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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
She thinks she is demonstrating power and desirability and thinks she is going to get attention and validation from that.
Subconsciously thinks: "Look at meee! I am so hot that a man will drive 3 hours just be in my presence because I am so worth it!" she doesn't realize that it makes her look unattractive. There was a post that went viral on the internet a while back where her "friend" went all out with his credit card to give her in her words the "most amazing day of her life" then went on about how he was just a friend and is still single. The internet ripped her apart with gold digger and using people comments and she went into hiding after trying to defend herself.
Does she really think he wants to be just friends with her?
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Orbiters gonna orbit.
See you here in a few years, fella.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago
There aren't very many people for whom I would drive three hours (each way) unless I had a reason to go there anyway:
A few family members.
One or two church friends.
A small handful of brothers-in-arms.
A few former colleagues.
One of my ex-girlfriends (only one of them).
Of course none of those people would call me without a very good reason.
I can't think of anyone I'd do that for just because he/she has some white space on the calendar... not even myself.
Six hours to entertain some chick who's "just a friend?"
No freaking way.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
When I was at OCS and we had a couple of 4-day weekends (but couldn't leave the area), my wife made the several hours drive to come see me.
In the BOLC2 and 3 courses later, I'd occasionally make the same drive for just regular 2-day weekends.
I can't recall driving even as far as the poor dude in the OP, let alone that far, for anyone else who wasn't related to me by blood.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago
Yep. Of course the people I'm talking about aren't the sort of people who would ask or expect me to drop everything unless it was important and they had already exhausted a lot of other options. That just constitutes the very short list of people who could call in a "Drop everything - no questions asked" marker. Except for a few relatives who live within 10 miles, I would be very surprised if any of them ever did that, so I know that if one of them did the situation must be dire indeed.
Boredom isn't on the list of things any of those people would call in a marker for.
I'm curious about the degree to which this woman solicited his road trip. I'm 99% certain that she's leading him on to some degree, but I wonder if she kept dropping hints about how much she would like some (totally non-sexual) company, or if he decided to surprise her with some grand gesture straight out of a rom-com. There are a lot of possibilities between the two, as well.
If he ran to her hoping that she would swoon, he obviously miscalculated, but we often note that some guys only take the red pill as a suppository.
[Edit. Yesterday afternoon my niece called me because she was stranded with her three kids at a garage (mechanical trouble), and her husband was going to be at work for several more hours. She asked if I could pick them up. Of course I dropped what I was doing and got them, and since I didn't anticipate needing my car for the next several days I just gave her the keys and told her to keep it. She didn't ask, mind you. She's on the list of people who can call in a marker, and I know that she would do the same for me.]
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago
I wouldn't be able to stomach having someone drive 3 hours (6 total) to see me without good reason.
I would feel awful doing this to a person without solid plans, hadn't seen them in a while, etc. And even then, it would be reciprocal for me. I'd be driving 3 to see them every other time for balance. This sounds horrifically one-sided just from her attitude
She sounds like she's probably a narcissist. I don't think most women would even let this happen before rejecting the guy for even wanting to make the attempt at a 3-hour drive
SSeuSS 2y ago
But you don't have this very healthy dose of solipsism like she does.
I had a chance to make a recollection of woman's solipsism example from sidebar.
Backstage: city, no visual
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
100 years ago - she would have married him.
100 years ago - she would have understood, that men and women cannot be friends.
100 years ago - she would have understood, that even her husband is not her friend. He may be her lover, but he is not a friend.
Many wives today, complain about the friendship that's missing in their marriages, as a reason for why the sex dried up.
Meanwhile.... there's this bitch and many like her, who demonstrate the true relationship between friendship and sex.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
The women’s liberation era coincides with the concept of “free love” and “romantic love” also known as “soul mates”. There are still some men out there who believe in such tripe, but they largely learn the hard way that it doesn’t work when their “soul mate” rejects them and they need to “settle”. Women believe in this noble lie because it’s pushed by Hollywood, their relatives, and their “friends” who don’t want to lose status in the female clique hive mind.
That being said, most marriages a century ago weren’t loveless nor was there a lack of friendship between the husband and wife but there was a mutual understanding that they had to get along with each other which is the core of a good and lasting friendship. For men, the bedroom fun isn’t ideal for most of the marriage because women peak in their 20’s so after that, he’d prefer to “tech refresh” like Leo Dicaprio but he’s unable to but he lives with it. Most women never got the perfect “soulmate” but they also learned to live with it.
And that’s where the concept of “oppression” comes in: Modern women think that women of the past were oppressed because they married non-ideal men and HAD to learn to love them. They believe that with liberation, they can just sit around and choose alpha chad, or later ideal beta bucks as a consolation prize. Men were also lied to in that we were told that with free love, and perhaps just asking out enough girls and being a ‘nice guy’, we could pull in a hotter woman than we’d otherwise deserve in the old system or even have some “swinging” in our 20’s. It just doesn’t work out that way but most idealized concepts imposed upon society don’t.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2y ago
I don't buy this.
Women married providers, but dead bedrooms were the norm.
Women were still women.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
There's a lot of truth here, although I disagree about friendship. You're half right:
"A man may be friends with a woman, but for it to continue it must be assisted by a little physical antipathy." -Neechee (I can't spell his name)
This is not referring to a marriage, IMHO, but about so-called "platonic" friendships.
My wife is my best friend, but she is first my servant and helper. And yes, she would agree with this because she knows her place. Under this hierarchy (that used to be taken for granted) things like friendship and great sex can flourish, because the job of the wife is to help her husband in everything.
nicknack 2y ago
This is far from friendship
TRPDuryodhana 2y ago
Yep. The guy's a cluess AF, and the girl just wants that feeling rush of power through free, male attention.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2y ago
There, fixed that for you.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Exactly - all the people that know her well are tired of her shit.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Christ.
At least pay the dude for gas, you entitled bitch.
And people wonder why I want the downswing to begin.