Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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itsandrewbuck 1y ago
Know what's not a good look?
Her face without makeup. Ready-made family. 34 and already a cat lady.
3 up, 3 down is the end of an inning for me.
Doricel 1y ago
By the way she looks i think that you would have to take more vaccines than just a tetanus shot
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Jesus Christ. You can tell this used to be a hottie. But her face is looking way older than 34.
And she has the audacity to make demands of men.
She even advertises herself like a man. The home and career are how she sells herself to prospective buyers (men). Think she has any intention of taking in a dude who spent the first 15 or so years of adulthood just managing to get by and leveling him up? Or do you think she’s looking for a man “at her level” or higher? Because if it isn’t the former, then I’m not sure how her best features benefit a man in any way. Power couples are a myth. Someone needs to be the support system.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
Could be lying about her age. Could be stress and bad health habits causing her to look older. I am leaning towards the latter.
Indeed. Who are the ones who usually emphasize the whole "power couple" meme? I see it a lot more being done by women than by men, as a woman wants to project an image that she is successful and "killing it" in the career world. Men simply do not care that much about a woman's career, so it makes little sense for a man to place emphasis on it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Being a single mom (not sure if divorced or not) and working a lot can do that, right? Women aren’t really meant to be handling all of those stressors. Healthy meals on Friday and Saturday nights replaced by alcohol can age someone, as well. Also, sometimes being thin can work against a woman; nothing to push the skin out, so they start to wrinkle a lot faster.
But she has the look of a woman who has lived a lot of life. It’s exactly what a man wants, taking over for another man in order to please someone who is never satisfied (and expects you to at least develop a relationship with a child who isn’t yours).
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
The only legit "power couple" who leaps to mind are Triple H and Stephanie McMahon.
Marrying the boss's daughter to get ahead....
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah, but let’s be real, look at triple H. You don’t think Stephanie was more than happy to pogo stick all over that? Not that she didn’t look good in her prime, too. She still looks ok, but her hottest years are clearly behind her.
In that case, it’s just the family business that happens to be a publicly traded corporation. And Triple H is above her in the food chain at WWE. So, it works.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Oh yeah, they're both definitely catches. That's why they're a genuine power couple.
He is now. Back when they first got together, fuck no!
He was just "talent", and she was powerful enough to fire Bruce Prichard.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That’s true. But helps now that the dynamic is him being the primary of the home. I’d be shocked if that marriage ever deteriorated.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
"It's not a good look" implying that she cares about what other people are seeing. This may mean that she will care about how a short guy looks next to her more than a poor one since other hivemind women can't literally see that as she walks into a room.
I pointed out to my wife that owning a luxury car didn't imply someone was wealthy. Just the opposite really in that if they're paying it off, it's draining their wealth in other ways. Kitten Julia (a fun Russian channel) goes into how some Russians put tens of thousands of dollars into foreign cars to show off while they live in utter poverty at home in 1 bedroom apartments and eating dog food.
In the past, women cared about looking pretty for their men and to show other women the standard to be feminine but now, it's about one-upping other women to show how cool they are. One woman I broke up with 35 years ago said to me "Don't worry about what other men say about you in the locker room" in that she thought us men bragged about sex in the locker room (I never witnessed that) but rather it's WOMEN who gossip ruthlessly in the restroom which is why there's such a long line to get into it.
It's amusing that being obsessed with "a good look", like most women they resent how women age and have "not good looks" of their own. A woman wouldn't want to marry a man who gets shorter year by year, fine, but by age 40, successful men who've been around the block know that women don't get younger and prettier with age. Young men get married and sign off for life (so they think) because they're young and naive thinking they'll be handsome and she'll be pretty forever. At age 40, stuff starts making noises when you turn in bed at night (not a bad noise, just cracking of joints. It's cool). Anyways, we become aware and conscious of these things and will ask: "Why should I wife up a liability for no reason?"
Admitting you're hypergamous and insecure only invites others who will act similarly selfishly and superficially.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Heh, that's not uniquely Russian.
Ever seen how many American poors drive luxury cars? They go into debt up to their eyeballs to pay for it.
I think it was Dave Ramsey who said something like (and I'm paraphrasing here):
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
Yeah, they're called thirty thousand dollar millionaires i.e. they make $30k/yr but try to pretend they're millionaires. Usually by leasing expensive cars, shelling out money for flashy clothes and table service at the hottest clubs, while they live in some shithole with 4 roommates all barely struggling to pay off their credit card debts and car loans.
The BMW 3-series is jokingly their official car, because it's the cheapest BMW you can get. So leasing a used BMW 3-series allows you to tell a girl you drive a BMW, and jangle that key in front of her, while it probably costs less than a good Toyota Camry (until it breaks down of course... Those German cars are hella expensive to repair. Ask me how I know :-) ).
Your quote sounds like part of the greatest line from Fight Club: “Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off. ”
Man, what a great movie!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
It really is a classic.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"our great depression is our lives" god almighty, what a gold nugget of a quote. That's poetry. And its true. The slow realisation that life has no meaning whatsoever, and it doesn't matter how hard you work, you will never have all the things you see advertised. Because its not the products that we see advertised that we want, its the life that see advertised that we want. We grew up watching happy families living in large houses with no worries, no anxiety and no stress. We saw lives in which nothing bad ever happened, there was no crime, no domestics, there wasnt even any swearing, never a raised voice... and a laugh track sounded every 30 seconds. TV advertised a life that we could not access. Spielberg was the greatest propagandist that ever existed.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
If I somehow became a millionaire, I would do the inversion of those people and make it look like I only earn about $30k a year cos you don't need the hassle from beggars or gold-diggers.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
OMG, samesies!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That's kind of how I live. I wear clothes from h&m. I have shoes that more than 20 years old. My coat is more than 10 years old. I don't buy a new sweater until it has holes in it. My hair gets cut at the cheapest barber in town. I've never bought or leased a new car (second hand only). But I guess I am more than a millionaire if I add up my assets less liabilities. The reason the rich are rich? They don't spend their money on things that 'make them look rich'.
I often hear poorer people use the word 'invest' when they mean consume, as in, I'm going to invest in a new car / coat / pair of good shoes. Any purchase that does not have an income stream (like stock dividends) or an expected higher future sale value (like real estate) CANNOT be an investment. It's consumption. Go easy on consumption and heavy on investment. That's how the wealthy spend their money.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That's a major pet peeve of mine as well.
Almost everyone, everywhere fucking does that shit, too.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I hear that a lot.
Like, bro, it's not an "investment" because you spend money on it.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Exactly. It's only an investment if its an asset. If I buy a factory, that's an investment. If I buy a single share in a company for £2, that's an investment. If I buy a coffee for £2, that's consumption. Its simple but so many people don't understand it at all. They use the word investment to mean a high value transaction.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I love me some cars (I went to the 12 hours of Sebring yesterday, wild finish, have the Corvette Racing cap that I bought on as we speak). I couldn’t imagine sinking 10-15% of my paycheck on a car payment. That just sounds insane to me.
Pic889 1y ago
It gets worse than that. They go into debt up to their eyeballs and finance a car for longer than the warranty period. The average new car loan today in the US is 70 months (~6 years) and the average used can loan today in the US is 68 months (~5.5 years). Yes, 5.5 years financing for a car nobody knows how it has been treated by the previous owner and which may come with zero warranty.
This means that if the car has some major out-of-warranty issue like transmission failure that costs thousands of dollars to fix, those people are deep in trouble, since they can't afford to fix the car and they can't get rid of the car either because they owe money on it. What most people do in such cases is stop making payments and let the car go onto repossession, thinking the debt will go away with the car. Then some time later they are told the car fetched pennies on the dollar owed in the auction and they now have collectors chasing them and garnishing their wages.
tl;dr: Don't finance a car for longer than the warranty period, it can seriously mess up your life.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
or...how about...dont buy a car on finance? If you haven't got the dough to buy a car without borrowing money, you aint got the dough to be driving that car. What ever happened to people saving up money to buy things???
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
It is increasingly hard to find a financial institution where they pay you just enough interest to combat inflation, never mind one that pays you more than that, also the idea of delayed gratification isn't exactly being promoted by our "buy now, pay later" consumer society.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
increasing hard??? Inflation is officially above 10% right now, and I (and many other economists) believe that they are deliberately understating inflation. So tell me where you can get more than 10% on a deposit account! You can't. There are zero risk free assets that come close to paying anything like 30% of the inflation rate. Which is why we are living in an insane world.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Sadly, in the states due to several factors some people cannot function effectively without a car. I was considering buying a home in an exoburb that was a good 15 minute drive from anywhere with no sidewalks. Effectively, it's like living in a sort of luxury prison. I want something I can walk to in that even though my house is a 5 minute drive to a grocery store, my child and I can walk to 2 schools and a library.
For working class people in particular, sadly, they can't "remote work" and instead have to show up at the store/warehouse/etc. where they physically need to do their jobs at an early time each morning and leave later in the day. If a bus takes a half hour or hour to get there, that's a total 10 hour workday for them. They also need transportation to pick up groceries and to do laundry. I went once to wash a large bedspread to a laundromat and it was full of working class poor spending their whole Saturday there. If you want to buy groceries in bulk, it's useful to have a car.
It interested me that Europeans had a lower impact lifestyle than Americans in that it's common for them to live with their parents to their 20's, even 30's until they got married saving money on rent and also walked to the tram/train stop and would make quick trips daily to the grocery store instead of bulk buying like us Americans do.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah - its very different living in high density european cities. There is a sort of 'escape velocity' to public transport that is very important. Once public transport is FASTER than private transport (car and taxi) what happens is that the rich and powerful use the public system. Think about London and Paris - once people like CEOs, High Court Judges, Members of Parliament, newspaper editors etc (and their friends and family) use the metro (or 'tube' in London) there are powerful vested interests in keeping the system safe and clean. I notice that this is not so in the USA - the public transport system is basically used by the poor, and the powerful don't care about it any more. The metro in NYC is really different than the Tube in london, in terms of scuzziness and personal safety.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I don't think it's just the density in that I see public transportation is more popular in rural regions of Europe among the middle class than in big cities in the states. I think it's a matter of social and cultural cohesion along with momentum.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah- the direction of travel is basically that we are going to have less and less public transport in Europe. The US is like the future for us. What people don't understand is that it doesn't matter what you want....that is what you are going to get. Wanting doesnt make it happen.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
I'm all in favor of this in principle. In practice, when my previous car was declared a total loss after being rear-ended by a teenage girl who wasn't paying attention, I would have been up Shit Creek without a paddle if I'd had to rely on buying a car with the liquid cash available to me at the time.
As @polishknight stated, in most of the U.S. not having reliable private transportation means one can't work due to how zoning is generally set up to separate residential and business districts. In the places where public transportation is an option you're looking at an extra hour each way minimum just to get to and from work. Maybe things are different in New England where the cities predate the invention of the internal combustion engine but, in the West where I live, most cities were literally built around automobile travel.
It's an incredibly retarded system, to be sure, but it's the one into which we were born, so we have no choice but to make the best of it.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
true woodsmoke - we have to adapt to the world we live in.
ps. I love the smell of wood smoke, esp in the winter.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
That's why I chose the name. Every time I go camping I put off washing my coat/jacket for as long as I can afterward because I love the way my clothes smell.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Europe, including Eastern Europe, can be a pleasure to travel in without a car. Trams and trains are ubiquitous along with a fleet of small mini-busses that appear every 15 minutes. There also are things to do near the stops such as affordable coffee and snacks. The working and even middle class use these facilities and public behavior and manners are generally good while in the states, public transit can feel sometimes like Kathleen Turner's character in Romancing The Stone going on the bus to Cartagena.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Yeah, that's the other downside of public transit. The odds you'll be sharing a bus with a morbidly obese welfare queen screaming into her phone (which is on speaker at the loudest volume) or a strung out homeless junkie who may or may not freak out and assault one of the other passengers for no discernible reason are better than even in any city big enough to have a transit system that's worth a damn - and even then it'll take three times as long to get anywhere via said system than it would to simply drive there in a private vehicle.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
there something magical when public transport intervals drop below 8 minutes or so - it means you never have to look at a timetable and aim for a particular train / bus. In london, the frequency is just minutes on the tube. The Victoria line train arrives every 100 seconds. You just turn up and go!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
There's this hilarious "foil and hogs" video of an exchange student in Germany where his German hosts get angry that he's running 2 whole minutes late: "Hurry! If we're late for the bus, we have to wait 5 whole minutes for the next one!"
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her cat might be the most redeemable part of her existence....
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Babies and rabies
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Everpax 1y ago
Fucking hell, these look like "before and after meth" photos.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
A few things;
If we even scratched under the surface, what I think we will find is a self entitled FAW (formerly attractive woman). How does she have a job and a business? Because its not usual to have both. I'm guessing that she means she is 'self employed' in some sort of loss making business like coaching or interior design. The real money is coming from her ex husband....which is also where she got the house from.
She's looking for a new financier.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Two daughters...that's a pedo trap in itself. Even if she didn't have kids, no fucking way I'd want to wake up to a younger-looking Nancy Pelosi...
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
My children are my world!!!! But I will burn that world down with a crappy boyfriend if it buys me 2 inches to make the IG posts look better.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
While most men are taller than 5'7" (given the average is 5'9"), having even this height requirement is just ridiculous when you are already in a compromised position in the dating market by being a single (or divorced) mom. Being picky on superficial qualities is not something that you have the luxury of options in a position like hers. Granted, the height requirement is not as severe in her case if it is simply "don't be shorter than me," but it still is superficial. Especially with the comment about how she doesn't "think that's a look."
It might surprise her to know this, but many guys might not think that having a relationship with a woman who has children from another man (or men) is a "look" either. But unlike his height, the children from another man is something that was the result of her choices.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Imagine if men wrote dating profiles which said "Please be at least 10 years younger than me, because I don't think me walking around with a woman my own age is a look" He would be cancelled. But when this post wall entitlement princess demands men that are tall, nobody bats an eyelid.
luckybachelor 1y ago
Jesus Christ, that is a hard 34. I don't buy it. She's pushing up against 40 at best. I also notice in the second pic she looks under the influence. It could be the bad lighting or her eyelids are naturally heavy but I'm going with alcoholism or pills. Either way, hard pass.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Meh I'd cum in her but I have a cougar fetish.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's do-able all right but not if shes going to be a PITA. And she does look like a PITA.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Nah, she has her own place. Just cum over after the kids are in bed, give mommy her anti-depressant semen injection, and leave.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
PITA = pain in the ass. I think she is going to be a pain in the ass.
She sure looks like an entitlement princess. Honestly, she's a classic FAW (formerly attractive woman). She's been trading on her looks her whole damn life. She's had everything handed to her. And now her looks are fading and she's being replaced by younger hotter women.
I suspect that she hasn't really understood what has happened to her SMV yet. She is not sounding in the least bit humble.