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Well if you are married, its like playing a 1 hole golf course. Pretty soon the greens fees are not worth the play. And the real test is not on the green but in the pro shop of reality.

Outside-Ad-9797 4y ago

that is blatantly false. Every single man with an average wage can pay for sex once a week (with a decent looking and young sex worker), and still have enough for rent and living expenses.

Lezonidas 4y ago

This is what makes it even more sad. Men go after this "couple goal" and end up in a sexless marriage that is more expensive and brings more headaches than paying for sex directly.

5socks5 4y ago

That's because they want love and companionship not sex. Like come on man. They ain't getting it but come on.

Pic889 4y ago

Unfortunately sex work is banned in most countries. You see, it's the kind of suffrage that doesn't benefit women.

So, going for a sex worker in those countries involves huge health risks and also funds the mob. Fortunately, I live in a country where it's legal.

Outside-Ad-9797 4y ago

"sex work is banned in most countries", no it is not. In the majority of western countries it is legal.

I-am-the-lul 4y ago

This is one of the best reasons not to have a social media account with your real name on it.

One-Move 4y ago

No come on, whats the fun then, that “how about no thank you mam” is so sweet

After the man who was rejected finally got his shit together and started focusing on himself , to become the best individual possible , she was getting wild "with the men she wants and attracted to" but then she realized oh that guy I rejected is looking good and stable might as well stroll back into his life with a baby from Chad , a child from some gangster in prison , debt, student loans, herpes and debt . She then goes I really hope he still thinks I look sexy said the pregnant girl.

Men this is an example of dual mating strategy , women say it is them maturing and realizing that the guy they rejected happened to be well off so she leaves when chad refuses to commit and tries to bring chaos on the young man . If a girl ever rejects you and comes back years later , question everything . remember after a girl says NO to dating you , everything she says or does next to you or with you is manipulation.

SnooPeripherals5117 4y ago

I wouldn’t even question. Just say no.

KoloGupta 4y ago

Chaos makes a man easier to control. Once a woman gets him in financial duress, she can make him her bitch.

If a man is mired in chores, errands, activities (hers), as well as lots of bills and expenses to contend with, he'll be too physically exhausted and focused on trying not to drown to realize the raw deal he's getting.

On top of all these, sex will be used to cajole then force commitment and marriage from the man. If he's not moving quickly enough despite all these, she'll deploy the Hail Baby.

It's best to leave them in their misery. Don't communicate with or go near them under any circumstance.

Rick264 4y ago

Great advice, if a woman tries to rope a man in with sex just ditch her dumb ass.

Women really think they are offering anything by withholding sex or giving it up , remember if she does this she is not attracted to you and most likely doesn't respect or love you , might as well put a ring on her tattooed arm , promote yourself to beta bux , enter a dead bedroom situation and divorce raped.

KoloGupta 4y ago

When a man doesn't have a lot of options for sex, he tends to cling to the sex he can get, however minimal, at all costs.

It helps to stay away from women 27 and older, but all roads still lead to Rome. The younger ones still like to tie a man's time down at minimum by keeping him on the phone for every waking hour he's not physically with her.

Rick264 4y ago

When a man doesn't have a lot of options for sex, he tends to cling to the sex he can get, however minimal, at all costs.

This is usually a product of a scarcity mindset , I tell my homies that are like this , wake up... she is not the only girl that will love and want to screw with you .clinging to woman for sex is a sign of low self esteem and if she isn't giving it up , ditch her fast because if she is not screwing you she screwing someone else.

It helps to stay away from women 27 and older, but all roads still lead to Rome. The younger ones still like to tie a man's time down at minimum by keeping him on the phone for every waking hour he's not physically with her.

I agree , girl will just tell you I will only have sex after marriage but you know she screwed a lot in college , BS.

KoloGupta 4y ago

ditch her fast because if she is not screwing you she screwing someone else.

This is 100% correct. If she isn't putting out by the fist or second date, drop her and move on. Most importantly, do not spend a dime on her if she hasn't put out. Hell, don't spend on her after she has. Split checks, if you have to spend money on initial meets.

I agree , girl will just tell you I will only have sex after marriage but you know she screwed a lot in college , BS.

In the grand scheme, if you take stock of what value a woman brings to your life vs what you bring to her life, you'll be quite surprised.

Years ago, a oneitis frustrated me by stringing me along. I decided to evaluate why the fuck I bothered at all. I could not name one positive thing I got out of interacting with her. I had a laundry list of negatives though. On the other hand, in the few short weeks I interacted with her, I'd massively upgraded her exceptionally shitty existence.

She was in her mid-30, worked a minimum wage job at a mall cosmetics chain, and lived on a futon in her sister's apartment. It's been many years since but from what I've gleaned, nothing has changed for her. She was "hustling", doing hair and makeup for weddings and events on the side, sometimes starting at 5am. All combined, she didn't break $35k a year. She also had to buy her own supplies and samples; a significant chunk of of her income.

I found a job listing for a business to business sales rep for a cosmetics distributor and recommended that she apply. $50k base pay plus commission, and Monday to Friday business hours. She could have made $80k to $100k doing 10% of the physical labor and 40% of the hours She copped an attitude and said she was sticking with her current gigs because she loved what she did. Shit like this is why we have the "wage gap".

It was at this point it fully sank in that she was a waste of air.

StinkingDischarge 4y ago

"But the past shouldn't matter, its who she is NOW."

If the "past didn't matter" there wouldn't be such a thing as background checks and we would have rapists and pedophiles working in nursing homes and day care centers. The past fucking well does matter. It matters a lot. It's literally the only thing you have to go on when sizing up a person. What fool can sit there with a straight face and say it doesn't matter??

BluepillProfessor 4y ago

What fool can sit there with a straight face and say it doesn't matter

The human capacity for self delusion is terrifying. It shouldn't matter. Only the character and attraction matter and not the mistakes. So it doesn't matter. See how easy that was? Also see 2020 election.

V_M 4y ago

What fool can sit there with a straight face and say it doesn't matter??

Its the big lie strategy, if you have to lie, lie so big nobody can believe it. Very popular in politics and propaganda.

asdf333aza 4y ago

Those kids a living reminders of her past. A reminder that another man came inside your women and you have to pay for it.

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She's ready for her retirement plan.

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I-am-the-lul 4y ago

And if you allow her to make you her retirement plan, she will utterly ruin your retirement plans.

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_BreatheManually_ 4y ago

He’s a libtard so I don’t have much sympathy.

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FreeDinnerStrategies 4y ago

Libs believe in bailing out people who make terrible decisions. I don’t feel bad for him at all. I am against abortion not for any spiritual reason or protecting the sanctity of life, or any of that nonsense. I am against abortion for the sole reason that it punishes thots for sleeping around. They love to bring up edge cases like incest and SA, but those cases make up a disgustingly low percentage of pregnancies.

Hulton-Sama 4y ago

I am against abortion for the sole reason that it punishes thots for sleeping around.

Pretty sure having abortions is a win for thots.

FreeDinnerStrategies 4y ago

Which is why I am against it. Fuck thots.

Hulton-Sama 4y ago

Oh. But I don't agree cause why would you bring children into the world if your not suited to be a parent. Plus they are without a father. That can't be good for children.

five_eight 4y ago

I love this sub. Esp now since mgtow went away. Do mgtow's come here now, or just me?

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

There's always been a lot of crossover. Lots of TRP and MRP here too.

five_eight 4y ago

Thanks! Darn shame. There was always a lot of wholesome guidance and support.

Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

This is why I don't answer the door anymore.

OwenWentFullMGTOW 4y ago

This basically happened to me years ago. My high school crush popped up in my DMs. "Been so long, miss you, ready to settle down". Etc.

Only difference was Little Miss Bailout had three bastard children that she couldn't afford.

Yes, I blocked her.

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souldrone 3y ago

You could pump and dump, though. I appreciate your willpower.

OwenWentFullMGTOW 3y ago

At the time, I didn't want to give anyone false hope.

These days, I get a certain sadistic pleasure in letting women down.

Traksimuss 4y ago

Be fair, she probably had extra 20 kilos and some mental ilnesses from pump and dumps.

Rick264 4y ago

King

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

Now that I have my shit sorted, why settle for a woman who’s “over with her wild years and wants to be serious”, as opposed to one who never had wild years to begin with

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Yup.

Pic889 4y ago

If she is about as sex positive with you as she was back then, why not? You don't believe in the myth that "traditional" women are more loyal, right? If she stops wanting you, it's over, no matter her past experiences. Just don't get married to any woman.

I much prefer a sex positive woman over some "traditional" girl who thinks sex not done for procreation is evil.

But a sex positive woman who wants to be "traditional" with you so she can withhold sex as a bargaining chip is a major red flag.

Magehunter_Skassi 4y ago

"Everyone makes mistakes in their college days!" Bitch my mistake was playing League of Legends for a few years, not getting fucked by enough guys to fill an Among Us lobby

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codgas 4y ago

Those are rookie numbers

brofanities 4y ago

More like a warzone lobby

unfknblvbe 4y ago

Or find a girl who wants to have her wild years with you

No reason to settle for a girl who gives you less then she gave everyone else

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago

Now that I have my shit sorted, why settle for a woman who’s “over with her wild years and wants to be serious”, as opposed to one who never had wild years to begin with

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago

I'll take this "boring and stable" life over the life I probably would have been cursed with had I married one of the "fun and exciting" women I dated before I met my wife.

This is the sensible choice for most people. However, wymyns often want to have it both ways and they can't. Because in reality, you can't have mutually exclusive things. I guess it's true that...

Reality is a tool of the patriarchy!!!

Just because we're not overrun with chaos and debt doesn't mean we don't have fun and excitement... fun and excitement are the rewards for being responsible.

Truth.

As I said in the previous comment: the more stability you have, the less fun you'll have. The more fun you have, the less stability you'll have. It isn't necessarily either/or, black and white. It's just that the more you have of one, the less you'll have of the other. Because they are mutually exclusive.

SnooPeripherals5117 4y ago

Well spoken! I look forward to this.

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

By wild I mean sleeping around. Not being fun in general.

unfknblvbe 4y ago

Oh yeah fair

StinkingDischarge 4y ago

She's not "giving" it to you. You're going to pay and you're picking up the tab for the line of cocks that were there before you. You're paying for a meal someone else already ate and shit out. Enjoy the taste.

jzdelona 4y ago

The meal metaphor is brilliant haha!

Naive-Opinion-1112 4y ago

Oh oh, did you just say something what everyone thinks but don't dare to say out loud?

I...in....INCEL!!!!111!!

polishknightusa 4y ago

Been married 17 years with a lovely daughter I'm red pilling. Doing The Lord's Work.

It is fun that I'm just as outspoken as all of you, OL and IRL and hence that shaming ploy has zero effect on me.

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

I've gotten called that, and banned from so many subreddits the past few days.

Turns out people don't like the truth.

machinerer 4y ago

Truth is treason in the kingdom of lies.

We live in an age of liars.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago

No link dropping.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago

Rule one.

C'mon, man! You should know better.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Fucker beat me to it!

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kidruhil 4y ago

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago

That's better, but you still missed the point.

We aren't here to shame beta men.

Period. Even when it's deserved.

kidruhil 4y ago

Serious question, how was that shaming? Is the word 'simp' against the rules regardless of context?

Not trying to shir shit just wanna understand for future reference

loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago

Is the word 'simp' against the rules regardless of context?

Simp is a man shaming slur. There's hardly ever a context in which it isn't.

Replacing "simps" with "white knights" doesn't solve the man shaming issue.

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

First rule of Red Pill, do not talk about the Red Pill.

I’ve never unplugged anyone but I’ve gotten into countless useless arguments. Not worth it.

kidruhil 4y ago

Oh yep, I 100% agree. It's just fun to burst their bubbles.

Fairwareprovidence 4y ago

You cannot burst their bubble. For how thin their skin is, we lack the tools to penetrate their world.

Women in their lives, on the other hand...

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 4y ago

Please edit out the man shaming slur if you want your comment to be reapproved.

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AlinYBN1 4y ago

Wow! Bullseye with that!

That's exactly how i unplugged. I liked her way more than i should have, she had way more value in my eyes than in reality, i was literally blinded by love.

I tried to be the best i could possibly be for all the good it did me. It was never enough and in the end, bitch monkey-branched back to her ex who ghosted her and later decided to contact her, i guess he remembered he had forgotten about one of his plates.

If you think a woman can love you in the same capacity as you can love her, you're simply fooling yourself. There is no such thing as unconditional love, that's the way things are.

An effect of the red pill for me is that i lost part of myself in the process, i am definitely much colder around women and their plight, their tears now raise suspicions to me, not compassion. I just don't care about them.

maruadventurer 4y ago

Well then in my estimation you will be dating 12yo's and last time I checked that was illegal in 49 States. :)

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codgas 4y ago

Just not my preference, doesnt allign with my morals.

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

Elaborate?

codgas 4y ago

I dont see myself having one night stands or friends with benefits, If I persue a relationship it has to be serious, it has to be somoene I actually have feelings for, I look for that in a partner aswell.

Thats why Ive been together with my girlfriend for almost 7 years, none of us "slept around", we were both still virgins when we met. Though i dont consider that a requirement, i dont have anything aggaints anyone who has had other serious relationships in the past.

I had girlfriends before, when I was younger, I fooled around but never had sex, its not even a religeous thing, I don't plan on getting married.

Sex is too intimate of a thing to be doing with people you dont have feelings for, especially with random strangers you find in bars or online.

I hold myself to this standard and I expect my partner too aswell, anyone who doesnt have this standard for themselves doesnt get to ask this of others.

YungUrbanTurban 4y ago

I feel you. I did it once just to lose my V Card and it was super mid. After that I was turning down thirsties left and right cause its really not worth it rolling the dice with someone i can’t see being my potential wife

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

Ah, but that's entirely your prerogative and I respect you for it.

I disagree with you in that I do the opposite. I'm not after the perfect one as I've long given up on that - so I stick to spinning plates. Partially for the sex, partially because I've learned a lot about women this way.

That being said, if I find 'the one' - I'd be fully willing to immediately stop and settle with her. And unlike women who sleep around - my pair bonding won't be fucked out of whack.

So on how I ask this standard from others but don't hold to it myself is - men and women are different.

Multiple sexual partners destroys a woman's ability to love.

For men, it makes us better lovers.

codgas 4y ago

Yeah i dont have a problem with people who sleep around, I'm a classical liberal type, I'll fight for your right to sniff coke from an hooker's ass but I just personally don't want to join in.

Overkillengine 4y ago

Same. The issue is I don't want to get stuck with the bill for it either. That's why I personally get pissy with modern women. They want a party, great, just don't expect me to be the after party janitor while they sleep off the hangover if I wasn't invited to the party.

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

Well, I really do respect the view you have.

I can't buy you a drink, so have a virtual toast. Cheers!

codgas 4y ago

Ahah thanks man, cheers!

polishknightusa 4y ago

I had a similar perspective and didn't lose my V until my mid-20's (this was back in the early 90's). Normal dating is like sexual begging to me and since there wasn't any game back then, I found it to be degrading. Even now, it still requires men to be arse clowns to entertain women into bed.

When I traveled overseas, I went to a brothel and it was fantasic: I had sex on my own terms. I still "paid" but it was in cash which is a whole lot less "costly" than the academy award level acting that game requires.

Every young man should save up whatever money they'd spend out going to clubs, get a cheap airline ticket and hotel, and go overseas and do this. It transforms how you relate to women and also, how they relate back to you. Nothing says "chad" more than telling them that I paid for sex and I'm ok with it.

Overkillengine 4y ago

Every man pays for sex. The only difference is what currency is used.

polishknightusa 4y ago

When Roosh was in his 'sinful' period where he claimed to be a "love tourist", he spent probably the equivalent of a full time job in Latvia for a week hitting on dozens of women and rejecting them if they turned out to be (quite affordable) prostitutes. As a matter of principle, he refused to "pay" money for sex.

I can only guess at his reasoning, but I wonder if he was concerned about feeling superior to men who just paid cash.

Honestly, we do look down on other people and this is a natural consequence of striving to be better but his reasoning is specious and he later admitted as such that PUA's and SIMPs give massive attention to women driving women in a culture to become arrogant and entitled.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

And unlike women who sleep around - my pair bonding won't be fucked out of whack.

It happens to men, too. It just takes a lot more. Check out Roosh V.

moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago

In his case, I would argue it is because of being exposed to the worst of women repeatedly for years. PUAs are looking for the lay.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Based on his writings about how to counter ASD, I'd bet he corrupted a few "good girls" too.

IsraelWentFullMGTOW 4y ago

Could you pls explain the relationship between ASD and the corruption? Don't get

moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago

Most girls throwing up ASDs are anything but good girls.

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

Ah, wasn't aware but I'm not surprised.

Either way though, through all the women I've been through - none of them would I commit a monogamous lifetime to.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

With the laws the way they are, and how fickle even the best women can be, a lifetime commitment is not in a man's interest anyway.

Women are incentivized to divorce their husbands and split up the family.

Lolitas-Adore-Me 4y ago

It would never be marriage though.

By commitment I mean that I'm on my life's journey, and she can come with. Whether she stays or gets kicked out within an hour is up to her behavior and actions.

I'm 30... I'm on the not give a fuck and take no bullshit stage of life, lmao.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Hell yeah. That's the way to do it.

KazPrime 4y ago

I know it’s a stereotype… but after checking in on three of my four friends I really got a long with in high school are basically married / dating girls that were out of their league in high school from our high school. Now they have kids from previous relationships / drug charges / abusive former chad baby daddies. I feel worried for the fourth.

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Rick264 4y ago

They would be a fool to wife "that" up...better to just fuck her...with protection of cause , gentlemen guard your semen.

Leonx234 4y ago

All she needs to hear is that ex chad is in town and its a wrap. She's gonna need "closure".

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KazPrime 4y ago

Don’t doubt it. 1 of them is in prison, another just got out and wants to contest custody. She is adamant about her kids knowing their father after he got put away for going to prison for beating her, possession and violating parole 5 years ago. Needless to say, pouring one out for my friend who is definitely gone.

spyaintnobitch 4y ago

And her legs gonna need "opensure"

Considered_Dissent 4y ago

She's gonna need "closure".

Foreclosure, on the house you used to own. So that she can pay for his bail.

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droden 4y ago

Thank God for unfulfilled wishes

Cavannah 4y ago

Now her facebook posts are a combination of how strong she is, and how everything is so hard for her.

It's always interesting to see how people of her ilk invariably start constructing a personal mythos of propaganda to deal with their cognitive dissonance. To explain (and quote a previous comment of mine):

The "enemy" in wartime propaganda is

Immensely powerful, evil, and cunning

while simultaneously

Weak, cowardly and easily defeated

By the same token here, she likely is simultaneously making posts that intimate how she is:

A completely-empowered untouchable maverick

while also posting about how she is

An infinitely-abused and perpetually-oppressed victim who is wholly hopeless and helpless

maruadventurer 4y ago

Women are like that. When they fall, they fall hard because they generally don't have the 'Oh shit' meter running. Majority of men realize they F'up within an hour of it happening and why.

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Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

A man can dream lol

Rick264 4y ago

Sometimes not getting what you want is a good thing, keep working on yourself .

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Roman_69 4y ago

This might sound cruel but 80% of women have a very simple life plan for easy success and stability, don’t be incredibly promiscuous, marry before 30 a guy who doesn’t deal drugs, be happy. If you can mess that up, I can’t have much empathy. Most guys don’t even care if you have a degree or not.

Not saying oh men have it so hard blablabla but as a man, if you‘re stupid or below average attractive, you won’t have a good time at all until 30 if at all

dwarfarchist9001 4y ago

Most guys don’t even care if you have a degree or not.

Its better if she doesn't have a degree. No debt and less risk of communist indoctrination.

YoloSask 4y ago

Holy hell you have some kind of major mental issues if you expect a good woman to love you for you while staying home, making your $40,000 a year is the sole household income. No wonder dipshits like you always complain about women leaving you, you ain’t shit and just expect women to accept that and not look elsewhere lmfao

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Pic889 4y ago

If it's a degree in something real (that is, in some well-established field) like a STEM field, Computer Science, Medicine etc that's a plus, if it's a Grievance Studies degree like Gender Studies it's a minus.

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I was a wild pretty boy in my 20's, and once had a three way with a big time local hipster and her friend. I was like 26 and I think she was 21. She later had two kids with a guy in a local band: surprise, surprise, he dipped shortly after the second one was born. She now complains about him non-stop on Facebook while living with her dad at around 37 years old. Girls are probably in middle school now.

I can't cast stones, because I was obviously once the same type of scumbag hipster she was, but damn...makes me glad I never had kids and always used protection. Sad story, because she was gorgeous and had a lot of stuff going for her before she got knocked up by this local musician. People like to bitch about the "career cat lady" types, but honestly, most of the women I knew from the emo era who went down that path are a lot better off than the single moms. They travel, own stuff, etc

SupremeDreams99 4y ago

Life is easily more enjoyable if everyone focuses on having their own shit together, some of those types end up being mean bitter women but the same can be said for men, easily would prefer a career woman than a past a party days one

Oxynewbdone 4y ago

This is true for men but women do not care if they are providing for themselves as long as someone is providing. A broke women with children who lives with her Dad will be happier than a self sufficient cat lady filled with regret

skeletonshorror 4y ago

I always ask them what happened? And they ask to what? And I say your dignity? Then I never hear from them again…

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TriumphAnt462X0 4y ago

brilliant

TheGeeksama 4y ago

I am alive that's okay

Ryo-saki 4y ago

Wtf, the kid is ebony!

ThrowRA-4545 4y ago

But it's yours, promise!

Ryo-saki 4y ago

Of what?

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asdf333aza 4y ago

It was Tyrone instead if Chad this time.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Comment removed for rule 1.

The use of the word "simp" is rarely going to go well here.

Ryo-saki 4y ago

I change it.

GrannyLesbian 4y ago

☺️☺️☺️☺️

Naive-Opinion-1112 4y ago

Everytime I read something like this, or read how most women are, im thanking god every day my gf was a virgin and not a whore.

It was a present from god himself, im so lucky and it's so funny being hated by most people for saying something like this, lol.

DimSix20 4y ago

What age did you get with your girl? I think once a girl turns 22 there no chance of her being a Virgin

Naive-Opinion-1112 4y ago

We were both 17 when we met :)

Feel1nCh1ll 4y ago

Yes thank you. This message is easily misconstrued but this shouldn’t be something you should be downvoted for. It’s just a good thing.

Roman_69 4y ago

You made it bro, but look out. Don’t be blind

Naive-Opinion-1112 4y ago

Yeah we're together since 11 years but im still very careful.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Attention pearl-clutching pantywaists who keep reporting this post: allow me to mansplain to you how this is not hatred or racism.

When a woman who has previously broken up with a man, or rejected him outright, comes back to him years later, it's incredibly disrespectful. It's her telling that man "I tried to do better and couldn't, so I guess I'll settle for you".

It's far worse when she has kids. On top of the previous, she's also telling him "and I expect you to pay for my kids I had with the man/men I really wanted".

It's even worse yet when the kids are so far different from the man, that it's obvious he would never pass off as the father. A white woman with a white baby trying to get back with a black ex-boyfriend would get the same reaction.

You can stop bothering to report the post now. I'm done hitting "approve", and am now hitting "ignore reports".

jzdelona 4y ago

I just think we need to bring the term pantywaists back into heavy rotation lol. But deep down most people have to admit that when a woman has kids that could NEVER pass as belonging to the men she's seeking she has absolutely no right to be making demands.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

bring the term pantywaists back into heavy rotation

Agreed, but I can't do it alone!

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esands1970 4y ago

As a black man myself,I dont see this post as racist at all. Its just an example of the delusional behavior of how some women try (and mostly succeed) in getting a man to take care of them and another man child

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

I'm so glad that the phrase "dog whistle" seems to have fallen out of favor recently. It was so annoying, even on the ultra-rare occasion that somebody actually used it correctly.

Hopefully "gaslighting" is next.

asdf333aza 4y ago

Why did they have to make it about race?

Mister_McDerp 4y ago

imho the main point of the kid being "darker" is to make sure even the biggest idiots understand from this meme that the kid(s) are NOT his.

And its no secret that black men are basically the most desired demographic on the male side.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Anything to point at us and sputter "look at those bad, awful men! they're the bad guys!"

Overkillengine 4y ago

I kind of envision it to be like this.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Comment removed for rule 1.

What men do or don't do isn't the focus here.

alienmuseum 4y ago

Ahaha word. I don't get the report either. Maybe they're the real racists. They have a problem with us stating facts. White women can have mixed babies. Or are they denying facts now? oops...I forgot. We're living in 2021.

FreeDinnerStrategies 4y ago

In my experience, the chicks who have BLM and #StopAsianHate in their bios are the most racist of all. This virtue signaling is how they repent their guilt for the legions of exclusively white faces in their tinder matches.

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Paltry_Poetaster 4y ago

Typical.

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I'm ready to settle down...until "I'm not happy" and divorce rape you for fabulous cash and prizes!

John09101 4y ago

Why do these hoes always have multiple black kids? Is it just a weird trend or something

anthologyxxviii 4y ago

Those baby daddies chase tail harder than anyone, and then run away faster than anyone too

Impossible-Maize541 4y ago

Chyrone's seed..step up gentleman..this is ClownWorld !

XxSoulReaperSwordxX 4y ago

Bonus points if she tries desperately to get the man to pay for child support.

Wildhouse83 4y ago

The guy becomes a super rich entrepreneur and the woman a single mom with aids. For one it is time to settle down, for the other one time to have lots of fun and enjoy life.

dardy_sing 4y ago

Tyrone jr needs a haircut

Feel1nCh1ll 4y ago

Lmao

Harry_Teak 4y ago

Looks like she's been spending some quality time in South Park.

Joaquino7997 4y ago

I tell every man to this day...if she rejects you, block her on your phone and all social media platforms.

Keep. Her. BROKE.

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I-am-the-lul 4y ago

It's appropriate for the weekend though.

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Am drunk and approve of this post.

Who am I? Who the fuck cares. Party on Wayne.

OwenWentFullMGTOW 4y ago

\^ Post of the year

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