If this woman is indeed the "thin, in shape and attractive" woman she claims to be, I really doubt that she is being overlooked because "white guys just want Asian women!" Women as described by her (regardless of whether it actually applies to herself) are not suffering from a lack of men interested in them. Usually, such women have the power of choice and will not say things that she is saying.

As others here have already said, there may be other issues going on, such as an offputting personality. And her alleged femininity should be questioned as well, since that encompasses more than just looks and appearances. So many women have forgotten or not been taught about femininity that they would not know how to properly be feminine if money was on the line. So I have to ask, does she know what it really means?

Grace is an example of physical beauty being skin deep, but an ugly personality goes down to the bone.

Men collectively have pretty low standards for what they'll tolerate in a woman. If a woman still fails to surpass that low cutoff, that's her problem alone.

I don't think Asian women are as attractive

And that's the problem right there. This stupid bitch doesn't understand the real reason white men go for Asian women. It isn't just about physical attractiveness, it's about what Asian women are willing to be and do for a man. They are much more willing to be the submissive housewife, which is what men want. White women are too obsessed with their looks and being a "girlboss" and that's why white men aren't attracted to them anymore. They cry about "men have let themselves go into drugs/porn" they never ask "why have men let themselves go into drugs/porn?" The whole “men don’t approach anymore” is a bullshit lie. They do approach. Men just have a whore/feminist/leftist detector that goes off when they see women so they don’t bother.

When the Hamster has gone off down a rabbit hole.

Some white men have just found porn and women from less feminist places more fun than their own local "strong" "independent" and selfish women.

She: "I don't think Asian women are as attractive at all, especially without all the makeup they need."

Me: I don't know if she meant Asians use ("need") a lot of makeup, but I have NOT found that to be true. Sounds like she's got Anti-Yellow Fever and a case of the sad.

I'm thin, in shape and attractive. I'm as feminine as they come.

False equivocation. Being "feminine" is much more than just not being fat. A man who goes to the gym is not by definition masculine. As @Seagram7 said, "It isn't just about physical attractiveness."

Femininity is so many things modern women do not understand, but I'll (again) bestow my favorite quote about it:

"A lady is a woman who makes it easy for a man to be a gentleman." -American proverb

Apparently, she's not as thin, in shape, and attractive as she thinks.
Even a cow would look thin, in shape, and attractive standing in a herd of buffalo.

Ah, yes, I remember it just like yesterday. Me, a young 19 year old dude, asking a nice girl out and she accepts, but I'd rather smoke weed and watch adult entertainment instead of actually going. Then, as a european, I realised that the problem is not me, but rather the girls. Clearly, a european man would never date a european woman, lol. So, yeah, basically I spent my 'teens and twenties' trying to figure out whether I should smoke more weed and buy an even better gaming pc, or date an asian woman, while all the girls from my town were scratching at my door like zombies, begging to get in. ...No, wait, that never happened, I just forgot to take my pills.

So, she has the personality of a bull walrus with bursitis. Yeah, that is attractive. That is exactly what I want to spend a lifetime around. (Or it could be a good simulation of eternity....)

Her little diatribe was enough for me to know that I could never be attracted to her. She claims to be feminine, but it is clear that it is a very toxic, disrespectful femininity. If she cannot even respect women from other cultures, I know she could never respect any single man.

She is thinking that men have checklists for women and that when all the boxes are checked, a relationship transaction can occur. Sex may occur, but relationships are a different level of commitment for men. Men may be attracted to the wrapper, but they commit to the contents.

I used to think that you couldn't write something that makes a person seem ugly. "Grace" has proven me wrong. Even if she is 100% accurate that she's in-shape and feminine - with that attitude, no one would want to date her.