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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Complaining about jerks

It's because of drugs,porn or just men catching yellow fever is why she cant get a man. If there were no drugs, porn or Asian women around, she wouldn't have to date black men
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 5mo ago

If this woman is indeed the "thin, in shape and attractive" woman she claims to be, I really doubt that she is being overlooked because "white guys just want Asian women!" Women as described by her (regardless of whether it actually applies to herself) are not suffering from a lack of men interested in them. Usually, such women have the power of choice and will not say things that she is saying.

As others here have already said, there may be other issues going on, such as an offputting personality. And her alleged femininity should be questioned as well, since that encompasses more than just looks and appearances. So many women have forgotten or not been taught about femininity that they would not know how to properly be feminine if money was on the line. So I have to ask, does she know what it really means?

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 5mo ago

Grace is an example of physical beauty being skin deep, but an ugly personality goes down to the bone.

Men collectively have pretty low standards for what they'll tolerate in a woman. If a woman still fails to surpass that low cutoff, that's her problem alone.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 5mo ago

"are the only options some have".

It's not "low standards" so to speak but rather a woman who makes a fraction of the effort an average guy has to make, like say 10%, and got on a dating app, or joined various activities and flirted a little, and so on, would have an abundance of options that nearly all men would be jealous of.

In my grandmother's day, back in 1925, women were NOT passive. They were expert conversationalists, networked like heck, and pursued marriage aggressively. Modern women have a term for this: "pick mes".

Foreign women simply are SERIOUS about marriage and "date with intent" as some women refer to it, even as modern women's "intent" is usually just a SLIGHT effort they make too little, too late.

Analogy: You have a pantry with flour, olive oil, pasta, and a fridge with meat but you "have no choice" but to eat a twinkie because the total effort involved is taking off the wrapper.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 5mo ago

how are they going to get tingles from suitable men that want to settle down and have a family? answer me that!

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 5mo ago

Or in short; there is a glut of modern first world women are fucking lazy leeches that take interest from top tier men as something they should be entitled to just for existing, and a lot of them also outweigh men while having worse hygiene and social skills and the fiscal profile of an underwater car loan.

Kind of makes that whole basement dwelling incel strawman they love to resort to look like a massive act of projection.

The sad part is all of those negatives I noted are completely within an individual woman's control. Don't be fat, don't be a cunt, and don't be a slut, wash that fucking pussy. Instantly puts almost any woman that isn't physically disfigured into the top 50% bracket if they can manage the bare minimum effort to not fuck those up.

And I guarantee "Grace" is screwing up at least on one or more of those, and thus poor baby is having to sob into her Häagen-Dazs about having a slightly lower success rate on tinder than the chadliest man she ever managed to spread her legs for.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 5mo ago

There's a special category I coined (TM) as the "corporate nuns": Now this was back in the dark ages in 1996, but these women went to work, where they saw the usual guys who were married or they weren't interested in, then to the grocery store where they'd barely say "hello" to the cashier, and to their parents who would NEVER dare ask her "Why aren't you doing something to get married?"

Their general "cuntiness" was a fraction of what's on the market today: They wanted minimal hypergamy in ALL categories: At LEAST as tall, income, education as themselves but this was tough because, thanks to feminism, they had killed off most of the available single men and the divorced men who were too bitter by then to put on 1950's chivalrous courtship ritual.

My wife has single foreign women friends who have their own issues, but these women go online and have minimal bitchiness and naturally they aren't on the market very long. Corporate nuns in the 1990's didn't have dating apps with literally thousands of choices.

Someone here, I think, likened women to giving a child a $10 million trust fund and everything they could possibly wish for on one condition: there's a red button in their living room that says "push me!" and if they do, it will take everything away. The Adam and Eve story about the apple or Pandora seems appropriate: Women cannot help but mess things up. They lack impulse control.

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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

I don't think Asian women are as attractive

And that's the problem right there. This stupid bitch doesn't understand the real reason white men go for Asian women. It isn't just about physical attractiveness, it's about what Asian women are willing to be and do for a man. They are much more willing to be the submissive housewife, which is what men want. White women are too obsessed with their looks and being a "girlboss" and that's why white men aren't attracted to them anymore. They cry about "men have let themselves go into drugs/porn" they never ask "why have men let themselves go into drugs/porn?" The whole “men don’t approach anymore” is a bullshit lie. They do approach. Men just have a whore/feminist/leftist detector that goes off when they see women so they don’t bother.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 5mo ago

Men just have a whore/feminist/leftist detector that goes off when they see women so they don’t bother.

This. Any man that doesn't gets chewed up and spat out and becomes such wrecks that they are involuntarily invisible to women except for when said women need a dumping ground for their bullshit.

Peacocks usually don't bother putting on mating displays for fat gobbler turkeys.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

I totally agree with your last sentence.

Men have to hone their problem recognition/solution skills through their early years if they ever want to be successful. Men have learned that most women are a walking collection of problems/issues/grievances and recognize that their most immediate problem is their proximity to said women. The men enact the appropriate solution that only becomes obvious when you hear the cry, "Where are all the good men?"

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

It isn't just about physical attractiveness, it's about what Asian women are willing to be and do for a man

Absolutely, but disclaimer: Passport bros sometimes find out the hard way that even Asian women can be awful.

And that's the problem right there

Funny how a woman can be so racist and judge an entire race of women less attractive than herself, yet no one will call her out. If a man said something like this...

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

I’ve heard from many sources that women in places like the Phillipines and Thailand are basically “west-adjacent” and are absolutely obsessed with social media.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

Doesn't surprise me. Things like social media and the internet are relatively new in terms of human history, and for all the convenience we do not fully understand the downsides.

The Indians (American) were susceptible to alcohol (firewater) and got addicted much more easily because it was a new tech they were totally unprepared for. I see things like social media in the same way.

My solution is keeping my girls away from it altogether. And after years of this, I have no regrets about it.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

When the Hamster has gone off down a rabbit hole.

Some white men have just found porn and women from less feminist places more fun than their own local "strong" "independent" and selfish women.

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JudgeSmales 5mo ago

She: "I don't think Asian women are as attractive at all, especially without all the makeup they need."

Me: I don't know if she meant Asians use ("need") a lot of makeup, but I have NOT found that to be true. Sounds like she's got Anti-Yellow Fever and a case of the sad.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

I'm thin, in shape and attractive. I'm as feminine as they come.

False equivocation. Being "feminine" is much more than just not being fat. A man who goes to the gym is not by definition masculine. As @Seagram7 said, "It isn't just about physical attractiveness."

Femininity is so many things modern women do not understand, but I'll (again) bestow my favorite quote about it:

"A lady is a woman who makes it easy for a man to be a gentleman." -American proverb

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

Apparently, she's not as thin, in shape, and attractive as she thinks.
Even a cow would look thin, in shape, and attractive standing in a herd of buffalo.

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StrongWoman 5mo ago

Ah, yes, I remember it just like yesterday. Me, a young 19 year old dude, asking a nice girl out and she accepts, but I'd rather smoke weed and watch adult entertainment instead of actually going. Then, as a european, I realised that the problem is not me, but rather the girls. Clearly, a european man would never date a european woman, lol. So, yeah, basically I spent my 'teens and twenties' trying to figure out whether I should smoke more weed and buy an even better gaming pc, or date an asian woman, while all the girls from my town were scratching at my door like zombies, begging to get in. ...No, wait, that never happened, I just forgot to take my pills.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

So, she has the personality of a bull walrus with bursitis. Yeah, that is attractive. That is exactly what I want to spend a lifetime around. (Or it could be a good simulation of eternity....)

Her little diatribe was enough for me to know that I could never be attracted to her. She claims to be feminine, but it is clear that it is a very toxic, disrespectful femininity. If she cannot even respect women from other cultures, I know she could never respect any single man.

She is thinking that men have checklists for women and that when all the boxes are checked, a relationship transaction can occur. Sex may occur, but relationships are a different level of commitment for men. Men may be attracted to the wrapper, but they commit to the contents.

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EmpireCrimson 5mo ago

I used to think that you couldn't write something that makes a person seem ugly. "Grace" has proven me wrong. Even if she is 100% accurate that she's in-shape and feminine - with that attitude, no one would want to date her.

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PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago

Hehe chick logic. It's a thing to witness. Somehow women look at the world and draw these kinds of conclusions.

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