WWTRD (What would the Romans Do?)

1/ Loss of civic rights (no voting; no public office; no right to be witness)

2/ Unmarried / Illegitimacy Tax (per bastard)

3/ Barred from State Employment

4/ Children Barred from State education

5/ Internal exile (woman and child relegated to the community of the father).

6/ No public benefits.

I have 1 kid whose dad is not involved and we have no contact for MY sanity.

What about YOUR DAUGHTER'S mental health? Selfish fucking cunt.

That "only thing" that is a "detterent" (it is spelled "deterent") is a major one. Someone else's kid is going to be repel many men, especially the ones she wants. The reason she is getting the matches she finds so disatisfactory is that the men who have options want a woman who does not already have a kid. And it most certainly will not help when she explains how "he is not involved" in raising the kid and having no contact with him. Who allowed this man to impregnate her? That reflects her judgement, which is poor.

It is not a bad thing that she makes great money and has her own home. But those things are not going to raise her status among the men she wants, as the men she wants has no need for her ability to make money. The kind of man that might be happy with that are the ones she is already rejecting.

I need to move lol

The location is not the problem, it is her expectations of what kind of man she can get.

I actually think women are about 10 to 15 IQ points lower on the scale on average. This is a good example for it. She states what she wants, but literally has no empathy for the motivation or reasoning of others. One day, I looked in the mirror (figuratively speaking) and asked myself "Why would a woman let you impregnate her and be together with you for the rest of her life?" I was never the same, because, yeah, why would she? But this female just doesn't even think about the reasons some well-off or even rich man might want to by a house for. As an investment: sure, to live there with his wife and children: sure, to live there with a single-mother that wants to invest in stocks with him: "Ma'am, this is an Arby's". What the hell is even that?

This woman is LARP'ing as a man, but cannot understand why men are not interested.

Everything she wrote describes a woman that is masculine. And men that are masculine, don't want a masculine woman. They want the very opposite.

If I were to live my life as a feminine man, do I assume that women would be interested in me? Fuck no, I'm not that delusional.

PSA for any women out there - if you want a masculine man, don't be masculine. Just be feminine.

Also -you have a kid. As the late great K. Samuels said - go back to your baby daddy - that is your level.

We already know that she is a terrible mother (and hence, by extraploation, a worthless human being) because she has taken the child away from the father. this is not in the interest of the child. so...if she is not prepared to act in the best interests of the child, what chance do you think there is of her treating you well????

I'm 37. Not to brag, but I have a good job as a software developer. I own my own house. I have a nice car. I'm even 6'4. Women in her situation should be throwing themselves at me on Hinge, but it's pretty rare that I get matches. I'll never understand why women talk as if this problem is exclusive to them. For all her performative lamenting, I doubt she would put much effort to get a guy like me who she says she wants, and at her age, therein lies the problem.

I'm sure that if I wanted to try my luck with her, she'd expect me to "put in the effort". Lol! Just think about that concept; All the time and money that I would be expected to spend on dates (despite her "great job"), with no guarantees of return. Putting up with her retarded friends. The sudden migraines she gets when I'm horny... Who does she think she is, charging that price?

What are these...standards you're clinging to? At the age you're at, men are running out of fucks to give. You should have secured your ticket earlier.

As long as he makes enough to take care of himself, why should it matter what the man does for work or whether he has a comparable income?

Asking hypothetically, of course. We all know why. Feminism and hypergamy are a deadly combination, each working against the other to ensure no woman ever actually finds contentment in life, let alone any relatively consistent measure of happiness.

She fails to grasp that most men that made it to their 40's single and successful are NOT going to be willing to buy a house for some past the expiration date pussy and her crotchspawn. As the headline says, those men can afford better...and most importantly, they are old enough to fucking know it.

She wants to marry equal or higher on the economic ladder, she needs to stop being 30+ and having some other dude's kid. Oh wait, she can't.

After two years of... approaching men

• She's been hooking up with men for decades
• Has a child from another man
• Has a degree
• Has a career
• Is financially self-sufficient
• Is used to living alone and will not do well living with a man
• Considers herself be be good-looking
• Flirts with random men
• Judges otherwise good men by their choice of job
• Thinks her town (or anything else but her) is the problem

All these are negatives. Many are exacerbated by the fact that she doesn't consider them as such.

Interesting: she says she owns her home, but then later she says "I am looking for someone that wants to buy a home together"

She is literally looking for a man so that she can upgrade her lifestyle. She wants a better home, she wants to do some 'financial planning', retire early, invest etc.

She is clearly telling everyone that she is looking for money.

They always tell on themselves.

She has lived a man's life and gone out and chased the money and now she wants to be treated as a woman by a more successful man?

What's in it for him?

I can see what's in it for the other guys. But she doesn't want to be the man in the relationship in terms of financial responsibility.

If you want to be treated like a valued woman, live like one, don't try to jump ship too late. Your teachers lied. Women don't get to have it all.

48 is a specific number. She probably set it 10 years older than herself. Also, based on the fact she didn't mention wanting or willing to have another kid, you can safely assume she is >36. So basically she is a 36 year old single mom with a kid. If she doesn’t understand her genetic value and throws it away, how can you expect her to understand finances. The woman obviously makes poor choices and thus is not a good longterm investment. Women waste so much time thinking they're going to get someone they imagine and when its way too late they settle for some short fat unemployed guy. They could have chosen a guy who was a 6 and been better off by now instead of holding out for an 8 and realizing late in life their only option is a 4 at that point

Any man of worth will already be locked down at that age. Secondly, what does the man get out of this relationship? She supposedly makes good money, but how does that benefit him, especially when she makes it clear that saving is her primary goal. That is a big risk for him to take, since in the likely event of a divorce, there is no way a judge lets him tap into any of "her" savings.

Every single man knows if you involve yourself with a single mother long enough, you are going to be expected to become a father to that child. Unless the kid is damn near an adult and doesn't need a father. You're going to take care of her and her child. And if she doesn't expect a man to take care of her, what does it matter how much money he makes? You already own a home, so why would his money matter as much if you're already established like that? She's realized that her "girl boss single mom that can have it all" life is fucking exhausting and needs to find a way out. And when men don't want to pick up the tab for her life, she shames them as "not good enough". A fucking homeless man is too good for this retard.