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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Epiphany Phase

"Feminism ruined my life!!!!! "Woman blows up her marriage at 30 to ride the CC. Now at 38 she wants a husband and kids and realizes she had it all and threw it all away. She blames Feminism for leading her astray. She denounces Feminism and says she was betrayed.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied

Mod note:

Normally this post and some of the comments so far would be removed, as we take great pains to protect the various Carols' anonymity. Relevant rules from the WAATGM sidebar:

4) No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source subreddit or website or you will be banned

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However, at this point, this particular Carol has gone viral, and her information is everywhere across the internet. Her identity is compromised hundreds of times over across multiple platforms, and has been for several days.

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If any of the WAATGM mods recognize any usernames at any of her social media, those usernames will be banned from here under our rule 4.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

Not sure what dumpling face is crying about. She wanted to be a SIW, and that she is. Come on girl, you got this! Just have a baby already.

Just be a SIW Single Mom, and then, when you are good and ready, go on OLD and post your profile, and you'll have your pick of tall, ripped multi millionaire chads that just cannot wait to wife you up and pay for you and your baby.

Because what high value men really, really want is a used up peri-menopausal dumpling face with a couple of bastard brats in tow, so that we can never have sex again and lose 260% of our net worth via divorce rape.

I get hard just thinking about it!

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

She chose feminism.

Every woman who decides to choose feminism does it in rebellion.

To quote Arthur Fleck - "You get what you fucking deserve!"

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Arthur Fleck.

Arthur Curry is Aquaman

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Thanks NERD

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

You are welcome :-) For what it’s worth - I did had to check the actual name. I just knew the Curry one was aquaman

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

Hey, long time no see.

Merry Christmas.

nerd! :D

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

It has been. Forgetting your password and also getting busy will do that

Thanks. Merry Christmas

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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

These vid links below tell the story better, but basically at 22 she had the marriage to a trad con man, the house, the rural community; the perfect setting for having a family. She had it all handed to her on a silver platter and she threw it all away. She thought she was missing out on life and that the square life she did had was stifling her and she wanted to explore and have fun. At 38, almost 39 biology and realization sets in and she realizes that NOW she wants marriage and children. Of course she also realizes that she HAD the marriage to the right man and the social, financial, and lifestyle setting to have that...and comes to the epiphany that she threw it all away.

Accountability and responsibility is truly a woman's kryptonite. Of course it isnt her fault that she is pushing middle age, single, begging the guy she is seeing to marry her and get her pregnant like yesterday, "Feminism ruined my life! IT'S ALL FEMINISM"S FAULT! I WAS LED ASTRAY!"

Some excerpts:

When Persling was 22, she married a traditional man and moved to a rural community in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, where she grew up. “He wanted a simple life with children and home-cooked meals,” she said. However, Persling – despite coming from a religious Christian background – made it clear to her husband-to-be that she did not want children. “At that time I felt very strongly I did not want children, that I wasn’t going to be like the traditional housewife. I knew I did want to pursue a career,” she told Fox News Digital in an interview. “And I felt very strongly that that would never change. And I guess I was wrong.” “I did little to hide my disdain for our small-town life. He was a good and hardworking man, but I don’t think I made him feel that way,” she said." “I told my friends and family I’d never get married again. I needed independence, a fulfilling career, and space to chart my own course, and I didn’t think marriage fit into that vision. I was content to look toward a future without a husband, children, or the trappings of a ‘traditional’ life,'” she wrote."

These two vids can tell the story better of her crying that it's all feminism's fault she is middle age and childless.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6LDmMTzvKI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycAy_dFq43w

This OP above was the original story and this post below was the response to the criticism she experienced: https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/321919/op_expresses_peak_cognitive_dissonance_after_a_bunch_of_peop

The post above shows her backpedaling all over the place with the "Being selfish isnt always a bad thing." A stark contrast to her before saying that her life sucks and it's all feminism's fault.

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Mein_Tarnaccount 1y ago

I needed [...] space to chart my own course,

Tell me you're a modern woman without telling me you're a modern woman: Throw away a meaningful life for platitudes.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago

There are empty platitudes, and that one is a goddamned vacuum.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I will say, As a black man™ that part of Idaho is to be avoided.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

Wait, Coeur d'Alene? It's a beautiful tourist town. I only ever passed through with brief stops, but it seemed very welcoming (yes, of everyone) like a typical tourist town.

For all that minorities were noticeably fewer than elsewhere, they seemed just fine.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago

You might want to steer clear of Hayden Lake, unless you really really vocally like being white.

Granted, my knowledge about such things might be about 2 decades out of date.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

Boo hoo?

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

I read her story. She says she enjoyed the CC, no regrets, and hopes she can pull off a beta bucks bailout. I appreciate how she feels. It's a tough choice: "Girls just wanna have fun" but she also wants reliability. Men, on the other hand, need to "man up" and just do the tough stuff without any thanks. In a manner of speaking, this is what "equality feminism" was all about from the start: The "ladies" wanted all the goodies of what men have, without the pesky responsibilities.

It took her 20 years of "selfishness" to get to this point? Tough. If men are "selfish" and wind up as losers, nobody bails us out, certainly not her. The numbers of Carols I see on various forums provides me with INFINITE content for this channel. It's like there's a whole army of aging millennial women whose eggs are going bad all at once.

"There's gonna be a lot of garbage today" -- Willy Wonka

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

In a manner of speaking, this is what "equality feminism" was all about from the start: The "ladies" wanted all the goodies of what men have, without the pesky responsibilities.

True, with one caveat. Never forget that feminism has always been based on the Apex Fallacy. They wanted all the goodies that the "top" men have, without the pesky responsibilities. (Note) They certainly wouldn't want to trade lives with coal miners, field workers, or military conscripts.

The Apex Fallacy and rights-without-responsibilities are not incidental to feminism, or restricted to one branch of feminism, or unique to one wave of feminism, or a perversion of "true" feminism. Those things define feminism.

(Note: I have recently taken to putting words like "top" in quotes, because the men that flighty young women find the most desirable are not necessarily the best men by any objective standard. I've known Chads who can't walk down the street without having panties thrown at them who I wouldn't trust as far as I could throw.)

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

One aspect of The Apex Fallacy that backfired on them was how 2nd wave feminism was largely led by privileged, delusional bourgeois housewives who claimed that their lives were so much less satisfying than those of astronauts, CEO's, and politicians that they compared themselves to as expressed in romcoms that featured women in glamorous office jobs pursued by wealthy men. Even back in my father's day, the workplace largely sucked for men although it did suck a lot less back then.

It astonishes me how so many millennials, including blue pilled men, fail to see how their own policies enabled The Patriarchy (as they see it), the wealthy white guys and corporate cronies, to lower wages, raise prices, and import cheap labor workers. I feel like I'm living in a post apocalyptic society that nobody realizes is post apocalyptic because it happened in such subtle stages. At least in Mad Max, everyone knows something happened.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

Yep... women entering the paid work force effectively doubled the number of workers in a very short period of time. It used to be that 40 hours of labor was enough to support a family. Now it takes 80 hours of labor.

There are some nuances to the math, and we all have some pretty amazing things now that didn't exist back then, but we're no happier for it. Women in particular are a good deal less happy now than they were then.

And why would we expect anything else? A SAHM in the 50s had her entire day to herself to perform a few easy chores, watch TV, and hang out with her friends. Her granddaughters spend all day having to please the men who sign their paychecks.

Way to go, ladies: you got played. But at least...

You've Come A Long Way, Baby!

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

One of the most hilarious cliches from them is how "I'm glad that I'm not in the 1950's where I couldn't get a credit card without a man" but practically nobody back then had credit cards at all. "Diner's Club" was a de-facto credit card that was taken by restaurants and then there were gas-station credit cards (which I remember) but plastic as we know it didn't take off until the 1960's. This reminds me of Hillary Clinton saying that NASA wrote to her when she was a child that "girls can't become astronauts" and NASA didn't even exist yet.

Of course, the reason why such women were denied loans and credit cards was because they'd cry to a judge "I'm a GIRL and I can't be held responsible because my CHILL-dren will suffer!" and back then, we didn't think it was normal to demand banks give out loans to people who don't pay them back (our economy has "progressed" so much since then hence the 2008 Real Estate Bubble and now car loans going into massive default.

I was thinking about buying a new car but now that the used car market bubble appears to be popping, I'm considering getting a luxury auto on the secondary market. I hate going through dealers, but if millions of repos have to go through auctions, a dealer will be the only one I can reliably procure one from.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Back in the day, women didn’t get credit because it was all the responsibility of the man. They could go to the store and get what they wanted, tied down to her husband’s ability to pay.

Of course, this meant that a woman might be accountable to her husband, who would be pissed if Macy’s called him up and demanded payment because his wife basically promised a blank check from his bank account. Now, instead of a $10,000 debt, it’s “just a $250/mo payment!” (That only covers interest and never dents the principal).

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

LINK TO STORY

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

She wanted to 'chart her own course'.

Mission accomplished.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Yup, she went on to author clickbaity articles on a website founded by a known scam artist!. Hope it was worth it!

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Zero fucks given.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

As used up sluts age out of the CC, they will latch onto anything that will provide clicks and likes. And this very mid wanna-be is now specialising in 'crying on demand' for clout among her post wall followers.

Look carefully at the two pictures (above thumbnails) that she chose for her post, and then remember that she is playing the SM game. As in, the more traction she gets, the more clicks, likes and swipes, the more she makes. In SM, you ONLY get paid for engagement. People get that wrong all the time - they think you get paid for 'making content' - nope, you get paid for 'generating engagement'. There's a subtle difference.

So, her only way to 'generate engagement' is to cry on demand in her own little post wall pity party.

She's an Inspin Tears Influencer.

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MovinCruisin 1y ago

Tearfluencer

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

I like it.

@Typ0_megaSHIT and I are going to create a very expensive cologne for men over 40s, which is basically made from the tears of inspins.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

I'll probably have a heart attack from sheer surprise if you ever manage to spell my username correctly and tag me.

Especially now that you seem to have given up completely lol

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

Tipo..... I leave little bread crumbs all over the site for you. It's more challenging for you to find them, and therefore more rewarding.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

As the guy who coined the word "inspin" I think I deserve a cut of the proceeds from the sales.

L'inspin! (because you deserve the very best)

@Typo-MAGAshiv

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

You'll get your payment...

...in vcards!

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

Don't be a cheapskate like you usually are.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

L'eau Du Inspin

It has a ring to it.

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