Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago Stickied
Moral of the story: any woman who desires marriage in her future should prepare herself for married life well before she is even married. Yes, that means she should not sleep around. Is that much to ask of her? Yes. But it is also a lot to ask a man to have him marry any particular woman, given the investment he is required to provide in terms of finances and work. Not to mention the current risks as well that men now have to fear, which makes the case even stronger for men to have every right to demand a non-promiscuous woman.
aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 1y ago
This idea that women's Ns are important to men is something that women just do not get no matter how many times it's explained to them. It's like the "we don't give a shit about your education, jobs, or bank accounts"- we keep telling women this, but they still just absolutely refuse to listen or understand.
Men: You keep evaluating women and their Ns. If this is important to you, then it's important to you. Don't apologize for that no matter how much shaming and lack of understanding is thrown at you.
Pic889 1y ago
Can anyone explain to me the obsession with n-counts? It's not a guarantee for anything. Heck, you can marry a woman with an n-count of 0 and she will happily cheat on you if she stops thinking highly of you for whatever reason and if Chad Thundercock gives her the right tingles. If she stops wanting you, she will leave, n-count is irrelevant. In fact, a low n-count could hide suppressed desires.
Don't rely on any (purported) n-count to rush into marriage. Either don't get married at all (best option IMO) or if you must marry vet the woman for several years before marrying, and even then take legal precautions such as pre-nups that establish separate financials and putting all your property in a family trust. Again. ideally you won't marry in the first place, but if you must marry, vetting for several years is the most crucial thing, because living with a woman for several years is enough for her to show her true colours.
N-counts and other appeals to a purported "virtuous past" exist to dupe gullible (usually religious) men into assuming future loyalty. Don't get duped.
aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 1y ago
Yes. Actions have consequences.
Words mean things.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It isn't slut shaming, it's slut consequences.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'd feel so special being her 59th attempt with a man... /s
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
59th time is the charm!
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She may be old but at least she's loose. I can't wait to accidentally run into 58 guys who fucked my girl.
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah I mean I love hoes and all that but they need to know their place. When I hit my 50s and my kids are all grown up and my wife is post-menopause, I'll take a 2nd wife and want a sexually experienced woman and no kids. This hoe here thinks she gets to be the first wife and mother of your children. Then a few years down the line a porno of your wife emerges, people hear about what a hoe she was, she hooks up with a couple exes while you're at work, etc.
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ScribhneoirIldanach Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 1y ago
I read that as "an sommelier soil". I guess it's now far off...she's a dirty dirty girl.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Always amazing how some of these women can never pick just a few guys to have a lot of fun different experiences with.
You could have gotten a lot of mileage in a few different cars going to a bunch of different places and no one would have really cared. But instead you needed to ride 58 different cars, probably all to the same places, for the same mileage that now everyone will judge you based on. Congrats
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yeah they really don't grasp that sucking a hundred different dicks once is not and will never be the same as sucking one dick a hundred times.
I mean, it's an entirely different STD risk profile even before getting into the sociopsychological aspects.
Or worse, they do understand, and are sociopathic and selfish enough to not care about defrauding a man and otherwise not operating in good faith.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Depends. The few times they are honest (usually because even they know they can't hide it) it also a often comes with an entitled combative and outright man hating attitude that they are doing you a favor by allowing you to bail them out of the cumdumpsterfire of a life they have created.
No fucking thanks. Slamming a car door on my dick would be a better time.
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Junkas 1y ago
They deserve honesty for the honesty, so people who don’t like it will respond clearly and quickly. The general reaction to that quick response is to criticize the guy and prepare a lie for the next one
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
"I commend you for your honesty. However, I still do not want to commit to you."
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Remember some sob documentary I saw of an Argentinian chick who was the “last single one” in her friend group. It was older; I know because they cut to parts where she was watching old VHS’s of past trips that she had been on. Sharing beautiful memories with men who…ended up breaking up with her. Yeah, rather than making memories with a husband and family that would love her, she gets to watch herself hanging out with someone that is now a stranger to her. Sounds wonderful and empowering.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
That's sad but earned. Sounds like the only people that got empowerd were the men that (hopefully, if she was decent looking) got some nice tropical lays out of her
I don't understand how women don't see this coming. For the most part, men can look at other older men who barely have a good job and don't take care of there self image and see that certain life paths don't work out too well for men.
On the other hand, is it just not obvious to women what this path leads to or are they just deliberately mislead? I mean no one is telling men "it doesn't matter if you don't have a decent job or take care how you look" but plenty of people are telling women that it doesn't matter how many men they sleep with etc.
These women always seem shocked that men can't stomach their notch count like they've never heard that being a ho was a bad path
Edit: TIL that men are not told that in the way I thought they usually were
Terra 1y ago
Actually they do: "Just choose the Job you would love to do". Maybe it works for some but id argue it fucks up more lives than not. Noone told me neither how important it will be to look good. I have naturally eaten very well in my life and enjoyed sports, but in years never built any significant muscle and even despised to some extent people building muscle. I have started once I came across TRP. And I.have more to fix in other areas, but eventually I can revert some mistakes.
On the other hand women are told they are shit from all sources, new trained gamers men fucking them telling them its ok to fuck whoever they want to appear non judgmental... although like me we know its fucking not OK, but cant risk trying to change sexual market on bacteria level, although in process we inevitably slightly contribute.
Unlike men they cant go to gym and unfuck 1000 cock stare. They are done, what they don't do anyway, they do not get smarter ever it seems, otherwise they wouldn't raise slutty daugters, started to vote for better options, removed resources for people that screw them up. And although they wouldn't be considered wife material they still could turn to men for advice and maybe form "adjoining flat" relationship.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Honestly, I thought the good job thing was more prevalent. And by look good, I meant hair, hygiene, clothes, not necessarily lifting.
But clarification aside, I agree with everyone said. I've actually told girls it was okay to fuck on the first date and other shit that, in hindsight, has contributed to female sluttery
You actually pretty much answered my question. It's not just feminists and sex positives people saying "slut shaming" is wrong etc, it's also us guys telling these girls it's fine. I bet most of those 58 men said it was fine when they were never going to commit anyway
I never considered that before
Terra 1y ago
I.would clarify my view on that as well.
I definitely don't want to.come.across as being in.womwn's defence. Just because they never learn anyway and raise yet another generation of hoes and never turn to men for advice even in late stages of life. Should I ever expect it, assuming all TRP knowledge is 100% right. Unlikely.
Should I excessively care. Yes, if I want to become sexless straw man educating women on lies of this world.
I can only talk about my example. Because I was more extrover than introver I have enjoyed all sporTS. But clothing, hair were def not there. Cant comment on hygiene as I cant smell.it of.pictures.
My primary school class had 8 boys. Only one of them took care of hair, clothing or.maybe his father did.
I didnt see him for years but from what I know im the only second one that looks now decent plus (take away things you are born with, we didnt have disfigured mates).
I hope you don't mind me to point this, IMO it is not bad to say, because you then have a choice not to fuck anyone else. They could even keep their options open and see other men without sex, which wouldnt be right to ongoing partnership, but fair play for securing their future by at least keeping orbiters.
I was refering to being not judgmental about: whats the girl's number, how other many man, gIRL fucks at the same time, promiscuity. Because being judgmental brings her ASD up and puts a man in a non Chad category (chads don't give a fuck as they have too many options.to care). We (whoever is not natural) have to put ourselves in this category by acting a part, not to be excluded from sex. There is no.win on 1 bacteria level.
I came up with my own idea to fix sexual market problem for myself, but its far from ideal of what I really want and.not sure is it Perm fix.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Check some of the younger dudes in this forum. I’ve seen many posts about trying to score with a taken girl, take a girl’s V without commitment. Basically create the women we go on to hate.
I’m all for treating those that belong to the streets as street walkers, but we need to be accountable as well. Women can’t run up body counts if there aren’t men willing to stick it in them.
Terra 1y ago
Blmaing men for not forcibly doing what she MOST likely will do anyway because.she.has.no accountability? Comon, its one.of the first things I have learnt before knowing RP even exists, about poor lock and master key meme.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If they’re taking a decent woman and trying to pump and dump her and turn her into a cc rider, yeah I have issue with that. Plenty of low value women to corrupt
Junkas 1y ago
They won’t notice because anyone up for a pump is presumed indecent and low value. Women have no trouble shutting down men by the dozens, so when they stumble across a chance to ride the carousel, they already have a coupon in their pocket
Terra 1y ago
I think that would be hard to prove empirically either way, so only can exchange views.
My view is: problem doesn't lie with men trying just women allowing themselves for whatever reason. There are sluttery enablers they are ofc v guilty as well.
And this opinion is.coming from a man that just experienced heart stopping confession from sweet Jesus girl that admitted was riding social circle cc and seems low value because of possible depression. And this happened in small'ish island community where I was hoping it is more under control.
I don't blame any of these men. Parents siblings extended familly, girlfriends and herself, yes. Maybe media and school (but media and schoool can be also suppressed by before mentioned)(uni in my town started huge poster campaign aimed at shaming men and excusing women. Example: one of the slogans says number of partners is not a problem and in a background man that is looking guilty of asking or whatever).
Then we're looking at men. Which should.we blame 10%-20% that don't even know she has bf because she is too eager. Or lower tier that only kissed girl once at 2x and now need to rack up experience because they were unnoticable and were given no chance to experience serious dating ( forget multiple sex partners, only serious dating), but finally they have better SMV or just new (but older) game practitiiners.
From my observations "the girl" is a do gooder, doing plenty of sacrifices to strangers not requiring reciprocity, putting herself out there on a silver platter. I cant know that for sure but her low value could.mean all was needed to fuck her was.to tell her to come.over or to close toilet door. She has never officially launched me with fb friends circle, only with familly. She kept some exes in fb I guess. Low value in that example would be just that.
On the other hand I had LLTR with low self esteem and some suicide attempt, she changed significantly under my influence and was solid till end of her days.
One Difference between them is... one father was some kind of dick and then apparently beeeta, other was strong violent alcoholic, but solid provider and good ruler besides... and whatever else.
ihavesex69 1y ago
Here’s the video you’re talking about:
https://youtu.be/CNLdLKTYNtw
It’s hilarious. She’ll spend the rest of her life searching for perfection, and maybe she’ll find it when she’s 95 years old in a nursing home.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yup, easy to tell that she got way too used to the treatment a woman gets for being cute when she was younger and took it for granted instead of realizing that treatment has an expiration date and the Miguels and Raouls of the world aren't going to chase her around forever.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yes, though I think there was another cut of this as well. Wonder how this woman ended up. Lots of plants and cats, I assume.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Oh Jesus another Jewish "princess". Messy home, flabby legs, old, probably insufferable.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She also has that hyper liberal, “free spirit” vibe to her. And we all know free spirit actually means “down for pound town by date 2, date 1 if you look good enough”. That probably ensured a never-ending lineup of men in her 20’s. Now her family is asking about her future, but she isn’t even attached anymore. They probably don’t understand the dire situation that they are in from a social and relational POV.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I just watched Rollo on a show called Jedidiah Bila on youtube. She's like a royal biotch. Got married late 30s and had a kid. Rollo was asking her who wears the pants in the family, in a roundabout way. It was funny because everyone knows she does but she thinks it's an equal partnership. Then in the comments were a bunch of #freeJeremy tags, her husband is named Jeremy. Check out the comments https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyA3VAm1GjQ
Anyway, other women see these boss babes and it just encourages their delusional world view.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I mean it sounds like she came out on top, when it comes to her situation. She got to LARP like a man all the way until her mid 30’s, found a man (who probably out-earns her), has the kid. Now she has an “equal partnership” which really means “i’m in charge, now provide more shekels, man servant”. Of course, these dynamics rarely work out. Either a man tires of emasculation, or a woman decides that she can do better “on her own”
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah, she became the man she wanted to marry and now her husband is merely an accessory. The sad part is she has a son and she's worried he will become the beta her husband is. So she browses the manosphere and red pill and just can't swallow it. She literally says "What happened to cowboys?" which is just another way of saying "Where are all the good men?". They gone, lady. Enjoy your soy boy son.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Man that’s an old school song reference. That song should be re-titled as “I married Chad”
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
or "Check your friend zone"
reignoferror00 1y ago
"But I've settled down in the last year" - have you? have you really?
"trying to find someone to settle down and start a family" - guy to knock out a unit or two with and to support $$$ you.
"All of my friends are now married or in relationships" - Now we get to the crux of the issue. You want some sort of relationship or marriage to fit in with your friends and their significant others. They've moved on from the party lifestyle and now you are "forced" to also. With that logic I guess I should convince your friends to tell you they are all sucking my cock on a regular basis.
What makes you think that after being with 58 different men you'll find one that will make you not only not want to sleep with another but actually be able to build a real relationship? Is their a little switch on the back or your head that works and you can flip from hoe to housewife? Move over ShamWow I think we've got a real winning product here.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her one night value is beginning to decline, her friends are all getting married, she’s starting to get baby rabies. The list goes on as to why she’s “changed”.
But we all know, once this girl starts feeling complacent in a committed relationship, she’ll be trying to make her grand comeback to the streets.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Never save a hoe from the streets.
They will always go back to their one true love.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
Yes, she has you chauvinistic bigot! Don't you know that she is done with those days? Sure, it just so happens to coincide with her getting closer to 30 and her trying to cash in before it is too late, but that's just a coincidence! Or it's that she has gotten older, wiser, and more mature, so now she knows what she wants! Both of those are correct and without contradiction, of course!
Yes, you are right that her friends getting married and having long term relationships has set off this change. Her friends settling down sends her a signal that she will not be young forever and that she better buckle down and find a man before it is too late. Well, she is not too late due to the age, but her past number of sexual partners makes it too late for her. Yes, a lot of men are turned off by the idea of a woman who has a lot of "experience." If they are expected to put a ring on it, they would want a woman who is special. But if she has had a lot of sexual partners, this will make her less special in his eyes as well as taint her own possibilities of seeing him as special.
She is the equivalent of someone trying to get approved for a loan on a house when they have racked up a lot of debt that they have not paid off, too low of income for the house they want, nothing saved up for a down payment, and a poor credit score on top of all of that. Sure, you can argue that somehow this time you will be different and pay the loan reliably, but most lenders are going to be rightfully skeptical of those claims when they look at the history. The same logic applies to men looking at women's history. Her past behavior indicates a trend, and no man wants to be on the bad end of that sort of trajectory.
And even if the relationship somehow does not sour, many men have horror stories of the former slut who turns frigid for her husband. Talk about a bad deal, the man who is making the greatest investment getting the less when it comes to sex (in quantity and quality) than men who gave little. No man wants that bad deal, and many men are rightfully wary of such an outcome happening to them if they were to marry a woman with a past, along with many other bad factors.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
I've read so many stories of guys who later find out their wives used to do all kinds of nasty, kinky shit in college etc and they're just getting occasionally missionary and maybe a hand job here and there.
No one wants to be that guy, it's hard to read those anecdotes without your gut dropping out of sympathy for the guys
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Awww you hate how men see you because of the choices you made? Poor girl. I wonder, when you were getting your pussy turned into soup, who were you doing it with? Was it with the average looking guys? Was it the 5'9" guys? Was it the guys driving a local delivery truck? No, it was probably the type that your sort usually give up your best years and fertility to in the name of "having fun" and "enjoying new experiences."
Well you get to have another "new experience" - the terror of realizing that men are as scrutinizing about the women they make wives as you're realizing that you should have been about your vagina. Your friends all got off the carousel years ago, and you didn't understand it then. You thought "there's so much fun to be had, so many experiences" and you rode your heart out. The sad thing is that your "friends" watched you do it and didn't say a word. They were knowledgeable about something you're now discovering - men of value don't marry sluts.
Will that change your actions? Lol no. You'll still be out here trying to date men with the intent to lock one down, but you will fail every time because now your value is in the trash right next to the condoms you might have, but probably didn't, use. You won't realize that you don't qualify for the men you used to bang. You don't even qualify for the average man. If you get lucky you'll find yourself some below average man and you better pray that he's willing to accept your diminished value in exchange for his commitment.
Sorry sadslut, but there are only four roads for you from here:
Do what most sadsluts do - lie about your body count. After a while, accountability is going to get old. You're gonna realize that it's easier to lie than it is to handle being rejected because you have seen more cock than the inseam of a pair of swimming trunks. The problem is that it only delays the inevitable - eventually, you'll slip. The slut in you will claw her way out.
Return to the carousel. You know who your master is. You might as well accept your place on the circuit. The good news is that there will always be a bone to ride. The bad news is that every year, hotter younger nasties are getting on the carousel too and you're about to age out of the "Chad" category. You're going to have to get a lot more kinky or a lot less picky every time around if you want to stay competitive.
Accept your new value. Date a man on your level. He's 5'7. He's balding. He's an assistant manager at blockbuster. He's got a 4 inch penis. And you'll be fucking lucky to have him. Sound unappealing? Well, a woman who has fucked 58 dudes sounds pretty damn unappealing to us.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
This feels like a troll... either that or she is retarded.
I also never saw the point in asking girls about bodycounts, I always assumed that if it was high they would just lie about it. Girl I'm seeing now told me she only had 3 but... I really dont have any way of verifying that. I don't think she's lying though.. but that's based on context clues from what I know about her.
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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
I also never understood asking for it overtly either unless she's so drunk she won't even remember you asking it
There is such a high risk of getting a filtered answer that 1) doesn't honestly answer the question you were seeking info for, and 2) gives away the game that you care about it, thus making all interactions thereafter rekating to her history also filtered. I've always thought it was a much better strategy to bait it out or wait it out than to just ask for it her n count. If she gives it voluntarily, it's probably more honest
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Right, 100% agree. I didn't even bother asking, she just told me at one point while we were having pillow talk... Now that I think about it it might have been her way of asking about mine. Dunno, never told her mine really. In any case it's not that high, mostly because I went through a pretty long period of monk mode after college, also didn't live on campus during so.. lol, sucks. Missed out on a cool life experience probably.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It does kind of suck, right? My girlfriend said once I’m #3 for her. On one hand, she’s fairly religious and I have no reason to believe that she was on the cc before meeting me. On the other hand, her sex drive is off the charts and she’s a solid 8 in looks (maybe 9), so I’d imagine it’d be a piece of cake for her to get some.
She seems pretty enamored with me, though, like there’s pair bonding ability present, so it works for me.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Yeah thats the thing right? Attractive girls can get sex pretty much anytime they want. For us dudes its much harder to get.
I do think the hypergamy thing is overblown. Most girls prefer to pair bond with one guy rather than fuck around, some girls are like that obviously but I think guys are the sex that leans more towards polyamory. It makes sense from a biological perspective for sure.
I mean girls are wired to be more selective evolutionarily right? Might not seem so sometimes, they do crave attention from the opposite sex way more than we do (i.e. insta thirst trap posts and etc.) but as far actually sleeping with guys, not so much. At least in my experience if you move too fast without building up enough familiarity with them or w/e, they get scared off sometimes.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Temporarily. Females' preferred method of promiscuity is serial monogamy. They crave variety and novelty even more than males, and this method potentially gives their offspring more genetic diversity and thus greater chance of survival.
Marriage was a compromise between both sexes, where both surrendered some of their biological urges and gained some benefits, and society/civilization benefited.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That’s exactly why it’s repulsive to men when a woman sleeps around. Like she’s supposed to be cautious about that. A man can shoot his seed anywhere and the only drawback is that he has more mouths to feed. A woman has to be choosy; not only does she have to use her body to make a kid, but she has to make sure that the man she made a kid with can actually provide. Also, look at other primates: how does the children of one male fare when he is replaced by another male? Answer: badly. So from a safety perspective, it would also behoove her to pick one man and stick with him.
That repulsion you feel towards a woman with a high body count? That’s because it’s unnatural.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Exactly dude. Women with high bodycounts are unnatural. Something went wrong with their survival mechanisms somewhere along the line. I love me a girl with a high libido, dont get me wrong. But a girl who will let you fuck her right away, probably not a chick ur gonna wanna keep ya know?
And it's really not even the case.. well it may kinda be now what with dna tests and all that but for 99.99% of human history, a guy could easily just bail and have 0 parental investment.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Have to wonder how many merchants, for example, had kids across numerous cities.
Fazep00p5 1y ago
Welcome to the wall
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She will never have a problem getting fucked.
But that isn't what she wants now. No, now she wants commitment from a good man (and by good, she wants the top 15%). Sadly:
She's alpha widowed. No man will ever give her the level of thrills that the streets gave her.
She has nothing to offer men worth their commitment that she hasn't casually given away for free.
She can't compete with the newer models hitting the market every day.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Dealing with #1 myself. I've got a partner now after years of being a fuckboy. But my brain wanders to past hookups when I'm wanking. I'll find myself thinking about the time I did whatever weird thing with someone while we were drunk. Women with body counts are absolutely doing the same thing. It's not a good plan to expect loyalty from someone who thinks about past encounters. The temptation is real. I'm going to pretend I'm not as at risk because I know how much it would fuck up my life to act on the temptations but I really wish the thoughts weren't even in my head.
It's going to be tough to feel secure when you know that you're probably not the guy with the biggest dick, the wildest ride, highest sex drive or the one to satisfy some of the weirder fetishes she's keeping hidden.
Terra 1y ago
She would likely despise man that would like to give it to her if he'd know her past, even being top tier, no reaction to that knowledge would lower his value IMO to the breaking point.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Comment removed for rule 3. No saying a post is fake without proof.
Also, most men who would be willing to commit to a slut, aren't attractive enough to that slut. Witness how many OnlyFans camwhores won't give their
cucumbers*customers (goddamn phone lol) a chance.Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
From now on I am referring to men who pay for OF as cucumbers
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Haha
Instead of "paypigs" we'll have "paypickles".
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
A buddy of mine has a really great quote I find myself using: "Shit's fun 'til it ain't". To break it down for Lil' Miss EZ Pass...
And I'll just be blunt: You KNOW you a hoe. No amount of "born again" foolery can clean up your reputation. Those 58 bodies are like spilled tumeric on a white countertop.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
What she's not saying is how many kids she has.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Comment removed for rules 1 and 3.
Rule 1:
Being concerned about a woman's past is far from being insecure, and to say "yOu'Re JuSt InSeCuRe!" is to regurgitate gynocentric manipulation propaganda.
A woman's past predicts her future behavior well. A thrill-seeking slut is unfit for
monotonymonogamy. No matter how awesome the current man is, he can't compete against the Frankenstein's Monster in her head composed of all her exes' best traits. It's only a matter of time before she gets booooooooooored and cheats.Relevant portion of rule 3:
We might waiver the modmail requirement on this platform, since there is no modmail (tag @moorekom, @Kevin32, @goodmansaysfuckyou - we should discuss this further, privately), but there still must be proof.
Your reasoning isn't proof, and commitment/monogamy/marriage-minded men do care about a woman's past.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
I think we can update it to say that proof has to be sent via PM to one of the mods and then it is up to the mod to bring it to our collective attention. @kevin32, fyi.
As for the rest, agreed.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I want to agree with you, but you said something that rankles me:
It isn't insecurity to refuse giving commitment to a slut.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Indeed. It's pragmatism. Can't unfuck the football team and sluts are notoriously bad at fidelity.
But they have a hard time grasping that since for them fidelity is a pathway to material gain, while for men, it is a material investment.
Once they have access to the money, fidelity is of no further value for them to offer.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Briffault's Law has entered the chat
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Strongly agree.
I fucked many sluts. Only low-n-count women were ever considered for commitment.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well yeah. Sluts serve a valuable role.
They fuck.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Fun? These poor guys are supposed to just accept you after your “fun”, which always seems to be sampling a variety of different dongs?
What about their fun? Odds are, they’ve been looking for a girl to be exclusive with for years. They might be lucky to get one different woman a year to sleep with, and honestly they’d be happy to make her the last one if she fit well into their life.
So you have all of your “fun”, and ignore these good guys until you’re “ready” (whether they are or not is unimportant), and they’re just supposed to accept that you have over an order of magnitude more bodies in your history than they do? That, at the height of your SMV power, you used it for getting plowed instead of finding a good man? Nah. If they’re anything like me, they’re hitting up Colombia or Thailand or the Philippines or something and finding a real wife.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I might be biased since my current gf is Colombian. It’s still better than first world countries for wife hunting.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They definitely have libido that is higher than you might want (meaning that some will chase giga-Chad too). But on average, they are nicer, better personality, and it’s at least more conservative of a culture than here in America.
Find one that’s a little more religious and you can feel safe that she isn’t a CC rider at the very least.