
This is one of the best field reports I have ever read. So much value. Nice work.
diggrecluse 6y ago
I recently started going out solo myself and this report sounds like what I should be building towards. The only problem is that this seems so taxing in terms of time, energy, and money versus what you actually get out of it.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
This weekend was 4th of July weekend so I went a little harder than I usually do. Even if you implement half of this whenever you go out you’ll be set. It’s not just about the chicks, I’m making connections with successful men & getting invited to their parties & even getting business offers.
Salted_Pretzel 6y ago
Nice Field report. Any advice for being a successful lone wolf?
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Start by going out alone at least once a week, meet people, learn how to remember names, talk to people and listen so you can callback talking points at a later time, tip well, firm handshake, dress nice, meet new people and get their info.
InscrutablePUA 6y ago
good way to find gay guys to fuck too lol
I kid... good write up. I felt exhausted just reading it but kudos to you for putting in the effort.
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InscrutablePUA 6y ago
I kid means I'm kidding
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
That’s the landmark of a man raised by single mom. Everything male seems gay for you.
MarcosDomingues 6y ago
It's a coping mechanism. Beta males actively try to shame anything remotely alpha to make themselves feel better, like lifting weights or gaming chicks.
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
Hugs compliments all the cocky funny AMOGGing - not gay at all.
If I had time and energy, I’d rather create a “healthy male to male relationships” website, targeted especially at children of single moms - men who didn’t have chance to learn it otherwise. u/Dream_21
InscrutablePUA 6y ago
apparently you don't understand that "I kid" means I'm kidding. chill the fuck out
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
That was your way of dealing with that problem of yours in that comment. Now you project your own nervousness onto my internet persona. There were thousands of other jokes you could make, you’ve chosen this one specifically because reasons.
kobe2469 6y ago
Op sounds like a fucking G
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coolredpill 6y ago
Thanks for the post
Last friday, i went out clubbing by myself - i had not been to one in over a year so I was quite nervous but overall i had a good time (altho i scored a zero on getting women)
Then last saturday night, i was supposed to go to an edm festival-ish thing with a friend, but he bailed last minute and i went alone. The music was awesome so i had a good time but it seemed picking up girls was much harder alone compared to at the club.
There was also an afterparty at a club which i also went to alone but same story
Nonetheless, i gained more confidence about going out alone and having fun. This post was what i needed to help boost that. Thanks
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Thanks, I’m glad I could help. You’re on the right path. Keep doing it & eventually you’ll have a social circle that will be bringing girls to you with no effort.
ncstaterepted 6y ago
I think your lesson in game good, your social behavior is good. Assuming you're trying to make a career or side gig out of promoting, you can't let your phone die and decide your only option is gaming girls, and disappear for a whole night. You'll piss off girls and friends that you hustled hard to get. Don't become known as the flaky guy, people won't come back to you unless you already have a solid reputation chiseled out. All assuming you're about the money in promoting... Otherwise good example of the kind of guy who fux.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
You’re 100% right, I never make the same mistake twice. Next time I’m bringing a portable external battery.
clavabot 6y ago
You make it sound so easy, therefore it must be easy, time to test it out
MarcosDomingues 6y ago
There's only one way to find out
xibikurt 6y ago
Nice report brah....good tips... will definitely use them
BostonPillParty 6y ago
Love lone wolf shit. I liked the illogical humor response to the shit test. Insta-social proof done right. True IDGAF on display with letting plans and people hit your dead phone after you already made your choice to not give a shit...
Dude please write more.
Edit: and the format was fire. Well written too.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Thanks, I’m glad you found some value in this post.
Straight_Edge18 6y ago
Impressed man. When Im on the next party I start using your advices. Thanks for the good stuff!
-DoW- 6y ago
Solid report. Good job. I just moved to London so this will come in handy (minus the pool parties).
I don't use Instagram anymore though but fuck it.
MarcosDomingues 6y ago
This post sounded a lot more down to earth than those autistic PUA guys who constantly make shit-posts bragging how much pussy they got.
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SuperBubsy 6y ago
the i'll allow that line is gold, Great Report! How would you recommend gaming in your college (I have 1 year left, beginner to moderate game.)
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Same concept, get to know all the guys throwing the best parties. Find some girls, bring those girls to these parties. The guys will love you cause you’re bringing girls, the girls will love you cause you’re bringing them to awesome parties. Girls in college just wana have fun.
redvelvet_oreo 6y ago
Great stuff OP. I been waiting for a good FR. Been trying to get back into the game but been feeling a little unmotivated lately. Still in a LTR but at a point I want to start plating new women.
Id like to make a side note and say I like the way you utilize social media. Im in the bag of hating Social Media. Im in my early 30s so I wouldn't say I grew up with it the new age shit. Alot of guys hate on it here but I think there is a way to make use of it when your gaming.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Absolutely, social media is where it’s at. Im also in my early 30s and use it to leverage success. If you start plating use some these techniques & you’ll be on your way to plate spinning world 2018.
Tie5o11 6y ago
Regarding IG, would it be a hinderance to have a low follower count? Im about your guys age, never had an IG, but thinking of starting one for this purpose only. I could probably get a couple hundred or so followers from following facebook friends and having some follow back, but its still a low number. Is there a threshold for something like this, or does it not really matter?
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
The more followers the more perceived social proof you have but having little followers isn’t a big deal if your profile looks good. Good quality pics and good stories. Don’t worry about a low follower count for now.
randomthrowaway69420 6y ago
Nice report OP.
I appreciate the lone wolf angle of this as it is the only option for me at present if I want to game.
This is pretty advanced stuff to be sure - it doesn't sound like you are new to this. Mind sharing any resources that were particularly helpful to you as a lone wolf starting out?
Also curious - what city was this in? It sounds like vegas
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Been doing it for a while, most of it was learnt through trial & error. This is in LA.
NyquilSupplier 6y ago
Excellent fucking report. Just found this subreddit and I'm thoroughly impressed. This is VERY similar to what I do, though I never thought of making friends with the bartenders. Genius. Love this thread. It's outlining all the things I had to learn by myself in one place. Wish I would've found Red Pill sooner.
Gaujo 6y ago
How good is your IG for impressing girls/getting them interested? I don't really use it.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
I have photos of me in cool locations wearing nice clothes, having fun. My stories consists of videos of me traveling, at nightclubs pouring liquor down girls throats with other girls around, pool parties, and rooftop bars.....
Koryphae_ 6y ago
But if you are not doing that stuff for real, would one really benefit by having an IG? I think Snap would work better.
cootershooter420 6y ago
Nice, I appreciate a nice report that doesn't sound like it was written by some wanna be loser
Self-honest 6y ago
Also, it's a fucking great time! Excellent report OP.
MyReddit6 6y ago
Xhaka - go into more detail on the Instagram bit. You're using it damn right by the looks of things. I've gotten quite a few leads from Insta - but it seems much flakey-er than going for the number, as every follower has access to her DM.
How often do you post? What do you post? How many followers?
I have a few thousand followers and it has gotten me some small time paid modelling work. But I utterly HATE Instagram, nightlife, partying. It feels like there's 1000 eyes in my pocket, and I can't get myself to take selfies without feeling like a total tool, so I only post once a week or so.
Any advice to getting over this hurdle? Could just be that I'm 30 and not some 19yr old attention ho
Also - one huge takeaway is the importance of BEING COOL TO STAFF. And guys in the groups. I think when most ppl get into RP and start lifting, they secretly can't wait to start AMOGing all the jock guys that beat them up in school... In reality, many of those same guys are better off as allies. Also - the importance of adding value. Can be as simple as eye contact and a thank you to the waiter or drink guy. The more value you can add anywhere, the more opportunities in life. Easier said than done.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
With instagram, after you get their instagram and they follow you do not start DM’ing them immediately, that’s what thirsty guys do. Let them marinade- you’ll start seeing them viewing your stories but you have to make sure you are posting interesting stuff. My stories consist of partying in clubs at tables with me poring liquor in the mouths of hot girls, going to after parties, going to pool parties, cool events etc. show them your life.... instagram is your reality show. If you’re not doing cool stuff start doing it. Find cool stuff to do and post it. I only post on weekends cause during the week I’m working.
No selfies, never take selfies. Your profile should be masculine, with nice pictures because that’s what they will see when they start following you. I’m also 30, I show them life of a single 30yr old enjoying his life.
Yep, saying thank you to staff is enough. The trick is to say this when in the venue or on your way out. A lot of guys say it on their way in. If you say it on your way in the staff may think you want something in return. Whenever I’m leaving the venue I say “thank you for your hospitality” and give them a firm handshake.
MyReddit6 6y ago
Cool - I've always done the same thing w venue staff. Just basic social manners but you'd be surprised (or not) by how many people skip it.
Ahhhhh bottles, partying, pouring shots... All of that sounds detestable to me LOL but I'm glad you enjoy it and are TRPing it up. I'm usually posting from the recording studio when I'm working, status updates on funny shit I get into, and professional photos from small modeling gigs. Not a single selfie. Nothing with booze either - I do a lot of music workshops with teens and the partying stuff could look terrible professionally, since so many also follow me. I think I'm just too much of a lone wolf to use the techniques you use, and whenever I've tried its always felt really inauthentic. Infact I just declined a date w a girl who reached out to me, simply bc I'd rather stay in and study or paint tonite… Thanks for the response tho, and maybe I'll try capturing more "fun" style photos instead of my usual
whuttupfoo 6y ago
This was a great breakdown of having top tier game. But after reading all of this, the only thing that came to mind was how much of a time waste this actually is. At the end of the day the only thing you really did was make out with sluts and destroy your liver for free. If you can actually take this skill and make money with it, and build some sort of empire, that would be way more valuable and you wouldn’t even have to go out and game anymore.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Thats the goal. I’m making connections on the way. I’ve made business connections during escapades like this.
enfier 6y ago
I disagree completely. You seem very single track minded. There's lots of value in participating in situations where there are lots of opportunities for growth, social connections and women.
OP probably had a lot of fun for starters. He met lots of people and got better at interacting with them. He got lots of pictures to stick on his Instagram and he met lots of people that might provide good connections to other social events.
Most people go out and make money or build an empire so that they can live out their fantasy life of being surrounded by hot chicks at pool parties. Why not just skip to the end if you can?
Unerted 6y ago
Pretty much what the whole RSD is all about, more now than ever with the "social circle game".
whuttupfoo 6y ago
With the key difference being they make millions while doing this.
redvelvet_oreo 6y ago
I think its self defeating to look at it like that. There are times you go out to party and have a good time which could be looked at as a waste of time but is also essential. Everyone takes vacations, everyone needs nights out, you do have to meet people somehow how outside of whatever it is that you do.
You should realize that no matter what you will always be gaming. If its not women its other people for business or for some other self interest. Being social and being able to game is a core concept. I also believe being more socially competent generally makes you a happier person. What do you do after you have an empire? Your not going to sit home and become a hermit.
Im not trying to bash your comment it just seems like alot of people here like to saying gaming is bullshit, its beta, it dosen't work etc etc meanwhile its major part of TRP.
One thing I will add is if you ever had a night like OP did or something similar at the end of the day you wake up feeling amazing. I have had nights like this in Vegas pre-trp stages and had no idea what I was doing in particular, you could say I was in auto-pilot (which to me is what it feels like when your game is on point and your not really thinking about it as gaming anymore.) and I always felt fullfilled and amazing after even though I didnt really have any end goal in mind just to have a good time.
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redvelvet_oreo 6y ago
Your just reading this post in the wrong context. Its not a post about there being more to life. The post was just about Game and Game Tactics. It was not a post about how to game your self to the top of a corporate company. Everything you needed to know was in the title of the post. If that's not what you were looking for why even click on it?
I really do prefer to see more useful posts like this because the last few months has only been about lifting so yeah its nice to see something different on here that is insightful.
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I just dont understand the appeal of going to a club / going out when I can have a girl at my place I found on tinder with little to no effort whats so ever.
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Well if u get bitches on tinder, that's cool...
randomthrowaway69420 6y ago
Lol why even bother commenting if this is what you have to say
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So I can start telling men to stop wasting their time at the sexual watering hole that is your local bar or night spot, it's my view that these activities are beta feminized meeting grounds where yes your alpha tendencies will help but you are ultimatily standing in line for pussy. Lol.
majaka1234 6y ago
What did any of the above story sound to you like waiting in line for pussy?
I mean if you go out with the sole purpose of meeting girls then yeah, you're probably wasting time and definitely wasting money.
But if you go out to have a good time with some mates or if you're enjoying something like salsa dancing (my thing) then you're basically having fun anyway and any girls you meet are a bonus.
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majaka1234 6y ago
Bwahahaha. Actually all my best salsa moves are solo moves.
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The whole point of this story is game, lone wolf game apparently, you said you enjoy spending time with your friends, that is not related to what I am talking about, is it?
majaka1234 6y ago
Yup. Lone wolf game. You go out by yourself. Meet new people. They become your friends.
You still failed to address my question - what part of that is waiting in line for pussy?
If you're too socially awkward to go out and meet new people without a wingman then that's cool but don't act like a pariah about it.
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Look, go out and enjoy the night life if you want, all the money and time you waste doing that shit is better off spent in a direction that yields the results you are really looking for (pussy).
Buy a nicer car, get a better apartment in a better part of town or closer to a job you want to have / already have, get some nicer clothing and start treating yourself like the King that you are, the king doesnt go into the jungle to hunt..........
Again, if your jam is going out and Salsa dancing or what ever,, more power too you, but dont respond to me with ya bullshit of not caring about getting pussy when its the biggest motivator for your behaviour ya fucking weirdo.
majaka1234 6y ago
That's some insane projection youve got going on there bud.
I literally do not go out to meet women at all. It's a waste of time.
I go out to have fun experiences, try a new drink, eat something new, listen to some new music, try out a new Meetup group, or polish up on my salsa moves.
The fact that putting myself out there results in meeting women is a side effect, not a feature.
Once you can reconcile the fact and separate the two then you'll stop being a basement dweller coming up with excuses to justify your social anxiety.
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paprikk 6y ago
Tinder is good for physically attractive guys who are solid at text game.
Real-life is good for guys who have solid in-person social skills.
You get the best results (i.e. most attractive women) doing what you're good at. You can't go from real-life to tinder just because you feel like it.
Xhaka-Laca 6y ago
Or do both, i go on tinder too, bang the ones that are ready. The flaky or time-wasting ones, I add them to insta, they see me doing cool shit and they start hitting me up.
midgetpooooo 6y ago
Tinder is unusable now without tinder plus. You'll never get seen otherwise, same with bumble
paprikk 6y ago
I'm not convinced that tinder plus boosts your visibility. It just lets you swipe right an unlimited number of times and have a few more super-likes. All of that is fine but not necessary.
Either way, I was moderately successful with tinder without tinder plus, so if you're right, I should pay for it and drown in pussy lol
midgetpooooo 6y ago
More matches, more chances for drowning lol. It's not the life I need to lead tho. I've had moderate success as well on there without paying and on bumble, too, but after being in a big city for 2 months with matches everyday, I've gotten zero matches for the past few weeks so there's clearly something up with the algorithm.
paprikk 6y ago
I get it, I just meant that I don't see too much difference between swiping 500 girls today or 50 a day over the course of 10 days.
Trying deleting your account and making a new one. I do that a lot. It resets your algorithm and gives you a beginner boost.
midgetpooooo 6y ago
And remove my hoard of matches, man!?
paprikk 6y ago
I hear ya my man but luckily you can have a tinder account linked to your phone number and a different one linked to your facebook.
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