Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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vanillapopsicle 4y ago
It’s always the arrogance. Always the arrogance, and then reality.
WalnutManTrader 4y ago
She lost me at 6figures
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
She lost me at 36F.
urbanspun1989 4y ago
The mom knows what’s up
soytuamigo 4y ago
"I'm not desperate"
fuzzy_brb 4y ago
Her: I was going to ghost these perfectly fine normal men but they ghosted me first. How dare they????? I’m so outraged!!!!
OhBarnacles_007 4y ago
Don't forget how she's not desperate and been happy single by her own choice for 3 years, but all needs therapy lol.
"It's not me, it's the stupid men!"
mustangfrank 4y ago
FUJB46 4y ago
Haha that’s exactly how it read too! Spot on!
mustangfrank 4y ago
And her mom laid it all out why men treat her like this, so she is pissed at mom for telling the truth.
She: Why can't the truth be what I want it to be?
IplayDnd4days 4y ago
And the fact she wont include what was said is very funny you know its good advice from the mom.
mustangfrank 4y ago
I never thought about it, but you are right. Why wasn't what mom said mentioned, since it was important to her? It adds directly to the conversation.
My guess;
Mom: Quit being a slut! Choose good men instead of bikers, criminals and other low life. How stupid can you get? How has that worked for you in the last 10 years? You dumped an accountant for a drug dealer. WTF? Then you chose Mr. Neck Tattoo, for no other reason than he had tattoos. WTF x10? And as if all that were not bad enough you choose an EX-con who had been married 6 times before, yet he told you that you were different, then the whole gang ran a train though you, and you did it because he said he loved you!!! Holy shit how stupid can you get? And this is what I know about you from the newspapers. I don't even know 1% of your life, and I don't want to know.
She: Mom. I was finding myself. Now, I am ready for a good man.
Mom. (Mom starts laughing hysterically)
IplayDnd4days 4y ago
She says her mum was a savage and didnt care about feelings and basically told her the blunt truth which the fact she doesnt include it means deep down she knew her mom was probably right about most if not all she said.
justiceavenger2 4y ago
I can't believe women take ghosting so seriously. A few years ago abc family was doing a whole campaign and running PSAs about stopping ghosting. If someone stops talking to you on a dating app then just move on. How fucking weak can a person be?
Balefirez 4y ago
Completely agree. I can see this being a crappy thing to do if you’ve been together for a couple years, but only after a few dates? Just get over it. Been ghosted plenty and I just moved on. I don’t see why this is such a big deal.
Normal_Person11222 4y ago
The same women who ghost 95% of the men they meet because they just want a free meal too
binkerfluid 4y ago
I feel like if its on an app its not even ghosting. Ghosting is just irl right?
SeedsOfDoubt 4y ago
People ghost each other every day. You walk down the street and get ignored by 99.999% of everybody. I've had good friends move away and never heard from them again. I used to hang out at one particular bar multiple times a week. Haven't been back in 10 years. Nobody is crying about it.
NoonTimeHoopsMVP 4y ago
I recently left a five year job because the new boss is an ego maniac who chased off 35+ people in one year. In the 4 weeks that I have been gone, only one co-worker reached out to me. Two other co-workers reached out because they needed help.
People simply don't care once your usefulness to them has expired.
Average_Dad_Dude 4y ago
Wish more people understood this. Hard truth that my grandfather told me: "People only care about you if you are useful to them in some way."
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Ghosting is only bad when she is on the receiving end of it.
Frosty_League 4y ago
Precisely. This is why I don’t take advice from women anymore. They just don’t experience life the same way we do. They don’t experience one rejection after another like most men do. If they did, then oh boy, you bet they’d all be suicidally depressed. I’ve come to learn that all the shitty behavior women accuse men of doing on the dating scene are things that most women themselves are guilty of too. It’s all a projection
mustangfrank 4y ago
True. This is for all women.
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mustangfrank 4y ago
OK, most women.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
Here's a tip: Build a time machine, go back to your 20s, stop acting like men are an endless commodity that has no value.
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Overkillengine 4y ago
And men need to accept that this is the default behavior they will run into. Which is why it is so important for men to be learn how to evaluate without giving away that they are evaluating, and learn how to walk away without giving them feedback on how to become better liars. The latter is why women HATE ghosting. It denies them a lot of social power.
Never explicate consequences for their behavior. Demonstrate. She acts in a way that gives you reason to doubt her fidelity or intent to remain as such? You don't discuss. You don't negotiate. You don't give ultimatums. You don't do "closure". You just walk and find a replacement, and if the bitch don't like that, too bad, she is an adult and can figure it the fuck out or keep losing men. Her choices, her consequences.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
She’s definitely not being clear about how it comes to be that she has only met 2 guys from tinder. Out of likely thousands. And one of those didn’t have his life together
Talk about being insanely picky - and it not even working!
CuntSniffer9001 4y ago
Most likely she was 100 pounds heavier in real life, and/or he found out she was a rabid feminazi.
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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I would question why on Earth she would bring up her divorce on a date. But it is a damn good thing she did
IsraelWentFullMGTOW 4y ago
She was proud of what she did. She probs bragged about it to her scum friends.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
A combination of pride/bragging and guilt makes them fess up.
Like a criminal during a police interrogation. They can't help but admit it.
upsidedownbackwards 4y ago
Yup. I'm in that age range. I go on tinder just to laugh at the amount of single women with kids that are their world.
All you would have to do to catch my eye even at 36-38 would be to be not fat (don't even have to be in shape, just no blobbin' about), no kids, and not have a profile that reads like an "I WANT I WANT I WANT" shopping list. Oh, and zero comments about guys height. I'm 6'4 but I won't even give the time of day to a woman with a height requirement listed.
banmered 4y ago
Height requirement is stealth gold-digging. You are wise to avoid that red flag.
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upsidedownbackwards 4y ago
Unfortunately a 36 year old non-toxic woman with no baggage is scarce because there aren't many people who actually want a relationship that are 36, non toxic, no baggage. Both men and women.
The ones without baggage who want relationships are married off.
The ones without baggage over 35 aren't looking for anything serious. They've either gone spinster or MGTOW even if they don't know it yet.
CuntSniffer9001 4y ago
I'm fine with height requirements as long as they don't get offended by my weight requirements.
BeholdTheHair 4y ago
The two aren't equivalent, though. Height is an immutable characteristic. Barring an incredibly expensive and potentially dangerous surgical procedure I literally can't get any taller than I am.
Weight, however, is entirely within the individual's control. All you have to do is put down the fork and hit the weights/treadmill.
Which isn't going to stop women from preferring taller men, of course, but it's one thing to have such a preference and another to openly discriminate on the basis of an immutable characteristic. That's naked bigotry and deserves nothing but scorn.
CuntSniffer9001 4y ago
You make some good points above, but doesn't the last part of your sentence contradict the first part? If it's ok to have a preference for an immutable characteristic, then isn't exercising that preference a form of discrimination? It sounds like you're saying it's ok to discriminate but not ok to discriminate. Maybe I'm just misunderstanding what you're saying, but I would be interested in your response.
BeholdTheHair 4y ago
It's more a matter of tact and knowing attraction isn't determined unilaterally like that. A woman isn't going to find an otherwise attractive man completely unappealing simply because he's not as tall as she'd like, and openly stating "no guys under [insert arbitrary height limit here]" shows a complete lack of social graces.
ZealousMaths 4y ago
For all we know her crazy phase was her having sex actively with guys rumored to have HIV because it’s taboo, and the guys left thinking What the fuck… Doesn’t even have to be HIV, something like sex to cover rent is also possibly something she slipped as a “funny thing about me.”
Revenge_best_served 4y ago
I once heard a girl use the joke "its not herpes, its ourpes" as an icebreaker to lets guys know in a subtle way she had herpes, and was very promiscuous during her younger years, that's if the guys got the joke and put 2 and 2 together.
saruin 4y ago
I'd walk the fuck out right then and there. No actually, that's not enough. I'm running away!
ZealousMaths 4y ago
But man. It’s just herpes. Don’t you get it. Don’t be an incel and marry this wonderful woman. Just because she has a lifelong STD doesn’t mean she’s bad. How can you judge her on this one little thing. Be grateful incel a woman is even looking at you. Even if she had HIV, you should be grateful. Women are hard to come by.
Average_Dad_Dude 4y ago
Yeah, not dating her is a form of slut-shaming. Everyone has herpes. Stop stigmatizing a totally normal thing.
OwenWentFullMGTOW 4y ago
My favorite is "But you could be missing out on an amazing relationship!"
Women don't seem to understand that fomo is their thing, not ours.
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"But, everybody has herpes!"
FlegmentineCored 4y ago
She's 36 and still thinks of herself as a girl. That's her whole problem right there. It sounds like mom told her to stop fucking around with losers and grow the hell up already but the truth hurts so she doesn't want to hear it.
She only wants someone to tell her what she tells herself - that nothing is ever her fault because she's fine the way she is so it's not her that needs to change. It's men. They're to blame for everything. Luckily for her there are countless other delusional girl ladies online that are happy to confirm this and make her feel all better again.
Overkillengine 4y ago
Yeah there's like a huge demand from men for borderline infertile psuedomales with a host of implied red flags.
Not.
mustangfrank 4y ago
She wasted her youth on bad boys, thugs, bikers, ex-cons, Now, at 36 Boo Hoo WAATGM?
Cissnowflake 4y ago
Don’t forget “I think I’m cute.” What does that mean, really?
soytuamigo 4y ago
That was the takeaway for me too. They all think they're cute lol.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
It means "I'm not attractive by regular standards (or any standards, really), but since I think I'm quirky, that should count, right?".
IceCorrect 4y ago
Also "guy who has their life together" means he earn atleast as much as she
Traksimuss 4y ago
And spends all his money on her, while she puts her money on her fun times or retirement fund.
road_laya 4y ago
At least 20% more than her
PM_Happy_Puppy_Pics 4y ago
Honestly, you better earn double or you just "equal" which isn't attractive.
Overkillengine 4y ago
Yup. Guy making that much dosh can just "date" some armcandy and trade them in for newer models once they get too old or demanding. They'd end up spending way less for a more pleasant experience.
Women need to realize at that income tier they have to do more than show up with a well used vagina and a bunch of demands, because those men have a shit ton of options that they can and will exercise.
CuntSniffer9001 4y ago
Sorry, but 100k per year is not enough to make any difference one way or another in a woman's desire to date a man. As always, looks = everything.
The only exception being men who make a mil or more per year. They can look like bridge trolls and still get tons of pussy.
braucifur 4y ago
100k/yr is enough to get them to consider you IF you also at least match them on looks and they don't make significantly more. If you match them on looks but have a lower income you have no chance. If you significantly exceed them on looks and have a lower income you aren't relationship material but fun Chad guy possibly.
Basically hypergamy means to be in a relationship with them you need to significantly exceed them on resources if you are in their same attractiveness tier and this disparity grows exponential the lower your attractiveness vs hers.
Similarly to bed them you need to significantly exceed their attractiveness tier and in this case you better be really fucking careful and wrap it up because at 36 she will lie about being on BC to get that donation from you its innate in her nature. Afterall she already makes six figures and for those that don't Uncle Sam will provide.
CuntSniffer9001 4y ago
There you go. This is exactly what I was trying to get at. But Chad Thundercrack of the local halfway house can make $2 per hour and still get her undying devotion. That's the other point I was trying to make.
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I'm getting chubster vibes from this one too. Most "gamer girls" are fatties from what I've seen.
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
Those I sampled definitly was on the heavier side. And while they owned more games, consoles, computers, laptops at once and usually, well ye they did The Sims 4... Which doesn't rly makes sense to me...
Ofc all had expensive pre-made high quality computers, never met one who just assembled her own for a quarter of the prize, I even offered to help one ex assemble a gaming tower because she wanted one and was going to buy it with consumer loans while she could have gotten the same hardware for less if I assembled it.
I know real female gamers, but haven't dated them and they would never make a big deal out of gaming. It's usually the ones that rarely play games who has to tell you they do...
SwinginPastMyKnees_ 4y ago
But she thinks she's cute! LMAO!
KellyBelly916 4y ago
I agree but for different reasons. She referred to herself as "cute", not "attractive" or "fit". She's leaning heavily on subjective words because there's no scale for "cute".
I'm saying this because my ex wife was a gamer. This girl was 5'5" and 100 lbs wet, Eastern European and very easy on the eyes. She referred to herself as a gamer because she loved Witcher and a few other games, so they're not entirely correlated. It's "cute" that you have to watch out for since the most manipulative ones like to dance in the subjective no man's land.
DemonFromWalmart 4y ago
I see what you did there.
fatandfly 4y ago
Yeah no woman who's attractive and is seeking a man is spending any free time playing games, she'd be out on the town every night.
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Exactly
Vikingbeard1 4y ago
Well, not if she isn't a slut. I mean, I'm not saying anything about THIS girl, but most decent women who are attractive and seeking a man are NOT out getting drunk at clubs.
fatandfly 4y ago
Out on the town doesn't have to mean getting drunk at the club, especially at 36 you should be going to the club. There are bars that cater to a more upscale clientele, happy hour at nice restaurants, wine bars, cigar bars, somewhere that plays live music, preferably jazz, etc. These are the places you go at that age, places that attract an older and well behaved crowd, nice relaxing atmosphere where you can meet people.
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
I love how e-sports is just filled with men while there rly isn't anything preventing women from being good at those things.
PopularBug5 4y ago
They much rather show tits than get good at playing a game.
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
Well if I could make money showing some skin to female gamers, even if I suck at gaming, it l might look like a goodidea. I'm pretty sure I would be called a creep and for good reasons if I tried streaming semi nude as a man targeting young people like twitch seems to be nowdays.
I dont get why it's no called e-scorting..
The few real gamers I know are introverted giris that doesnt flaunt about bering a gamer... They know that gamers worth their time won't simp for them.
We actually did a speed run of TBC on a reroll sever. Or the guild I found myself in did. You had one second chance to do your job, say polymorph a monster, fail once you get demoted twice kicked.
We had a great female mage player that was used to bering coddled. Her 3rd raid she failed her polymorph target two times in a row and was kickes from the raid and guild abs replaced.
She blew up on the mage leader who made the call about how we should cut her some slack (they ended up clearing BT in two months, Vashj prenerfed in blue gear, crazy good players).
She went cray cray once she realized she wasn't gonna get special treatment for being a gurl gamer...
Complained about how we were elitist (yes perfection or F off was implied, we did prenerfed Vashj and if you messed-up, ye we DIDN'T waste time.
She cried and yelled at the class leader for hating women... Didn't work, especially funny because the mage temp leader at the time was a woman...
ImSoGaymer 4y ago
I find most women just don’t put in the same amount of effort to play at a top level as men. Most people I know who are good at any game think nothing twice of grinding for 12 hours a day every single day. Women gamers play significantly less, are less dedicated yet surprised when their outperformed.
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
Ye thats my take on it. And I can't blame them. I mean plenty of men puts in the hours, the practise, they watch replays, ye they do the work and they still fail badly.
I played way more then that (which is contraproductive) and my coworker, well shouldn't name him but ye, he's not that famous, he has been ranked #1 in EU in at least three games. Nowdays he seems to be building an esport organization (another one, this man is a great inspiration nice to women, short fellah and regardless of if he was young or successful, women chased him. He's also a rly nice person to be around).
He's very intelligent and prone go obsession. We have the same myers briggs result but and similar IQ but, he manages life better and helps people.
A truly good man. I think women like him so much because he is nice to everyone and fun to be around which means he is respected among men.
But he's open with wanting sex but if someone is good enough for him he wouldn't mind a relationship. So he surely has created plenty of alpha widows...
Individual451 4y ago
Apart from hand/eye coordination (on average -NOT ALL:)
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
Well it prevents most ppl. But let's say hearthstone?
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Tarkz 4y ago
Once it's reached is absolute maximum potential, then it'll be all about how the patriarchy is holding women back and not letting them play too. #TeamSiren
Thinguy123 4y ago
A joke from /v/ regarding women and e-sports
"You drive 300 miles in your shitty car with your own rig to a warehouse full of sweaty nerds for a chance to win a $50 Arby's giftcard.
Women: lol what a loser
You get to fly to the other side of the world, stay in luxury resorts, all expenses paid, be treated like a celebrity and compete for a chance to win millions of dollars
Women: We demand equal representation"
fatandfly 4y ago
They try but somehow it's our fault we're just better. Those all girl teams always get beat bad.
Traksimuss 4y ago
Like random 15 year old boys beating national women team in sports?
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
Now in Sweden they teenage boys did this with 9vs11 players... And I met one of them and they had been told to go easy anyway..
Foltbsll/soccer requires power women just don't have. They can keep up until puberty then, no more..
That was against the national champions that I think won the world cup around the same time...
timebandit1975 4y ago
Dudes just got better reflexes.
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
I dont play FPS and suck at micro. I know pros and I know I can't compete with them.
EDIT: Ye fever, missed the plural, thought you meant me personally, but I will leave the answer below. But you are partly right. The traits required, high IQ, work ethic that is close to obsession and reflexes are very rare in women compared to men. They are rare in general but a pos5 could be played by someone with worse reflexes. They also get good jobs behind the scene (Milky for example is quite essential to the Alliance or was I been out of the loop but I assume, hope, he and L-God still are making it big, will never forget losing to him. Getting destroyed doesn't even make it justice...)
Look at Akke, Joakim Akterhall, winner if TI3. He's great at any game and win national video game competition in all sorts of Nintendo games. Great guy image and well my sources confirm that he's genuinely nice.
I just got the theory crafting aspect at a high level. Like we fought MyM with techies... Didn't win but I think we had the upper hand.
Great at grinding and staying focused, but I know I can't play on that level. They can take Mia to the games and just crush you even if they never tried it.
I played for fun though. Still do. Also my mother is horrible and tried to raise a weak kid so she wouldn't be alone after she left my father. Like they stuck together for ages but I always knew she was gonna leave once us kids grew up.
She's obsessed with her public image (while being a nobody) so I got early on that she didn't want to be seen as breaking up a family.
Dad just lacks RP awareness and is naive but since I called out my mother and now without my mum in my life, things are so much better....
But the point is, if your raised by a devouring mother (archetype) that molds you into a weak person to make you dependent on them... Well I failed at handling defeat and couldn't find it funny when we would win on my strats but my performance was bad.
And I had other things going on, back in those days there were no money and since I didn't accumulate experience, esport career wouldn't be realistic as reflexes requires for high level dota peaks early.
Thats why older players go into pos5 more often, like FATA or "old man fear".
It rly requires blood sweat and tears...
Cannabanoid420 4y ago
Not no woman. There are some, albiet super rare. Check out streamer LuluLuvely.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Did you read the full statement - “and is seeking a man”
I assume said streamer is either not looking or already has a partner
No one is saying there are no attractive female gamer girls. That is objectively nonsense.
fatandfly 4y ago
I should have been super specific, a woman who's 36, making 6 figures, and is good looking. Said woman's biological clock is ticking and she knows time is running out to find a mate she would considered worthy. Her sex drive should be higher at 36 than 26 because those eggs are drying up and her body is telling her to reproduce before it's too late. And if she's making 6 figures she working a lot which leaves little time for serious gaming. I make 6 figures and don't have much time to game anymore, my free time is spent having quality time with my wife and daughter. And if she was good looking she wouldn't be using apps, not at 36, she would get hit on all the time before using apps was the thing and have no need for them. Using them at 36 leads me to believe that she's not used to attention in person, so she started using apps to get it. And I looked up this Lululuvely, she has over 1million followers on twitch, gaming for lonely loser is her job. Her last stream is almost 6 hours. That's a long time but still shorter than how much most people work, especially in relation to how much she's probably making. After that she's done for the day, had made a few grand and can go out and live the life of a beautiful young woman, go shopping, hang with friends and go on dates looking for a potential mate. And twitch streamers really don't count because a lot of beautiful women are flocking there because it's easy money, the same losers who are on onlyfans and the live cam sites are there and, and they can make similar money to those girls and don't have to take off their clothes. And then they can graduate to doing onlyfans when the audience has grown and is thirsty enough to pay for nudes.
molded_bread 4y ago
Damn, the second half of your comment about twitch streamers and onlyfans is spot on. It's easy money for them.
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Is 6 figures really that uncommon? I've seen plenty of young people make this much in areas that are expensive. 6 figures starts at 100k, it doesn't mean that person is making 500k either.
I'm 30 and I'm technically making 6 figures and I'm most definitely not married to my job.
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Depends on location. I'm out in the Styx making 80k. Adjust that for NYC, it goes to $130 easy
Additionally, doesn't really matter how much you pull down if you've got debt that eats all your income.
Overkillengine 4y ago
Once again for the people that can't math.
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There aren't many women here.
Overkillengine 4y ago
lul fair enough.
wiseroldman 4y ago
It really depends on where you live, but according to a quick search, about 9% of people in the U.S. make over 100k.You also have to take into account people in other countries. A software engineer who easily makes $150k in the U.S. will be making half of that in the U.K. so to answer your question, yes it is uncommon, rare even for a single person in their 20's and 30's to make 6 figures.
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I get that it's rare but 9% of the population is not extremely low either. I wonder how much that would be if you took only people with a graduate degree for example.
Also, these numbers probably also includes bonuses, equities, and other benefits. Total compensation vs salary makes a big difference for a lot of people, and the tax rate also makes a big difference. If I make 100k in Belgium or Norway where I have over 38% of income tax vs in Qatar where it's 0, it doesn't go to the same amount.
I just feel like 100k is really not that uncommon in many many places so it's not really asking for much to get 6 figures if people in their 20s can achieve that. For the record, I graduated at almost 26 years old, so I only have 4.5 years of exp, and I'm already making 6 figures. Someone in their mid 30s can surely make 120-200 if they're in the right field.
And also, some areas of the UK definitely pay over 100k for software engineers, especially in the London area.
Ididitall4thegnocchi 4y ago
It's uncommon no matter how you slice it
warlocc_ 4y ago
Unlike women, around here we realize that what we "feel" doesn't matter. Data does.
9% is an extremely small part of the population.
NetherIndy 4y ago
9% is rare-ish in one sense. A little more rare than being left-handed (12-15%).
The problem is that if lefties were for the most part, for some reason, considered WAY WAY more attractive than right-handed people, the competition for that 12-15% would be fierce and you'd better have more than a dishwater personality and a "photo that came with the frame" face. Even if you were a fellow lefty!
Six figure income isn't that rare. But, to within rounding error, every woman wants it. And don't want every man (some ugly Oracle DBA making $101k) even in that 9%, making it even rarer, effectively.
Fairwareprovidence 4y ago
100k in San Francisco is nothing. 100k in Lubbock means you are loaded. It's all in location.
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That is my entire point.
Dunkman83 4y ago
9% isnt a low percentage? 9 out of 100 isnt low?
SwinginPastMyKnees_ 4y ago
It does create a big demand for those 9, though. Thus, where women tend to aim for the small % of men actually making at least six figures and ending up highlighted here.
kidruhil 4y ago
"I'm single by choice but I want to find a man"
God these hoes really are just memes at this point
Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago
Happily single by choice, immediately followed by why can’t I find a man.
GundamZero83 4y ago
Chill gamer girl in therapy making 6 figures a year?
peguy2000 4y ago
Lets see when she realises all those good men want women in their prime years.
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
If a woman uses a dating app, generally speaking it means she's either unattractive or lazy. She's not actually serious about finding a man. If she was she would put herself "out there" and make it more of a priority.
She just wants attention and validation. The fact that guys who she perceives to be of lower value ghosted her means that she isn't getting the validation she expected.
It has nothing to do with the outcome of the date because she would just bang the more alpha inclined guys and dump the betas anyways. If she took a long look in the mirror (before it cracks) she would realize that she probably needs more therapy.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
Bold of you to assume her reflection fits a mirror.
polishknightusa 4y ago
I coined a term, "the corporate nunnery", which is when otherwise attractive women live unintentionally isolated lives: They go to work, they have a close knit group of family and friends, they shop, and they vacation with relatives. They may go with a friend to the coffee shop to chat and read a book.
Largely the only men that will hit on them in these non-dating public venues are men who are openly trying to game and that may spook them. They complain "they don't like being hit on" by men with low quality game and hence, become jaded to any approach. But usually, men can't just read a book and have high quality game out of the gate. It takes practice.
They may go out to a dance club with friends where they'll all dance on the dance floor together, cockblock men trying to dance with them, and go home.
Many modern, otherwise physically attractive women, simply don't have many social skills when it comes to how to find a man or they are conditioned to believe that they shouldn't need to. They believe a "real man" who meets their requirements should just somehow magically, serendipitously, meet them but that's literally like believing that everyone should be lottery winners.
I found that most venues constructed specifically for dating was a 1-step-forward-two-steps paradox: Women who went to them found it disgusting they would be seen as "needing" to become "easier" to they ramped up their hard-to-get-shit-tests.
I laughed at loud at your assertion that a woman who needs a dating app may be lazy. What woman in this modern era isn't lazy when it comes to dating expecting men to provide relationships, a silver platter of goodies, and an emotionally easy good time up to getting nookie? It's easier to handle a group of 6 year olds at a Birthday party at Chuck-E-Cheese's.
PopRevolutionary1475 4y ago
If your mom's are questioning you about your past and relationship status, you know you have a serious problem.
sharedisaster 4y ago
Red flags, mostly by omission:
I wonder exactly what her 'savage' (honest) mother said to her.
SnakeEyeskid 4y ago
If she's happily single at 36 why does this bother her?
Also... She already has her dog and is at that age not fit for children so only men who don't want kids will engage with that...
Maybe I'm wrong here but if the woman is old, has a dog (I love dogs but those you get after the kids cuz they do come with responsibility and a well trained dog takes work...), a list of demands AND isn't attracted to you (two dates and no intimacy? Ye I don't mind traditional women but I couldn't imagine any of my exes, high or low libido even being fine with three dates before taking things to the bedroom...).
Gamer girls are a mess in my experience. It's gotten better and worse but back when good ol Snakeye was young, they were rare and that meant the thirsty young guys would shower them with attention inflating their egos.
I mean shread of 10y and give her a pleasent personality and maybe self awereness (her mother is ruthless for not stroking her ego?) and she should have had great options.
But she seems on the Kevin Samuels path...
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
The clue is she is clearly not happily single. And I don’t know why she is lying to herself about it
BeholdTheHair 4y ago
Because Holy Feminism told her she shouldn't need a man to be happy. So she lies to herself about being "happily" single to avoid going against the orthodoxy.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I can appreciate the theory of “I don’t need a man I want a man”. Fair enough .
Except every video or post or article I ever see that in contains a bunch of bitching and moaning either about men in general, the men the woman has chosen or the apparently lack of options
If it was a want rather than a need then there would be no need to get mad or frustrated. And definitely no need to write an article, Reddit post or especially record a video complaining about men / being single
BeholdTheHair 4y ago
Right. It's just another example of women trying to be men because that's what Holy Feminism tells them they're supposed to do.
Men want women. Women need men.
Granted, a lot of women have made do to one extent or another by substituting Big Brother for a man, but Big Brother is nothing but an impersonal provider. He doesn't give them tingles. He doesn't hold them while they cry or set solid boundaries and call them on their bullshit when they're being hysterical like they (usually subconsciously) want/need a man to do. Big Brother can satisfy their every material need, but humans, even modern women, are not truly materialistic creatures. They have needs that go beyond the physical and financial and those needs can't be addressed with a benefits check.
But admitting that would require the necessary introspection to acknowledge that feature of their existence in the first place, followed by putting in the work to reign in their crazy enough to make it worth a man's time to stick around. Not wasting their best years as a Chad-chasing turboslut goes without saying.
We've both been here long enough to see how few women ever achieve any significant degree of Step 1.
Wildhouse83 4y ago
Seems like Chadrones will not commit anymore. Have fun with your remaining 45 years or so.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
I bet she has ghosted dozens if not hundreds of men.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
I remember reading - in this subreddit, if I'm not mistaken - about how setting couples up work in jewish communities: the older women will gladly introduce young men and women to each other when they believe there's a chance to a couple being made. However, when those sweet old(er) ladies are not avocating for a particular girl, there's always a reason. Here, dear mother is quite explicit with her diagnosis, and the question does stand: why is such a catch of a woman unable to keep men interested enough for a serious commitment? Take a guess, ladies and gentlemen.
banmered 4y ago
This only works well in communities where the families have literally grown up together. The one factor that cannot be gamed in relationships is decades and even centuries of experiential evaluation. While the mostly assortative matching starts in early 20s, the evaluation starts during childhood, and even evaluating the young parents before they have children.
There are downsides to this approach. Especially if matches are made with money as a big decision factor.
The evaporation of this matching is why men finding a marriageable match today seems like such a crooked lottery.
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We do this in muslim communities too. Traditionally, parents who work with each other and know each other well would introduce their children to one another if they see that there's a chance that a good couple can be created out of their union. It was a good way of knowing, in advance, that the man/woman wasn't someone dangerous for your child, but sadly as people are starting to realize that it's sexist (towards women as always), they're slowly starting to abandon this tradition ...... (at least I can enjoy my life without my parents annoying me to get married)
PopularBug5 4y ago
I am from a Muslim community - usually parents do this when they see their daughters suspiciously not having boyfriends after their 25th year, and their daughters make excuses like education or career while they are staying away from their parents and living in the big cities.
It's a common tactic for born-again tradthots in conservative commmunities. Sleep around, find themselves under the ballsacks of Atheist Chads, get damaged enough that Chads don't even want to hook up with them anymore, THEN come back to their parents and pretend to be a goody-two-shoes hijabi asking their parents to hook them up with virgin Ahmads.
woodenmask 4y ago
That's a long way of saying, your parents marry you off and you have no autonomy
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
Interesting. I'm from Brazil - where the majority of people is christian -, so it's always nice to learn something new from different cultures.
Edit: typo.
IsraelWentFullMGTOW 4y ago
Brazil - the OG feminist crazed wasteland. Almost as bad as Puerto Rico
Visible-Ad7732 4y ago
Multiple Christian, especially Catholic, communities did the same thing.
Basically, older women in church would talk to other women about their children or grandchildren and discuss a date scenario for the two to meet up and see where things go.
In fact, this was the norm for most of humanity, across cultures, until the post WW2 era, when things changed, first in the West and now has moved to other parts of the world.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
Are you saying that humanity as a whole had a system perfected throughout millennia that was going quite well? And thus it could be inferred that, now that we've abandoned said system, things going downhill are a consequence of said abandonment? Nonsense!
Tex236 4y ago
At what age do they start doing this? I’m assuming it isn’t with post-wall almost-40 women.
TheEclipsse 4y ago
What’s the wall age for men?
Tex236 4y ago
Men start out at the wall and run backwards from it. We are judged based on what we provide monetarily which increases as we age. Some men just start further away from the wall based on height and looks.
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Usually 23,24 years old
Tex236 4y ago
Exactly! And thanks for the knowledge internal friend.
yolower 4y ago
I guess this is a universal thing. Even in Sikhism, older ladies play matchmaker as well. Good ol fashion way of meeting someone.
wiseroldman 4y ago
I'm one of the few young people in my office and it gets mentioned in passing by my coworkers (all married in their 40's and above) about introducing me to somebody they know. Everytime there's a new female employee around my age, everybody immediately starts putting us together.
Average_Dad_Dude 4y ago
Had the same thing happen when I was single. New girl starts and I make friends and flirt and whatnot. We are out for drinks and she flat out told me that she wouldn't date anyone who was shorter than her (I was). So me being a smart ass says, "ok, well would you sleep with someone shorter than you?" She threw water in my face and left. Waitress said, "is there a problem?" I say, "yeah, apparently I'm too short." She tells me to stand up and says "not for me; my shift ends at 9:00."
Tall girl wound up marrying a total boring tool accountant that she met online after screening for men taller than her. She was totally miserable, they got divorced, and she is now fat and posts about wine, cats, and travelling.
wiseroldman 4y ago
I really don't understand what it is with height requirements, but you dodged a bullet there friend. Quality people aren't shallow like that.
yolower 4y ago
username doesnt checkout though.
Bing_Bang_Bam 4y ago
She used to be sort of cute but Then got fat.
Harry_Teak 4y ago
If she can't see why she can't get a second date from just the content of her post she never will. My advice to her would be to get a trailer hitch and practice sucking it until she gets a mouthful of chrome. Second dates are almost definitely guaranteed with that kind of skill.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
If that's not some solid relationship advice, I don't know what is.
Harry_Teak 4y ago
Yet I still can't get a talk show on Lifetime...
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
I'd gladly watch that. Hell, I'd even buy the DVD special with the best moments, bloopers, and that time the police got involved.
Harry_Teak 4y ago
That wouldn't be on the extras, that would be most of the actual show content.
AtomicMGTOW 4y ago
I'm sure she gives off tons of the "I don't NEED you" vibe. She wants to be the judge jury and executioner but she's way past the time when she had the sexual power to do that.
She talks about her crazy face going all the way up until 33 and then has to spend 3 years in therapy. And now she's 36 and figures that she's all fixed up and fit for a long-term relationship or marriage.
She hasn't practiced being in a long-term relationship or marriage. You never had that goal in mind until very recently. It takes a very long time to cultivate the skills to be able to be in a marriage. She doesn't have to be cooperative so she won't be cooperative. She still believes she's the prize. She wants to be the cheesiest chooser that she can be and she wants the men to be obsessed with her giving her complete control.
Those days are gone sweetheart! And even if she could have complete control over the relationship that's not cooperation. She wants the men to need her, work hard for and depend on her validation, and worship the ground she walks on. Why? Because she'll play COD with you?
And of course we have no idea what she looks like. When she says she's a gamer girl she wants us to imagine one of those pretty Kawaii young Japanese girls. In reality I bet everything that she's overweight, loops around in sweatshirts, and has more than one cat.
I don't believe she makes six figures or more not that we care about that. Because they're not sharing it with us anyways. When women are broke their communists, when women make a decent living especially six figures they're capitalists. What's hers is hers.
She's not looking for a man she's looking for a pet. An accessory. We don't know if she is kids or what her body count is either. It's a trap
nnnnawalt 4y ago
Not to mention a guy went from "obsessed" with her to ghosting. Maybe some people do lie about being obsessed but I wonder if she did something to even turn off the simpiest(? spelling doubtful) of simps.
panzer22222 4y ago
Mother told her exactly what was the problem but she didnt repeat it and doesnt want to actually deal with it...better to post on reddit so everyone can tell her to never change
alienmuseum 4y ago
She admitted to being crazy. Yeah , no! Stay the fuck out away!
king_of_the_potato_p 4y ago
Odds are shes a chunker and if they couldnt hit it right away they sere moving on.
Mister_McDerp 4y ago
You all do. Until your late 50's at least.
Vikingbeard1 4y ago
So while I agree it's good to not spend every second of your single life lamenting your singleness in misery, for many reasons, I don't understand this notion of being totally happy single...but wanting a partner. If a lady tells me she is completely satisfied being single, then I have zero interest in her now, because where else is there to go from there but down? Any attempt at a relationship will inevitably, basically by definition, fuck with her "happy and single" life, so she'll be less happy and it literally will be my fault. So why would I bother? Why should anyone? I see men say this too, like getting a wife is no different than getting a motorcycle; something you do when your financially doing okay and want to spoil yourself a little, but you should already be pretty satisfied with life and not be relying on a new toy to make you happy. I'm okay with my life today, I'm not miserable, but I certainly dream some days of finding a woman who is, you know, decent--I'm at a 7 in life satisfaction and see a good woman as what would make it an 8.
TheUnspecialist 4y ago
"He was obsessed with me..." & " he ghosted me"
Nah, he was acting obsessed.
ialwayslurk1362354 4y ago
The biggest red flag for me was her saying "I don't know what I could be doing wrong." This shows a complete lack of self-awareness. This will only lead to the man being blamed for anything that goes wrong, since she is perfect and never makes mistakes. It's sad nobody ever told her "No" or called her out on her poor behavior.
rising-waters 4y ago
Mind uploading the image someplace else?
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
Weird. Anyway, here it is: https://postimg.cc/PpdRSWPC.
rising-waters 4y ago
There's nothing adult in that, so it must be that Imgur has gone woke. Other Imgur uploads in this subreddit also require a sign in because of "adult content".
Hunk_Maggot 4y ago
i have known a girl like that, never ever again. Truly an awful experience.
welp unless you are going to take care of that man, none will fight to get this woman. I would say a man who has all those attributes would more likely have a lot of prospects but why would a man compete for a woman who is probably not good looking, acts like a men and has her womb dried as raisins, NO! No men want to be marry a masculine woman who will treat them like shit.
Also those guys who ghosted this woman, they dodged that nuclear meltdown.
amongthemaniacs 4y ago
Did you notice how she casually mentioned she went through a crazy girl phase? I think when most men hear a woman say that they think it means she rebelled a bit against her parents, stayed out past curfew, smoked weed, maybe got a tattoo or piercing she isn't proud of, etc. In reality it means she likely sucked and fucked a lot of random men and did hardcore drugs and booze. She said she's been in therapy for 3 years. Can you imagine the shit her body and mind have been through during her younger days if she needs therapy after all of it? Even if she doesn't tell the men she's meeting all of this stuff they can probably guess how damaged she is after one or two dates and this along with the fact that she's pushing 40 will likely keep her single.
ugivemewood 4y ago
Well she was gonna ghost them. Probably has that 18 yr old mindset where she has the options to do so. Strange attitude to carry into your mid thirties.
uberduger 4y ago
If she's a "girl gamer", my mind immediately went to her having an OnlyFans lol.
I'm sure I'm wrong.
But it's funny how much it clearly bothered her having someone worship her and then suddenly ghost. Probably realised he wasn't getting anywhere. Good for him.
poloppoyop 4y ago
I like to stream my boobs.
My work is my life. I'm a bossy-type who always knows better. And I'm only looking for someone who makes more than me but not with his hands.
Can't keep a man interested. I radiate bitch vibes.
Please don't notice how he likes to put his head near the groin of any people.
I'm obese
I'm getting desperate for a long-term relationship there. And my career ended up not being as good as I thought working would be. Guess Arbeit macht frei is not right.
I've been the town bicycle in every city I've lived in but can't anymore.
When not with you I'll be trying to get dicked by some bad boy. Don't expect me to have any boundaries.
My money is mine. Your money will be ours.
Only bad looking people are messaging me on dating apps. 500 matches and no-one I can see.
Can't do more, I'm too lazy.
1N7R0V3R73D 4y ago
Damn. So in depth one would think you know her.
IsraelWentFullMGTOW 4y ago
Stereotypes exist for a reason
rickmackdaddy 4y ago
“I think I’m cute”
10:1 she is morbidly obese.
HollowLegMonk 4y ago
I looked at her profile.
Overweight
Unattractive
Divorced (supposedly her ex husband had major mental health issues. Threatened to kill himself and her dog then left her)
Makes posts that sound like a 13 year girl wrote them
Dresses like the “quirky” goth tech chic on cop shows
The fact that she was actually going to reject one of the only men who would go on a date with her amazes me. She’s such low hanging fruit a midget could pick her without a ladder.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Does she have a lesbian haircut as well? Sounds like it would fit
HollowLegMonk 4y ago
Yup. Short haircut dyed hair librarian glasses tattoos etc. Looked like the typical profile picture of a SJW feminist on Twitter.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Shockingggg…..
CuntSniffer9001 4y ago
Most likely a hot pink lesbo haircut and coexist bumper stickers.
Average_Dad_Dude 4y ago
I thought purple and gray was the new thing?
CuntSniffer9001 4y ago
Really any color that will get them the social media attention that their absent father deprived them of as children. I imagine purple and gray works just fine to quench the pathological histrionic need for admiration and attention that SJW's have.
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AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
There's been several egregious examples of it on the Kevin Samuels podcast. Either obese women or ones with 10 pounds of make up on claiming to be 10's.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
They try to qualify it - I haven’t done my hair and makeup and am not dressed up etc
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
There is a jubilee clip that was referenced on a show recently where the women ordered themselves in order of attractiveness / desirability
And it was either one man or a group of men came and completely changed it. The one that was first was moved to 4th out of 5. Can’t remember which one it was. It might have been Think Before You Sleep but part of me thinks it might not have been
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asdfman2000 4y ago
Probably this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-YcBYUfgtc
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
LOL, look how quick that little asian cutie went from last to first when the guys did the choosing.
Fairwareprovidence 4y ago
Hooooolllly sheeeeeet
That was glorious
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-YcBYUfgtc
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
That’s the one. To the shock of no man whatsoever they were pretty much sorted by obesity level / body shape by the men
I can’t remember which more red pill based channel I saw this on though . As it wasn’t the original video
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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I assume both of those women are quite average looking and admitting what we all know - average women don’t like average men
From my memory of the video none of the women were stunners. There might have been one 7 if you were being generous / it was the sort of look you like. But I don’t recall them being in stellar shape either (but that could be the clothes). Their expectations are out of whack
(Also i saw this first in another video and cannot remember which creator was commenting on it)
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Maria is much more attractive in her Instagram feed than on the video. (Which begs the question, which is more representative of reality?)
Anyway, based only on that information, she's the only one of the 5 that has any business being picky. Michelle is cute, but not someone who - in a reasonable, fair sexual marketplace - could be overly choosy.
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...and the fact that the most attractive women were ranked last by the women.
Fairwareprovidence 4y ago
Crabs in the damn bucket: the experiment. They shut those two up and pretty much made it clear that they didn't care about the ranking so long as those two were last.
Any_Professional_664 4y ago
Can you send me your picture please? Not a naked picture, just a regular picture. I’m thinking that you might be looking for something that the guys you are picking aren’t.
just_the_nme 4y ago
I've been in therapy for 3 yrs. I've been single for 3 yrs. BY CHOICE.
Those are connected. Doubtful it's intentional
DiogenesRisen 4y ago
I don't get why its so hard to be honest and admit it: "Yeah I've been single for the last 3 years, its pretty lonely and kind of sucks, that's why I've been trying to find a partner and getting pretty distraught about being unsuccessful"
Enough with this obnoxious fake positivity.
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just_the_nme 4y ago
No shit
wanderingNotLost1980 4y ago
Sorry, but it's too late. You're in your late 30's, get a cat or 2 (or more). The wall doesn't take prisoners. You already walked past the decent men who would have been ready for the real thing with you and you didn't notice. Have fun with the cats, they won't judge you (well... yes they will, but they won't come out and say it... cats know how to get their way.)
PopularBug5 4y ago
She wasted her prime years getting wasted, then going into epiphany phase, then therapy phase. And sitting at home playing video games, yum yum.
Neldot 4y ago
Excusatio non petita, accusatio manifesta.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
“Think I’m cute” (Narrator: she isn’t cute)
timebandit1975 4y ago
This chick is making 6 figures and so naturally she is looking for a man that "has their life together" i.e. is making even more than her.
But those guys are dating younger women in their twenties. She's going to be shit out of luck.
eveready_x 4y ago
"I think I am cute." Stopped right there.
binkerfluid 4y ago
Lol mom knows for sure and is trolling
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empatheticapathetic 4y ago
Life’s not cruel. If the woman has a brain she’ll get in and out in a safe amount of time before settling down. Women who don’t do this have issues and no self control.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I have noticed a resurgence recently of articles/news stories claiming there is no fertility cliff at 35
Try Googling and you can’t find anything suggesting there is a fertility cliff
This is either propaganda or it is being deliberately disingenuous with the age they are starting from.
But who are they trying to fool? The women can lap it up all they like but, as they are so keen to point out when it comes to court mandated child support, it takes two to tango
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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Which indirectly is what I was angling towards. How you can use the most used search engine in the world and get met with lies
But it isn’t just blog posts - there are loads of newspaper articles that refer to studies that claim to prove this wrong. No doubt it is one dubious paper that they all refer to
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Overkillengine 4y ago
Yeah at best it inflates their economic expectations. They always seem to have this ignorant ass fantasy that men live to work and love being a slave to women's consumption.
Silly bitches, men work because we can't rely on jiggling our tits and giggling to get money thrown at us! No one is going to pay us just to exist either! We do it because the other choice is starvation!
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Some women are naive. One was telling me recently that a male friend had found her a job opportunity for which she doesn’t really have the skills currently with better work life balance and within a year will be on close to double her current salary
And he was going to help train her for the interview.
She thought it sounded too good to be true. But seems happy to believe that her friend just feels bad that she doesn’t like her current job
She hasn’t for one second considered that he wants something in exchange (and that thing is obvious).
IsraelWentFullMGTOW 4y ago
Dude is wasting his time, will be sad when the chick hooks up with someone at work.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Yes. Someone who she has been friends with since university . In this case something like 8-10 years. If she has had no intention of sleeping with him in that time then she won’t now
Although I don’t know for what length of that period she was single and available
SpearWeasel 4y ago
For being “happily single”, she sure stinks of desperation….
gfgdhj5784yu8 4y ago
I bet a lot of relationships end prematurely because one or both of the people want to keep their self respect intact by being the first to bow out.
Lithiago 4y ago
I'm not desperate, been happily single for the last 3 years by choice.
Sure you do honey.
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Man, these things write for themselves, so many contradictions and insecurities that I will quote only the obvious hamster.
plz_say_sike 4y ago
I absolutely hate modern dating where it’s become the norm to date multiple people simultaneously under the guise of “vetting” your matches. No wonder most of these modern “independent” women can never find a satisfying relationship. How could they when they can’t even focus on a single man
jdjfjceeeee 4y ago
I stopped reading at 36. But seriously, a grill gamer who's grown out of her "crazy girl phase" aka sucking off professional e-sports players and Twitch streamers for clout. That's a yikes from me.
throwsFatalException 4y ago
E sports dudes have groupies like that? I'm a 40 year old man now and man has the gaming scene changed over the years.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
If true I’d suggest people trying to chase clout are not quite the same as groupies
Groupies back in the day seemingly just wanted to be able to fuck the rockstars
What is being suggested above is exchanging it for a shout out on a stream or show or a collab or the like
Doesn’t seem quite the same to me
l339 4y ago
You’d be surprised, popular male twitch streamers and esports players have loads of fangirls
Ivan_The_Reddish 4y ago
What's changed is that you can become famous, and make serious money, by playing video games.
warlocc_ 4y ago
About a decade back, I played World of Warcraft. I was in a guild.
Long story short, the girl was banging the guild leader for in game loot.
BluepillProfessor 4y ago
A helmet of power for a helmet buff of power.
I don't see the problem.
braucifur 4y ago
She's fretting over a guy that ghosted her who she was ready to ghost herself. This is female logic.
bartbitsu 4y ago
middle aged woman mad she has to start working for her relationships and is no longer able to ghost people.
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DemonFromWalmart 4y ago
It also means that she raises the bar: if she earns $100,000, then the "suitable" man will have to make at least $150,000, if if she has a college diploma, then he has to have at least one as well and so on and so on... and we all know that women don't provide. They detest men that need to be provided for. "Your wealth is OUR wealth and my wealth stays MINE!" He will be expected to pay off their oversized villa, while her income goes towards luxury girl fun frivolities. To sum it up: these brags she leads with are all just obstacles and turn-offs to a man.
TheMightyBeak376 4y ago
Yeah, because men earning >$150,000 will marry a woman whose 36 and uses "gamer girl" unironically.
Traksimuss 4y ago
And that is the conundrum of "pricing yourself out of the market".
Every time they improve their position in life, they demand who has more than her. That is why secretary can find a mate easily, but 36 year old PhD from Ivy league cannot find any "matching" man, because all other women will outcompete her in looks and character and snag that 40 year old double PhD with high income.
incarnate1 4y ago
She doesn't realize good men dgaf about her accolades. If she's insufferable and overweight, it doesn't matter that she has a "cool dog" or that SHE thinks she's cute.
It's telling how non-specific she is in what she wants, what the fuck does it mean when one "has their life together"? Does it mean he must have a job and a car? Does it mean he must make 6figs and be 6ft?
She's right about one thing, single by choice.
OaklandCali 4y ago
No pics = 100% chance she’s ugly.
gprime 4y ago
Her profile confirms this to be the case. There's a single selfie, which of course is shot in such a way as to hide a no doubt fat body. But even on the strength (or lack thereof) of her face and hair, she's below average. And that "still goth in my mid-30s" doesn't exactly scream that her years of therapy are working.
Jihocech_Honza 4y ago
Or fat. It does not meen she is cursed. I have seen plenty of handsome men with totally average but PLEASANT and KIND women.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
But many of those get with them very early. Like at college or just after. And they support them through their life
I know these men too. But picking one at 36+? With an attitude, an ego and for whom you are at best number 3 in her life? Less likely
Saianna 4y ago
mother, gamer girl, 6 figures, dog, dating time...When does she find time for all of those activities? Does she have some bonus hours in day? How active can she be.. Does she have sleep time in her schedule?
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
By not being a mother ?
Saianna 4y ago
wow.. really derped there huh, thanks
[deleted] 4y ago
The wall has already beaten you.
There is no hope for you
AngryCockOfJustice 4y ago
Joker: "ho ho he he he ha ha ha hahahhohohehehe...and I thought my jokes were bad"
ess2019 4y ago
Women that are looking to get married Need to start to get their act together once they hit 30 ,because that’s their prime time to find the best potential mate.
braucifur 4y ago
The thing is if they rode the CC they cannot. People aren't chameleons despite what the media portrays and a girl who went through her 20s on these apps banging Chads cannot just turn on a dime on her 30th birthday, change her ways & sufficiently hide her past from her potential mates that are within her league for commitment. Instead what happens is their sense of entitlement fades slowly over time and they slowly discover the error of their ways often too late for reproducing. And by their late 30s if they want kids they don't care about much more than a donation.
[deleted] 4y ago
More like 25
[deleted] 4y ago
Was gonna say the same thing.
But she'll settle down at 30, and within a year magically have a husband, and get pregnant, you know, settling down.