Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
DextroShade
Posted 2mo ago in Damaged Goods - Permalink - Locked - 1.5K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
"Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will."
-Socrates
When women complain about the way that men treat her, understand these truths:
There are men in her life that have and do treat her well... And she isn't attracted to them.
Most women don't see men as men. The only men they register are men who are sexually attractive and socially viable.
A woman complaining about jerks is performance theater - it's her attempt to paint herself as an unwitting damsel beset on all sides by unscrupulous men who seek to take advantage of her, an attempt to absolve herself of the responsibility that comes with her freedom to choose.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
There’s a huge thread on Twitter right now wherein a woman claims that it’s impossible to know if any particular guy will be a good father. Someone responded that perhaps we should bring back arranged marriages then. I agree with your post, only men can find ourselves in a state where we’ve no options, women always have options such that their complaints are always complaints about men they’ve picked / desperately want. As for point number 2 in your post, I agree, it explains so much female behavior and if I’d known it back in high school, I’d have saved myself a lot of grief embarrassment. During the Cold War US policy in Europe was “Keep Germany down and the Russia out.”, modern feminism is “Keep Chad down/ under control and keep all other males away.”
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
It isn't impossible to tell - women just fucking suck at it. They don't look at the things that make men good fathers and select for it, as evidenced by the men they choose to have babies for.
The reason arranged marriages work 96% of the fucking time is because it removes a woman's vagina tingles from the equation and puts the decision in the hands of people who can think straight and make objective decisions about the quality of a man...other men.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Indeed, I could start a consulting service with a money back guarantee where I advise women as to which guy in their life will actually make a good father and husband. It’d be as easy as avoiding the guys with priors and those who’ve masses of children with other women whom they never see. The issue would be that none of the guys actually qualify as “men”.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I find it funny when women get pregnant by men who have multiple children that they don't give a fuck about then act shocked when it happens to them.
wswZtyqNGQ 2mo ago
She needs a forehead tattoo that reads "not capable of relationship".
Cukc 2mo ago
Gropes her - disgusting
Spreads her legs - unbelievable.
Obviously there are problems in this relationship, but if she stays in it, she is trully fucked. SHe has super low standards, thinks she can't do better anymore or risks landing on a street.
She should blame people that convinced her she is some demi-god, including feminists and politicians.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2mo ago
Pray tell, in precisely what way is a man wanting to touch and have sex with his girlfriend "disgusting" or "unbelievable?"
Bear in mind we're only getting one side of the story from a woman who, by her own admission, has more baggage than Queen Elizabeth II going on a tour of the Commonwealth.
It's certainly possible this dude is every bit the asshole her account of him portrays. It's also patently obvious this woman is heavily invested identifying as a helpless victim to whom bad things "just happen" with no contribution or possibility of affecting the outcome on her end. Neither scenario precludes the other but the presence of the latter should make you take anything she says to the effect to the effect of the former with an asteroid-sized grain of salt.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Sweet Christ.
Bullshit term that supposedly means they don't experience regular, normal sexual attraction, but rather only after "forming an emotional bond", and used as an excuse by frigid bints not to put out while stringing the guy along for attention, free meals, etc.
Either she "emotionally bonded" with all those men awfully fast and didn't mind severing those bonds the very next day, or like I said: "demisexual" is a bullshit term.
I hope he cheats and/or leaves.
Well, then give him action or risk losing him to someone who will.
Oddest-One-Here 2mo ago
Translation: I am demisexual that wants to wait when it comes to non-tingle inducing betas, but when it comes to Chads, I am sooo down to fucking as soon as possible.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Thanks for the elaboration, never heard of 'demisexual' before.
In her case, more like 'nanosexual' - as in, the nanosecond it takes for her to hop off a dick and go to the next one.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
"demisexual" probably is their fancy way of demanding traditional romance: The man should "woo" her with gifts and attention until she "feels comfortable", oh wait, then hops into bed within a day with one bad boy after another. Most modern single women probably state they're "demisexual" in one form or another rather than admit they follow a similar pattern.
@lurkerhasarisen In the past back in my grandmother's era (a century ago), if a woman had genuinely gone through all of this they'd be advised similar to what today's men hear: "Get over it, fast". When someone asks a man today: "Who hurt you?", it's not due to their concern to help and treat the man with gentleness. She probably has a BDSM fetish of sorts.
Pilgrim 2mo ago
“Demisexual” is a nonsense term made up by a teenager on roleplaying forums in 2004 that has been credibility-washed into an “identity”.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
And my gut reaction when I hear that bullshit from them is "Don't try and church it up, son. Don't you mean Joe Dirt?".
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2mo ago
Genuinely feel bad for her infancy PTSD but other than that damn, she needs to have an epiphany and get her shit together or be comfortable staying for the stress forever
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Fuck that, no.
I don't feel bad for these broken women who want patience and understanding because that blade doesn't cut both ways.
As men, women expect us to come to them fully healed and established - they have no sympathy for men, our struggles, or the things we endure.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2mo ago
She’s a basket case, and I question the validity of her claims. It’s very chic to be a trauma survivor, with bonus points if the alleged trauma was during childhood or was long-term.
My wife grew up with two sisters, and one of them claims to have a whole basket of mental maladjustments from pervasive childhood trauma, and has self-diagnosed as having CPTSD. The three girls were born in quick succession, so their upbringings were virtually identical, and my wife and her other sister are mystified at her assertions. Simply put: the claims my SIL makes are entirely fabricated. Those things simply Did. Not. Happen. The three of them shared a bedroom, for crying out loud.
If polygraphs were legitimate, I would put money on my SIL being able to pass. She genuinely believes things that cannot be true.
So when I see some woman tossing around the kinds of claims that generate strong, immediate emotional responses, my spidey-sense starts to tingle.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I agree, while a real horrific event does matter - these bints just hop on the popularity bandwagon with 'trauma' and how every single guy is 'abusive' to them, which usually boils down to him not tolerating her stupid slutty ways.
Its why I find TikTok useful, even though its a wasteland of bullshit. It shows you exactly what the hivemind is into, and it isn't good.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
Translation: "Everything I have to say is ego feeding drivel and not to be taken seriously".
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
She needs a white shirt with long sleeves, not relationship advice. And yet, the same people who spread mental awareness in their social media will be sharing this story as an example of a strong woman who survived adversity instead of someone who needs some severe intervention.
Also, I'm not 100% convinced her boyfriend is real. Maybe none of them were.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Is too! You just don't know him! He lives in Canada!