Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's not wrong though. Men are bailing on dating apps, single mothers, Western women in general. Meanwhile trad/con chicks from other countries are getting married in record numbers.
Like seriously, if I want a black chick I'm going to Ethiopia and getting one of those supermodel chicks. And I'm getting the dark one. The farm girl. And she's going to treat me right. Why would I go get some fat, spoiled, single mom?
Clearview Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Here we have another prime example of a single mother who got knocked up by some chad and despite having a kid of specials needs tries to date (and if we believe her story is dating a lot). Somehow she realizes that men only want sex but fails to realize that this is literally the only thing that she brings to table (and with the child she even has to bring more to the table obv.). Not commenting on the looks but its not helping much either..
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She didn't get knocked up by Chad. Autism is hereditary and usually from the man. Her SMV is so low she can only get an autistic dude. As an autistic dude I encountered these chicks a lot as I was hitting my peak SMV. I noped the fuck out, obviously, but many dudes think this is normal.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The only two positive things I can say about her is that she doesn't have a weave and she doesn't have those horrid oversized raptor nails.
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's still a fat ass and even though I can empathize about having to raise a special needs child she isn't really in a position to complain about her dating pool. Her energy would be better spent being part of a community or church organization that supports children's health instead of on a garbage Tiktok like video lamenting about her dating woes.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
She complains about the quality of the people in the dating pool with no apparent understanding that she's part of the dating pool herself.
A fat, whiny, single mother with an autistic child is in no position to complain about how bad other people are. Obviously she was perfectly fine screwing Tyrone and bearing his child without securing his commitment, and now she wonders why men (by which she means, "Men who give me tingles"), aren't lining up to court her like a proper British lady.
If she were here I would give her the same advice I would give to any woman in her position:
Go back to your child's father and do whatever you have to do to make it work with him.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is near and dear to me, As a divorced black dad™ of an autistic child.
The problem in her situation, if her ex is anything like me (and that's a stretch, because I'm one of the "good ones") then he would rather take a thousand punches in the dick than allow her back into his life.
Odds are that she made his life miserable and he endured it to keep his family together. Odds are that she nagged him and was such a bitch that he became a version of himself that he needed to become just to avoid eating a fucking bullet.
And then, she probably left.
And now? Odds are that he's happy. He may not get to see his kid as much as he wants to, but the time he has with his child is good because he's good. Odds are that he smiles again. Odds are that he's having regular sex with much hotter women who are giving him much less stress. Odds are that his finances are better since she's not spending his money on stupid shit from Etsy or the next MLM scheme that she does for a month then gives up on.
She probably hasn't changed. She probably hasn't grown as a person except in the most literal physical sense. She is probably the same nagging bitch she was, but now with even more animosity because she realizes that maybe the problem in the relationship wasn't him, as evidenced by his line of women trying to date him (or at least happily offer their bodies) compared to her inability to find a man willing to stay 10 minutes after fucking her on the couch.
What can this woman offer him? What incentive would he have to willingly trade in his newfound freedom for the bondage and misery that he knew and understood on a visceral level? That would be like a slaveowner asking his former slaves to "maybe give the slavery thing another chance? It will be better this time, I promise."
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is the best comment I’ve read all month. Cheers!
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They say that art comes from pain.
Well, being married has made me unto a little Aristotle.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
American women, and especially American black women, have a serious PR problem these days. If I were an American black man I'd go get a black woman from Africa and hard next deaz hoez.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Just don't take her back to the US. EDDIE!? WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY EDDIEEEE
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
So I can actually attest to this.
Black women from other countries love us because we're a stark departure from their men. Most of their men are irredeemably lazy and actually misogynistic. Compared to their men, black American men are a fucking dream come true with how easy we are to please.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's not just black men, it's all Western men that have this reputation abroad. It just boils down to how women prioritize alpha qualities or beta qualities. In places with no welfare state the beta qualities are highly prioritized.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That's hilarious, men in the US are beaten over the head with how mean we always are to our women, how we're so inconsiderate.
I'm imagining a reality/comedy show where they contrast a generic, simpy, beta US husband to some guy in Africa.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The only people who say this are people who have zero concept of male/female relationships outside of the Cucked States of America.
American women literally think it's slavery when a man asks her to cook and clean. In other countries, this is default behavior from women and their men routinely put them in check when they don't do it.
American women routinely belittle their men publicly and some even have the audacity to assault them. Doing that shit in other countries is unheard of because it will get you backhanded and everyone will just say "if you didn't slap her, I'd think less if you."
The phrases "emotional abuse" and "financial abuse" will get you laughed out the room. Women are expected to give up the ass to their husbands when and how he pleases with no complaints. And don't cry when your man has other wives or mistresses if he's taking care of you, or you'll get replaced.
Edit: I was dating a Kenyan woman for a good year and this bitch was amazing. I'd get off work in the morning and go see her. She would have food and coffee ready for me every day. After I ate, she'd let me fuck and not nag me because she knew I was tired and wanted to go home and go to bed. You know what she wanted in return? My company and a bit of grocery money every now and then. She would tell me how much she couldn't stand Kenyan men because they were just lazy and demanded to be treated like kings despite doing nothing.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've seen women dragged by their hair and beaten in Asia for getting lippy. Not endorsing it but that's reality.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yeah....as someone who had a special needs brother:
A single mom with a special needs kid should be thankful she gets any male attention at all, much less for only sex. A special needs child is such a huge responsibility above and beyond even a regular child, and expecting an unrelated man to just drop out of the sky and be OK with becoming a replacement father to such is pure hubris and detachment from reality.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And you know why it's hard? It isn't even the kid. At least we understand the kid and how it isn't their fault.
It's always the mother.
I have a friend who is married a single mom and her son has a "learning disability" - it just happens to be his mom. She constantly finds excuses for him to act out and not perform up to standards. Every time my friend tries to step in and help, the kid goes running to his mom and she becomes the world's biggest bitch.
I wouldn't be surprised if they're divorced in a year.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I'm skeptical of the phrase, "Special needs" here. Psychology is largely hokum, and a very large percentage of even "professional" diagnoses are just pseudoscientific jargon that mean, "This kid is a little weird."
It's entirely possible that she doesn't even have that: self-diagnosis of mental illness is all the rage, and overwhelmed single mothers are notorious for Munchausen-by-proxy.
Personally, if I were single I wouldn't touch her with a barge pole even if she didn't have a bastard child.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
My kid is autistic. His mom coddles him as if he's incapable of understanding things and it infuriates me. He's just socially maladjusted, not dumb or disabled. He knows exactly what the fuck he's doing.
Single mothers are incapable of discipline because they have this stupid need to be loved, even at the expense of the well-being of the child. Fathers will look into their kids eyes while they cry, and just wait.
He doesn't pull that shit with me because - as my daddy used to say - "boy, I'm not your mother."
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Same. But trotting out "I have a kid, and they are special needs" (real or not) and expecting men to throw themselves on that grenade is not even remotely reasonable even if she looked like Halle Berry in her prime.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There are plenty of obvious reasons you would never date or even pump and dump this woman. She is a morbidly obese, unattractive, single mother of a special needs child. Even beyond that though, if you are even the slightest bit perceptive you’ll see other red flags too. You can tell she is an anxious wreck from the way she is constantly moving her hands. Most unattractive of all though, you can tell she has “Main Character Syndrome”. In other words, this is her world and we are all just living in it. If you actually had the patience to watch the whole video you would notice that she ignored her kid who was on an electronic device; because of course he was. She was also being monitored by her work supervisor while making this stupid video.
So you could add shit parenting, laziness, anxiety, weird religious rants, unintelligent word choices, and narcissistic tendencies to the list.
Most single moms are garbage people, as well as dating prospects. The only reason they aren’t complete social pariahs is because there are now SO MANY of them and our culture has become completely gynocentric. Keep your life simple and don’t even pump and dump them. Especially since they now have the ability to ruin your reputation with their new “Are we dating the same guy” websites. I was posted on one of those sites by a single mom I pumped and dumped and had to explain it to a woman I legitimately wanted to date. Makes it harder to spin plates.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Those groups just act as social proof. I'm married and I don't wear my ring because I don't want the attention.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
That huge chest tattoo ain’t doing her any favors either.
reignoferror00 1y ago
Her words are close to par for the course these day, but the way her hands and eyes are going caught my attention - as something concerning. There is definitely something very wrong there; whether it is some sort of nervous and/or attention disorder, she's all wired up on something, or something else even more serious.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Whenever I meet a single mother, I always have a question in the back of my mind:
"When am I going to see the reason that you're a single mom?"
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
She thinks all the married men are “Gods chosen” but there’s PLENTY of single dudes with their shit together that know marriage was a bad deal back in the day and is still a bad deal today. Just because we aren’t married doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with us, it means we are aware enough to know to dodge that rigged game and keep our assets we accumulate.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
Urghhhhhhhhh
That is all.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
That's three minutes of my life I'm never getting back.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
suffer!
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's not about the video, it's about the comradery of men in the comments section.