Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Someone wife you up at 41? Slim chance... and it'll only be a guy who doesn't excude masculinity if it even happens...
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
This might have still been true as late as the 1980s, but it is certainly not true anymore.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
No one will wife you up because you aren't wife material.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She wants a tall male into curvy girls that is also a woke liberal that hates Trump.
Note to college females who don’t want to marry “down.” You already outnumber males on campus 2 to 1. The ever fewer white males on campus are finally getting tired of the relentless and expanding PC environment that blames them from every ill from rape to black crime and at the same time expects them to pay more and more taxes to support the “47%.”
If you want to marry at your social, financial and intellectual level, you are going to have to out compete the other two girls who are trying to land the same lacrosse player/frat boy/computer geek. It may be fun to chant “Black Lives Matter” and “take back the night,” but your best chance for finding a well matched mate is while you are in college.
The competition just gets tougher out in the real world (ask your older sister about how much fun the dating game is in your 30’s! ) Your future financial security, not to mention happiness, depends on beating the competition. So if Trump rallies are increasingly “where the bros are,” you might want to take a shower, shave your legs, put on some nice clothes and head for the next Trump rally.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I like all kinds of movies, and one that has stuck with me regarding the PC stuff is "PCU" (1994). It made fun of every single thing that is "woke" now, the militant lesbians, the idiot protestors du jour, the vegan outrage against meat, etc... even had a token Malcom X white hater too, "Even the chalk is white, the paper is white".
Now, you couldn't even make that film, it was so on the nose. I recommend it if you can find it somewhere, worth a watch - even better when relaxed and drunk or whatever.
College has become such a killjoy piece of garbage.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
What makes things worse is the perception that a college degree in itself is a worthy accomplishment, even if the degree itself was for a field of study that is nothing more than fluff ("Any degree is a good degree!"). I do not see someone as more intelligent just because they went to an extra 4 years of school. Show me your knowledge and skills, and I will see if you are someone who is intelligent and capable, regardless of the degree.
But so many women just assume that their degree puts them at a higher level than any man without a college degree, even if she has 6 figures of debt and only makes $45,000 a year after going to college. College is supposed to be an investment, and if that investment does not pay for itself, it was a bad investment. But this is not understood by the women whose understanding of achievements starts and ends with the letters B.A., B.S, M.A., M.S, or PhD. If you need to hear what someone's degree is in order to (possibly inaccurately) determine someone's intelligence, you prove yourself not to be intelligent.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I fell for that garbage :(
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Dont feel too bad. So did I and a lot of us trying to use up our GI Bill money. The irony for me is where I work now, it's either military OR college degree. I could have the same job without the degree and started four years sooner and had four more years of seniority
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I went right out of high school. I even went into debt!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
In her defense she says "taller than me" which gives her a minimal hypergamy score. She reminds me a lot of the women I knew back in college during the 1980's which was "happy times" for double-dipping liberal career women: large numbers of baby boomer men looking to marry down and fewer gen-X women hence a great male:female ratio for career women looking to marry professional men by their early 30's.
She's on the cusp of a generation that enjoys the benefits of feminism (more women in the workplace/universities) but also, fewer men available to satisfy their hypergamy albeit minimal AND her biological clock has hit the snooze alarm about a half dozen times already. 41 and wanting to get wifed up? Young men of her generation are from ground zero of broken homes. They've seen their friends get divorced. They know she's unlikely to have kids and if he wanted kids, he should at least get someone 5 years younger.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
At least? Anything over 30 is a no go for dating. Think of the timeline. You date 18 months, you propose, the wedding happens 12 months later. She’s already 32 1/2 at minimum. She’s pushing geriatric pregnancy already when you go for #2.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm 48 so in her bracket. I'm 6" taller than her. Not into most of the things she listed. Not into fat, old chicks. Why would I wife her up right before she hits menopause?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
At the gym, I see some chicks who are fat but otherwise pleasant looking and the skinny ones that look like they're starving. I find the starving ones less pleasant to be around (I worry they'll suck away my life force.)
The minor hypergamy of "at least as tall as me" meaning they'll dump a guy if he's even a millimeter shorter than her comes across as especially demanding when she's aging in dog years at this point. Like you said, she hits menopause in a few years. Why should a man offer her commitment while she is so petty with her demands? If a man votes for Trump, is that going to change the world by itself? If a man could give her a lifetime of love and commitment, would that be worth giving up heels? If Scarlett Johansson were to husband-me-up, I wouldn't gripe about her voting Democrat.
When I was 30 I fell for a charming 50 year old lawyer. She was feminine and great in the sack but she was selfish and I had enough of her drama. If she had played her cards right, I'd probably have stuck with her. About 4 years later, I referred a friend to her for legal advice and he said she looked like an old woman. In those 4 years, the bottom fell out from her looks.
As men age, we see things happen. We see friends divorce. We see women who looked fine just a few years ago become The Cryptkeeper.
Another thought: Women like this remind me of the paradigm from Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer: The Island of Misfit Toys: These women want to be cared for like top-grade toys but they have issues that limit their marketability: "Who wants a Charlie in the Box?" She wants a liberal guy whose going to meet her traditionalist demands and all under 2 years. Not even Santa could use his magic powers to deliver that toy.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’s really crazy. The wall is real. But in reality, there’s a few walls that a woman hits. The first one where her basic youth advantages come to a stop (this happens to men as well; that college diet of beer, pizza and Mountain Dew might not hurt when you’re 20, but good luck to you if you eat that way at 30). Then their skin gives out a bit and they start looking like a tired shell of themselves without makeup. But women can semi-overcome this with diet, exercise and makeup (they’ll never match their early 20’s, but they’d still manage to be considered “pretty” by most of the population). Then menopause and it is really, really all over.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Politics are her deal breaker? Awesome. Women over the age of 30 are mine.
I can swipe left, too.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yeah she's 10+ years too late to get in line to get married to the tier of man she is demanding. I'm only a few years older than her and she's not even remotely an option even for recreational purposes for that matter, as she's the sort to be completely fucking insufferable. She's a female bugman. She's played out her line of credit in the sexual marketplace ages ago and has failed to accept that.
TLDR version; Men with a working brain aren't interested in paying fresh egg prices for rotten eggs.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Imagine if this woman (nearly) hit the lottery: A man who was attracted to all of the things she just mentioned, including Howard Stern and her leftism, who also paid for restaurants and travel (because we know she's not going to have fun unless he's being a gentleman whose also a leftist), and (nearly) everything else on her shopping list including ready to have kids with her if she wants but...
He's 1 inch SHORTER than her.
Now think about it: She wouldn't stick around with what would be the perfect, IDEAL man over a mere inch but yet she would want a man whose ready to "wife her up", as she's now figuratively over the hill, whose best years are behind her. A man who has NOTHING to gain by signing on a one-sided contract and EVERYTHING to lose.
Heck, let's have fun with this thought experiment: She hits 50 now. Stuff is starting to fall off of her. Would she still reject that otherwise perfect man over 1 inch?
My wife has a 46 y/o friend whose been divorced THREE times, divorce raped them all, and she now is dating a 60 year old guy whose every hair is gray and he doesn't pitch in for anything. My wife was disgusted that he brought food for a party she was throwing and he asked her to pay him back for it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And it’s only going to get worse for her. Hope she enjoyed her cash payouts and remembered to invest, because I envision wine and cats for the next 35 years. She’s probably lucky that said 60 year old guy even sticks around to keep her amused from time to time. I’m sure she’ll push to “share a life together” soon, and he’ll magically lose interest.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
And to pontificate on that, anything he could get from her via the contract that is of value to him, he can get without it.
One does not need marriage to claim paternity of any children. A power of attorney will suffice for most other things that a marriage contract enables, while being able to have safeguards and limitations built into it that a marriage contract no longer offers. A man would have no need to give unfettered access to his assets. A dead bedroom (read: attempting to use sex as a bargaining tool) without a marriage contract just means the guy can bail at little loss to himself.
Going to be a lot of very lonely over 30 women over the next few generations once men collectively figure that out.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Not only that, but the kind of men that women desire: Men with "stuff", increasingly need to be red-pilled for basic survival, even the chads. When I reached my 30's, some of the chads I knew were paternity trapped. Richard Cooper apparently is divorced with a child. To survive through university and corporate America, a man has to watch his mouth around women to avoid getting fired. That's party why I think Trump has this Touretts syndrome going on: He was born rich and handsome and nobody could fire him so he could afford to be autistic, but for most other men, we grow up needing to watch our every step.
Back in the 1970's, being blue-pilled was a slight advantage: Yes, you rolled the dice and hoped that you'd be lucky but overall being a "nice guy" got men girlfriends and married albeit increasingly with the woman wearing the pants but now, I don't think most blue pilled men can get to 2rd base. All the incentives have dried up but millions of men haven't gotten the memo.
I chuckle at the old public service commercials on Saturday morning TV: "Learning is fun!" they'd say but for the most part, learning is a painful, awful process where much of the time people are telling you the opposite of what's true and you have to finally come to grips with the painful realizations because it's better than the frustration of pushing the same rock uphill over and over again. It will be interesting when "1he hundredth monkey" effect kicks in.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Wow a fat, opinionated, post-wall, Disney princess, delusional bitch.
Form a line boys.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Good thing I voted for trump. She’ll leave me alone and probably call me racist.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
and she is absolutely baffled why she is still single. Cant be her fault...right?
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
A line like this perhaps? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0GW0Vnr9Yc
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I could find many, many of these kind of men for this woman. And she’s probably come across them, too.
But, no tingles. She doesn’t actually want those men. If she did, she wouldn’t be 41 on Bumble, looking for her Hail Mary.
Pic889 1y ago
Her Hail Mary was when she was 36. Now it's the phase of bitterness and high standards™. And cats. Lots and lots of cats.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
It's funny how women think men will swipe left or right based on their political leanings. Unless the guy has blatant MAGA stuff on his dating profile, he can just pretend he believes the same things as her.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
To be fair, I tried this tactic once and she turned out to be insufferable. Wasn’t worth the squeeze.
I’d expect religiously conservative women could be equally irritating, but there’s just way more of the former than the latter. And from my POV, it’s not that I’d disagree with most of what they say, it’s just that I don’t want to talk about tracking devices being inserted into our body via vaccine mandates or something.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
This tactic might accomplish what you want if you are only looking for something short term. But for anyone looking for something long lasting, this is definitely a bad idea. Whether you think you can stealthily convert someone or do a big reveal and hope that it will be accepted, it just is not a great idea. Matching politics is not going to make for a working relationship, but having them diametrically opposed is a doomed prospect.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
FWIW I wasn’t taking her seriously for relationship. More like chick that I could convince to be a strong and independent boss babe that goes 50/50 on everything, so that I could potentially get cheap action while looking for a far better woman. But her attitude ended up being too much to even deal with. If I wanted to be with masculine energy bosses, I’d be gay. .
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
A fat dance teacher? Of what, Critical Dance Theory? Holy fuck, you can't make this shit up.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
Break dancing. Breaking the floor that is.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Fiona seeking shrek
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She turns into an ogre in the morning when your alcohol wears off and you have post-ejaculate clarity.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Pretty sure she's not into archery
She wants a taller man? I'm so surprised, never would have seen that coming!
When a woman says "curvy", it means "overweight"
"Never been married" doesn't mean she hasn't slept with the whole drama club, for years
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Look how wrinkle free her face looks. That’s unnatural for women a good 10-15 years younger than she is. Odds are, lots of makeup and lots of filter. Comparing her made up face to men, who actually have to work for our visual appeal instead of just painting it on
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Attention! Attention! Blue light special on Aisle 12! Spoiled milk, full price!! Get it while it’s hot! Next up, cats and boxed wine on Aisle 13!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I just don't understand why women like this are still single...what is wrong with the world today? Can't men recognise a princess when they see one?
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The more you think about the 'prefer a man that is taller than me' the weirder it gets. Can you imagine if a man put in his profile 'prefer a woman that is hotter than me'.
He'd be laughed out of town. But for women, its totally normal to expect and demand a man that is taller / richer / more educated / more muscular. That's just normal.
They have no idea of how unhinged they actually are.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I realized in my youth that most young women my age were, by definition, "hotter" than me even when they really weren't in the sense that they were average looking, but the proportion of men available to them were 4:1 or even more. After all, older men will happily date women 20 years younger than them (or more if they can get away with it) and women prefer older men as well.
So in terms of SMV or even RMV, young women set the baseline that they can demand a "hotter" guy and this is how it should ALWAYS be between men and women. Heck, they can also unilaterally demand "the man always does the asking out" since the market is so skewed in their favor. They should take it as a hint that if they HAVE to go on a dating app because nobody even remotely viable is asking them out, that the market has turned.
When they age to that point they still live in that reality because they think this is a universal truth and that they'd rather die than "settle" or "marry down" but this is like a storeowner who has Valentine's Day decorations deciding he's better throwing them out rather than marking them down out of the principle he should always sell them for top dollar.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
100% correct. Women have a high value when younger, and then the tables turn, and most of them don't get the memo. That explains the post wall delusional thinking. They spend 10 years banging guys that are 3 steps above them in desirability (because guys date down to get action) and then after the wall carrying on demanding 10s when they are only 7s. Or 8s when they are 5s. Or 5s when they are 2s.
The thing that they don't want to accept is that they tables turn. After the wall, they are going to need to date down, not the guys. I see it all the time. Guys after 40, if they are 7s, they get to smash 10s.
And women hate that. hahahahahahahahahahahahhaahha
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What’s really unhinged is that they demand all of this, and then expect monogamy. They’re going to the luxury car dealership and demanding to own the car, but only offer enough to lease the car.