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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Uncategorized

Have you noticed that even the slightest criticism of women gets met with the term “incel?”
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JoeyBatters

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positivecel 3y ago

Based af

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FightingCoalitions 3y ago

It's funny Because it's true

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officerfriendlyrick7 3y ago

LOL I thought I was the only one who noticed that, if you don’t agree to them then basically you are an incel.

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Sputnik_92 3y ago

All of this ends with one simple word “gaslight”

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[deleted] 3y ago

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[deleted] 3y ago

I got called an incel once for telling a rude out-of-towner woman to "have some manners or excuse yourself".

It's their go-to when they want to attack you in a way that they think hurts you because sex is the only unit of currency they understand.

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[deleted] 3y ago

Looool, was thinking about that after someone called me that when I said I don't want to settle down with a girl who rode the cock carousel for years and suddenly wants to settle because she realizes she is getting older.

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Hunk_Maggot 3y ago

can anyone explain me how being an incel is related to have a tiny dick?

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PizzaSparks 3y ago

Apparently, gay men or bisexual men who disagree with some women on minor issues are also called incels just for simply disagreeing, or not aligning their views on some things.

The last time, I checked incel meant involuntary celibate. How can someone whose in a relationship, or not attracted to the opposite sex be an incel?

I mean it feels like it's just becoming a running punchline joke of some type.

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AffectionateCitrone3 3y ago

That thing to the right is the average Fds user xD

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plz_say_sike 3y ago

Women

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yellomachine 3y ago

"Non-hot guys have to pay to see me naked. DON'T OBJECTIFY ME!!!"

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EastEndMontrealer1 3y ago

This happened to me last week regarding a post about the va**1ne passports in Quebec. I moved to defend someone who some fat, blubbery makeup artist calling someone I know an "incel". When I poked so many holes into her argument (or lack thereof) she turned it on me, resorting automatically to calling me an "anon basement dweller" as well as an "incel"

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Nihi1986 3y ago

This is only on the internet, where a obesse, pansexual, pink haired soyboy who is only accepted in certain social circles thanks to his political views will try to shame you in the hopes of farming some internet brownie points.

I'm no incel, hell, I've even been married...and I can understand the hate/fear or distrust towards the most radical of them, but it's really sad that men's struggles are just shamed and disregarded so easily.

Actually, from my experiencie, it seems like women care a little bit more about incels (though not much, obviously) than 'male' feminists and sjw types.

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[deleted] 3y ago

Notice how the white knights, calling other men incels usually would fit the definition of one.

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[deleted] 3y ago

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[deleted] 3y ago

They feel so proud and happy to be some doormat about to be discarted by their not so attractive msitresses, that's actually disgusting.

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djc_tech 3y ago

When you have no viable argument resort to ad hominem attacks.

I find the term incel interesting frankly. So to women the measure of a mans value is based off of whether he can have sex with women when he wants. If that’s the case there are very few who are wildly successful- and usually have lots of women after them and have a choice. Tiger Woods for example.

So is someone like Tiger - rich, successful and sleeping with women whenever he wants the opposite of an incel because of this? This makes him the epitome of value that women lust after. If you disagree I point you to the dozens if not hundreds of hot women he’s banged

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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3y ago

While this serves as an ad hominem, it is also meant to be a personal insult. They believe that the implication that you are unable to get a woman willing to sleep with you is a major insult. Are they merely projecting due to how much they value sex? Perhaps. Either way, it is intellectually lazy and an often impotent personal attack, as they have no idea who you are or what you are about.

They believe they can tell who you are as a person entirely by what you type and by their own confirmation biases ("Those who would be critical of women MUST be incels, that is the only explanation!"), which also only goes to show that they have a warped perspective on how reality works. Plenty of men who disrespect women can still get sex easily, while plenty of men who are highly respectful of women fail to ever even get a first date. There are many more factors at play than just your personal thoughts, many of these factors being highly inconvenient to those with a "just world" fallacy as their life outlook. Especially when men who do not respect women get sex easily demonstrate that women are not the arbiters and best judges of moral character and virtue.

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officerfriendlyrick7 3y ago

Oh my god this is absolute gold, you explained it so well dude, I get called an incel all the time, they have no idea about who they are talking to but they just assume we are fat, poor and in our basement, that’s a sort of defence mechanism response, they imagine that to feel better about themselves. Women are a paradox.

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Harry_Teak 3y ago

Those who would be critical of women MUST be incels

But men who know women all too well are also misogynists when they speak from hard-won experience. Well-fucked or unfucked, either way you're fucked.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

They prefer a sweet lie to a harsh truth.

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Harry_Teak 3y ago

When you've had sunshine blown up your ass since birth it seems like a tragedy when someone blocks it even for a moment.

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PopularBug5 3y ago

Their whole life revolves around sex - but more precisely fornication sex and hookups as opposed to actual relationship sex. They celebrate having multiple partners and hopping from one to the other instead of staying loyal to just one because FOMO and all that shit.

So they think other people would take it as an insult if they are called 'virgins', 'incels' or whatnot.

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officerfriendlyrick7 3y ago

LOL that’s literally why clubs exist, even social media really was invented by man to make it easy to get laid, now people are using social media as an ego-massaging platform, “look at me and my life”

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yellomachine 3y ago

What is FOMO?

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PopularBug5 3y ago

Fear Of Missing Out. Basically when people are influenced to do something degenerate and would only make themselves feel miserable in the end, just because their peers pressured them to.

You'll see a lot of couples being encouraged to divorce and break up just to FOMO shifting from happy relationship sex to mediocre hook up sex, but they can't miss it. They just wanna do it for the sake of doing it.

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HappilyMrs 3y ago

I've definitely seen the latter. When I say I've only had sex with my husband and vice versa, because we got together in our teens, I always get comments of "dont you think you missed out?". Uh, no. I have someone who knows how to make love to me well, can read my reactions like a book, who I can trust with my body and soul. Why would I want sex with some random guy I dont even know who may have a ton of STDs? I do not get what is good about having sex with people I dont even know.

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yellomachine 3y ago

Sounds supremely moronic.

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PopularBug5 3y ago

Because it really is. Ruining yourself just because your friends tell you to, and you actually follow your friends or even worse, some stranger off reddit than your own husband.

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Overkillengine 3y ago

Or anyone that makes her face unpleasant reality.

"He told me that eating candy for every meal will make me get fat and cause my teeth to rot. What a fucking incel!"

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Wildhouse83 3y ago

Totally my experience. What else are they supposed to say anyway? Rational arguments? Hahaha. They are very scraed that the truth about them comes out. Especially, since this is the worst thing you can say about them.

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CSM_Pepper 3y ago

I'm convinced "How old are you?" is the IncelExit equivalent of "Who hurt you?".

women aren't just sex objects by the way

I hear they aren't hiveminds or a monolith either, but Reddit has to repeat that 33 quadrillion times a day because Reasons.

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HaroldTFinch 3y ago

How old are you can easily relate to "I'm interested in a family and what are the chances of that with you", to odds are at my age and status I can simply find a younger woman because they are interested too.

"Who hurt you" by contrast is strictly a belittling insult, and in a woman's arsenal of shaming, guilt, character assassination and the need to be right. If a guy says that to another guy, the other guy will state something like it certainly won't be you. An entirely different dynamic in communication and problem solving.

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SnuSnuClownWorld 3y ago

It constantly astonishes me how much incel is thrown around like an insult. Obviously only in an online space, It really seems to me the vast majority of those using it at the drop of a hat are the real incels themselves. Usually people portraying an 'ally' online but really just trying to worm their way into one of these used thot holes.

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So many of us here who have been around the block have either A) been in a relationship, and been used for money/been divorce gaped or B) won the lottery by not getting divorce gaped or losing our money but have still had many relationships and flings with which we can compare reality on.

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On the other side, women or 'allies' who throw around the incel insult, have never actually had an actual relationship that wasn't based purely around sex. And obviously the ally is the real incel and doesn't understand how sex is just a tool in the relationship toolbox.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

IncelExit?

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CSM_Pepper 3y ago

It's a sub that seeks to rid incels of their "mindsets". Think of it as IncelTear's snooty college professor cousin.

I didn't link it because Rule #7 and all that.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

I'm just a lonely guy, surrounded by pizza boxes in mommy's basement. I spend my days playing video games and jerking off to porn.

I'm the epitome of loneliness, to the point that I incorporated the term.

USERNAME CHECKS OUT

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Harry_Teak 3y ago

Incel has fewer letters than misogynist so it's a time saver for those that patrol the Interwebz combating The Patriarchy.

Not that plenty of incels aren't misogynists of course but appreciating the fact that most probably aren't is beyond the scope of their rhetoric.

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Infinite_Seer 3y ago

"Sweaty"

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gfgdhj5784yu8 3y ago

They are basically children.... all they can do is call names and throw a tantrum when met with opposition of any kind.

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FlowComprehensive390 3y ago

It's because society never makes them grow up. Mentally they never mature past early high school.

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Empty_Let_2669 3y ago

yes I get called incel and banned from a lot of subs. My account has been banned over 1000 times. I just make new ones

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TheSourFish 3y ago

Don't you think after so much banning the problem might not be them but you?

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Empty_Let_2669 3y ago

I think you are lost

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TheSourFish 3y ago

Nah I was just trying to find out if you were a transphobe by looking at all your other comments so I could judge you fairly rather than just seeing that one comment you made about Franklin in r/lgbt and judging you then. So I'm in th right place alright. But I'd love to have an honest discussion, so what opinions do you have that make people call you an incel?

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Empty_Let_2669 3y ago

For one. Transgender is a mental disorder. It shouldn't be normalized.

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TheSourFish 3y ago

Transgender is not a mental disorder it is simply a person whose gender doesn't align with what they were assigned at birth. All transgender health issues such as gender dysphoria are no longer considered to be a mental illness by WHO. And even when it was the "treatment" or best way for the gender dysphoria to disappear was for the individual to simply change their assigned gender into what gender they aligned with. This has been proved to greatly improve the transgender individuals health.

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Empty_Let_2669 3y ago

I disagree

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TheSourFish 3y ago

Come on dude, this won't be a discussion unless you answer and actually elaborate instead of just saying you disagree. Like why do you disagree??

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TheSourFish 3y ago

Alright, what do you disagree with? Do you have anything to back you up?

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Thatshygurl 3y ago

What I’ve never understood about these types of feminists is how they find it ok to shame someone for being a virgin, but it’s wrong to shame a woman for having many sex partners…like please tell me how those are any different.

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Frosty_League 3y ago

Women are beyond reproach, even for the horrible decisions they make. Men are an open field for any kind of criticism

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

The frame of their debate is about sexual demand. This is why sluts cannot be shamed and incels are shamed.

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upsidedownbackwards 3y ago

I bring it up every time there's a post calling out a guy for "slut shaming". In the comments there's always people calling him a virgin. There's comments about how men are wrong about shouldn't care about women's virginity in the same thread they're calling the men who do that virgins. When I say "Stop using virgin as an insult and the virginity stuff might calm down a bit" but nope. We gotta stop slut shaming while allowing them to insult us with it.

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PopularBug5 3y ago

A virgin is a degenerate in today's society.

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yellomachine 3y ago

Healthy decisions are a tool of the Patriarchy.

Warning others not to do stupid things, is a tool of the Patriarchy

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[deleted] 3y ago

Anything that endangers a woman's survival is a negative connotation for our specie. This is how we operate until we red pill.

Consistency is a tool of patriarchy!!111oneone

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SmallHandsMallMindS 3y ago

How would you feel if you were eating a sandwich & it started criticizing you?

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Remarkable_Weather21 3y ago

would be funny

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Darkwalker787 3y ago

"Women aren't sex objects" than why do they most of them want to be treated like sex objects? And why do these women only love to be treated like sex objects?

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noobie107 3y ago

i don't notice thots at all

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MrMcpizzza 3y ago

I noticed guys trying to white knight Immediately go on the incel name calling trying to puff their fi sunken chests up.

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thewatisit 3y ago

It never made sense to me that incel is an insult used by feminists. By their standards women are not trophies so why is a term referring to a man unable to have one considered an insult?

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HaroldTFinch 3y ago

Because an incel never meets their lofty standards for a relationship. It is a class or caste distinction. They relish the thought to be able to harshly and indiscriminately minimize a class of individuals. It's power.

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officerfriendlyrick7 3y ago

IKR, don’t know how they make up this correlations, sex and dating is illegal outside of marriage in many countries, which may result in you getting either honour killed or punished by law, feminists barely even comprehend the social dynamics outside of their bubbles in western countries yet their incel rhetoric is being forced on south Asian men as well, third wave feminists are truly an obnoxious category of people.

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Marko_From_Tropoja_ 3y ago

Don’t care if they call me an incel if we have a disagreement, I know the size of my d and the women I have been seeing could correct them but it’s not worth it. Anytime someone drops something like that you know you won the discussion bc it should never be an argument as these types of people shouldn’t matter enough to call it an argument.

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rockdude625 3y ago

It's nothing short of their "Ol' reliable"

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kozboz033 3y ago

Lol yes I see this happen everywhere

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Southerndude62 3y ago

They do that. I respond to them with :"you're fat and ugly", "go back to the kitchen", "you're overy-acting", and of course the old and trusted "meatflap".

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AzasalTheDev 3y ago

I got called an incel for replying to someone's comment on the STALKER subreddit (it's a game franchise) and the context was that I'd rather be molested by a bloodsucker (very scare monster) than touched and researched by a government-funded scientist.

11/10

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comptejete 3y ago

The caveat preempting the logical counter to the argument is a nice touch

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Theonewithdust 3y ago

Left: “Someones sex history does not matter”

Also Left: “LOL, you incel virgin”

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Like, since when fucking bambillion people at once became a virtue while having little to no sexual experience became something to be ashamed of?

Seriously,…

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[deleted] 3y ago

It’s about control. Nothing more, nothing less. A woman can control her body count. Women collectively can control “incels” body counts. So if that’s the mechanism by which you can keep the “scores” in your advantage, that’s what you focus on.

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Theonewithdust 3y ago

It kinda feels like it is actually easier for modern women to have a large body-count than to keep their legs closed

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CoachPRIPecho 3y ago

Lool thats a classic thot from fds community

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[deleted] 3y ago

I don't think so, they're mostly non white, fat and over 35.

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[deleted] 3y ago

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[deleted] 3y ago

Failures tend to be narcissistic and drink a lot to forget.

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One-Move 3y ago

Its still funny, insults from women I am not attracted to don’t bother me at all. Like a 12 year old insulting me….

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[deleted] 3y ago

What's funnier is how they acknowledge the fact their only value lies between that hole they have between their legs.

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DISHONORU-TDA 3y ago

it's called projection. you know their sink is filled with dirty dishes and/or their rooms are worse than a junkies' but worse yet: they know it. that's their world.

we just sit outside in our clean homes and scratch our heads until we finally want to see the ugly side of people and the truth of how they live.

it's worse than Lenny.
edit: I found the hack comedian that uses "Who hurt you?" like its his signature bit. Women with a toe ring, who hurt you? . . . At Virginia Beach- - - Ah haha ha ha, good night folks! I've been terrible. Dan Charnley, everyone! Danny Charnley: President of Comedy!

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SwiftStrik3 3y ago

It's all projection. They know that if you take a wet wipe to their face, that they'll turn into sub 3s

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vtec__ 3y ago

yes, totally. i hate npcs and normies

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Scoot_About 3y ago

and if you're s girl... "imagine being this level of pick me" it's so dumb

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yellomachine 3y ago

Welcome to the 'wrong side' where you are always wrong unless you agree.

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AkaSoldier 3y ago

Well maybe you shouldn’t have done a wrong-think /s

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[deleted] 3y ago

Intresting how everything must be about sex with these people, being unattractive make them obsess about what they can't have.

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HappilyMrs 3y ago

I've had that before. There's an awful lot of shaming if you just want to love your husband, boost his self-worth and make him happy. And dont ever dare mention anything like having a free use policy or giving spontaneous oral, because you will get labelled as being abused or a stepford wife.

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yellomachine 3y ago

Spontaneous oral. What is non-spontaneous oral? Is that where you have to be asked? Awkward. My wife wouldn't want it that way.

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HappilyMrs 3y ago

As in not in any bedroom setting or part of foreplay.

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yellomachine 3y ago

Oh ok.

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HappilyMrs 3y ago

You can wear what you like and use whatever make up you like, providing it isnt to attract your man. That's only for nights out to attract other men, or so you feel "good about yourself" (which really means so you feel other people are impressed by you, or at the very least not judging you)

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

In group validation is more important than a happy family life for certain people. They should not be awarded with what they despise.

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Overkillengine 3y ago

This is an important personality trait to vet against for any form of commitment as they inherently will have a tendency to trade up the moment they think they find better.

It's the exact personality type that will sleep their way through entire social circles and then wonder decades later why they are alone.

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SmallHandsMallMindS 3y ago

I gotta tell you, I hate to see feminism eating itself. It just brings tears to my eyes

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Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Always love seeing this.

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HowTingz 3y ago

They can say whatever the fuck they want lol
It don't change a damn thing

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Swole-Dedede 3y ago

reminds me of longbeachgriffy's feminism videos

"you racist, sexist, homophobic, misogynist, pedophile, BIGOT!!!"

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SelectAirline 3y ago

That's why it's better to disregard what women want and put your own needs first. If you're going to be the asshole anyway then it's best to do it on your own terms.

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HappilyMrs 3y ago

Men should be allowed to show their feelings and not be looked down on for it. We're all human at the end of the day, and life does suck at times no matter your gender. I dont think women always realise the subtle power they have over a man that loves them (and it's not pussy).

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The_Meep_Lord 3y ago

You can be the reincarnation of Jesus in kindness, do selfless acts for many years.

But get mad that you are exploited or if you ever get mad that a woman keeps dating abusers over you when you truly love her, every act of kindness you ever did was fake, you are literally a terrorist and you did everything to use her for sex.

Then she goes get used some more.

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lordshotgun 3y ago

But you fuck one goat...

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yellomachine 3y ago

That is something you keep to yourself.

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[deleted] 3y ago

You can be the recantation reincarnation of Jesus in kindness, do selfless acts for many years.

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The_Meep_Lord 3y ago

Fixed

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Paulutot 3y ago

People rarely discuss points anymore, its just attack. Its a sad state of affairs in the public discourse arena.

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Bosurd 3y ago

They wait for a mistake and as soon as you make one, they have their “ah ha” moment allowing them to place you into a category and discredit everything else that was said.

The simple strategy is, when in doubt or losing an argument attack character to delegitimize talking points.

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[deleted] 3y ago

This is a common ad hominem that our species uses. Everything starts with our gynocentric bias: women are weak, therefore they suffer, therefore, they will be victims. men are stronger, therefore they will not suffer, they will be the perpetrators.

Even with the evidence on the table, the natural thinking for people will be thinking the man is the perpetrator, or if a man punishes, it's cruel.

That's why a woman can use all kinds of insults on a man, because he can handle it but a man cannot use the same tactics because it would be too cruel.

Anything that endangers a woman's survival is a negative connotation for our specie. This is how we operate until we red pill.

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calmly86 3y ago

Yup. It’s their automatic “Nazi” or “racist” card, thrown out immediately like some argument ender.

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upsidedownbackwards 3y ago

They love throwing around "VIRGIN!" too. But ask about their virginity and "It doesn't matter, it's not important!". I get downvoted to shit every time I bring it up. You're allowed to virgin shame but not slut shame. Worst part is that all sluts are sluts for the same reason. They had sex with a lot of different people. But virgins? You're going to use their sexual status as an insult for something they DIDN'T do?!

But with the downvotes I get shit like "You shouldn't be comparing the problems men have to this problem women have" when its two sides of the same fucking coin. So many people dogpile on it that I make sure to keep posting about it whenever I can to get some jimmies rustled because I called them out on their horseshit.

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I_actually_prefer_ 3y ago

Weird that all their insults have to do with sexual functions as if that’s their worth..,

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johnl1800 3y ago

Classic ad hominem often used when people have no coherent counter argument and have to resort to attacking the person instead.

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kidruhil 3y ago

100% this. It's the default lazy argument for the gender that always takes the easiest path.

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road_laya 3y ago

Criticism that was made without effort, can also be dismissed without effort.

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onlypinhead2000 3y ago

Why even entertain the idea of debating them?

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sony_anumo 3y ago

Anything to get out of having to give a counter argument.

When a woman can not win an argument and realizes she is wrong she will default to insults and/or crying.

Because being wrong hurt her feelings and that makes you an evil mean person.
Why do you hate her!?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

When a woman can not win an argument and realizes she is wrong she will default to insults and/or crying.

Or changing the subject.

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Overkillengine 3y ago

Why do you hate her!?

No, no, the accurate hysterical accusation is as follows:

"WHY DO YOU HATE [ALL] WOMEN [YOU FUCKING MISOGYNIST PIG]?!"

See, the technique is to deflect criticism by making the accusation of wrongthink/hatespeak as broad as possible so that they can use it as a social cudgel by appearing to advocate for as many of the oppressed as possible, so that any attempt by you to escape the DARVO is seen as an attack on them all. HOW DARE YOU. And of course when it comes to virtue signalling, one must not just be content to save one womyn, one must save all womyn!

Of course when they pull that sort of shit you can tell them it's only Rosie O'Donnell you are talking about.

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Noob_master_slayer 3y ago

Beacuse of lack of accountability. Think of it like this, young girls are, on average, far far more pampered than young boys. Young boys are told to man up, take responsibilities, learn to take care of their family, learn to take care of their finances, not to cry, that they ain't good enough and so on.

Young girls? They are told "You go gurlll!", "slayyy queeen!", and "You don't need to change for anyone!", not to mention simps. What does this do? This makes many girls entitled and unaccountable. Every fault of theirs must be someone else's fault. Didn't get into your dream college? The admission officer is a sexist mysgonistic pig, that's why! Your grades and your lack of effort made ABSOLUTELY no difference whatsover. A woman cheated on her husband? The husband was a slack who didn't take care of her needs so she was justified in backstabbing him. This goes on and on, but you get the point. Our culture inherently makes girls unaccountable.

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Throwaway90618 3y ago

You even see it with media. Happy Wife happy life. Husband's never win arguments. Husband's sleep on the couch. She's taking the kids and the house.

It leads to the thought process that they can never ever be wrong

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Along with "who hurt you?".

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[deleted] 3y ago

Yup, used when they have no argument at all.

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BookkeeperJazzlike44 3y ago

Woman has traumatic relationship experience = victim Man has traumatic relationship experience = who hurt you

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Average_Dad_Dude 3y ago

man has traumatic relationship = "fragile male ego"

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Marko_From_Tropoja_ 3y ago

This was always my favorite in the past from buddies wives when I wouldn’t commit to the friends they set me up with. Apparently they think by you telling your buddies wives “you aren’t looking for anything serious right now, so I would probably not be a good fit if that’s what their friend is looking for” means “he is just playing hard to get my friend is the 1 in a million that will make him change”. They are not the 1 in a million. Then it’s my fault when I don’t commit and the mentioned above “who hurt you” usually gets thrown in, along with something like “why did you hurt my friend and lead her on” when I didn’t. I no longer date anyone my buddies wives recommend. Has happened multiple times with different buddies wives and they still try to set me up with a “co worker or friend from the gym class/hobby class that would be perfect for me”.

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Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

And they’re usually hogbeasts, single moms or in desperate need of a bailout. None of which would add value to your life. I swear sometimes they have to be looking at the scum on the underside of the barrel to set guys up with.

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Marko_From_Tropoja_ 3y ago

Couple single moms, couple busted women, and couple attractive women who were pretty psycho. But ya none were worth any addition to my life.

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V_M 3y ago

scum on the underside of the barrel

That's what they see non-women as, so its "OK" to do bad things to us.

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Jihocech_Honza 3y ago

try to set me up with a “co worker or friend

Enjoy Dag (starts at 2:35): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xycEjLw2Fuw

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Ulfberht75 3y ago

I need to see the "Dag" series again.

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_Shinjitsu_ 3y ago

their automatic “Nazi” or “racist” card

Oh yeah, they have those?

And it comes out of thin air? There is nothing about your demeanor that says:

"I am superior to you because I am _____ " ? *

Or

"I am insensitive to other people's struggles / they should pull themselves up by their bootstraps " ?*

I can't say I have encountered that kind of automatic card. It seems strange to me that the two be equated or amalgamated i.e. "incel/misogynist" and "nazi/racist".

It's surprising that everyone just glossed over that.

I can see women calling men "incel" or "misogynist" for disagreeing with them because they want to frame that person as someone who is bitter for not getting sex or against women's interests.

*I have seen quite a few guys talk about having been in the army, having money, being successful as if it makes them someone of a superior pedigree, combined with the attitude of I am the best she can do

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Average_Dad_Dude 3y ago

This is hilarious. The fact that you are "insensitive" (read: don't believe your money should be taken to fund other people's poor choices) and believe in personal responsibility and accountability makes you a nazi!???? Fucking clown world to a T. The terms "nazi" "incel" and "misogynists" and "incel" are thrown around so freely they no longer have any meaning. They all amount to: "I think you are a mean person because you don't agree with me." Classic ad hominem attack and means of deflecting rational debate.

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_Shinjitsu_ 3y ago

I mean insensitive to the suffering of people of ethnicities other than yours.

Is there a correlation between the way tax money is spent and the ideology of racial/ethnic superiority extolled through racism and nazism?

No one will call you a racist or a nazi for stating for example that you don't want your tax money to fund single mothers, unless there is an element of race/ethnicity attached to your discourse.

Who is deflecting here?

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Average_Dad_Dude 3y ago

??????

I mean, as a general rule, I care about myself and my family first, above and beyond all ideology. Then, my neighbors and people I know. Everyone else gets the "shit, sucks to be them; glad it wasn't me attitude."

You might call me a self-centered narcissistic asshole, but that hardly makes me a Nazi or racist?

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yellomachine 3y ago

No. I don't think that's the attitude here. We're not dismissive of anyone's struggles. If anything, we care a lot more than the average do-gooder.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

This was originally posted 11 months ago as part 3 of a series of memes in response to some bloopie brigaders.

Part one of the series here.

Part 2 of the series here.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

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But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

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