Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Bitch, you don't think.
you FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELZ
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Kevin's recent post.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago
Got a good chuckle from this meme dude, thanks! Crossposted and added to the meme list.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago
haha epic :)
Whisper one of TRP's originators 1y ago
Feminism's attitude about sex exactly tracks the age of its leading figures. In the 70s and early 80s, when feminist thinkers were young (20s), feminism was all about women's liberation, and removing the social stigma from female sexual hedonism and promiscuity.
Now that there are many women raised with feminism who are in their 40s and beyond, the ideology has done a complete 180 degree reversal to stereotyping young women as poor naive babes in the woods who cannot fend predatory older men, because the older men are smarter, wiser, and more powerful than them.
This clearly illustrates the point I frequently make... that feminism is not an ideology or philosophy at all... it is simply a set of arguing tactics which can be calibrated to whatever the speaker wants.
ZZoMBiE13 1y ago
No, friend, you misunderstand feminism. Feminism is just a way to get women what they need.
See, women NEED to nag. It's a biological imperative for them akin to the biological clock... they NEED it. And since most feminists certainly can't find a man to nag on their own, they founded a movement that allowed them to nag on a global societal scale.
orbilius 1y ago
That's true. But it's also true that feminist attitudes are adjusted to do the most damage to society. Maybe that's just a coincidence though.
wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
Society is predicated on the rule that actions have consequences. Feminism's one and only goal is to remove any possible consequences for women. Therefore, feminism destroys society. Judge the intentionality in whatever way you choose.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Erica Jong, as a hip young feminist, wrote about the "zipless fuck" where she could have sex with strangers on trains.
Around her 40s, she rather started singing a different tune.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I think The Wall has a special brick just for her....
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
She hit the wall and broke on through to the other side, to paraphrase the Doors.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
*one Google search later*
Wow, truly empowered. Stunning and brave.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I regret googling that.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
There's a lot I regret googling in the past few days
"She-Hulk twerk" for example.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I have learned to refrain from Googling things you refer to as being questionable, ya' sick bastard.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Hahaha
I had only googled that garbage because of another thread:
https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/318944/single_mom_with_kids_by_different_fathers_gets_ghosted_by_5/7794197
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I have learned to refrain from using that corrupt corporation for anything at all, do not bandy its name about in casual conversation, and certainly avoid using its name as a verb.
I do like feigning ignorance about it though :D
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
My good buddy @lurkerhasarisen frequently likes to say that feminists try to treat equality and rights like a smorgasbord.
They only want whatever is convenient for them in the moment. There are no actual values or principles.
principles are a tool of the patriarchy!
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It perpetuates the pattern of always framing women as the victim, never having personal agency. Avoidance of accountability with a smattering of naive-defensibility to make things look good.
No, no, no, it can't be that younger women find older men hot, and that said men have more resources -- noooo, it has to be that she's too fucking dumb and men are evil...
Feminutz really have to get their shit together, because the narrative isn't going to survive another taffy-pull of reality like this one.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It is comments like this one that keeps me comin' back!
Spot on, good sir!
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I don't listen to post-carousel women when they complain about me fucking younger women. Do you know why?
Because when we were younger, they were fucking older men.
They're just like these Hollywood actresses who suddenly care about roles for older women when they can no longer get roles based on their youth and beauty.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Even if any particular woman wasn't doing that, it still wouldn't be any of her business. This meme by @Typo-MAGAshiv, and the related post by @kevin32, address an issue that numerous feminists have written about in recent years. Nobody is putting words in their mouths: older feminist women routinely complain about "predatory" older men having relationships with "naive" younger women. It is not at all uncommon for them to refer to those men as pedophiles, even though the women are legal adults in their 20s and not prepubescent children.
Three things come to my mind.
1) Feminism was a major driving force behind the Sexual Revolution, and the women who are complaining benefit greatly from the sexual power they possess (even if any individual woman chooses not to use it). Now that the rule is, "Nothing that happens between consenting adults may be criticized,," they have to live with the fact that women who can out-compete them will get the men they want.
1a - related) Nobody sheds a tear for men who complain about not getting the women they want because those women chose other men. If fact, those men are mocked and referred to as "Incels," and are told that nobody owes them anything. That last part is true, but that leads me to 2:
2) Men don't owe the complaining women anything, either. Since women have no obligations to men (we're now at the point where wives don't even have sexual obligations to their own husbands - although even ex-husbands retain financial obligations to ex-wives), we may dismiss the feminist notion that the women of a generation are entitled to "right of first refusal" over the men of their generation. (The same applies to nationality: western men who marry feminine foreign women are not depriving western women of "their" men.) The brazen entitlement behind such arrogance is stunning.
3) The same women who complain about losing out to younger (or foreign) women can only do so by infantilizing those women. They will refer to 12-year-old girls as "women" whose decisions may not be questioned, but by the time those 12-year-olds are 22 and dating the older men they want, suddenly we hear about the development of the cerebral cortex, and that men are taking advantage of literal children who can't be trusted to make their own decisions in their 20s. (Of course they have no problem with letting them vote or make other kinds of serious decisions.) In the case of western men marrying superior foreign women, those women are presumed to be the victims of economic coercion rather than adults capable of weighing their options and deciding accordingly. As I have frequently stated: Nothing infantilizes women more than feminism.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Regarding feminism's narcissistic rage against foreign women: There's nothing stopping any aging women to hustle to get the men they want. Like for men, there's no guarantee you'll land an ideal mate you desire, of course, but men are conditioned to handle risk. Western women are raised to regard risk as unfeminine and a relationship to be an entitlement: The “prince” should slay the dragon and climb through her window. If she has to go down and open the door to let him in, there’s no point in their minds. Disney movies didn’t help matters.
It astonishes me at the quality of men that they could meet if they actually had basic “strategy” to do so, but, why should I do them favors and help them? Heck, they wouldn’t listen to us anyway but in any case, let ‘em suffer.
Indeed, it is strange that the men they mock as unwanted by American women generate resentment when he marries a foreign woman. It’s my guess they like the idea of keeping him “in his place” which is not driven by jealousy, but rather malice. They don’t like men and they want men to suffer with even the good ones existing solely to please them. Men are not allowed to be happy simply as human beings.
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