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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Dual-Mating Strategy

if the "abusive" ex didn't like kids, why'd you have at least one kid with him?
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Land_of_the_losers

Posted 11mo ago in Dual-Mating Strategy - Permalink - Locked - 11K Views



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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

someone who isnt absuve like mt ex ...

This is not a selling point. This is a warning label.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Bailed from previous relationship that ended sourly, a net recipient from life -student, need provider for me and kids. I think that sums it up.

Its not as far fetched and entitled as some provider requests. She is not post wall and is only a little heavier than ideal weight. She only has one large noticeable tattoo and has only got two kids already. You might get a look in to sire the third.

I see this as symptomatic of the market. This is, I would think, an average offer overall. Clearly in spite of all our work with red pill thought, it is still very much a seller's market. Gynocentricity still wins. This woman, without the kids, without the tattoos, without the emotional baggage, 1 to 2 stone lighter as a 24 year old student who cared enough to check spelling and grammar should really only be an average offer. Then she would be a little better than average looking but held back by being quite old to be in education.

I am well past being worth even an average offer but I know where fairness would be in the market.

As for "abuse" the fact that this is put in an advert for a partner, shows that it is now a trump card, that gets you positive attention and treatment, not a shame you cover up. This makes it very hard to know what abuse means any more. It could be real abuse but it could be telling someone to pull their weight when they are an entitled and lazy net recipient or shouting at someone in response to being shouted at. it could just be "he upset me a lot" Just take any upfront mention of it as a red flag. Either this one is so damaged she has t prewarn or she is wearing the crown of victim hood. One way she deserves pity, the other contempt but in both cases, she is an avoid.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

WRT your last paragraph...

It doesn't matter. Women have the power of choice. This is a great power. She chose the men she interacted with. No pity. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction. There are millions of men in this country, and she chose that man and how she interacted with him.

This is really a silence advert for "captain save a hoe" - for someone to come to her and tolerate her bad decisions and bad behavior.

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Pic889 11mo ago

One clarification: She is average (I'd say above average) only when it comes to giving away sex for free. She is average by virtue of the fact she is not morbidly obese (which means you can find her love canal to shove it in), and above average by virtue of the fact her face is above average. Nobody will care about her 2 kids or her penchant for bad bois if all they want is to smash.

If she ever tries to secure commitment for a man, she'll quickly find that she is bottom of the barrel when it comes to securing commitment from men, with 2 kids from some other man dragging her down and not much to bring to the table.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago

You rate her as average. Sadly: you’re correct. An overweight 24-year-old student with two bastard children and at least one large trashy tattoo is now average among single woman. By accusing her ex of being “abusive” she’s also admitting that she’s attracted to BadBois (tm)… or she’s a liar (or both). It’s also known to be true that within real abusive relationships, women are much more likely to be an aggressor than a unilateral victim.

That’s average.

No wonder so many guys are walking away from the mating market: it’s a dumpster fire. When I was her age; as a high value man I would not have given her a second glance. I wouldn’t have even asked her out on a date.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

From a LLM/AI query, the average weight of women in the USA is about 170 lbs / 77 Kilograms.

This girl has a catfish body. Face would be okay on a tight closeup, zoom out and holy fuck there's a monster FUPA lurking, lol.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago

Is there anything on her profile indicating at least one them is the ex's kid?

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Wintergreen 11mo ago

Tbh there’s not even anything saying he doesn’t love kids either. He could love kids but still beat the shit out of her. Or, more likely, hold her accountable for things which we all know = abuse.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

You know-- you are both right. I was hasty in writing my headline.

Got a better one in mind?

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Wintergreen 11mo ago

Maybe it’s Maybelline

Maybe it’s Spousal Abuse ™️.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

Ok, I'm inspired. Lemme post a derivative yet inferior title in Reddit.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago

Aspiring respiratory therapist of two kids wants to breathe easy with something "serious" after "abusive" ex

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Justanaverageguy 11mo ago

I read it differently. The fact that she goes out of her way to mention her abusive ex on her profile tells me she’s still hung up on her ex and you’re a rebound or placeholder until he comes back around, and he will and you’ll be dumped. Whenever a woman starts mentioning an ex unprovoked it’s bad news. I’ve learned from first hand experience.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago

I could see that

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

She looks like fun. Her ex-Chad probably got tired of her feminist bullshit and kicked her astrological ass to the curb.
Also, her lipstick is crooked.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

The single, fastest thing she could do to improve her appearance would be to lose the septum piercing. The arm tattoo screams trash. Tattoos and piercings are something men do to look like ‘bad boys’ and attract women who want bad boys. Women don’t need tats and piercings to get bad boys because bad boys will happily sleep with them without them, but it also marks them as bad-boy women.

Wait! She’ll put on some (crooked) lipstick and rouge to appear feminine. That should get more beta qualities from the man, don’t you think? Oh, wait, she isn’t attracted to beta males anyway so never mind.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

She's a nonconformist:

  • septum piercing
  • tattoo
  • black nail polish, except one is red - refuse consistency
  • very round, normal is thin - definitely don't want to be thin
  • shirt with weird symbols that maybe mean something or they don't, fuck you!

I think it is worse than you think... She's hiding her other arm so you don't see just how fat she really is. She is also twisting her torso to appear thinner.

Are tattoos with flames a bigger red flag?

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NeoSpartan 11mo ago

One of the main problems is that both media and academia are constantly pushing the lie that women will be happier if they try to be men.

Never once seen it work out well irl.

Septum piercings are gross af. Makes em look like a cow. Very cool and trendy. What a rebel for the system.

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EurasianChad 11mo ago

Lmao I've got a few ex-flings that tell others I'm "psychologically abusive" because I told them the truth. When you spit facts, you separate yourself from the simps that appease her emotions & validate their "victim" mentality.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 11mo ago

My ex-wife had a standard response whenever I brought up factual truths

"Don't be mean"

This is rather illuminating.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

My ex-fiancee claimed that one of her exes "tried to run me over with his car!" That was how she said it.

Now, I think it's more likely that he tried to drive his car away from her house to leave her during one of her psycho rants, she stood in front of his car and refused to step aside, so he honked the horn at her for a few minutes before revving the engine and putting the car in gear. At this point, she shrieked "NOW YOU'RE TRYING TO RUN ME OVER!!!" while banging on the hood.

That seems a lot more conceivable to me now.

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Devember 11mo ago

Is it worth it.

I ask coz I have this internal battle about it.

I have this chick that I (IDK) gasslight into believing she is good but then by actions I dont mean it, tell her my expectations far from her current state (but it is relative ofc), I tell her everything will be good but I see that she wont make it and keep her for convenience.

Its hard just not to tell her, here, this this this. She wouldn't comprehend altho is not stupid, working in medical.

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EurasianChad 11mo ago

Nah bro better to just walk away. Save yourself the headache. They always come back anyway when they realize you aren't buying into their games.

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Silly_birb_returns 11mo ago

These are the women asking for student loans forgiveness... To pay for made up colleges that are just overpriced courses.

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Devember 11mo ago

if the "abusive" ex didn't like kids, why'd you have at least one kid with him?

She doesntwanna fuck? > She doesnt wanna fuck YOU.

He doesnt want kids? OMG its because he doesn't want kids with ME! Wow what a superior choice!

A while later: boy forgets to pull out coz of alco.

Bails.

OMG it was a superior choice, maybe I can get him to fuck me every other month, if I pay for a hotel spa.

Need provider.

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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

When I first found TRP forum, what you said was the biggest light bulb that went off in my head. When she says she doesnt do this, or fuck on the first date, or any condition or standard; add at the end of every sentence "With You!"

It actually a big eye opener to the true nature of women and it really helps you not be such a white knight and put women on a pedestal and think of her like a queen. When she she says I never did (insert the sex act here i.e. anal BJ different positions etc) add in your mind "with you." It will put you mind and emotions back into perspective and self control real fast.

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Justanaverageguy 11mo ago

Maybe it’s just me but I don’t find her attractive AT ALL. Even if I was in a slump I’d pass on her if she offered it up. She’s too fat and looks like she has gothic issues, like some deep dark soul. No thanks.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

She was hot a few years ago when Chad was pumping and dumping her. Now YOU get to lift her FUPA and smell the fat roll cheese before sliding your cock into her yeasty stretched out baby factory.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Too much bro!

LOL

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

You aren't lying.

With the average weight of women soaring, most of those lazy bitches have something lurking in their rolls they don't wash well enough. There is a distinct smell that fat bitches have, and it isn't just their fucked up pussies. Once you've encountered it, you never forget it.

Shudder

And no, I didn't discover this by trying to fuck one, thank god.

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Devember 11mo ago

Dude people are eating here

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Lizzo called and asked if you wanna come over for dinner...

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MaxMax911 11mo ago

Two kids by 24 is impressive

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

A) breeding is impressive?!

B) I lost my virginity to a single mom with 3 kids (2 dads) at 22. For all that she was a lot of fun for the evening, I would not call her choices up to that point in her life "impressive".

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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 11mo ago

Hell, 2 by 24 seems like it'd be more or less the norm in any reasonably healthy culture. IIRC, the Chinese call single, childless women "leftover" at 25.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago

True, but in that healthy society she would also have a husband who sired those children.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

serious and fun

puts on serious face, then changes to fun face, looks like Joker

I know college is generally a waste of time and money for women (and most men) these days. But I'm still consistently amazed at college grads who can't read/write on a third-grade level. How do people like this get through the US "education" system?

new to this

I don't think so

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Consistently inconsistent; contradictions always.

I've tried over and over to find the video clip of a British comedy where a lady describes what she is looking for: serious and funny, tall but not too tall, makes lots of money but doesn't work a lot, has big penis but doesn't use it all, ...

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

Well, one time I student taught in a high school and I read the homework being produced by seniors. I was irked at the low quality of the writing. I asked my supervising teacher "what has the English department been teaching them for the past 4 years??" and he did not seem to know.

A year later, his National Guard unit deployed to Afghanistan and I think he preferred that.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Teaching?

I think you're confused on what teachers do.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

This is why many parents, including myself, are educating their own children. As if I would trust these woke idiots (overwhelmingly women) around my kid for one minute. Several good male teachers I know were not woke or diverse enough and have left decades of teaching after being pushed out. The plandemic saw hordes of students graduating well below even the previous low standards.

It's not just the command of the language. That's just a tell, like when a 24 year old college student can't form a sentence, enjoy a book, or find the Ukraine on a map (while also protesting about it).

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