Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago
Resting Bailout Face™
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I was thinking "OnlyFans" face, but close enough...
KSal90 11mo ago
I was just gonna say something about her face. Seriously, that's the best pic she can find? Sheesh.
Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
I mean lets be fair here, would you be smiling if you were a whore all your life and now that you’ve had a reflection of wanting something serious since all your friends are married and settling down but you didn’t bother to get serious because the carousel was too fun?
nicknack 11mo ago
The carousel would still be going if she didn’t hit 26 and start looking like saggy leather with viruses, all with some chads son. It’s too fun to be invited to exclusive parties and fucked by different jacked tatted bad boys 2-3 a week. Problem is the invites stopped coming, and the bouncers don’t even let her in the clubs at her old age.
Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
Now she’s only getting the “just come over” texts from chads online and in the past. They won’t even take her out anymore, that’ll go on for awhile until nobody is inviting her to even come fuck. Some old bitch slid in my inbox today who did me wrong in the past and now trying to apologize and suddenly all interested. Too bad she’s got two kids now and about 30lbs heavier and her face looks like she’s been through hell. No thank you.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I occasionally get those.
I still fuck them in the ass, but they don't get anything else
Portrait34 11mo ago
Do you prefer pizza with pineapple or without?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
With.
Because I'm an assfucking sociopath
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
Does ass sex really feel good tho?
Oddest-One-Here 10mo ago
If they hit the male g-spot I guess.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Deficit with liability seeks surplus bank account.
Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
Translation for the inexperienced in womaneeze “I’ve chased nothing but fuckboys all of my life. My body count and slutty things I’ve done with random men would shock Satan”
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Something just occurred to me why such women post "ready to settle down" profiles on a notorious hookup app: They don't understand the difference between SMV and RMV. Their default methodology for relating to men is to present themselves as sexual objects to procure attention and validation from a maximum number of men. If they get a lot of responses in their "funnel", (they believe) they then can simply winnow out whatever they want.
A family friend of ours wanted to find a husband so she want to the dance club. Eventually she came home with a handsome guy whom she had to regularly drive to work in the morning because he was hungover. She married him and had two lovely girls but later divorced him because... he had a drinking problem and couldn't hold a steady job.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 10mo ago
Sure. That's also why some of them seem to think that Chad's commitment can be attained for all time, if only they knew how to give him exactly the right kind of blow job.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago
That's a very good point. I assume most men are aware that hookup apps are just for that, but women didn't get the memo - for them, it's just a direct line towards men. No such thing as direct marketing, apparently - any attention is valid.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
God damn this should be it's own thread.
The type of women who complain about men only wanting sex are the type of women who have nothing else to offer except sex. Women who are wife material don't seem to have this problem.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
And they sure as fuck don't have a need to whine about it on hookup apps and social media, or get super butthurt defensive when men point out that their lack of anything else to offer is their actual problem.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 11mo ago
Well yeah.
Tinder etc has the most attention for her, so that's where she goes looking.
OLD is great for single mothers because they can't go out as easily.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Ironically, OLD is also the fastest way to "just come over" at 3am texts.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago
That's when the kid's asleep, not requiring a nanny. Works for everyone involved.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Just takes a few minutes and she can get right back home. Easy peasy.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
100% - they simply cannot see the difference between men that want to bang them and men that want to have an LTR with them.
I regularly hear my wife talking about her single friends, lets say X. And when I say 'X is going to die alone' my wife gets all defensive and says 'X gets lots of attention from men' I know exactly what is going on. X gets attention from men because there are some men that want to bang her. But thats all. Women cling on to 'interest from men' as if that was some sort of lifeline, that it might lead to marriage. Nope.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Spot-on. Attention is a fleeting currency, only commitment is the real relationship gold.
Its like the difference between internet 'likes' and having gold bars in your safe.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
Here. Have another "like" (upvote in TRP terms).
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Perhaps this is because the modern courtship ritual requires most men, except for Chad, to engage in a mating dance pretending to have a relationship and “emotional connection”. Not making this up: My sister put in her dating profile: “If you have only ONE thing on your mind, I’m going going out with you!” She used sex to extort men into saying they wanted her for non-sexual purposes. It’s perhaps why modern women are pumped up on psychotropic pharmaceuticals: They’re surrounded by “liars”.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 10mo ago
What if that "one thing" is commitment?
As for me, I definitely have one thing on my mind: Seafood bisque.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10mo ago
That's the worst part of the whole thing: most men don't want to lie to women. We don't want to be assholes. Nothing in this world would make us happier than if we could cut through all the bullshit and just be honest about the stuff what really matters to us. "I like you. I want to keep you around. You support me, I'll support you, let's see what we can build together."
'Course, actually doing that will get you a one-way ticket to the Infinite Abyss of Sexless Misery.
So we "lie" because that's what they require of us. Then they turn around and bitch about unfeeling jerks who refuse to commit.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
x100. That is my experience. I was born a nice guy. I didn't want to be an asshole to women. But I dont' make the rules. Nice guys - no pussy. Total asshole - lots of pussy.
Men are the rational of the species. It doesn't take us long to figure out the game. Incentives influence behaviours.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
And that's also why single women suffer so precipitously in their 30's as all different chickens come home to roost: Men during their teens and 20's figure out the games that women play while women in that same age range receive more than a decade of validation that the games are foolproof. It's almost like a psyop. BP men drop off the women's radar as these men lack the ability to change their worldview from feedback and the women's validation due to clown game pushes them further into a delusional bubble they won't ever want to leave.
When you say "incentives influence behaviors", as you see, that isn't always true or at least the influence can be counter intuitive. BP men respond similarly to entitled women in that negative incentives only cause them to double-down on their beliefs. I have a joke I like to tell about this thinking:
A guy gets shipwrecked and swims to an island. He's stuck there and the only companion he has is a goat and he decides to try to have his way with it. He tries to mount and the goat reaches back and bites his left earlobe off. He ties the legs and tries again and the goat bites his other earlobe off. A gorgeous woman washes up onshore and tells him: "I'm starved and would do ANYTHING for food!" to which the man replies: "Can you hold this goat's head for me?"
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Eventuality, the source of the problem becomes undeniable. Especially as these “commitment-phobic” men marry someone else.
I cited Justin Timberlake and Britney Spears to mine as a prime example. When he wanted to start a family, Britney was gone and he was marrying an attractive (but less attractive) Jessica Biel. There’s a reason why Britney just got the D while Jessica got the ring.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Bingo. Men aren't scared of commitment. Our lives are nothing but commitment - commitment to our jobs, our fitness, our friends, our families, our passions.
Men have commitment to spare.
What these women are really saying is "men are afraid of committing to me", and for good fucking reason.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
That line 'men are afraid of committment' is hilarious when you think about it.
What they really mean is "men are logical and strategic, they know that I am not a good choice for an LTR because I have poor impulse control, which I proved to him because I let him fuck me raw the first time I met him. Because I am a worthless slut, he is quite rightly not interested in an LTR with me, but he is attracted to the ease at which I put out, which is why he calls me on a friday night, when all his other plans have fallen through"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
This gold.
Men aren't scared of commitment at all. Everything a man does requires commitment. You don't get to invent nuclear fission or go to the moon without an insane amount of commitment.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
Second this. Darn you Ranger, you found the gold nugget before me.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
thanks no stress cat - actually it was Problematic browser that pointed out this golden nugget - I was just agreeing with him. I'd never thought about it before, but men are basically commitment machines. Women are the opposite, which is why the have such a hard time deciding even the most trivial of things (where to go for lunch, what colour to paint their nails etc) while men are doing things like inventing life changing technologies are medical brake throughs.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I keep seeing other things that I need to add to the red flag list; those fake stick on eyebrows that look like giant slugs and the duck lips.
Can you recall ever meeting a girl with the duck lips that wasn't insane or had learning difficulties?
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I mean she is a single mom on Tinder. Not exactly finding a lot of MENSA candidates in that pool of people.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 11mo ago
...and?
Women say shit like this as if the simple fact of expressing the desire for things to go their way will make it happen.
I was "ready" for a lot of shit to happen when I was a younger man. None of it ever did. Eventually I realized what a selfish, entitled, lazy piece of shit I was and set about finally making changes to how I behaved and approached things - and my life is a damn sight better for it.
There are still a lot of things I'd like to happen that don't (and probably never will). That's life. The test of which is dealing with it as best you're able.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
When they were younger and had less obvious baggage and damage, that was enough to prompt anyone other than themselves to make it happen.
But they failed to cash in their Golden Ticket in time and now there they are.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
At the peak of their beauty, these girls get so drunk on power. They can get any man to do anything they want, even old guys, just by flirting or smiling a little. Guys fall over themselves to do your bidding, they will even fight each other for your attention.
Many figure this out early and spend over a decade taking advantage of it, their whole adolescence. At 25 they cannot remember a time when this did not work.
Think about what it's like to gradually lose that power. You'd be so bitter because you see younger women using the exact same tricks you used to use, but somehow you are losing your magic. You'd be jealous to the point of murder, like the fairy tale witch that asks her mirror "who is the fairest one of all" and then plots to kill her competition. You would blame men for being so "shallow" and start to hate them too. To both need and hate men is not a fun place either.
That's why her face looks like that. The idea of actually fishing for a man using bait other than her looks is totally foreign. Her bitterness will increase every year, even if she does manage to marry. You can't turn a woman like that into a grateful, submissive housewife.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
This, she will perpetually resent the provider that accepted her horrible deal for not being as hot as the men that were never going to commit to her in her youth.
Frankly, if the only game a man is interested/able in developing is provider game, he'd be better off just hiring a prostitute. The latter will work far harder to satisfy his needs because they do not have the security of a contract giving her unwarranted access to his assets.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
The two most impactful days in a woman's life:
The day she discovers that she can use sex to get anything she wants from men
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
You're right, its like she's thinking "You mean I have to cook, clean AND fuck you? WTF."
It also makes me laugh, so very loudly.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
It's like a prince, coddled all his life but then turned out of the palace and forced to actually work for a living. I'd have that face too. "You do what to earn a living???"
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
She got af tho I’d hit it regardless
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
Duckface. Auto-disqualifier. No need to read further.