Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4mo ago Stickied
This has been posted at WAATGM twice before that I'm aware of:
First time
Second time
It's been plenty long enough to have it here again!
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4mo ago
sorry for the duplicate post! I didn't remember seeing it here so thought it would be a good one :-)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4mo ago
Oh, it is a good one! And two years is plenty of time gone by to have it again (as you know, 6 months is minimum).
Sometimes it's also fun to go through the previous iterations and see all the old comments.
Oddest-One-Here 4mo ago
It has been 6 and a half years since that article came out, even the youngest woman featured is 48 if not 49 years old now, and the oldest is 60, which means that unless they settled in the meantime, they all are forever single post-menopausal women who hit the Wall back in the 20th century, I hope they still earning good money cos that's all they will ever have.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Age tends to not be as nice to women in the workforce, since their jobs tend to trend towards ones where personal marketability and branding is important and less towards “we don’t care if you look like Gollum, you know how to write production code for this system”. They might not have the same pep in their sales call pitches as they did when they were pretty 20-somethings.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I don’t have time to fully break down this article with quotes but it is truly wild. Chock full of projection. Almost every statement is equally if not more valid if you reverse the genders. Especially if you talk about women in their 20s and 30s. I was flabbergasted reading it. Like the bit about men’s relationships overlapping and them moving straight on. I think most know this isn’t true
Anecdotal only but every partner I’ve had has left me, blindsided me and had someone else line up very quickly. Same with my brother. Granted in my case the women had been left. So maybe it is actually quite equal but let’s not pretend it’s all men doing the overlaps here. There is a reason there are so many videos there about men being blindsided by divorce
The real reason for the bias in this article is subtly snuck in there. The author is also one of these “mid life dating” women
This whole thing reminds me of the woman I posted about the other day who was complaining about the men on dating apps all being ugly when she is no looked and is at least in her 40s and going through a divorce
The only half reasonable option in that article is the red head. But read closer - she has been single since 36 after her divorce. Unlike the other divorce I don’t remember if saying he left her. Without that specificity it means she left him. And then wasted 6 more years almost certainly Chad chasing. You can tell by her looks and her height. Almost certainly a height queen and that will have torpedoed her chances. Why would an eligible man well over 6ft settle for someone in their late 30s or early 40s who has been divorced and might have kids (most of the women blended together after a while).
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
An old article, probably posted here before. I like how it ends in that the article states the women simply need to (gasp) actually earn a literal living:
"But Jo Hemmings says we can still take heart. Her advice is to go online frequently, make the approach, don’t rule out meeting people in real life and be as socially active as you can. ‘Knowledge is power, so get the determination to take charge,’ she says. ‘You’ve got to make the choice to be that one woman in seven. It’s tough but possible.’"
There are no (true) inspins. The vast majority of them can marry decent men, even highly above average men, if they merely put in a fraction of the effort an average young man in his 20's has to make.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Lady, you should be a grandmother at this point. Give it up, it's over.
Beautiful? Even if she were top tier for her age, she's still not 20-27 years old. Why the fuck would I sign up for, at best, 5 years of fun before it all goes to shit?
Independent? See also: "bitch"
She's 48, and still wanting a top tier man. How's that plan working out cupcake?
They keep trying to tell us she looks good. Men are the ones that determine that, and her results say that we disagree.
That's what they call old bitches who don't act their age.
The funny thing is, that eligible men probably are. Her problem is that she thinks she's above those men.
Lol so lying about age is delusional, but only when men do it?
Yes, the gall of him:
"AFTER. MY. DIVORCE." This dumb bitch managed to stick the landing, but then go over to the judges table, punch the Russian judge, give the finger to the American judge, and burn a Quran.
I wonder if she misses her husband.
This bitch knows how calendars work, right?
Because they got married. Or, in the case of your ex, got divorced and realized that there's a whole market of ex wives that will take dick in the 4th hole just for another shot at marriage and have decided to play the field indefinitely.
Oh that's cool. Yeah, I hope gay men get the message soon...women do not like, value, or respect you.
And you're - well - fucking old.
They have a lot going for them that men don't want and they earned it at the expense of trading away the things we do want. Oh well, sucks to suck, GG no RE.
Edit: this little blurb sums up the entire fucking problem:
Not "women should offer men what they want instead of telling men to accept what they get". Not "women should accept that the change in the market means they have to change their expectations." Not "you have to accept that you missed your window." Not even "Maybe don't implode your marriages, you hypergamous hussies."
No, it's the men that need to change. It's the men that are expected to abandon any and all preferences. And by men, I don't just mean anyone with a Y-chromosome... Because to those women, only the top tier of men are seen as "men". They want these men to say "I'm going to ignore the vast and abundant supply of more attractive and less damaged women and choose you, because you want - no, deserve - it."
Fuck them. Selfish whores.
Oddest-One-Here 4mo ago
A healthy 50 year old almost certain can breed if the mother is young and fertile, heck a 65 year old man can still do it (as rare as that may be), but a 50 year old woman giving birth to a healthy baby without IVF, it is game over for 99.99999% of women that age.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 4mo ago
I remember that article. Let’s pretend that I’m me but not married.
I’m close to the age that the matchmaker told them they should be looking (not quite 63, but getting there). Financially solvent? I own my house and cars outright. I make six figures and I am completely debt free. My annual passive income alone is tens of thousands of dollars more than my expenses. Life experience? I have an advanced degree and I’ve taught at the graduate level. I have a multi-decade track record as a fantastic husband. I’ve had a fascinating life in which I’ve done things most people only see in movies. I’ve lived in four countries on two continents, and I’ve visited about 20 countries on five continents. Physically? My abs look like a washboard, I deadlift well over twice my body weight, I’m freakishly flexible, and I have the stamina of a man half my age (IYKWIM). I don’t smoke, I rarely drink, and I don’t take drugs. Vices? I probably spend too much time on the internet, and I’m not much of a social butterfly. Baggage? Nothing of note.
I wouldn’t give any of those women a second glance. Not one of them is “beautiful” despite the writer (mis)using that word half a dozen times. Those pictures were taken by professional photographers after the women spent hours getting their hair and makeup done by professional beauticians, and they still look average at best even for their age. I shudder to think what they look like first thing in the morning.
And we haven’t even gotten to their copious baggage and their crappy attitudes. I would be stooping to spend an evening with any of them, yet every one would consider herself to be settling to be with a man my age (even though I doubt any of them could keep up with me for more than a few minutes on a hiking date). The reality is that I could be with women who are superior to them in every way, while they describe the men they can get in the most derogatory terms.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
It's almost as though men get more independent with age, and women get more dependent with age.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
But but but! That’s not what the delusional author says. She insists in a fit of projection that it’s the other way around !!
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
What's funny to me is without knowing their ages, in the first group pic the one on the far right was the 'best'. I use that loosely, because I wouldn't go for any of them, but the one I would pick if someone forced me to is also the youngest of the group, lol.
But no, we've been "indoctrinated" to go for younger women. Oh fuck off, you silly cunts.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
One of the most classic articles ever.
It’s not that the men these women want don’t exist. But they simply are
1) already married 2) seeking younger women 3) not in the dating market 4) treating them as a P&D option only
AlwaysStoic 4mo ago
I know a woman like this. a 38 year old Inspin. She claims that she never found someone who 'matched' up to her. She is average looking and the wrinkles are now visible. While she seems to be proud of her 'career', she has an MBA from a mediocre school and works in sales. So, it's not as big a career that she thinks it is. Was laid off during the pandemic too (lol). As ever, she claims that no man was ever 'interesting enough' for her to get married to. As usual, it is female cope, given the CEO she wants to settle down with, wouldn't give her a second look. Far too many women like these have been spawned since these creatures are celebrated simply for having a job.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Ouch. Sales is a tough racket, and you have to make your pile there and move on unless you are a natural superstar. Very few are, so the turnover is high. I think her position is very vulnerable to the slightest economic downturn, and there's plenty of data to suggest it is coming, if not by March, very likely from June onward.
Her wrinkly face won't be doing her any favors either, since its such a game of charisma and confidence.
But I'm sure she mentally thinks she's a '10' in her cohort, and why are all these men missing out?! lolol
AlwaysStoic 4mo ago
Oh she is very much vulnerable to the slightest downturn and funnily she's in tech sales, so I expect tough times for her in the coming months. Anyway, hot 25 -28 year olds can do her job just as well and perhaps at half the salary. Fun!!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
My father, RIP, was a salesman for lifesavers candy back in the 1970 and 1980's. Back then, the goal of a salesman was to offer incentives to store managers to get more shelf space and move product. He ate his lunch out of his car with a thermos. He made good money and worked for the same firm (even after it was acquired by Nabisco and later RJR) for about 30 years. In his last few years, he won salesman of the entire country and went to awards ceremonies in Hawaii also also Phoenix where he later retired but died about 6 years later, about a year after collecting his first social security check.
It was a tough job and the strain it took on his was apparent and contributed to his early death but his diet, drinking and smoking probably didn't help much either.
Women are natural salespeople but nonetheless, it's amazing how men persisted in the field (at least when I was growing up). A friend of mine back in the mid-80's decided to try his hand at selling hoover vacuum cleaners door-to-door. A bunch of college age kids were trained and sent out but none of the guys cut it but the pretty college girl managed to sell a dozen of them her first week.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
They're single because they are worthless parasites and it is obvious to any man worth a damn.
Born with a vagina. Cheat code among cheat codes for being able to obtain comfortable life. Vagina, the thing that men build houses, cities, and nations and wage wars over....all to improve their chances of getting laid and having kids of their own.
Women need to understand that men aren't normally productive and successful for shits and giggles. Don't believe me? Just look at any man that has given up on women. He will produce the bare minimum for self sustainment, if that. Men don't find fulfillment in being unpaid butlers and success objects. They have to get something back that they want. But if a woman has it, they will practically beat down her door if the asking price is worth it.
So any woman that has to ask where are the good men, is basically confessing that she is worthless and a parasite. Because she was born with a massive trump card and is still managing to lose. And losing so badly that decent men are avoiding her.
The women in the article are high-key gold diggers just looking for an easy retirement fund. The problem is they aren't good looking/young enough for that strategy to work anymore within their age bracket. They're fucking ugly compared to the same version of themselves even 10 years younger and the have nothing else to offer that is an improvement over a younger version of themselves either. So if they want a man at all, they need to literally start looking in retirement homes for 70+ year old men whose dick and eyes may or may not still work.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 4mo ago
Hey, I resemble that!
In all honesty, I do slightly more than the bare minimum, if only because I appreciate the value of saving for a rainy day. Beyond seeing my needs met and establishing a reasonable buffer, though? Nah. I value my free time more than I do the extra money I could be making.
That said, I still have the same "protection and provision" programming as every other dude. I've been with a couple women who treated me well and unlocked that and, for them, I willingly went above and beyond. More to the point, I genuinely enjoyed doing it. I'd do it again, and happily so, under the right circumstances. I don't want to be alone, I'm just not willing to put in all the effort and jump through all the hoops simply to have a chance at moving up to the next level (forget winning the game). She's gonna' have to show a little agency and demonstrate some value on her end.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Oh yeah. My main point is women need to realize that if they want protection and provisioning from men, even indirectly, they need to show up with more than a vagina, baggage, and demands.
Failure to do so results in men flicking the switch on their programming off.
Mehiho 4mo ago
women can smell men is insecure, man can smell there is no eggs left, he can be attracted to shape, but might not get up as his brain is telling him: don't waste your seed mate; his sperm buddy is telling him: don't send me there, I beg you, at the end of that tunnel, there is a cold chamber, it is empty, sad and scary, and 10% of my life I will spend there on my own
Yeah I agree it is sad that they didn't manage to get wife googles to this point and when they are looking at intertitle women they have no biological drive to please them anymore. Try to mate him with your daughter just for a trial to see is he really with no life left ot it is you.
They should. They have never cared about any men anyway, so they can as well be slurping semen from table top, being used till the end of the days.
Men are drawn to fertile beautiful chicks. Young men are aiming for easy lay and no fuss slut.
Yep we are not exactly happy, yet we are still throwing bad deal under the bus, after being served few times in disposable relationship. More often then not it means we were not positively surprised by woman being pleasant to be around, since her empty cold chamber can't provide anything else.
yes you do. You know that all you are for him is fun cum-dumpster, so for a month you are trying your best not to be nagging bitch, no to scare him away, then it comes the real date, where you show your ugly face and character from first minutes. You have never trained yourself for relationship, you have no clue how to act to make it happen. Start to play a guitar and at the same time take a relationship training - once you will be able to play Santana's - Smooth, you will be ready for both :)
here we go, she knows, she is just cum dumpster, but can't call it what it really is.
we'are not interested how much baggage you get from 300 notches, we are interested how much of this baggage you bring on first date, surely the bigger baggage you have, the harder it is to seat at a small table, while all those ghosts of yours are trying to join
instead of shaming of men, focus on not being cum-dumpster, this is modern meaning of cougar
meh, all sentences in this thing could be commented on
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Honestly I think women uglify so quickly because its nature's way of saying 'hey, no eggs stupid'.
Just makes sense, really. If all women stayed hot until death, there would be misallocation of resources and time, to put it politely. Not so great for the future of the human race.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I have read that theory before and it makes sense. There would be less men chasing fertile women then the human race would go extinct. We kinda see that now with young men chasing and banging cougar's and the proliferation of MILF porn. But thankfully, the biological reality of wanting to have children and every male's preference to want to bang younger and hotter puts those old women in the pump and dump category.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Biology is real and a harsh bitch. The realities is that a woman has a fertility window and with fertility window is when men find them the most attractive. When that fertility expires, it's GONE! There is no denying this biological fact. That begs the question: what did you do with the last 30 years of your life??????
30 years is a VERY LONG TIME
No-Stress-Cat 4mo ago
Projection at it's finest. Have another sip of wine, dear. Can I offer you another cat?
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Thanks for the cat-kebab
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
This post is great: It works on two levels.
Level 1: we can all joke around about the level of delusion, how these women think they are hot when they are not, we can rage a bit about the blatant misandry and gender discrimination on show etc.
But the really informative bit is what is happening in level 2.
In level 2 we see a complete failure of women (collectively and individually) to do any analysis at all. None of them are even close to asking the sort of questions that might be of any help at all. Things like;
And the really big question:
Why am I just never asking the right questions, just instead hanging out with women who are also failures, just talking shit about men, and demanding that men change, rather than asking the right questions and actually doing some real fucking analysis?
Conclusion: women never actually mature. They never, ever do the self analysis that would be required in order to address a problem. They are fundamentally incapable of rational self analysis that might involve even a little bit of genuine self awareness. They remain stuck at a mental age 13 their entire lives, even as they age into their 50s and beyond.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Depends on how you define the word "mature". I think a separate definition is needed for women. Women can become great wives and mothers and homemakers if certain conditions are met, and in that sense I would call a woman "mature" as far as she is capable. We can't go around expecting women to be the mental equals of men, but if they find their proper place in life and stay in it, life can be good. Obviously the more time she spends on other pursuits is detrimental to her maturation as a woman. A college degree, for instance, is not only useless, but 20 steps backward.
I agree, they are not capable of self-analysis, which is exactly why a "mature" woman will first go to her husband for advice and "self-awareness". In other words, a mature woman knows her weaknesses and leans on her husband for guidance, analysis, and solutions instead of blaming him for everything.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
There are many women that make a success of their lives, this is true. My mother, her grandmother for example.
When you analyse the most successful women, you will see a pattern. They lived under the guidance and protection of a patriarchy. My mother was protected and guided my grandfather, and then handed over to my father who carried on that role. She raised 5 kids, was a part time teacher and kept a large house. She has a full life and was very happy. No divorce, no drama, no tragedy, no bullshit, no inspin tears, no regrets.
Women can mature into a successful wives and mothers, but this requires the protection and guidance of a loving man.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I'm also arguing that this is the only way for a woman to be defined as "successful".