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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
We also have to factor in "womanese" on these qualifications. The infamous okcupid study showed that women online consider only the top 25% of men to be in the "above average" percentile. It's similar to someone saying they want someone "normal" they see on TV sitcoms when TV sitcoms generally have higher than average attractive people star on them.
Next is her height requirement coupled with "need to feel feminine and protected". Why can't she "feel" feminine on her own? Imagine if a man said "I need a submissive, obedient woman to feel masculine".
Basic height hypergamy goes out the window if she's below average attractiveness. Although we refer to it as "hypergamy", a young, average woman is at her peak SMV so it's reasonable if she wants to make greater demands on a man at that age. What's fair is what the market will bear. But if she's fat or otherwise not good looking herself, the taller she is means the less demands she can make for "feelings".
Heck, consider that dating for men is about totally suppressing our natural feelings and putting on an award winning performance. Acting is a talent where you make people "feel" a certain way.
And... this ties into her failure: Even as she uses the language of "approaching" men (most likely out of her league), she's too busy "feeling" to figure out how to get men to "feel" in a manner to reciprocate.
AlwaysStoic 1y ago
Read this twice to make sure that I was right the first time. She lists three requirements but doesn't say anything about what she brings to a relationship. Only demands. No wonder this pushy cunt is ignored by men.
PLANECRASH 1y ago
This is what always got me about OLD. Women's profiles always consisted of a list of demands that I should use to eliminate myself. Usually, coming across as a bitch while doing so. But that's not how OLD works. I'm swiping on you, not myself. In the "About Me" section of one's profile you're supposed to describe yourself, and the other person choses to right, or left, swipe. They can swipe in any direction based on any criteria they want, and they needn't inform you of their demands in advance of doing so. I'm swiping left, not because you told me to, but because you sound like a fucking bitch!
wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
She already knows that it's requirement 3 seeing how defensive she is about it. She's been ruined by fucking way out of her league and can no longer get tingles for anything less than a male model.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Or she's just a fat chick.
I know a girl who'd be over the moon if I gave any indication of reciprocating her feelings for me. She's not a slut and doesn't have any glaring red flags. She's a good girl, well-behaved, raised in a good, tight-knit religious community to have good values. She actually has a lot going for her on paper.
The Big However, as indicated above, is she looks to be about twice my own weight. From her point of view, I could well imagine her describing me as unapproachable because every time she's tried in the past I've done my best to politely demur. Because I'm simply not attracted to her.
Might be the woman in the OP is in the same boat.
...in which case, they're probably gonna' need a bigger boat.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
So fucking true. Like any other guy, I got catfished before. It was all close-up profile pics, tight angles to not show too much body, etc. It was a learning experience when a massive whale showed up where I was going to meet her. I just took off, honestly repulsed.
The amount of delusion that has to be going through her brain about this, "If I lie, he'll just overlook all these folds and corpulent sagging flesh." just boggles my mind.
When I was out of shape, I knew I was fucking fat. There was no hiding it from myself. I know women are somehow wired to deny reality to some extent, but still - how the fuck do you look in the mirror and say to yourself, "oh yeah, I'm HOT".
So to those women, yes I am definitely "unapproachable" because I won't give them a single iota of validation. Even being polite is dangerous with these types, as they misconstrue any decent social behavior with "He is SO into me".
SHUDDER
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
What's hilarious is that the women usually making a big deal out of or otherwise blathering on about physical attractiveness....well, let's just say they're usually being gross hypocrites at best, and completely ignoring that men get to have their own standards in that regard too. And most men aren't going to get hard enough at the sight of FETID GUNT to be able to use their dick as a crowbar to get past that blubber.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
GUNT, lol - As you may already know, FUPA is applicable as well. Makes me think of an older video, back when humor and mocking shit wasn't "problematic". Lemme see here...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiUxt3hTi7A 1.4 Million views from 2008. Couldn't find it on the original site, which means its probably dead/taken down.
I still laugh so hard when I rewatch this vid.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
First question: how much does she weigh?
Until we've established a baseline everything else is window dressing.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yup, though no matter where the start point is, she's clearly trying to punch above her weight class. If fat, she needs to lose weight. If bitch, needs to lose attitude. If fat bitch, needs to lose both.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She has already proved that she is a bitch.
The jury is currently debating whether she is fat, but she already has a conviction for bitch.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
None of your business, you fat-o-phobe.
So much of society is fat-o-phobic: The media. the fashion industry, this woman's obesity specialist, the dude who reads the dial whenever she goes to the livestock weigh station... the list goes on.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Luckly, not all is lost. Do you know who loves fat chicks? McDonalds. Dunkin' Donuts. IHOP. Fat girls will always have their safe spaces.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
= She is unnattractive
CreatineTrihydrate 1y ago
yeah, sounds very plausible
+might be known in community and have a cock stamp-burned on her arm
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This is a bigger one than most people are willing to discuss. Top tier men and even middling tier men aren't going to feel impelled to make much of any effort for a woman that is clearly only taking an interest in him because he's higher than her on the totem pole. Especially if she has a track record of being the drunken moped ride for the entire town already as she keeps trying and failing to punch above her weight class.
Why invest in a woman whose interest is clearly fickle and will be withdrawn the moment a better option (obtainable or not) shows up in the local social circle? She could check every other green flag box, but that behavioral model by itself is a black flag.
And for the peanut gallery, this behavior is also why one should be very suspicious of any woman "making a fresh start" in a new social circle with a clearly wiped and sanitized past where she brings no social connections to vet her with. Odds are she got black flagged for the above behavior in her old community and is in need of new suckers to prey upon.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’s pretty common sense to me. Who wants to date a woman when your friends know all about her insides?
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yep, not that I consider myself 'top tier' or anything. But I agree that any visible flags just kill any interest I might have had.
One quick story, was hanging at a bar and this chick sits next to me. I glance over while she's talking to a friend and see she's got that old reliable red flag of a 'tramp stamp'. Didn't help that the makeup was caked on, either. She wasn't a muffin top wearing tight jeans, but when I saw that tattoo I just turned away and didn't look again.
In a way I'm glad it was so visible, she was wearing something that rode up and made it easy to spot. Saved me a lot of energy better spent on another girl.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Btw, the fact that you saw that tramp stamp was not 'an accident'. I had a woman tell me once that everything you see on a woman (boob flash, cleveage, gunt, fupa, nipples etc) is a carefully considered action on the part of the woman.
She carefully picked that top when she was getting dressed to go out (this is why it takes ages for women to get ready) so that she would be sure that guys at the bar would see her tramp stamp.
Why? Simple - its slut signalling. She has learned through experience that men hit on women with tramp stamps more than women without them...because it's a reliable indicator that she is
that last one is very important. Before I invest my precious time in talking to some vacuous, brain-brain female, I need to be assured that there are decent odds that I will be burying my pork sword in her sticky love tunnel within a couple of hours. Otherwise, I'm not going to talk to her. I want her to demonstrate that she makes poor decisions, so that I can be one of her poor decisions.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Absolutely, appreciate the breakdown.
You are right, I was so put off by her in general I didn't engage. I'm sure if I just applied a slight bit of convo I could've been her next "mistake" lol.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
for sure.
When a woman is at at bar, and her tramp stamp is showing, she is advertising that she is a slut. What do sluts want? Cock.
It's a very simple non-verbal signal. Animals do it all the time.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yeah it's one of the few good things to come of anti-shaming culture along with social media and body mods.
The unsuitables out themselves with almost no effort expended on your part beyond merely paying attention.
If we didn't have a Welfare/Nanny State removing the short term consequences of their stupidity and enabling them to multiply, the above would actually be an excellent mechanism for some good old social darwinism.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's 5'7", so does 5'8-9" count or is it important that he is still taller than her even when she wears those 6 inch heels?
Is she is really willing to date a guy that only she finds attractive even if none of her friends find him attractive, cos preselection is a key part of attraction for many women.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Well, she can't feel very feminine & protected when the dude is only two inches taller than her. DUH! Nothing makes you feel safer than looking up into a dude's armpit.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The final line is all we need to hear, this is an unattractive woman, who we can tell from the context of her post gets plenty of options, all of which she dislikes. She however is focused on other women who are able to get higher quality guys than she can, indeed, I’d bet she’s fat and unattractive, only fat women ever consider actually approaching men, so when she says they are unapproachable she means “I’m the pushy fat girl who goes to parties and clubs and hovers around attractive guys, I try making moves but they reject me, now, I’m considering hitting on them when they are high or intoxicated.”
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
She just wants 3 things: "Good", "tall" and "attractive."
She isn't picky, she's even willing to delete the "good" criteria, so long as he's tall and attractive.
Hell, he doesn't even need to be that tall if he's a clone of Tom Cruise!
Kreaton01 1y ago
So funny how she won't give any details about herself, because the fault is definitely with men.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
She's perfect the way she is; she just needs a "good man"** to love her unconditionally, warts and all.
**Some conditions may apply in the lower 48 states; other conditions may apply in Alaska, Hawaii and Puerto Rico.
Gilles 1y ago
Braindead cow doesn't understand what she's attracted to. What's new?
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
1) You have no idea what "genuinely good" is. You have no idea what "good morals" are. And "kind" is womanese for "always does what I want".
2) To feel feminine, it helps greatly to be feminine. A real woman doesn't need a tall man to look feminine - she acts and looks like a Lady, which is something you will never be. Instead you blame men for not making you feel small.
3) A real woman is always interested in sex - with her husband, her only sexual partner for life. Because she is loyal and has never experienced any other man, she cannot compare and therefore he is her Alpha and Beta. Comparison is the thief of joy. Whores can never be happy sexually.
Also: You don't even care about the man, you care about the opinions of other women and your status in the pecking order. If you can score a good-looking man (to them) your status goes up. You care more about your status among women than you do about being a good wife to a good man (not that you have any idea what that means).
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
If he ticks these two boxes then he must be:
Three: Unapproachable