Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Nobody123 1w ago
She probably got fat over time then he left because he cant make his dick straight and she's now mad LOL . I would do the same thing
just like women divorce men when they find better option (hypergamy) men are not owed to women relationship .They should earn their relationship not begging men for giving them relationship and not being butthurt and bitter if they dont
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Happy Friday, all. Anyone here desires to change her mind?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
I'd rather eat a green persimmon.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Women will share a guy that they perceive as "worth it".
Monogamy has been shot and killed anyway, the body is decomposing behind the shed built with resources extracted from millions of divorced men. I believe that a woman will stick with a man that she admires and respects, even if he has a side-chick now and then. Its the old European standard, having a mistress wasn't a big deal if the "main" chick knew she wouldn't lose her man's support.
Its probably better tuned anyway to what men want, variety and no bullshit. I understand how monogamy got baked in to religions and the like, for enforced stability in the early days of burgeoning civilizations. Now we've gone to the other extreme, where fleeting and transitory hookups are the norm.
This is destructive, as the stats are bearing out. We might get back to the old standard eventually, who knows. It won't happen in my lifetime, I'm certain of that.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Well she's not exactly wrong although she didn't get specific. Married for 20yrs, 3 kids, etc. I'm coming on 20yrs of marriage and have cheated, lied to my wife. The key difference is we worked it out like adults.
See, the difference between trad/con women and modern women is one will stand fast to their vows and the other won't. When you get into a secular marriage it's all about me me me for the woman and not about an everlasting union of the mind and flesh. The bigger picture for the woman is that she sacrifices her youth and beauty in exchange for parenting, protection and provisioning into her old age. Now this woman has none of that, and she's very, very angry.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
What I found interesting about this rant was how it reminded me of a line that's been used several times against men in the past:
"Who hurt you? Tee hee!"
It's a telling phrase similar to:
"You cry like a little baby! Haha!"
It makes one wonder: Does the person laughing at the notion of a crying baby perhaps think it's amusing because they've enjoyed bullying children in the past (even if they were a child themselves at the time)? As a parent, the sound of a crying baby, ANY crying baby, instantly triggers feelings of empathy and protectiveness.
They think they're mocking someone as pathetic but instead they've outed themselves as sociopaths.
When I first read this woman's rant, I hesitated to post it here in that if she was a genuine victim then I'd be outing myself as the bad guy but careful analysis shows that she's not a genuine victim. I know women who have been abandoned by their husbands including a dear friend whose husband went out for milk but didn't come home. She is NOTHING like this rage. If anything, her reaction to what occurred is one of befuddlement. She, and her children (also friends of mine) were traumatized mainly because they couldn't comprehend what caused him to do such an awful thing. Later on, they did have a conversation with the father and got the story.
Having known abusers, however, they are quick to punch down with a smile on their face but also to engage in (there's an actual psychological term) "narcissistic rage" if they are ever on the wrong end of a betrayal or even a perceived betrayal. Bad things are NOT supposed to happen to THEM. That's not FUNNY when it does. Her language is a laughable exaggeration, quote, "all of them", "ripe old age of 49" (she says that to imply that she doesn't think she's that old) "not one man on this planet [whose decent]".
"hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" -- William Congreve’s play, The Mourning Bride (1697)
If ONE man, or even TWO betrayed her, then it can't be her but rather ALL men. If She's not happy, then NOBODY should be. Is that the attitude of a legitimate victim?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Imagine the narcissistic fuel from having a man forsake all others for you... and then he gets with another gal. So in a rage you discard your family and marriage of 20 years.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
We don't know the full details of her marriage and divorce aside from ALL men, quote, "lie, cheat OR abuse" and her ex was a "complete liar". That typically is associated with cheating, but it could be he was lying about finances (said he was rich but wasn't).
A friend asked his barfly wife to clean up her act and she divorced him but lost in court so she tried a reconciliation and he refused. She then told the daughter, and others presumably, that he had divorced her because he was selfish and wanted to sleep around. He had proof: She had filed the paperwork. She's STILL bitter about it 20 years later.
Her accusation that ALL men are bad based upon a known sample size of 2 indicates a narcissistic personality. Even if her claims are accurate, a reasonable person would say that the chance of getting hurt justifies caution but she's like a woman who would refuse to go into the woods because all of the woods are full of bears and all the bears are ravenous (wo)maneaters.
No-Stress-Cat 2w ago
Another 49er (literally) takes herself off the P&D market...
But she'll be back.
wswZtyqNGQ 2w ago
Just remember: when they say "men" they actually mean "Chad who's far out of my league, but I want to pretend he's mine exclusively".
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Serial Chaddict. Blames men for her having a broken man-picker.
Roll credits.
First-light 1w ago
This is a wgtow post. Just as there are men who get shafted by women and are done, so there are women too.
Lets hope she stays done and she's not just one Chad smile away from returning to the search. If you play out of your league you usually get burnt, sometimes you just get unlucky and get burnt anyway even if you do things well.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
The difference is, while I don’t think it’s healthy to go hermit for anyone, men handle it a lot better. If she’s lucky, she’ll find a friend group that she can attach to where they will just be collective poison to everyone else around them.
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