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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / The Big Question

Can't figure out why guys only want "fun time"
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MelkorHimself

Posted 1y ago in The Big Question - Permalink - Locked - 12.8K Views



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Doricel 1y ago

Don't do drugs, kids.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

That's a rough-looking 36. I'm amazed at the amount of wrinkles in her face. Usually, when someone is fat, the wrinkles get puffed out. She's probably more like 46-56. No way she's 210 lbs. She's more like 300, and that's taking into consideration that the camera adds 10 lbs. I have to admit for the most part, she's not trying to hide it. "Here I am, take it or leave it!" Thanks, I appreciate the honestly, but I'll pass.

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ZZoMBiE13 1y ago

Jeez. I usually don't like to focus on someone's looks, but I could never date a woman whose hairline receded farther than does mine.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

TBH her hair was the least of my concerns. More concerned that she weighs as much as I do. And I bench press over 350 on a good day. And I’m trying to lose weight.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

"Bench press over 350" = Black privilege. lol

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

But I’m a white guy haha

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Greek privilege?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

I'm whiter than bleached chalk, and I've gotten past 400 in the past. Not sure where I'd be now.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Viking privilege, lol

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago

where are all the old school men?

They want old school women.

Old school women were not obese.

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Justanaverageguy 1y ago

I know it’s asking for the moon these days, but some of us don’t want to date women who have another man’s child or children. I know society says single motherhood is normal, acceptable, and all that crap but it’s not.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

The sisterhood says it’s normal. But we’ll see how long that lasts if men really begin to hold firm and say no to single moms.

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wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago

Like many government supported industries, when the subsidies dry up the entire industry collapses.

When (not if) the economy crashes to the ground expect a huge wave of child murder/euthanasia when these single mothers are confronted with the harsh consequences of their stupid choices.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Unfortunately for society (but from a moral standpoint, fortunately for those kids), the government will always fund single moms. It would take a total government collapse before they aren’t receiving subsidized everything.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

Single motherhood is still being subsidized, but it's not a comfortable subsidy. Among other things, they have to live amongst their own kind and brood much like how smokers are punished by having to live in their own smelly apartment. My wife sometimes gripes, but even so she recognizes how great it is that 90% of what she needs gets done: I pick up the child from school/doctor visits when needed, she can run and do things without worrying about a babysitter. If she's stressed out, I'm there to pick up the slack and help provide a different parenting model to handle a recalcitrant child. It's the difference between living in a civilized society, despite its restrictions, versus living in the woods on your own having to make your own clothes out of chipmunk skins.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I'm so glad the single mother across the street moved away. "Can I borrow your jumper cables?", "Can I leave my kids at your place tonight because my daughter got smacked by the guy I'm shacking up with?", "Can I drop my kids by tonight while I go hook up?". NO!!! NO CHRISTMAS CAKE!!!

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Glad she left.

I avoid single mothers like they're carrying the plague, because they probably are a STD bioreactor anyway - not to mention all the other bullshit you have to put up with just to get a one-nighter done.

No thanks, I'd rather poke a coed that digs older men.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Aka all of them secretly? Pretty sure if you’re a guy who is good at cold approaching, you could date the coeds well into your fifties

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Pic889 1y ago

Seriously, do people casually ask others to be unpaid babysitters for them? Don't they realise there is a reason it's a paid job? I would lend anyone my jumper cables, but no free labor.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Yes, they do. Then their kids adopt this strategy and ask you for a ride to school when it's raining, eat all your food when they come over because they have none, have big loud fights in your home, etc. Meanwhile mom is sleeping off a hangover.

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Pic889 1y ago

How about saying no? You are not anyone's free babysitter.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

To adjust this woman’s size via BMI, this would be a 251 lb man at 5’10”. How many 5’10”, 251 lb, out of shape men have even successfully bred?

Let alone that she looks haggard. I had assumed that being obese usually makes one look younger.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

Oh honey.

These men aren't having fun with you. Having to do the walk of shame while hung over and avoiding all human sight long enough for plausible deniability isn't fun.

They are making drunken mistakes and hoping that no one catches them hogging.

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Durek_The_Bald 1y ago

Cool. Silicone injections into the forehead. I suppose that's one way to become taller.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

There are guys that want "fun time" with her?

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Thirsty Trekkies who imagine her as a half-Klingon might be willing.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

I suppose if a dry spell long af and they close their eyes? (Inserts shrug emoji)

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

This ladies post is a cope. She is telling the world that guys just want to have sex with her, which is a fevoured dream. Nobody wants to have a sex with her.

Also, while we are on the subject, how in the world is 210 pounds at 5'4 = 'curvy'? Half that would be curvy. Two things we know about this delusional post waller: she isn't 5'4 (she less) and she isn't 210 lbs (its more).

OLD is such a disaster because because there its all self reporting. Women are very poor at being honest, so we have tags like 'curvy', when it should say 'obese'. That would be more honest, but you can't have an OLD with honesty, because women wouldn't use it.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

so we have tags like 'curvy', when it should say 'obese'.

Even worse when they use tags like 'petite' when it should say 'very short and fat'.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

This ladies *hobag's post

FTFY.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I stand corrected!

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I'm tempted to make my own dating site that just uses a BMI calculator to determine which tag to use.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

That would be great. The obvious issue is that women just will not tell the truth. What little I know of OLD (from buddies), the cat fishing is off the scale. I've heard of women being about 2x the weight they claim to be. What is their plan?? What do they think will happen, if they tell you they're a size 8 and they turn up as a size 16, do they think we're going to be so over awed by their pithy insights about the latest reality TV show, and stories about how their kids are their world? There are plenty of dudes that like fat girls, so if you're fat, the best strategy on OLD is to actually just say that you are fat.

The big break through in OLD would be some kind of third party reference system - Ebay has a seller / buyer rating system that keeps people honest. If you buy from somebody that has great ratings and they have been on the site more than 5 years, you likely going to get what you think you're getting. The first OLD site that manages to crack this issue will have a USP.

But the issue is that OLD works of an unhealthy dynamic of female delusionality and male desperation. It's working just fine for the platforms, not so much the users.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I would have a "report fat chick" button and a setting for guys to choose "no fat chicks".

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Pic889 1y ago

eBay's feedback system is junk. Sellers can inflate their feedback by setting up two accounts and virtually sell things to themselves for the price of whatever minor fee eBay charges per transaction. You see, there is no requirement that a tracking number is used for the orders, so they don't actually have to ship anything when selling to themselves. "Fulfilled by Amazon" is a bit better because it forces sellers to use Amazon's delivery system to sell something and pay the relevant postage costs on top of Amazon's fees, but a determined seller can still inflate feedback by mailing items to themselves and paying the cost. I have been scammed by several sellers selling obviously used product as new, all of them with high ratings.

Same can happen on OLD when it comes to feedback.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

"Selling obviously used products as new".... now that sounds topical!!

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X-ternal 1y ago

First thought

https://themanc.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/2_little-britain.jpg

https://www.tvserieguiden.se/serier/little-britain-eng/

BTW, she probably thinks she can get Will Smith and then cheat on him with some rappa.

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reignoferror00 1y ago

See the kids box is checked with "yes, and they live with"; other than that no mention of her kids (or any mention of how many) in her profile - much less any mention of a career or even job.

The "old school men" have manners and are polite - they just immediately think and politely say "thanks but no thanks" to you. Some much heavier than most single mother with shitty tattoos, is self admittedly damaged, and has an unstated numbers of kids doesn't exactly scream "old school". Sounds more like the new school of hard knocks and hard cocks.

The "old school" man, even if you were anywhere near the neighbourhood of marriage material (you're several counties over), wouldn't see ANY old school qualities in you - can't say you named one or even thought of one you have.

"Compassionate, loyal, honest and have your heart on your sleeve" is just some word salad you threw on the screen; didn't even take the time and effort to put any dressing on that salad.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I actually know a trans woman with kids. She had them before transitioning. I'm seriously thinking this is a trans woman because of the balding(requires testosterone) and the broad forehead.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Yeah my fiancé actually encourages me to shave off my remaining hair. I haven’t done a T check recently, but given my sex drive and physical strength, i assume that I’m doing at least decently.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

Some unfortunate women (and I mean actual, biological women) will have hair loss for various reasons. It really sucks for them.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Yeah I was thinking PCOS but something else just struck me as a little off in the photos.

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maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Me: 6' 200lbs Her: 5'4" 210lbs

That's a HUUUUUGE bitch!

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Megamind can't find a date

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

It is all about PRESENTATION and she utterly failed at it.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

This is a beer-goggles pump and dump (and I'm talking a LOT of booze), with any mention of her afterward scrubbed from memory. Like the kind of chick that even your friends would know better than to mention the incident if they were out with you, and knew you took her home.

Any port in a storm sometimes, but very little long-term value. That is a ROUGH 36, I'm thinking she's a liar like most and its closer to 40+. Wrinkles and shit don't lie.

Oh, and all that pet hair all over her t-shirt in the second photo... yeah, you know what a dump her house/apt looks like.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I’ve seen women claim to be upwards of a decade younger than they actually are. Usually ones with menopause knocking that are desperate for someone to impregnate them.

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