Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 2y ago in The Big Question - Permalink - Locked - 2.1K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago Stickied
Empowered wymynz don't have children.
The more empowered the wymynz are, the fewer children there will be.
But sure, let's blame men for everything. Because men are human doings. Sure. Whatever.
Here's a fact: women decide whether or not a child is born. Men have absolutely no say regarding her body. Period.
So don't blame men for a low fertility rate.
Don't blame government, corporations, globalists, the WEF, the CDC, the DMV, or even feminism.
No one can sell to her, something that she doesn't want to buy.
Women want to be taken care of. They always have.
Childbirth takes a huge toll on her body.
If she has her way, she'll only have the small number of children that she desires. She will not put her body through childbirth, 10-15 times.
Today she has that choice and that's why the birthrate is low.
Stop blaming everyone else. Start looking towards your own mothers, sisters and daughters. It is they who are the cause of the low birthrate.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Why have 7+ kids when you can have 2 and be guaranteed they live, via modern medicine? My Mormon neighbors tell me it's because they want a large family. I don't think low birth rates are a societal problem overall, all things being equal. What's shocking in the OP is that 40% of young Japanese men have never gone on a date while only 25% of women never had a date.
When I arrived in Asia and saw hawt women everywhere I thought, "What the hell is wrong with the men here?" and then I proceeded to cum in every one of them(the women). Same thing in Russia.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yeah, back in the day it might have been 7 kids to make it likely that at least 2 of them will reproduce as well. These days, from a pure “make it to adulthood” view, over 99% of children born today will make it until age 18. So if you want 4 grandkids (which would signify that you’re about the replacement rate), 3 kids is probably good enough.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
2.1 is the current replacement rate. Very few countries are at that level. Most are below and all are declining. We didn't reduce poverty through gov't policy, we just stopped having kids.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Except in Africa. Right now western nations aren’t having kids, and instead we end up paying for the kids of Africans through aid. Wonderful.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
It's only $104 million/yr to support Nigeria. /s
DextroShade 2y ago
The high rate of inceldom is a serious crises that we ignore at our own peril. If over a third of men are incels, they have no incentive whatsoever to contribute to society and may actively hasten its demise so they may replace it with a system under which they can get sex. This is how ISIS has been able to recruit so many young guys from Europe.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Huh. I wonder if the governments ever bothered to consider reversing this trend by treating men as rational, logical beings and offering incentives and support rather than merciless punishment and resource extraction?
Nah.
It is going to remain status quo: everyone blaming men for acting with logic and rationale instead of looking at the cause of their behavior. Enjoy the decline.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Herbivore men or grass-eater men (草食(系)男子, Sōshoku(-kei) danshi) is a term used in Japan to describe young men who express little interest in getting married or being assertive in relationships with women.The term was coined by the author Maki Fukasawa, who initially intended for it to describe a new form of masculinity that was not reliant on the proactivity and assertiveness typically associated with masculinity in Japan. Philosopher Masahiro Morioka defines herbivore men as "kind and gentle men who, without being bound by manliness, do not pursue romantic relationships voraciously and have no aptitude for being hurt or hurting others."
According to Fukasawa, herbivore men are "not without romantic relationships, but have a non-assertive, indifferent attitude toward desires of flesh."
The term was quickly sensationalized by the media, gaining a negative connotation suggesting young men who had lost their "manliness" were responsible for Japan's declining birth rate and stagnating economy. Through mass media, the label of herbivore man came to be associated with irresponsible, overly feminine men who cared too much about their appearances rather than marriage or finding a stable job, which were seen as traditionally masculine goals. The definition of herbivore men is still debated because of this, making it difficult to estimate how many men in Japan identify as herbivore men, particularly considering the social stigma associated with the term.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Sometimes I wonder if all of these globalists and leftists that engineered an innate desire to not have a functional marriage and not procreate, are now suddenly raising the alarm as they realize that their grandkids will be screwed.
Good job, leaders. Socialize retirement for the elderly and then encourage lives and public policies that drive down birth rates.
winteryknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
Well, in Asian and European countries where the reproductive rate are declining below replacement, they are offering incentives to have men and women go on dates and get married and have children.
The problem is, you can't just turn back the clock on anti-marriage policies. Dalrock calls this "the weakened signal". This is where men see that there is no value in trying to attract women by excelling at traditional husband capabilities. You can't just reverse that by paying men to get married. But that's what these countries are trying to do.
Example: https://www.cnn.com/2021/09/24/china/three-child-cash-incentive-intl-hnk/index.html https://money.com/government-pays-have-a-baby-low-birth-rate/
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yup. China has actually banned “non-masculine” depictions of men. They want their men to basically be Bruce Lee. Part of the decline has to be pinned on the men; we are getting less manly on average and women are definitely going to be less attracted to that. Though I think that’s a combination of a more sedentary life and 60 years of policing the masculinity out of guys.
If they want real changes, they have to champion real masculinity, and fix the laws so that men don’t feel like they’re putting everything on the line just to have kids.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2y ago
I agree but the problem with that is championing real masculinity means enforcing real femininity. Women accustomed to all the social and legal powers and privileges granted them by feminist ideology aren't just going to go meekly along with that, even in ostensibly more traditional cultures like China.
Near as I can tell, the only way to put that particular genie back in the bottle is to literally beat it into submission (which is a hard sell even for red pill types who understand how women operate, let alone average guys) or simply sit back and watch as it slowly strangles itself, then build a new bottle around the comatose form.
Or there's a third (and possibly fourth, fifth, etc) option I'm missing because I'm a dumbass who often doesn't see shit right in front of his face. I certainly hope that's the case this time.
DextroShade 2y ago
Feminism CAN be undone in a country, just ask the Taliban. I am not for burqas but the patriarchy is the only way humans have ever had a successful civilization. I am all for beating the dangerhairs into submission.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Nah. I would much rather some other option, too. I guess continuing to allow non-feminine women to endure the bad outcomes that their “strong and independent” lives offer, for one.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
If you start treating women like men, they become feminine.