Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2mo ago
She has 7 kids
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Where did I get 5 from? 7 is even worse. She is going to become a divorcee with SEVEN kids???
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2mo ago
She's like Leonardo DeCaprio except instead of being rich, attractive, valuable, and desirable, she is fat and has an insurmountable amount of baggage
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Can someone here explain it to me why there has been a recent influx of middle aged women blowing up their marriage to ride the Cock Carousel? She is 46 divorcee with five kids and she wants to start "dating" guys 25 and under? WTF? She will have no problem finding guys to fuck her. Those guys will use her in every deviant sexual way. Every sick sexual fantasy they have they are going to try on her. Then what? I am just blown away at her level of short slightness and inability of not think as little as four years ahead of when she turns 50. She will be 50 with five kids and with a recent sexual past that will disgust men.
As I said in the beginning of this post, there have been a phenomena of middle aged women destroying the life they build to ride the carousel and there are vids all over the internet. Here is an examples:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FJqVj9tifUA
This guy's channel is just post after post of middle aged women blowing up their marriage. I dont get it.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
My guess, as the economy craters this introduces new problems into marriages that are already struggling. Finances are a number one complaint for couples, and if the husband has lost a job or things look shaky, it is also a prime mover in delusional whores jettisoning their "abusive" spouses for what they think will be a ride on easy street.
That's what all their slutty friends have told them, so its all they know. So some poor guy probably got the boot at work, and she's sitting there swiping and looking for the next value extraction target. She doesn't care that she has kids, or whatever else, because the hivemind has told her that she should "know her worth" and that any woman of any age can go "slay queen".
So she's going to sally forth and shove that boat out of divorce cove into the choppy waters of perpetual pump and dump.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
RP revenge porn
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of these women see “the wall” as a challenge. Since the only unit of measure they have for assessing value is sex, they’ll show us that they can get all the hot young studs that they want. Can we get 25 year old hotties like her? I think not!
Never mind that the 25 year old hotties we do attract would enthusiastically enter a relationship with us, while hers would block her number the second she asks “what are we?”
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
Oh, good. It would certainly be bad if she was competing with every woman out there for the attention of a couple of men (who may or may not even look in her general direction) but, since she has such a niche preference, I'm sure the competition won't be that fierce.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
Well, she can ASK for someone whose young, fit and tall whose willing to smash who doesn't have a criminal record and use drugs, but unless she administers a drug test and runs them through a background check, it's not going to matter, will it?
What's interesting is her saying she's going through a divorce with 7 kids. Either the guy was reliable and dumb enough to bail her out from her first baby daddy AND then she cheated on him ("high libido") and he threw her out OR the father of number 7 is in jail and she's "done" with that.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I love the venom in her "and I am done with Black men".
First, thank you. Saves me the trouble of telling you the hard truths you aren't ready for.
Second, maybe you would have had better luck with black men if you vetted them better and picked the black men who had something going for them. What the fuck do I know though? Your trend of picking the worst men in our community SURELY won't spill over to the white men that you suddenly decided that you wanted.
Why do you want them now anyways? When you were fucking drug dealing criminal D'sont-quantrevious, those white men were the furthest thing from your mind. Is it because you need a bail out and your misperception of what white men are (hint: just like every ethnicity of men, only pinker) has lead you to believe that they'll accept your bullshit and your past?
Fuck outta here.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I think I’ve mentioned it before with you, but it’s quite comical when you see white women have this bizarre fetish of black men. And it’s never some normal black dude working a solid middle or upper middle class job, regardless of looks. It’s always some sort of felon or dusty, or for the more “intellectual” broads, some “community activist”. It’s in the same vein of how woketards will say that things like proper grammar, showing up on time, and striving to do your best are “rooted in white supremacy”. They claim to be enlightened, but really, their positions are absolutely racist AF.
And now she wants white men, because to her, white men are stable and responsible. Aka the opposite of what black men are to her. Ironic, because she’s far more trashy than most of those guys.
Durek_The_Bald 2mo ago
Well, they're not wrong. Those are indeed some of the qualities that have provided the aryan race with a position of supremacy compared to some other races. It's nice of them to admit that, however unwillingly. If you just peel back the "muh social construct", woketards and Hitler actually agree on a great many things. I'm considering going woke myself, since going nazi probably isn't that socially acceptable anymore. I just want my supremacy, you know, whichever way I can get it.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Absolutely agree, one of the things that woke me up was this amazing footage of the girls in the Youth program of Germany, how they were all healthy, beautiful, athletic, cheerful, and trained to be housewives. It was honestly overwhelming. Thousands of them. They told me Germany was evil, but those girls put ours to shame.
I think you will like this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ev373c7wSRg
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I mean, German girls being hot doesn't erase the reason why people were telling you that Germany has a problematic history.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2mo ago
I think what's happening is she's just getting out of a marriage and wants a hoe phase before she settles down with another beta. That's probably what she did the first time around, and seeing as how she stuck the landing that time, she's sure she'll be able to do it again.
So she's expecting to spend the next 1-5 years getting railed by hot young guys, and then she'll l when she's made up for lost time, she'll find a 40-50 year old guy to bail her out.
There are just a few, tiny little problems with that thinking: If you're a tall fit 25 year old white dude, you'll have tons of options before having to settle for this mid-forties fatty with a blown out vag from 7 kids. I mean even if you're into the cougar thing there will be much hotter 35 year old single moms with only 1-2 kids willing to do anything with no demands. Why choose this woman instead? So even for easy casual sex I suspect she'll have a much harder time getting the guys she wants.
As bad as that is, her second problem will be even worse. When she attempts to stick the landing she'll be in for an even bigger surprise. After a few years of living as a single mom taking care of 7 kids, she's going to want someone to "share the burden" aka bail her out. But what man is going to want that? This is not the 1800s when having that many kids was normal. Even men who might consider a single mother are probably only looking for 1 or 2 kids at the most. And one of them is 10 months old??? If she's looking at say guys 45-50 years old for the bailout, many guys in that age range don't even want to have their own biological kids at that age because they think they're too old. Raising someone else's infant at that age? She's out of her mind if she expects to find that.
We've seen posts from women in this age range who only have 1 or 2 kids who are already in high school or college so basically one foot out the door already, and even they have difficulty finding a man. And this lady expects to find one when she had multiple kids in the toddler stage. That's a really tough sell to most men.
Bottomline is that she detonated her marriage for some temporary pleasures and the expectation that she'll be able to get back into a relationship after she sows her oats. She's going to find sowing her oats to be more difficult than she expected, and then the bailout to be absolutely impossible. Which means she'll be raising that infant by herself well into her sixties...
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
And let's be real, even going as high as 30 is a huge ask for a 25 year old dude in that position. A lot of women start falling off a cliff looks wise once their age starts with a 3. Like, full on granny face. Gross. There are the occasional exceptions, but those are known as statistical anomalies. Usually just as easy for such a man to stick to the college aged demographic that are still in their party phase and thus have no pressing expectations since either their parents or the government are still picking up the expenses tab.
Oddest-One-Here 2mo ago
It is going to be worse for the Zoomer generation as they seem to be aging faster than the Millennials did. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BvZllS7B24E
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
opens can of Druish air and breathes deeply
Ah. Welp, smells better than this princess.
You idiot, this isn't the Princess, it's her STUNT DOUBLE!"
But seriously folks, imagine if a 46 year old man posted "no older than 25". Despite the fact that this is more natural and historical, the feminists would be all over that, saying it's disgusting and immoral!
Now imagine his excuse for doing so was that he had a "high libido". Heh. They'd love that.
But it's ok for her, right? Star Wars Meme Right?
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
(Nice Spaceballs reference, lol)
One time, I put out a dating profile that had at the end a simple request - "No blondes, please."
The messages I got flooded with were absolutely insane. Men aren't allowed to have preferences, they told me. Funny how that works, eh? Like a lot of men here, if a woman had my back I could make sure that she never had to work ever again in a regular job.
Oh well, she'll have to keep that day job, while I laugh and read these nutter female profiles.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Men can't have preferences because when men start expressing preferences, women start to realize that men have options.
The current dating paradigm only works when men are under the illusion that they don't have options - that their role is to wait patiently for women to choose them like a handbag.
When men have options and boundaries, women have to confront their choices. They have to assess all the things they've done that could disqualify them from attaining The Man They Deserve™. Worse, when "average" men are doing it, how much higher must the standards be for the top-tier men?
That's why women band together in resistance whenever men express even the smallest measure of having standards, preferences, and boundaries. You think you got shit over hair color? You would get lynched if you expressed a dislike of their body or lifestyle (because "no obese tatted sluts" is damn near a hate crime in 2024).
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Succinctly put.
Although it would be funny to just do a "no fat chicks" just to see the absolute tsunami of salt.
Durek_The_Bald 2mo ago
She looks like the sort of woman you hang with for a while, because you have a thing for taking a dump in a woman's mouth, and not a lot of women are up for that.
redblow22 2mo ago
Let's look at the logistics of even having the alone time for sex. Where do 7 kids go? How many baby daddies does a guy have to negotiate with for alone time? Or, is it "I just put the kids down, let's bang on the couch real quick until the older kids come home."
Talk about overplaying your poker hand.
IceNineWithLime 2mo ago
"and I am done with Black Men."
But are black men done with her? Yes, the answer is yes. In fact, all men from the four corners of the world are done with a middle-age single mother of 7. You lose! Good day, ma'am!
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
This woman would be invisible to me. I wouldn't even get to the part where she said that she was essentially for white men only.
Her age alone knocks her out of 80%-90% of men's filters.