Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
AlwaysStoic
Posted 3mo ago in Chasing Chad - Permalink - Locked - 2.4K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 3mo ago Stickied
I'm late to the party on this one but, for the sake of sparing the vision of any future readers, I'm going to transcribe the OP here into readable text.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3mo ago
This is perfect for that "They're the Same Picture" meme from The Office, since she is trying to make this short term "relationship" seem more meaningful by repackaging it with different words. Perhaps if no sex is involved, she could claim it is somehow different, but I am going to doubt this will be the case since she still wants to have a "relationship" with a man who clearly stated that he will be out of the picture soon. I really doubt that if she is still interested despite claiming she is "not looking for anything casual." So it is a safe bet that she has the tingles for this man, and is not going to be refraining from sex.
It is not surprising that she is still single, as she shows that she was not all that serious about finding a relationship in the first place when she had not "decentered men" in her life. Women who are serious about finding a long term relationship are not spending a moment of time with a man who they know will not be available to them long term. And given that he was clear about him not being available, there is no "he lied about wanting something more" excuse available here. Perhaps this is just one data point, but given she is still willing to do this, this is evidence against her ever being serious about finding commitment.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Good lord. That's a lot of
Let me run it through the Mansplainer 400 (with fully integrated Womanese translation tech)
"I am a feminist slut, that wants to reject the patriarchy, but I still somehow 'need a man' (debt, incapable of adulting, existentialist dread re. a future with no man to look after me). Sadly for me, men don't want me anymore because I am a toxic cunt plus I've aged out of the CC. So I'm going to use 'reasons' to justify slutting around. How am I doing sisters?"
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3mo ago
Nice. And if you run her history through Mansplainer 400, here's what you get:
I slutted around for years as my feminist teaching taught me to do, but somehow it didn't lead to the happiness that was promised. So I decided to "decenter men" which means, I still fucked them, but I stopped even trying to get any emotional intimacy from them. IOW, you can't fire me, I quit! I tried doing the AF/BB thing only substituting women for the BB, essentially fucking hot guys still, and then using the "sisterhood" to satisfy my emotional needs. But it turns out women can't actually replace men in my life, so I resolved to look for a Real Relationship(tm). That's why I downloaded Hinge instead of Tinder (j/k I never deleted Tinder :-).
I resolved to "settle down" and become more "mature", but I used the same strategy of swiping only on hot guys. Really, I didn't need to change my own values, preferences, behavior, etc. I just needed to change apps! I found this hot guy, but turns out, he's actually just a fuckboi just like the guys on Tinder. And now, I need to figure out a way to fuck him for 25 days while still convincing myself I've moved on from being a shallow, vapid hoe. I've gotten pretty far by twisting and repurposing all the concepts I half-learned during my years of therapy, but I'm not fully there yet. My brain is still sending signals of vague dissatisfaction with my rationalizations. Ladies, can you please help my hamster complete its task so I can fuck this guy and not feel so damn guilty?
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3mo ago
That OP post was like reading your typical long-winded AskTRP but with female hamstering instead
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago
Haha
DextroShade 3mo ago
She could have just skipped all that writing and just said she's for the streets.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
But.....if a relationship is 25 days long...its an LTR, right? Right??
NotASlut #SeriousRelationshipsOnly #NoHookUps #DatingWithApurpose
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3mo ago
25.5 days to be precise. Hate to say it but that's just short enough that she is having a short term relationship and not an LTR.
Streets.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3mo ago
Isn't it beautiful seeing that hamster work hard?
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3mo ago
That was a bit too much for me; not even cambodian kids sewing Nikes are exploited this much.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
We need workers rights for the hamsters. They are getting worked to death.
No-Stress-Cat 3mo ago
#ImAfuckingSlutAndProudOfIt
I do find it interesting there seems to be some kind of stigma in referring to a slutfest as a "situationship". I wonder what that's all about.
"I dOn'T kNoW wHaT tHiS iS, bUt iT iS NOT a SiTuAtiOnShiP!!!"
You are correct. It's a SLUTFEST.
EmpireCrimson 3mo ago
I continue to find humor in all of the word-salad that is created to justify their behavior. If it were edible, western women could feed the world and justly take credit for their contribution to society.
Instead we get to read (on a computer network and website engineered by men, along with her Macbook or iPhone) about how she "de-centered" men, finds "love" from her girlfriends, and then takes relationship advice from Nikki Giovanni (who mind you, had a child out of wedlock, was castigated by her peers for doing so, and later became a lesbian) to embark on a journey to lock down a guy who she barely knows and is only in town for a month.
At the end she acknowledges that she isn't asking an actionable question, but is looking for validation from the same hive-mind that has guided many, if not all, of the bad decisions she's made when dealing with men. You really can't make this stuff up.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago
Why is this so blurred, did you photograph the screen with a potato?
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 3mo ago
You reminded me of something profound that I read the other day, and I want to share it:
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago
Wise words indeed
AlwaysStoic 3mo ago
Desktop screenshot, hence had to zoom out to fit it all in one screenshot. I wasn't sure if multiple screenshots could be posted as images.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago Stickied
https://getpaint.net/
It's free and lets you paste images together.
Come on dude.... basic computer skills.
AlwaysStoic 3mo ago
Thanks. Will use next time. Just used lightshot to get the screen shot.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
On the plus side, the blurring discouraged me from reading her post. Judging by others' comments, it was filled with claptrap.
So... win.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3mo ago
@AlwaysStoic
I've used paint dot net extensively. It's actually pretty good
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3mo ago
I use the regular Paint. I take a screenshot using Windows' snipping tool, past it to Paint, rinse and repeat.
@AlwaysStoic
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago
I use StitchIt! from my phone, and it's been mostly good. I'll also check that one out in case it's better.
CC: @AlwaysStoic
AlwaysStoic 3mo ago
Will check it out next time I come across such a word salad.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago
StitchIt! is mobile-only, as far as I know.
Matty's suggested program is desktop-only, from what I've seen so far at the website.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
"I've followed all the hivemind programming fueled by self-sabotaging girlbosses, and I'm still not haaaaaaaapppyyy"
Feminutz was never about women, maybe in the dusty old times for voting, but other than that its all been downhill.
I don't know what the future holds, maybe a crash in birthrate and all the problems that result from economies imploding is what it will take, I'm not sure. I'd prefer not to age out in a scenario where things are getting 'real', but it may be unavoidable.
Men will be fine, they grind it out every day without validation/praise, so collectively we're mentally there anyway. What I think will be interesting is how the hivemind and the collective amplified insanity of unbridled female 'choice' turns out. Will it ignite in a large conflagration and take down society with it? A slow whimper where women finally get their heads out of their asses and wise up?
Still, not sure - but I know either way its going to be quite a show.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3mo ago
In the event of a collapse, women will have to either adapt or perish. Those that adapt will have to abandon any feminist attitudes and not be henpecking harpies towards men, but rather be sweet, feminine and submissive to be able to survive. I would expect most women would choose the adapt option rather than the perish option, as even the least intelligent animals can figure out self-preservation.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago
That's a lot of words to say "I want sex, and he's hawt".
Same as any rambling nonsense from a woman, whether spoken or written: because they can't process thoughts or feelings silently, but have to engage in violent verbal vomit in order to process them.
Meta/mod note: since she isn't seeking commitment, this doesn't meet rule 5. However, today is MLK Day, so why not extend weekend rules for the day?