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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / $ Bailout $

Pregnant mom is tired of jerks stringing her along, and needs someone who knows what little worth she offers.
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kevin32

Posted 2y ago in $ Bailout $ - Permalink - Locked - 3.6K Views



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reignoferror00 2y ago

Your worth? Well, I guess the guy wouldn't have to worry about getting you pregnant right now. Long term? Puh-lease.

Plenty of guys are serious and know your worth. Your situation is more serious than a heart attack, and potentially more debilitating. They will seriously stay away from any relationship with you. Along with having to deal with someone who has delusions of grandeur, is an additional mouth to feed with no relation to you - plus plenty of potential "drama" that will come along with that.

Think you need to consult some independent appraisers to give you your worth, since you are denying any depreciation due to your situation. For the sake of argument let's go with what you think you are in value - a brand new Mercedes. Your being pregnant with someone else's child = that car going full speed into a telephone pole. A lot easier and less costly to write off then to try and rebuild.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

So, she is on a hookup app looking for commitment after she has already hooked up? Perhaps we should make another app strictly for pregnant women looking for a husbank. We can call it Swindle. After all, these sloots are giving Tinder a bad name. oh...wait. /S

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago

Once again a LVW is conflating "Can't handle" with "Don't want to carry my enormous self-created burdens."

Women attempt to shame any man who doesn't want to take on the burden of the children "his" woman bore for another man. On the other hand, men are more likely to look down on the guys who fall for it.

Why? Because HVM know that the "worth" of such a woman is too low for his commitment.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

Once again a LVW is conflating "Can't handle" with "Don't want to carry my enormous self-created burdens."

Fucker beat me to it!

Additionally, I hope more men start recognizing that "can't handle" garbage for the manipulative BS that it is.

knows my worth...can't handle me being pregnant

To paraphrase the great lyricist Corey Taylor:

Oh, I'm not afraid

I'm seeing only grievances again

I'm looking at an absolute zero

I'm not the devil but I won't be your hero


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PSA for any lurking wahmyns out there:

Your dating profile photo should never be in a restroom, especially a public one.

Want to know why so many men just refuse to take women seriously? The proliferation of restroom photos for the last 15-20 years is one of the many reasons.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago

Among men, only gay dudes and drug addicts think of public restrooms as places to score.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

It's disgusting.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago

Obviously I'm long-since out of the dating game, but I think I understand the rules well enough to know that if I was thrown back in I would have some photos done by a professional (or at least a decent hobbyist), and then curate my profile to appeal to the kind of women who would make up my target audience. A mirror selfie in a public toilet wouldn't make the cut for the simple reason that I wouldn't want to be with the kind of woman whose hypergamy would be triggered by a picture like that.

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Bonzai-Shaihulud 2y ago

And the most amazing thing about it is that I have never met a woman that doesn't have a full size mirror at home outside of their restroom... Why not taking that kind of selfie in front of THAT mirror, instead of a restroom one ???

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

The excuse I most frequently encountered was that the lighting in the bathroom was better.

That's an incredibly lame excuse.

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Bonzai-Shaihulud 2y ago

Extremely lame yeah, especially when most of them doesn't know shit about photography...

Unless you count as photography the process of "taking out the Iphone - let it do all in automatic mode or whatever - take 50 selfies - post the least horrendous with a ton of shitty filters - ending up with something that look like an overexposed 70's Polaroid picture taken in a sleazy disco"

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Imagine the Audacity one must have to say it’s someone’s weakness if they don’t want to deal with a major, obvious flaw that you present them. I can handle you being pregnant, or fat, or argumentative. I just don’t want to.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

It's the notion of feminine, chivalrous entitlement: A man isn't a "real man" if he doesn't take care of a woman's needs or demands. He's expected to do this simply for his own existence and even enjoy holding open doors and paying for dates because "gentlemen" just enjoy doing that, hence, no gratitude is required. On the other hand, everything a woman does beyond simply existing is a major accomplishment because a woman just needs to exist to be a "Real Woman". If she earns "her own money", or "has her own house", that's bringing more to the table than "the table." Her existence, even negative traits, are assets by definition.

I remember almost like it was yesterday, 35 years ago on the early internet, a woman justifying her entitlements asked "Why do you bother dating women? You don't like us very much!" I had to concede she had a point: Her entitled attitude made her loathsome to me. I also realized that part of what made her loathsome is she didn't like me much either. I put on hold, temporarily, relationships with women until I could figure out why I would want to pursue a woman whom I loathed and who had little regard for myself. It reminded me of getting all excited to go to bars when I was 21 and then going in and... it was horrid and boring to me.

Raising a son would have been a challenge because I know how tough it is to survive in the world, particularly this modern era but raising a daughter is a different challenge: It won't take much for me to teach her to get by but rather how to be a decent and responsible human being in the face of biological and social drivers setting low moral standards. For now, I'm teaching her how to relate to our cat and that the cat doesn't owe her affection. The cat has been a wonderful teacher.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yeah, ultimately I think it’s easier to raise a daughter. To set a girl up for life success, all you have to teach her is to not screw up. Exercise, don’t do drugs, don’t date 18 year old guys when you’re 13, don’t get pregnant. If you made your daughter with a good looking woman, odds are she’ll at least be pretty. That’s enough to open up lots of social potential for her.

A son, I know their life will be pretty crappy if they are average or below. From my own personal story, I’m short (5’7”) and naturally quite stocky. Imagine what my life would look like if, say, I didn’t manage to get a marketable degree from a selective university? If I didn’t have a well paid and stable career? Women would basically think I’m beneath them. If a son of mine is mediocre, it’s a near guarantee that he’ll be dealing with average at best women that will cause nothing but turmoil while he’s with them. The standard is high when you’re like this. Kevin samuels put it best, a man is allowed one struggle. If you’re already short, you better not be ugly, or dumb, or lazy, or broke. Else it’s curtains.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


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