Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What? This 'bum' had the temerity to prioritize actual family above this thot's shopping sprees, vacations and cruises? How dare he. She was 'empowered' to cheat and she showed him exactly what she deserves and where she belongs: the streets.
Good for him on two accounts. I think his nephews may stand a chance in this screwed up world.
Well, at least she is blaming social media instead of men.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Dude dodged a bullet, this bitch clearly was backing up the truck for any/all resources he had to begin with.
See, she isn't just some daffy bint that was "jealous" of IG whores living it up (deflection), her real anger is that money is HERS. And goddamn, that dude wasn't letting her spend HER money!! What an outrage!
I bet you $100 bucks the way she describes him to other whores now is he was "abusive" and "controlling" for not letting her be a stupid spendy bitch. Lucky man, usually dudes don't find this shit out until its family law time and they get totally rocked in court for alimony/support/plusFEELZtax.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Anything to avoid owning her decisions and the consequences thereof.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Accountability = female kryptonite
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That's because...
accountability is a tool of the patriarchy!
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Decisions are tools of the patriarchy!!!
Consequences are tools of the patriarchy!!!
Ownership is gready CaPiTaLiZiMzzz
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Aw shit
Back to re-education camp for me
Time to check my privilege
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
The check is in the mail...
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'd hate her too. Bye Felicia.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is, what the modern ladies call, "fumbling the bag".
Ladies, there's a lesson here: If a man loves you and you fuck it up, he will never love you again.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Once the mask is ripped off, it never goes on the same way again. Her best bet is to try the next sucker with a scarcity mindset.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Why? It's surely not because you love him, so did he get a promotion? Or a better job altogether? Or is it just until the next best thing comes around?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She went back into the dating market thinking that her value as a post-wall woman was equivalent to her value when she left the dating market in her 20s.
It's a sad reality for a lot of divorced women. They hit the market with fury, get plowed by a bunch of men who - for some reason - never want a 2nd date, and realize "oh fuck, i had a golden ticket and I wiped my ass with it". Then they try to go back because, let's face it, women hate having to work for a living like a man does.
A tale as old as no-fault divorce.
Doricel 1y ago
"let's face it, women hate having to work for a living like a man does."
I am proud in my ability to work hard and bust my ass off, it makes me feel very valuable to the society.
Much more valuable than a lazy woman that her only value to society is the hole between her legs.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Your thinking is flawed.
Women aren't just "the hole between their legs" - women actually serve a vital and necessary role that many of them have abandoned in favor of competing with men.
Doricel 1y ago
When i say "hole between her legs" i don't refer to all women.
I refer to the lazy modern feminists that just want to whine about the world instead putting the work required to be a better woman (losing weight and not riding the cock carousel counts as putting the work required, as well as building a pleasant personality)
These lazy women know that THEY AIN'T WORTH SHIT WITHOUT THE OFFER OF PUSSY.
Hope i clarified myself.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You did, thank you
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
And then they finally for once in their life learn the hard way, after decades of being insulated from consequence, that their chances of getting a rollback are now infinitesimal to nonexistent, should the man have any clue about his actual value and if he has the backbone to conserve it instead of letting it be wasted on a woman that pressed the "I wanna be a dumb slut" button of her own free will.
And for the peanut gallery - cheaters and divorcees share a specific trait: they'll happily do to you what they did to prior men.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is something that is rarely addressed is the loss of control. She must feel so helpless and powerless in this situation. To have absolutely no say so in the outcome and what's worse is that her sex and the promise of sex or the outright throwing her body at the betrayed husband doesn't work. It must gall her that she has no power over the situation she created.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Excellent point. Though, she always has the power of being a victim. You can be damn sure her IG followers know all about her plight.
She may have lost this catch, but she has already baited the trap again. Her true powerlessness comes from the level of men she can attract. So much for her luxury lifestyle....
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There are two defining days in a woman's life:
The day she realizes that she can leverage her sexuality to get whatever she wants from any man.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’ve always argued that point two on your list is when women become the “Karens” that we all interact with in day to day life. Some people blame menopause, but to use a phrase that I absolutely abhor; they’ve lost the privilege that they used to have over men and other women. Instead of evolving like men would, they throw tantrums every chance they get now that the playing field has been leveled.
I find it so condescending when women talk about the patriarchy. Women are born with inherent value that men are not. We have to earn your attention.
voskresenie 1y ago
"But only if we uphold ridiculous patriarchal standards! Like not being fat or a slut. Otherwise we're scum." Yep. You are. But the patriarchy didn't make you that way. You'd be scum even in the most sexually liberated, fat-accepting society possible, you'd just be even less likely to realize it.
Pic889 1y ago
Karens gave us Scott Seiss. Poor dude used to work at IKEA, so he had to deal with Karens demanding they get something for nothing as part of his job (at least he got a TikTok standup comedian gig out of it, also check out his YouTube channel for a "best of" compilation)
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
I'd like to use the above example to do a bit of thread hijacking.
It's a prime example of why women should pursue men with good saving/investment habits and not solely the ones who are high earners. First, a high income and a high savings rate may not be mutually exclusive, but they are not inherently tied. In fact, 51% of six-figure earners in the US are living paycheck to paycheck. If you can't save money earning $100k+ even in a HCOL area, you have bad habits. I gross $135k annually, and I'm able to live comfortably whilst maxing out my 401k, maxing out my Roth IRA, and contributing towards a standard taxable brokerage account. Last year my expenses were $26k, and I lived well (caveat: my house is paid for). When women say they want men who earn six figures they're really saying they want men who spend six figures. Men who spend that kind of money are either multi-millionaires (and thus rare), or they earn six figures and spend most (if not all) of their money. The latter have little to no retirement savings, and they may have credit card debt too.
Second, since I mentioned millionaires, women need to understand some statistics surrounding them. There are 22M of them in the US, and two thirds are age 60+. 23% are age 50-59, so that means only 10% of American millionaires are 49 or younger. Statistically, two thirds of millionaires are men, and 75% are already married. Moreover, the vast majority (80%) of millionaires achieved a seven-figure net worth via retirement plan investing (i.e. 401k, Roth IRA, etc). The top five professions of people who attained millionaire status are engineers, accountants, managers, teachers, and attorneys. Only 15% of millionaires have served in a senior executive position such as CEO, CFO, VP, etc. Those top five professions speak volumes, because they indicate that millionaires are mostly comprised of every day people who worked normal jobs and may not necessarily have earned super high incomes. What they held in common is that they invested as much of their money as they could and minimized expenses. Naturally, that means they weren't pissing away cash on a bunch of trips, fancy dinners, or expensive cars. They delayed gratification so that they could live large in retirement. Consequently, this is how average women can secure wealthy men. Instead of waiting at the finish line for the winners (who won't pick them), they should get with average men who have good financial habits. In doing so they can secure their futures.
The most important lesson women can learn is to not automatically assume a man is cheap when he lives frugally. He may be planning for a solid future where he and his future wife don't have to ever worry about finances. How will you know? Just ask him.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
No, the most important lesson a woman can learn is to be frugal herself, trusting her husband's leadership in all things related to money, and valuing his contribution as provider so much that she runs all purchases by him first.
This is my wife, so I know it can be done. I make under the poverty level, and have for over 20 years, and we are both thankful and have spare money to invest as well.
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