Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Typo-MAGAshiv
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Broteine 1y ago
Just like the sticker says, 'Objects in the mirror are closer than they appear.' In her case, it was the wall. Oh well, time to board Chad's plate train. Destination? Broken dreams. Choo Choo!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Let's be real. This dumb ho could easily get married. It's that the men left willing to give her a ring she refuses to consider them as human, much less options. And the men that were potentially willing to give her a ring when she was younger and not as ran through are no longer consider her an option. Only one of the two lay within her power to change, and it's not the second.
So she either chooses from what options she has left or ends up alone. But I bet this bitch can't even be relied upon to pick a goddamn place to eat.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
but that would mean settling?
We can't have that.
SLAY QUEEN! YAS!!!!
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She is living in a city that all young women flock to for a potential future career as a model, actress, etc. Its chock full of tens. (Their behavior set aside for a moment.) No fucking wonder she isn't finding "the one", because any man with options has a whole raft of chicks to choose from.
Pack it up, find another pool to fish in or just start organizing your empty condo for your aging-out "era". I have zero sympathy, as I know she passed over many men on her way to the salty road of consequences.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
No, beautiful women go to Vegas or Miami.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It may have trended down, but LA is definitely up there with Vegas or Miami for sure.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Just went to the Inter Miami soccer game. Can confirm. Great looking women in Miami.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Mike Sartain was saying the women in LA are ugly... he wasn't lying.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
You find her ugly?!
I mean, I wouldn't call her beautiful, but definitely higher than mid and certainly not ugly. She passes the boner test.
A woman who looks like her but ends up alone is alone because of her own stupidity.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I suppose there's no accounting for taste...
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
You remind me of the "Would Not Bang" meme, so I dedicate this post in the WNB tribe to you.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Seen this girl before. This cry fest is one thing. Framed together with some of the thirst traps and “bad B” attitudes that she gave off, and I just chuckle.
If I had to give an equivalent to a 30 year old woman of even moderate attractiveness crying about her lack of time and options in the dating market, it’s someone who gets to start the marathon at mile 20, decides to nap for 2 hours, and then complains about how they’ve been set up to lose because the winner is almost at the finish line. If you just started moving forward at the beginning, you’d have won with ease.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
That kind of video post is almost a genre now - its a sort of pity party comment farming activity.
I was reading recently about the gender split in internet usage - Men and women use the internet very differently. Men are much more likely to use the internet passively. This is basically the only outlet on which I comment or engage with - everything else, I just read. And this is common for men - they are readers. they don't post content - and when / if they do, its just a comment. 99% of men don't post content of themselves.
Women are different. They start out by posting pics of themselves as young teens, on things like facebook. then they see the notifications come in... the likes and swipes. The tech companies have done a tone of research on this - if you put a woman in a brain scanner and watch what happens when she gets the 'bing' notification from a like from one of her posts - her whole brain lights up like a Christmas tree. Validation is like crack cocaine for women. After a few years of posting, they are junkies (so by age 14 already).
This is why they post so much content, pics vids etc. there are so many women that simply live their lives for the dopamine hit of internet notifications.
After a while, the likes die down. There are always younger and prettier women available. You can hear in her voice that she is dialing up the crying. she is wiping away tears that aren't there. She is subconciously going for the most victim mindset possible, in order to generate more pity, and ulitmately, more likes / comments.
Because what she really wants is more engagement, more notifications, more dopamine.
This woman, and many more like her, is ruined. If she did actually get into a loving LTR with a guy, it wouldn't work. Because 1 guy can never give her the validation, attention and dopamine that the internet can give her. She is basically ruined for life.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
There is a reason I refer to the related behaviors as Chaddiction and call them junkies.
Because they are literally addicts with all the negatives that it entails. And there is no such thing as a former addict.
Broteine 1y ago
Interesting analysis, on point too!
wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
What blows my mind is the total and absolute lack of self-awareness by everyone involved. If you were to make an analogy to men with gaming these women would jump all over them for being losers. Suggest, even in the most basic way, that artificial attention harms women and you awaken the inner raging Hitler in then.
How can a human being who masters a complex language be so stupid as to deny any possible association between their miserable ruination and fake internet attention? I just can't square that circle.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
you're 100% correct. I know of two friends that have told me that their teenage daughter have self harmed to a very serious degree because of internet addition. We are talking about girls who were 14 and 16.
Social media is not harmless. It affects women much much more than men. And the tipping point seems to be when the user starts posting content about themselves. This is a whole new world of addiction.... addiction to dopamine / attention / validation. The explosion in all kinds of self harm ( I include beauty treatments as self harm) is all down to SM addiction.
And these women are finding it impossible to have an LTR. They have it all wrong - they think its hard to find a man. No its not. It's easy to find a man. The problem is that its impossible to keep a man in an LTR, because for these women, its impossible to be happy with the love and affection from one man. A male partner can never replace the internet as a source of validation / dopamine / excitement, so all of their relationships are failures.
Think of the old days - a young woman would describe her wedding as 'the best day of my life' - it was the day when she would finally become a princess. All eyes on her - a huge dress, lots of pictures. And the love and care of a man for life. This was what every girl dreamt of. Now... not so much. That is all a pale light compared to the sun of social media - post pics of yourself and the algos spring to life. Share everything, generate feels and emotions.
For internet addicted women, LTRs and even LTR failures are useful to them only in the sense that they provide useful content for their SM profiles. This women is posting her inspin tears, because it generates lots of likes. She is clearly an addict in withdrawal. She isn't really crying about the lack of men in her life, she is crying about the lack of validation and attention that is coming back from the black mirror.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Basically, modern women have been alpha-widowed by social media.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
100% -
this is why I would consider women that post content as a total non-starter - an absolute red flag.
Nearly all women are internet addicted, in that they consume far too much SM. But quite a few of them post content of themselves and their lives - this is HUGE red flag. Stay away.
oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is true of addictions in general - motivation happens before cognition - the best cognition can do is try to post-justify it, the addiction sets the agenda (more of x drug) and then the mind hamsters it's way into explaining the agenda.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
excellent point.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
what an incredibly flat woman
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Perhaps she will be lucky and heed this warning. get realisitc ideas, get wifed up before the wall. Or perhaps she will decide she has to hold out for what she deserves...
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
It's already too late for her. And NOT because she is too old.
It's because she is too damaged from a lifetime of internet addition. She is 'sharing with the void' for validation. Think about that.
What people used to do with friends (intimate convos) she is doing to a mobile phone in selfie record mode. She is talking to noone and everyone.
She is toast. She wont be able to be intimate with a single loved one.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Here's the thing: in your regular, average, middle-of-the-road city, neither too immense to have absorbed the cities around it, and not too small to have only a couple of good restaurants, 30 is around the age where the wall makes itself present. However, in a city like L.A. or N.Y, where younger pretty women arrive by the truckloads everyday, being 30 y.o. is as good as being 48 y.o. Even if you look amazing, used to do modeling, can afford your own bourgeois-bohème lifestyle, men will hardly look your way. The cashier of that bakery over there is a cute 22 y.o. who wants to be an actress; the barista at that coffee shop is doing some side gigs as a bikini model for an up-and-coming brand. You go out at night, and there are lines of hot young women dressed up, waiting in lines for the hip nightclubs. A 30. y.o. woman is pretty much invisible.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
I wrote a comment about this ages ago....
Women all seem to ask how can it be that they are 'worthless' when they get to 3X? The answer lies in game theory.
In game theory, if there are two options and one is better in every way than the other (option 1 24 year old woman vs option 2 36 year old woman), we would say that option 2 is 'dominated' by option 1. An option is dominated by another option when it is inferior in every way.
Usually in life you don't have to choose between dominated choices - for example, lunch at Nobu is great, but subway is cheaper - this is a choice that could go either way, depending on your preferences. But what if Nobu was was cheaper than subway?
Then we would say that subway was dominated by nobu from a consumer choice point of view.
This is where single women post wall find themselves. They are not 'worthless' but they are a worse choice in every respect for men that are looking to start a family.
And this is the type of man they are looking for. That kind of man can find a younger, more fertile, less damaged, better behaved, more loyal woman. A better bet with which to start a family.
The women that we all see in these posts are women that have not yet processed this fact: they are never going to be the first choice of a decent guy that is looking to start a family. And starting a family is the only reason why men want to get married, if at all
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yup, the ability to obtain commitment from a man is the first time in their lives that most women experience what the Burden of Performance is like for men - where if you aren't the winner you are just first loser at best.
oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
One difference for a lot of women, though, is that they don't recognize that it is a burden of performance - they opine about bad luck and wonder "when will it happen?" (when I least expect it).
I have observed this behavior in a young man and it was obviously pathological - he had lofty expectations for how life should be treating him, but he had not connected those expectations to a set of performance requirements. He drifted aimlessly from thing to thing, abandoning anything at the first sign it would require effort, growing more and more bitter as to when the universe would finally shower him with money and accolades - to the point that when I last saw him, he had become dangerously unhinged, threatening the people closest to him, living with a baby mama in a small scale cult.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
sounds like he was blessed with a 'womans brain'.
wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
I've noticed a feedback loop in Western cities, where it's either all-body-cover or all-skin-shown. There's really no middle ground. The feature of 'younger pretty women arriving by the truckloads everyday' would explain this as the Chadvertising pressure there forces all women to 'show-or-go' every single day and burns them out from the competition early on.
I'll have to think about what this means from the SMV perspective. (Is it easier to commitment-monte in the hyper-Chadvertising cities? etc.)