Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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DextroShade 1y ago
Sounds like she became the man she wants to marry. Meanwhile the guys who are making what she makes don't give a damn about her money and rather get a younger hotter girl with less bodies and baggage. The time for her to bag a rich guy was 20+ years ago, now she will either have to settle for a "loser" who makes less than her or die alone.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Too old and too entitled. A 46 year old man that makes as much as she demands isn't going to invest it in an empty egg carton. But, hey, there is a silver lining, she makes enough that she could self fund her own retirement, assuming that she lives within her means....
BWAHAHAHAHA! Yeah, we all know the real reason she wants a Mr Moneybags to show. She just wants some rich schlub to bankroll her desired quality of life without her having to work.
Well, she can want in one hand and shit in the other, see which gets full first.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I know of this one older woman that still thinks she's the shit, hanging out longingly staring at the bartender as if she has a shot. We're talking that stage where she has that tendon-like turkey neck coming in, with the attendant wrinkles on the face.
She asked me my age, and I told her thinking it didn't matter anyway, because 1) I wasn't trying for her cracked leather catcher mitt, and 2) She was of similar age so I thought it was no big deal.
Well, I shit you not, once I told her she just uttered some stupid response and fucked off in short order. As if being with someone near her age cohort would screw up her chances with the younger crowd.
What a stupid bitch. I laughed later about it when I got home. Women never change, do they? She still has some residual self-image in her head of her in her 20's, when she's way past the wall and looking like it, too.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
She might be getting some attention from young men because old(er) women are good for practice. She is confusing that for attraction or having a chance. She'll be pumped and dumped until guys find her ugly enough to not do so. But she isn't getting commitment out of them.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Heh, I make about 1/10th of her salary, but have no debt and work less than ten hours a week. I'd rather be me. At least I know my wife/friends don't like me for my wealth.
Also if you're a rich guy you paint a target on your head for women like these. I can see how that would be fun sometimes, but would also blind you to women who only liked you for your money.
No woman has ever chased me for my money or my looks, I'm thinking I'm the privileged one.
OPPTRP 1y ago
What do you do
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've got looks and height, you're kind aright about being the privileged one. Had terrific luck with FWB/hookups in my 20s and early 30s. Of course some of the people I was actually interested in but I could never get anywhere because I was just a fuckbuddy so it seems to have caused some intimacy issues long term. Now I won't even put my real height in my bio because I don't want to deal with the height fetishists who are desperate to get knocked up before 40.
When you're tall and in shape women will hook up with you while you're homeless living in your car in a walmart parking lot. But in hindsight I was hooking up with the kind of women who hook up with homeless people. I think I regret at least 90% of my sex life.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
Lololol
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Dude…. I think this is a real thing. I’m also 6’3”/220lbs and make $170K per year. I sometimes run into these late 30’s single childless women who put off STRONG vibes of “put a baby in me”. I never really stopped to think that the height thing might be some kind of fetish where I’m just ticking a box on their baby DNA checklist.
The joke is on the though, I’m snipped.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Grass is always greener I guess. As a bluepill I'd often wish to be more chad-like, but looking back over my life I dodged a lot of bullets merely by being a beta.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I could write a bit about how 'making it' means you give up some things, but unless you've gotten there it just sounds like the world's smallest violin playing.
Its true, you do give up things - even though resources are nice, people will ghost/hate you when they find out you have money, and women... christ, don't even try going there because its a nightmare.
It is funny seeing chicks pass me over though, they have zero idea of what I could do -- they would never have to work again, or as the quote I got from some movie says "Stick with me baby, you'll be farting through silk."
But they have no idea. I don't advertise, there's no point. Like you said - if she gives a shit because of money then its a lie anyway.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
The rich shouts, the wealthy whispers.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Nice. A song that captures a bit of this predicament is Tom Macdonald's "Spaceman" from "As far as the stars" album:
"Hey spaceman, how's the moon?" "Was it worth everything you gave up, how's the view?" "Aim for the stars, way in the dark, did space take the weight from your heart, Hey spaceman... would you choose?"
Gets me every time, even though I would choose to do it all over again.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
How many hours does she work to make $210,000? Is she ever home for her rich husband when he gets off work and needs to unwind? Also, what's she gonna do with her $700,000 home, make him live in it?
What does a rich suitor need her wealth for if he himself is rich? He could just find a more humble and more attractive woman who makes less and is content.
Is she also hot? The same man she wants can Leonardo DiCaprio his way down to a fertile 24-year-old baddy without the entitlement complex and without offering of things he already has and has more of
She would have had more luck climbing a rich man's dick at age 24 and sexy (if she ever even was) than she is right now climbing the career ladder straight into menopause
orbilius 1y ago
Her story is sketchy too. She says she's building her "business" but then talks about salary and bonuses. If she's an interior designer with her own practice, she's getting commissions and income averaging. I've never heard a business owner talk about salary, much less bonuses.
So I'm guessing every number here is bullshit. Her age is probably fudged a bit.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The bullshit detection is strong with this one!!!
If you are an interior designer, there is no such thing as salary or bonus. Every number here is bullshit. Lives in a 700k house with 210k 'salary' + bonus, but still has 400k of mortgage?
I am guessing that she is confusing turnover with salary - as in, her interior design business made 210 in sales. Which is not the same as salary.
source: I'm a small business owner.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
She's 46 years old and she's ready to "settle down" NOW?!?!?! She should have done that half her lifetime ago.
She spent her entire adult life collecting the attributes of a rich husband like so many baseball cards rather than becoming the kind of woman those men want as wives. As Betty Freidan famously quipped, " We have become the men we were going to marry."
The ship filled with rich husbands for her age group sailed 20 years ago, and it's not coming back for her. She placed herself on a shelf thinking that when she decided to climb down that there would be a group of men who had 1) done what she had done and 2) wanted to pair off with a perimenopausal boss-bitch.
She ought to recognize that her MMV is not comparable to any man who would trigger her hypergamy. . She mistakenly thinks that a man like her wants a woman like her, but her MMV counterpart is the chilled-out guy in the rent-controlled apartment. If she wants to live in a mansion with a husband, she's going to be the one paying for it, and he's going to be the "wife" in the relationship.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
I was about to search for that quote.
But she does have an option (outside of cats or dogs, red, white or rosé): becoming a lesbian and dating another one of her. That's pretty much her only hope of finding someone around her age interested in what she has to offer and looking for the same things. Yet, it'll never happen - she most likely barely stands herself, and would hate another person like that.
redblow22 1y ago
I know y'all already know this, but what male, earning peer, is going to want a 46 year old woman? If he wants children, that ship has sailed. If he doesn't want children, there's plenty of younger women who would be on board with that. As the Prophet Kevin taught, buy a dog and die alone.
chunky 1y ago
If she looks good, she could be spun as a plate by such a man. If not, she needs to cougar or buy a dog. That's it.
turkish_delight 1y ago
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No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
$210k a year, and has only $300k invested in her house? Makes me wonder what kind of debt she has, and how much she's living beyond her means. I'm sure her fur-baby cats are happy with their Premium Tinder Vittles. Have another margarita, singleton. It's going to be awhile for that "winner" to show up.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
yup - she's 46 years old and lists one of her financial 'achievements' as having paid off her student debt.
Such rich, much wow!
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Sweatie, no amount of money in the world will make you sufferable in the long term. If you have not found a man that is able to stand being around you in 46 years, you had better get used to being alone.
ZZoMBiE13 1y ago
I quote the gospel of Saint Kevin, "I sayeth this, yon shrew... purchase a canine and shuffle off they mortal coil in solitude."
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
All I could think of with this woman is the late great one playing taps and saluting.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I can almost hear the late great KS saying, in his musical southern drawl: "The trouble is, the men that you want, don't want what you have to offer"
This woman will never get it. She just doesn't get it. She sneers at a man who rents an apartment 'who's nearly 50 now'. This same woman would have an emotional breakdown if we sneered at a 46 year old woman that was looking for a rich man.
What the next 10 to 20 years looks like for this woman: She is looking for a "rich man" but she will soon find that rich men don't want her. She may then adjust her sights and look for an 'average man'. She will find that average men don't' want her. She may then adjust her sights and look for any kind of man. She will then discover that no kind of man wants her.
This will play out over a long period, because she is clearly, obviously, a slow learner.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Its funny, because I rent. I'm doing so because I know the housing market is going to get eviscerated in the depths of the depression that is developing.
But of course stupid bitch with her checklist has zero idea of what the fuck is going on, unless its some celebrity gossip.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The great danger I see here is not that she will trap a man. It is that she will be in the workforce longer than she expects because she does not have a retirement plan. Even with her income, I doubt she has a retirement option that she likes.
I foresee a lot of bitter, angry women making the workplace even more toxic and risk-laden as they realize they cannot retire early. Be careful out there, gents. It is going to get ugly.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Literally my ex when I was in my 20s. The only guy she could get was a horny 20yr old tech support guy. Nothing like dried up, loose pussy to make your weekend slightly better.