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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Gold Digger

As soon as she brings up money problems you know she's gold-digging. And these sob stories are usually fake or exaggerated to get the most pity dollars from men.
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kevin32

Posted 2y ago in Gold Digger - Permalink - Locked - 14.7K Views



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Justanaverageguy 2y ago

Had a girl who friendzoned me years ago hit me up and was dancing around needing to get her nails done. She finally came out with it “you wanna take me and my daughter to get my nails done?lol jk”. Now, this girl gave me the whole “I’m just not looking to date anyone right now, relationships scare me, I’d consider dating you but I dunno. I just need time to think. What would happen if we broke up?”. The problem is I came across her profile on bumble. She wasn’t looking to date but she’s on bumble?lol Needless to say I never spoke to her again after she came around hinting about me paying for her to get her nails done.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

I was thinking that men could turn this around: "I dunno. Can we "hang out" for a while at my place and we'll think about it? Instead of men plying women with food and gifts in the hopes of free sex, why not have women ply men with free sex in the hopes of food and gifts? They do this for chad and bad boys, after all.

Heck, there was this story I read on the early internet by a woman disgusted at getting played. A guy seemed perfect, took her out to a nice place, but his credit card was expired. He apologized profusely and promised to make it up to her she took care of it and he went back to her place and they banged because, if she told him to bugger off he would stiff her, yes?

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Justanaverageguy 2y ago

They’d come back with “oh I don’t feel comfortable doing that. We are just friends. Only Chad gets house calls”

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

Yeah but... they don't want to admit to that and I'm wondering if there's some "game" that men can use that back against them. I used something similar with the "fake offer" game where they would pretend to offer and expect me to "insist" upon paying. They have a preset script of how they think a date should go and therefore, they cannot handle unpredictable situations.

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chunky 2y ago

"You just wanna get on yer knees and suck my wooly? JK".

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Justanaverageguy 2y ago

I just replied “lol” and blocked her. What’s weird is much better girls were always checking me out whenever I was with her and she never noticed. But I did. That’s what made it easy to ghost her because I knew I could do better than be some paypig simp to her.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Hahaha "relationships scare me", sure bitch, but not my money - right?

Glad you dodged that one, fucking gold-diggers.

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Justanaverageguy 2y ago

She messed up because she admitted she “jumped in” with her ex but yet she needs time to think with me and relationships scare her. And she’s on bumble.lol what made me mad is she thought I was stupid and didn’t know what she was really saying.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago

Getting their nails done in a salon is a waste of time and money anyway. The only thing that matters about a woman's nails is whether she's raking them down your back.

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Justanaverageguy 2y ago

Oh no, she wants me to pay for her nails getting done so she can go rake them down chads back.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago

Women getting their nails done is amongst the stupidest shit to spend their money on

I've never once heard a man say a woman's nail color or shine or anything was the reason he fucked nor dated her

It's only valuable when shoving it on other women's faces, which is just as stupid af

I don't even look at a woman's fingernails unless they are nasty or unusually long. They need to just buy a nail clipper ffs

I just want women to not get fat and not be a bitch, why do they have to make this so challenging and expensive?

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MonteroS 2y ago

just want women to not get fat and not be a bitch, why do they have to make this so challenging and expensive

Because standards are so low, low expectations follow. Not saying it has to be nail salon, but small things taken care of, make her female.

I was reading that point somewhere. Makeup, hair and shit... it differentiate her from a bloke. After all in many instances it doesn't take much to make a woman look like a semi dude.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

This is important to know especially if you're going the passport route. I had a lot of gold diggers cross my path before finding my wife. Luckily my wife isn't a gold digger and I only have to send her $300/mo to support her boyfriend.

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yaxir 2y ago

" ngl, they had us in the first half "

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Justanaverageguy 2y ago

Shit at least the foreign women are up front about it. American women dance around the gold digging issue and try to be sneaky about it.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

"I'm a sugar baby. You're paying for my time..."

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AbusiveFather1 2y ago

important to understand why they're being sneaky about it: they do this in an attempt to have their cake and eat it too - be sponsored by men but at the same time maintain the appearance of an independent, self-sustaining person. in the east, where they're upfront about it, they have to listen to their man that pays for their shit. in the west, men paying for a woman is a woman's basic right, and thus she doesn't have to listen to the man.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

This disconnect between what a woman claims to be, and what she is, is one of the biggest reasons the system's time is limited.

Someday soon, when actual needs are hard to meet, women will not only depend on men, but have to compete with each other for access to men. We will see a renaissance of the "traditional" patriarchal family structure. Women who spout the "strong & independent" mantra are petrified of this because their useless career is the only thing of value they have to offer.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

You should talk to them like that guy on The Fallen State youtube channel.

Wahmen: I'm a HBIC!!!

Men: What's that?

Wahmen: Head Bitch in Charge

Men: How long have you been a bitch?

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

And women still don’t create a thing, for the most part. Men create actual profitable businesses. The women-owned businesses I see are almost always some shitty restaurant or yoga studio or something. Kind of makes sense, how many households back in the day basically let the woman be “in charge” of the home? Which makes sense because she was accountable for whether the home was kept up or not. But the home isn’t there if the man didn’t either pay for it, or build it.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

IMHO, women have the potential to create two good things:

  • A home that her husband calls his castle
  • Her husband's children

Everything else is just fluff, and very rarely does any woman do anything else a man couldn't have done better. And if she does, she shouldn't be praised for it. These "accomplishments" generally mean she was neglecting the two things in her life that have the most potential to make her (and her family) happy.

But if women stick to the two things they are good at, some of them can do very well.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2y ago

Damn, I choked on my coffee. Was not expecting that.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I was speaking for Destiny...

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

You see his wife is getting dragged back home in Sweden for tax evasion? I laugh at the irony of it.

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yaxir 2y ago

is this true ? what's the backstory ?

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I’m not sure the exact details, but apparently influencers have different intricacies for taxation in Sweden. So she may not have filed properly.

In America, that’s an apology and “okay, how much do I owe?”. In Sweden, that’s apparently a long march off a short pier.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Nope! Funny to hear though. Sweden needs that money to support the welfare state for women and will collect it by any means necessary.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2y ago

Ah, I'm quite unaware of internet celebrities. After a brief research, I kinda wish I was still unaware. WTF is going on in the world?

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I had no idea who he was until he came after the manosphere. Know thine enemas. He's our cuck-Smurf now.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

I dislike Destiny immensely as well, but do keep rule 1 in mind.

And yes, he's still a man though he's doing just about everything to surrender that title.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I dunno, we have to stay united as men but I say that when men turn against us and side with the female supremacists it's time to speak up. He shouldn't be shamed for having blue hair, being bi, or being cucked. He should be shamed for denying hypergamy exists. Perhaps that's just details but poking fun at him is turnabout and is fair play.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

Again, I dislike him as much as anyone else here does.

But this forum (WAATGM) isn't the place to shit on men. I mean, our number one rule is against it.

On the public square at trp.red? Have right at it. I'll likely join in.

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Durek_The_Bald 2y ago

I haven't really heard him talk, only heard him being talked about by various TRP merchants. Seems to me though, that at least he's pretty upfront about being a cuck.

Now, I'm not one to kink shame anyone. If that's their thing, then I say go for it. Where it gets embarrassing, is when guys do a Jack Murphy; denying, excusing, even raging at it being brought up.

From the little I've caught wind of when it comes to Destiny, I don't think I can accuse him (so far) of not having frame. Seems to have a pretty solid spine from what I can tell, and that it's everyone else getting their knickers in a twist.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

He's basically the false prophet of red pill, if such a title can be claimed. He's one of those outrage brokers, grifting off the manosphere and every other topic that's popular. Nobody will know who he is by this time next year. It's just annoying and clouds our message which pisses me off because of the male suicide rates and how this keeps them from the truth.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

he's pretty upfront about being a cuck.

Yes, he owns it, but it's still against the rules of WAATGM to shame him for it.

Rule 1:

no shaming men for any reason

...and that's any man as well as any reason.

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Durek_The_Bald 2y ago

I wasn't really talking about the rules. But we can discuss Destiny elsewhere.

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