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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Cock Carousel Rider

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Yggdrasill4 4y ago

I'm so glad this person isn't my sister, otherwise I would have deeply felt sorry for her. Nah, just some stranger I have no association with

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PirateDocBrown 4y ago

She should take in a homeless dude.

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PabloEscoba 4y ago

Jesus Christ, which sane man wants a woman whose been pregnant twice?

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[deleted] 4y ago

She played 24 years around

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NBA_MSG 4y ago

That's longer than Tom Bradys career

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Dunkman83 4y ago

44 with 2 young children???? yea ill pass on that faster than tom brady

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LordFlakkko 4y ago

"Ive paid for enough dates and sex to last a life time so ladies dont expect a dime from me."

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NolanHarlow 4y ago

On the plus side, she smokes a lot and never works out.

Lol. My sides. This woman should be thrilled if any man paid her an ounce of attention. And yet, her standards remain high

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SCCock 4y ago

She also drinks. A lot.

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Yggdrasill4 4y ago

What an absolute mess. A sure sign of self destruction

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lemko1968 4y ago

And when she gets cancer or liver failure, you get to pay for that too.

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

And for her children too when she dies. Not that you weren't paying before, but now you atleast get the social credit.

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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 4y ago

Women like this either do not really know what men want or care about what men want. I say this because she spent her 20s (her prime years) sleeping around while she had the best chance to find a man who would marry her and give her the commitment she now claims to want. It is not as if she was ignorant of the existence of the guys who would provide this commitment, but rather that she made sure to avoid this kind of man in favor of the guys who gave her the tingles but no commitment.

But now, she is ready for you! Aren't you glad that it is your turn now? You get to have her when she previously wanted nothing to do with you. Now she needs a man like you who can give her a stable life. What, why are you walking the other way? Are you not man enough for a woman who knows what she wants after sleeping around with so many other guys before you?

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Peeteebee 4y ago

Yeah....Nah..... I've done the maths, crunched the numbers both ways...

Had first kid 8 yrs ago, thats 36/ 37, SOooooo.....

BEST CASE SCENARIO..... 2 ish yrs ? in a "solid" relationshit until pregnant, thats 34/ 35.

WORST CASE SCENARIO (AKA "The probable truth" ) you hooked the baby daddy who didn't pull out.

Your "games" lasted "enough" in your 20's to go AT LEAST half way through your 30's !!!!

You probably moved out of NY cos you cant walk 2 blocks without bumping into 3 guys you've f****d.

Solid GOLD investment right here guys.... Guys?????

*sounds of tumbleweeds blowing*.....

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

this woman clearly deserves to be alone for the rest of her life because she has children and wants a serious relationship [the next man to willingly cuckold himself by paying to raise another man's seed] amiright gentlemen?

FTFY.

take your white knighting bullshit elsewhere.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I suggest you read the other replies and stop being so dense

But in short - yes she probably does. I assume you didn’t expect that answer ?

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Divine-Nemesis 4y ago

Don’t worry, she’s a born again virgin. All her past whoring has been washed away

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

All her past whoring has been washed away

By who? Not even Jesús can save this one. Haha!

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CarpAndTunnel 4y ago

Congrats on the buzzer beater with the 2 youngins.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

As mentioned in a comment above - it hasn’t exactly worked out though has it ?

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Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

As soon as she finds that Good Man^TM that checks all her boxes and gets the commitment she wants then the games will begin anew and in earnest.

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[deleted] 4y ago

It's amazing when they don't even have the courtesy to lie about their time on the carousel

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

It's better this way. Saves men the pain of finding out later after wifing her up.

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OhBarnacles_007 4y ago

They know what they are doing. They want a guy who will read that and say "I don't judge her past." So she can use him.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Personally I think that should be part of their sales pitch. “I rode the cc in my 20’s, any man that dates me will get the same treatment as those Chads”. Like that still isn’t wifey material, but at least she’s proposed a benefit for a man.

In this case, I just envision a lot of boring social events populated by a bunch of upper middle class leftoids and other assorted fun haters, where she would go to bed immediately upon arrival home because she’s “tired”. Oh well, at least I’d get to play video games.

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A_Walt_Whitman 4y ago

"Had my fun with Chad and Tyrone; now looking to settle down with someone serious."

It's like I'm reading the same damn script over and over again lol

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Well aren't you just the cutest optimist!

But comment removed for rule 3.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

some sort big plan to ruin systematically the development of children

Single mothers don't care about their children - not nearly as much as they care about themselves.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I know someone who because single mother after two abortions with the same guy - a guy who was having an affair and who would never leave his family to be with her

She finally had the child the third time because she worried another abortion would permanently damage her chance of having kids

I’m not saying she doesn’t love and care for her kid now. But that initial decision was purely about her

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I’m not saying she doesn’t love and care for her kid now.

It is not if she loves her kid (now or before). The true measure is to compare to other choices/decisions/actions/sacrifices. She didn't love or care enough for her child to provide a proper home - mother and father living together as a family.

She finally [decided to have] the child the third time because she worried

She decided. She worried. She did what she wanted to do.

Of course she loves her child now, because the alternative is to simply not love the child, but not enough to find a good step-father. Submitting herself to the wife of the man who fathered her child is also an option, but that's a different discussion.

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NakedlyStripped 4y ago

How original of her

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Ironfront1812 4y ago

She sounds like a keeper. Lol

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

I'mma keep-her away

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War-rior314 4y ago

44 years old and 2 kids? NEXT!

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

My Godfather and his wife, neither went to college. They now live in a beautiful home in an upscale neighborhood with beach access in Florida. Home itself is worth 7 figures.

These people, primarily women, are taking the money that could be invested to make such a desirable purchase, and instead are squandering it on degrees designed to satiate their ego and give them validation. It’s crazy. For perspective, if you ignore inflation and just assume 6% annual returns on current year dollars, a family making the median household home ($67,500) investing 15% of it from 25-60 is worth $1.13m by the time they’re 60 (adjusted for inflation). And that doesn’t even count the home equity, which for a family like that, likely tacks on an extra $200k-$300k. It’s not hard to live a good life in America, yet people routinely blow it with frivolous spending, divorce R, useless degrees, you name it.

This woman wants that kind of cushy life. Don’t give it to her. A woman 20 years younger than her who will fully get on your program and be loyal, she can get that kind of life.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Is that gross household income before tax? Because 15% of that after taxes and the like are removed suddenly becomes a hefty amount for many families

Never mind that interest rates have been so poor for almost a decade that 6% is by no means a given (I’m talking the U.K. here)

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

That is gross household income, yes.

And actually, returns in the last 30 years have been pretty good, and this includes the dot com crash and Great Recession.

I’m not going to claim it’s simple, since so much $ gets yeeted from your paycheck even an average earner, but, it’s possible.

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thisisnotyourconcern 4y ago

Wow, a single mom of two boys who are going to be teenagers when she's in her... Mid-to-late fifties.

To put that in to perspective, I left my parents' house (making them empty nesters) when they were 53 and 49 respectively. They spent the following decade getting the remainders of their finances in order and now enjoy two cars, several foreign holidays a year and have no financial worries.

Men: If you get with this woman, you should expect financial hardship. Said financial hardship will not benefit you in any way, of course.

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Fast_Box_8509 4y ago

Financial hardship, emotional hardship, physical hardship - and above all - spiritual hardship.

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KimberlyPilgrim 4y ago

Why would you freely volunteer this information? On the bright side, it saves men who know better. Although the fact that she's 44 with two young children should have been the first flag.

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urbana1 4y ago

I’m done with games lol which is also why many men are opting of of your constant shit tests.

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DrDog09 4y ago

Graduate degree == Save me! unbearable student debt!

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Wonder what STEM or highly ranked MBA / Accounting program she earned a masters degree in.

Just kidding, we both know there’s like a 90% chance that her masters degree is in fluffy bunny Studies.

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Snoid_ 4y ago

*Transgendered Ethiopian Butterfly Studies

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

that might be because america gets fancy and calls it a “high school diploma” or “graduate diploma” if I am right ?

In the U.K. you just have A Levels. Impossible to misconstrue

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Impossible to misconstrue

Don't underestimate the human potential for idiocy.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

That’s possible. These days, smoking/lack of exercise and advanced education don’t seem to go together. So she might just be lying

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lemko1968 4y ago

This is like trying to sell a car you raced every weekend and twice smashed into a tree but tell the buyer you no longer race, the car has been in storage for the last five years, and for which you’re asking a new car price.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

WiMmEnZ aReN't CaRs! REEEEEEEE!

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Snoid_ 4y ago

I like my cars how I like my women: Fast, curvy, stunningly beautiful, but flaky, high maintenance, and has breakdowns all the time.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

So someone gave this woman children when she was 37 and 39. Apparently his reward was her leaving him and moving his kids to another state. Seems fair.

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Krampus1313 4y ago

Ny people are worse than vegans. They always have to tell you they're from NY. This has to be a Florida posting

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Florida has some wicked attractive women, don’t sell it short! Probably not as good as California, but I’ll take the trade off to not live in California

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pdoherty972 4y ago

Yeah, I don't think the poster you're replying to was disparaging Florida (or its women); he was noting that people from NY think anyone gives a shit.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Florida has some wicked attractive women

Retirees are not attractive, my friend! Haha! Just kidding. I've heard that the Miami women are consistently rated "hot".

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GreyJedi56 4y ago

Valuing a hooptie at the sticker price of a Lambo, classic.

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denvercaniac 4y ago

"have kids, don't want more."

My contribution: have my money, do want more, she gets none.

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biccat 4y ago

Have expenses, don’t want more.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

What is with all the Peter Pan’s out there!

I was called a Peter Pan by my first every girlfriend despite how she knew I was doing a graduate program post uni that involved work and study. They throw that around very very casually

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Yggdrasill4 4y ago

Had a gf who threw that word to me, Peter Pan syndrome because I wouldn't commit to her. They use that word not only for determing your level of self-building discipline and responsibilities, but also for an emotional level.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

They throw that around very very casually

I've written about this in many comments before, but they use words without any regard for what those words actually mean, but rather based on the emotions those words evoke. Their intent is to evoke certain emotional reactions in their listeners/readers.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Oh absolutely. I would expect in that case it actually meant “act how I want you to act”. I’d be pretty confident actually given what she was like

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pdoherty972 4y ago

Women like this are what prenups are for...

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WhereProgressIsMade 4y ago

Sadly prenups are too unreliable now.

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ialwayslurk1362354 4y ago

I read this sometimes in comments but where does this come from? Whenever I research them it says there are easy ways to write them to make sure they're enforceable.

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WhereProgressIsMade 4y ago

It’s better than nothing but there are too many cases where they’ve been thrown out The common one I’ve heard is it was only signed under duress with a wedding getting close. I’ve read it helps to sign a prenup before a wedding date is planned to help avoid this. Probably should have it all ready before getting engaged.

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ialwayslurk1362354 4y ago

Seems pretty reasonable to me that a contract signed under perceived duress isn't enforceable.

It won't be thrown out if you do it properly. If you're a man who needs/wants a prenup, it's reasonable to broach the topic before getting engaged.

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WhereProgressIsMade 4y ago

The problem is that people have successfully had them thrown out arguing duress when there realistically wasnt any. It seems like a way for judges to let someone out of one if they think it’s unfair that they aren’t going to get what would without the prenup. I should have phrased it clearer. I’m not an expert. The most I’ve done is read some articles about cases where they were thrown out but the article author argues they shouldn’t have been.

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Harpua81 4y ago

Never works out, smokes all the time

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Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

In other words she’s what would be described as either a gigamorph, juggernaut, or simply a post wall walrus.

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

Who's gonna catch that Pokemon

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spacemunkey336 4y ago

Not even worth the pokeballs you might throw at it

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

She only wants the Master Ball anyway !

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scared_star 4y ago

I betcho those two kids got different dads lmao

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LateralThinker13 4y ago

Are you kidding me? Overeducated drinking smoking single mother who is far past the wall and unfit (so likely a fattie) wants a man.

Well sign me up, sounds awesome. Oh wait, sorry, that's just the early-onset dementia talking.

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[deleted] 4y ago

Played around in her 20s

In her mid 40s with a 7 and 5 year-old when most moms that age have kids in their mid-late teens.

Pick one

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Joaquino7997 4y ago

Why the hell do these women who've had their backs blown out in their 20s become 'allergic' to any and all forms of physical intimacy?? Are they SERIOUS?? They somehow THINK they're gonna catch a man who is going to take her broke, damaged ass AND her kids!!

Freaking nuts!!

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thedukeinc 4y ago

‘Logic’ is the tool of Patriarchy

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Noob_master_slayer 4y ago

They aren't allergic perse, they're just addicted to the alpha dogs shlong. Beta Billy's wrinkly small shlong doesn't give her the tingles. It's that simple. AF/BB.

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pdoherty972 4y ago

Sad that you equate a guy having good looks with the size of their schlong. I seriously doubt there's a correlation.

Nothing sadder than a Chad with a tiny schlong.

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Noob_master_slayer 4y ago

There's not a correlation, I know, it's satire. I'm an average looking guy, average height (5'8) yet I pack more meat than basically everyone. I'm not boasting, but as per calcsd I'm in the 99.8%tile in size.

Sadly, people do actually make this wrong correlation. A lot of people subconsciously assume taller guys have bigger dicks.

Nothing sadder than a Chad with a tiny schlong.

Exactly lol. He is a magnet to all girls but the moment he pulls down the pant, it's a disaster lmaaoo.

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

I have matured.

I would never in a million years even look at you. But I'm broke and the men I want don't want me. So here we are.

These women make a huge compromise when they "settle down" with these guys. I think that explains why she's so entitled to always get what she wants now.

Ps. Why is the editing so shit on Reddits official app

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

You're better off just using your phone's browser.

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

How would I see the fancy new animations then

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

How would I see the fancy new animations then

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Growupchildrenn 4y ago

Just use old.reddit.com. apps for everything is dumb

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saberwarthog 4y ago

Funny thing is, we never see what would be a compromise many guys would almost accept about that, something that would go like :
"I got my fun in my 20's, now I want something serious with a man that I want to love & being even more sexual & intimate with than those past guys. I'll use my experience to blow your brain out if you'll be my man". (then adding the parts about having a family & so on...)

(we all know why this would never happen on OLD, but I thought that with so much women going into marketing studies in college, some should be able to at least create the pretension that they could give their target what they want... That's Marketing 101 !)

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polishknightusa 4y ago

Do you remember K-mart? I have fond memories of it as a child. The original "Big Box" store. Kmart INVENTED catalog/mail-order shopping a century before Amazon. People ordered HOUSES from Kmart (or was that Sears?) Anyhoo, it was HUGE back in the 1970's. As a family, we'd grab some pizza at the mini cafe and Dad would look at fishing gear, my brothers and me would hit the bike area, and the sisters would look at Blue Light specials in the clothing section.

Towards the end, the marketing folks spent millions on a new logo that didn't do much to inspire. They hired a well known hollywood progressive Penny Marshall to pitch the store to middle America. While Penny Marshall DID portray a working class woman in a TV sitcom in the 1970's, she had openly despised that demographic as a Hollywood elite. K-Mart struggled to keep shelves stocked nonetheless, I could find specials there and acted as a jackal picking them clean: Baby formula coupons making it almost free. After Christmas sales picked up Christmas tree lights for 2 bucks. Clothing clearances were amazing.

The CEO of the firm was paid millions even as he was unable to figure out a marketing/management plan to save the company despite it having incredible assets: Excellent placement in city centers, name recognition, and a brand of appliances (Maytag).

Anyhoo, it's amazing how people sometimes can't grasp basic marketing.

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RedBlow22 4y ago

Sears sold houses in pre cut pieces, including hardware. There's more than a few still standing, many in more rural parts of the United States.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I remember the Brady Bunch movie back in the 90’s that, instead of making the movie in the same time period, chose to bring the Brady Bunch 25 years into the future and into modern times, to superimpose the cheesy silent generation parents of baby boomers onto the modern day. One of the jokes was how excited everyone was to go to Sears. Movie was wicked goofy, but young me did enjoy it.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago

Anyhoo, it's amazing how people sometimes can't grasp basic marketing.

I believe it's more of a disconnection to reality; something like Marie Antoiniette suggesting people should eat cake instead of bread. Those in charge of marketing have absolutely no clue about their target audience, and make no effort to learn about them. Nowadays, add a layer of ideological bubble - and then you'll have Gilette dissing men.

Back to women, it's not that different. When her whole world is saying "you go gurl, any man would be lucky to have you at any moment in time" and she gladfully locks herself in that echo chamber, thinking differently is simply outside her capability. Brainwashing is not that hard; there are quite numerous cults around the world.

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polishknightusa 4y ago

it didn't matter to them what I thought back when I was 22 because I was a nobody back then. It's like whether Elon Musk cares about what I think. And that's understandable.

The only way to "reach" someone in that mindset is when you're up or they're down or both. I'm 56 and I have a 6 year old lovely girl. So when I go out with this lovely girl and my wife, it's impressive to the overall society around me particularly I would expect to those women that rejected me in their 20's and now are going through different times. Every dog has his day (provided he waits for it.)

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Every dog has his day (provided he waits for it [makes it happen].)

FTFY.

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Growupchildrenn 4y ago

Biased media is a very old thing. From my limited knowledge that's a big part of why the burning of the library of Alexandria was such a tragedy, different perspectives/accounts got purged

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saberwarthog 4y ago

something like Marie Antoiniette suggesting people should eat cake instead of bread

Funny thing is, she never ever said that... Marketing / Lie again ! \^\^°
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Let\_them\_eat\_cake

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

The full quote is actually "then let them eat cake, and my gorilla grip pussy".

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago

That makes more sense. I'll quote her more accurately next time.

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Anonymous_fiend 4y ago

Whatever you give the men before you should be given to your husband just as freely. I don't get how that's a hard concept. If a man wined and dined his ex his current gf expects the same treatment (or more). If a man posted on his profile he won't take you on any fancy dates until after sex bc he's been used for dinner dates by women who weren't even attracted to him he'd get hate messages.

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

Whatever you give the men before you should be given to your husband just as freely. I don't get how that's a hard concept.

"But that meaningless sex was just for fun! I'm totally not playing around anymore, it's time to get serious."

Cuz unserious sex with the hotter strangers meant nothing. It was a chance to "cut loose" and "have fun." But sex within a relationship? Oh, that's invaluably holy and completely different! She's doesn't do that dirty disgusting sex stuff any more. She's not a cheap tramp today, after all.

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nitro-666 4y ago

I know this is meant as parody, but it's also indistinguishable from the real answer these women give. What a clown world.

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Anonymous_fiend 4y ago

You can make love and also have fun meanless sex with your husband if you truly desire him....guys want a good girl who does nasty stuff with just him. Being prude after a promiscuous past is the exact opposite of what men want. And yet it's advertised as a selling point.

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

You can make love and also have fun meanless sex with your husband if you truly desire him

Yeah but the dudes she used to screw in her Tinder/Bumble heyday were, like, way wayyy super-hotter than the boring loyal dude who is financially supporting her. He should be out working anyway, not wasting his energy on disgusting pointless sex.

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Overkillengine 4y ago

Being prude after a promiscuous past is the exact opposite of what men want. And yet it's advertised as a selling point.

Especially if they are having to "pay" for it with commitment/provisioning when other men got it for nothing more than a smirk, a few cocky lines, and an empty bar bathroom.

Straight up sends a message to a prospective suitor that she does not like him that much and barely views him as a human being or a sexual being. And any affection from her will be doled out grudgingly at best.

Basically the entire attitude implicit in that approach is an insult to a man from start to finish, yet these women are so unwilling to look outside of their wants to see that they themselves are the reason why they can't find a good man or get one to stick around.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I think some women understand this. I think this is the term “ethical slut”

Although I have also seen that used with respect to poly stuff where they just mean they are open an honest

But I am sure there is some kind of “(adjective) slut” term that means - I will be really slutty but just with the one person I am in a relationship with

Granted it was told to me by a girl who admitted she was “best friends” with a guy she “dated casually” during university (her prime years) and who called all her exes toxic and controlling for things like not wanting her to dress really slutty so I’m not sure she can be taken seriously

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Anonymous_fiend 4y ago

Seeing as the definition of slut is "someone with many casual partners" I'm going to say she has no idea what she's talking about lol. I'm religious so views on sex are from that. As long as a man doesn't ejaculate outside of the V he's allowed to use his wife as he pleases. Kinky frequent sex is still Biblically legitimate with marriage.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

You're one of the few who gets it.

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Jihocech_Honza 4y ago

And do not forget, they were forced and manipulated to do the wild stuff and did not enjoy it at all!

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Jihocech_Honza 4y ago

Of course, the demon alcohol did it!

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

And all week long your River City youth'll be frittering away, I say- your young men'll be frittering! Frittering away their noontime, suppertime, chore time too!

Get the ball in the pocket, never mind gettin' dandelions pulled, or the screen door patched or the beefsteak pounded. Never mind pumpin' any water 'til your parents are caught with the cistern empty on a Saturday night and that's trouble,

Oh, yes we got lots and lots a' trouble. I'm thinkin' of the kids in the knickerbockers, shirt-tail young ones, peekin' in the pool hall window after school, ya got trouble, folks!

Right here in River City. Trouble with a capital "T" and that rhymes with "P" and that stands for pool!

Now, I know all you folks are the right kinda parents. I'm gonna be perfectly frank.

Would ya like to know what kinda conversation goes on while they're loafin' around that Hall?

They're tryin' out Bevo, tryin' out cubebs, tryin' out Tailor Mades like cigarette fiends! And braggin' all about how they're gonna cover up a tell-tale breath with Sen-Sen!

One fine night, they leave the pool hall, headin' for the dance at the Armory! Libertine men and Scarlet women! And Rag-time, shameless music, that'll grab your son and your daughter with the arms of a jungle animal instinct!

Mass-steria! Friends, the idle brain is the devil's playground!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Mothers of River City!

Heed that warning before it's too late!

Watch for the tell-tale sign of corruption!

The minute your son leaves the house,

Does he rebuckle his knickerbockers below the knee?

Is there a nicotine stain on his index finger?

A dime novel hidden in the corn crib?

Is he starting to memorize jokes from Capt. Billy's Whiz Bang?

Are certain words creeping into his conversation?

Words like, like 'swell?"

And "so's your old man?"

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I played enough in my 20's to last me a lifetime, so I'm done with the games.

I love it when they self-identify themselves as who they really are.

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SpearWeasel 4y ago

7 and 5…..at 44?….

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NBA_MSG 4y ago

And act surprised...absolutely nothing in the profile about why a guy would want "something real" with her

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Ok-Belt7629 4y ago

Wow wasted time and now you want to waste another guys time lol. There is no benefit to date or deal with single mothers lol

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I'll respect her like I'd respect a bowling ball with a graduate degree

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pdoherty972 4y ago

A loaner bowling ball at the alley... that's been used by everyone.

"Sir, everyone's had their fingers in this one"

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

She may be spherical like a bowling ball too. Watch out or she'll bowl you over!

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Snoid_ 4y ago

My three-finger technique works equally with bowling balls and women

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Her: I was a whore. Deal with it.

Him: I will. NEXT!

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edgelord666777 4y ago

I thought a woman's sexual past does not matter according to feminists... so now apparently it does. She's fishing for a sucker don't be that guy

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P_A_W_S_TTG 4y ago

This is the problem women are facing. They are playing around in their 20s instead of finding someone worth it and ending up 40, single, and with 3 plus kids. Find a man to love, then have kids. Don't go over board with the spread eagle if you know what you want is actual human connection. Why? Not because you'll be nasty, though sleeping with a ton of people is pretty nasty, but because you'll waste your time and you'll end up with kids. Most people who want a real relationship and aren't desperate don't want to take care of someone else's kids unless that person fucking loves you more than life itself.

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vtec__ 4y ago

ive noticed alot of ladies in their late 30s and 40s still think its 2005..alot of them are getting divorced and trying to play the field like its the early 2000s. alot of them are getting a rude awakening

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vtec__ 4y ago

yea, i feel like i dodged a huge bullet

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NickTesla2018 4y ago

Step up guys! Another cream pie princess. Ugh...

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kingcheezit 4y ago

Wait, you didnt have kids till your late 30’s, you are now in your mid 40s with 2 children who have effectively just started school and you are now looking for someone to spend, what should be their freedom years, bringing up someone else’s kids until they retire?

How does go fuck yourself sound?

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Dunkman83 4y ago

i bet atleast1 of them is special needs

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

It’s not as relatable an example as very very few people has hundreds of thousands in an investment portfolio when they his their 40s. A tiny tiny percentage (and I’m not interested if you do or not)

In the U.K. something like 30% (and I think this is households) don’t even have 1k savings

Which I guess is similar to how so many women have really high body counts. But the “value” we are discussing here is inherent and unearned and squandered - not something that has to be ground for

It is why DeeplyDisturbed wrote an analogy story of a guy with no skills and a big inheritance who spent it all in his 20s

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lorum_ipsum_dolor 4y ago

Now that I am in my 40's I am ready to buckle down and place half of each your paycheck in an investment portfolio mutual fund.

FTFY

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago

It's worse. Here's a closer analogy: "in my 20s, I was a millionaire and I spent all my money *on other women* like buying them expensive gifts, taking them on fancy vacations, etc. But now I'm 40 and "so over it". I no longer enjoy vacationing in Tahiti or buying Tiffany's jewelry. I'm not superficial like that anymore. I will not be buying you anything more expensive than McDonalds, and staycations at home watching Netflix. Why yes, my previous actions have left me penniless, having spent my fortune in my 20s, but that shouldn't matter, you worthless gold digger!!! And why do you care that my previous girlfriends are riding around in Ferraris I bought them?? My past is my past and you should be happy with the broken down beater I pick you up in now!"

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Yes this is the better analogy. And the money would all be inherited and the guy involved would have never bothered learning the skills required to make it back

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lemko1968 4y ago

In other words, she’s looking for “Captain Save-a-Ho” to rescue her from a self-inflicted situation.

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Hayekr 4y ago

Remember though, she is a package deal. The lucky simp gets to rescue her and the two spawn she brings from Chad or Tyrone.

"My kids come first and THEY ARE MY WORLD."

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pdoherty972 4y ago

Wow, I'm sold. /s

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beatstorelax 4y ago

not every 44 yo ,single mom, fat and smoker is a piece of s*** , BUT: lots of them are...

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Legio-Sicila 4y ago

Why do women so freely admit/ brag about being whores in their youth then proclaim they are no more and expect that to be a selling point for men? They don’t realize that the more miles and owners a car has the less valuable it is on the secondary market?

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RealThirsty 4y ago

Because for these types, feelings are more important than facts. Nothing is gonna change how she FEELS about it.

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Cristoff13 4y ago

Projection maybe. She wants a man who's had a similar life trajectory to her own. A man who's had lots of promiscuous sex in his youth (women seem to love players, even if they protest otherwise). And who's now looking to "settle down" with a partner around his own age.

She doesn't seem to realize that men and women are different.

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YesYesYesVeryGood 4y ago

I think they believe they are marketing themselves as "I was a dirty whore, so I know and do all the dirty things you like."

I don't think they realize it sounds like "I'm a dirty whore and will leave you when someone else better comes along. You can't satisfy me with sex anymore because I'm looking for gold-digger benefits."

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PsyMonk- 4y ago

Funny thing is, they never use those dirty skills to use with the men they settle for.

To the contrary, she's so boring in bed after her wild years that when their husbands inevitably find out because everything feels odd & weird; They find out they were living massive p0rnstars lifestyles in their younger years. Which is just such a slap in the face.

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droden 4y ago

I think it's more I dont do the dirty stuff any more I'm pure and virtuous now. So you get the bill and none of the fun. Good fucking luck with that lady. Starfish sex once a month if you are lucky otherwise dead bedroom then divorce rape.

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mustangfrank 4y ago

"I was a dirty whore, so I know and will not do all the dirty things you like." I found myself.

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Neldot 4y ago

so I know and do all the dirty things you like.

I'm not sure. They aren't even suggesting that they will do those things for him, on the contrary they're often stating that they DON'T WANT to do those things anymore.

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spyramyr 4y ago

Except that she won't do those things because she's "not like that anymore".

It would be funny if it wasn't so cliche.

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lorum_ipsum_dolor 4y ago

Except that she won't do those things because she's "not like that anymore".

This only applies to Beta Billy, for Chad she'll gladly comply.

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YesYesYesVeryGood 4y ago

There's a 2018 video like that... Girlfriend smashes up her car and her boyfriend to help out and she is ungrateful: https://youtu.be/S15ro0BXEaY

She smashed up her car and expects to be pampered.

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Growupchildrenn 4y ago

I ain't driving this car. Cool bitch, you using the chever-legs then.

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Mister_McDerp 4y ago

I think they believe they are marketing themselves as "I was a dirty whore, so I know and do all the dirty things you like."

Honestly, I don't believe that. Their thought process is more like: "I had my fun, and so DID YOU OF COURSE RIGHT???, so now we both want something "real"."

Missing the fact that the man still wants fun because he A: Didn't have it remotely in the way she did and B: Is a man and therefore a good chance he wants "fun" into his 60's. We don't menopause.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

They definitely don’t understand men and can’t comprehend their experience

Read any article from a woman bemoaning “hookup culture” and this is clear

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Haha. Exactly. And the fact that they call it “cheating” as well

I’ve recently had an exchange with a 29 year old who says she “doesn’t do FWB or dating” and is only looking for something long term as she has been single for six years

But she slipped up in admitting she dated a lot in that time (as well as directly saying “kissed a lot of frogs”).

She basically told me that the people who she was “dating” were either “dating” other women as well or bounced as soon as she wanted to make it exclusive/official. Which to me means they probably were in group 1 as well

She isn’t exactly making a compelling case for herself because she either trying to date far out of her league and/or is not pleasant / agreeable enough to commit to.

I just get the feeling lots of hoops will need to be jumped through and/or her bar will suddenly be raised super high because she doesn’t want to waste time (she said she doesn’t want any more time wasters which is the same thing)

It doesn’t sound appealing to me at all. Far too pressured

(Bit of a tangent I know)

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

This is the south U.K. and a white girl and doesn’t quite seem like the same thing

The way she speaks is that she is annoyed about it. But six years of bad picking? Makes your wonder

It seems more like someone trying to punch to far above their weight. I mean the fact that she would apparently put up with doing the “dating” thing where she knows the guys are dating others

I live in a relatively small city and I really don’t think the multi-dating thing is as big here as it is played out online. Seems like a London/New York thing to me. Where everyone lives on top of each other and can easily go down the street or a few stops away for dates during the week

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago

C: she can no longer have fun because the Chads have moved on to someone younger and she can't compete. Meanwhile the guys who are able to have the same type of fun can do so for decades longer.

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Fairwareprovidence 4y ago

They're after a very specific target, either a religious man who has not ever been allowed sex, or a Chad too horny to read her profile.

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aneuromancer 4y ago

Chad too horny to read her profile? Make me understand

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Someone who she finds hot enough so that if he just matches and says “wyd? Want to come over / can I come over” she will immediately remove her underwear and go where requested.

Then he will ghost her and she will rage about it because she clearly said “no games” in her profile. Which he never read. Because he didn’t need to. He didn’t need to try and pick things from her profile to make a conversation flow (that he would have to initiate and drive). He didn’t need to pretend to be interested in her kids. Etc

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Which part did she do for years?

I wouldn’t know as I have never been on the “good” side of this behaviour where a woman would just come round

I have seen the chadfishing videos (even though if pressed I still expect many of those would flake). Also it seems to clearly happen based on the ranting TikTok’s from women. Like the single mom who drove for 2-3 hours to get stood up. Or the woman who flew out (he didn’t fly her she flew herself) to get pump and dumped who literally screams in frustration on her video

So I assume it must happen. Whether it is selection bias and actually not as common as I would think - I don’t know

Can certainly believe it though. My work intake had a Chad in it and all the women basically melted around him. Clients remembered him and tried to ask if he would come back. I imagine he could have banged every single female employee at that company under 30 if he wanted. And any slightly closer he might have been able to convince to cheat on / leave their partners if he had wanted. He wasn’t that kind of guy though

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MurkyAd5303 4y ago

They're assuming that men their age have also played around a lot in their 20s oh, so they think it's a relatable experience.

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

It's like a character arc for them. They'd make montage of them "maturing" to feel proud of how they've grown to want something real.

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incarnate1 4y ago

Western culture & modern feminism brainwashed them into thinking they're all special gems no matter what.

It's unfortunately out of touch with reality. I believe that's one cause of the declining happiness of women. They can write as many articles and craft as many narratives as they want.

Words don't, and never will change reality.

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concreteghost 4y ago

I too have wondered this. It’s no feat for a woman of avg looks to have an incredibly high body count. while having a low body count is something of feat. Why brag about something so easy? “Hey look I can chew gun and walk”

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qtyapa 4y ago

they dont realize just coz they are done playing doesn't mean others are lol

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HistoricalSubject501 4y ago

Guys got the key. If the key can open multiple locks, it’s a good key. Who doesn’t want that key?

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waveformcollapse 4y ago

They really don't know. Men that they date don't tell them the truth because the ones that are honest with them get pushed aside in favor of the fun ones that spoil them. It's like a logic-proof bubble that prevents them from seeing the truth of the situation.

The only man in a woman's life that will really be 100% honest with her is her father because he isn't trying to have a romantic relationship with her. Many women lack this father figure in their lives and suffer for it.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago

This is spot on. A young, pretty woman is equivalent to Michael Jackson. The vast majority of men in her life want something from her (sex) and will say anything they need to get that from them. Similar to Michael Jackson and other celebrities who get surrounded by yes-men calling them brilliant no matter what bad idea they have.

When Michael Jackson dies due to an overdose of medication that no one in their right mind would be taking at home, it's the equivalent of a young pretty woman doing obviously stupid shit like this. And the reason is the same: they're surrounded by enablers who don't actually care about her, only what she can give them in exchange for reassuring and praising them.

It takes an incredibly strong mind to actively seek out people who tell you you're wrong -- and more importantly, take their criticism to heart -- especially when you have the option of sitting back and letting a hundred people tell you how amazing you are instead. Most people, men or women, don't do it. And their lives end in the same way.

Heck, it's so common, Shakespeare wrote about it (check out King Lear).

For these people, it's a double whammy. Because when they finally lose their looks (or money in the case of celebrities), they still don't get good advice. Because at that point, no one cares enough to waste their time giving any advice at all. In the OP's case, all through her 20s, she was told you go gurl! by guys who wanted to get in her pants. Now that she's 44 with 2 kids, it's not like those guys suddenly start telling her the truth. They simply move on. And now she's wondering why there aren't hordes of good men for her like all her fuckbuddies and FWBs told her there would be. But with no one to give her any advice (good or bad) she'll continue with her current ways, like advertising how much of a whore she was in her 20s, and wonder why her results aren't what she expected.

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Ok-Adeptness4906 4y ago

THAT is a brilliant observation - congratulations sir!

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Machomuk89 4y ago

Because how dare you use an object to compare women to!?!?

K... even a dog who's had multiple owners is less desirable with each one.

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swedishchef123 4y ago

Even a dog who's had multiple owners is less desirable with each one.....

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Holy SHIT dude... this was a thought BOMB in my head. What a perfect comparison.

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mustangfrank 4y ago

Just like the site says.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys he was a "NiceGuy™" unworthy of dating, but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout she wants a man with nice guy traits.

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pdoherty972 4y ago

"Now that I can't have fun at will anymore, I'm a moral person!"

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

WiMmEnZ aReN't CaRs!

REEEEEEEEEE!

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pdoherty972 4y ago

by pretending that they are puddy in the hands of men.

putty

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Scourmont 4y ago

Because they think their pussies are gold pressed latinum.

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Ayrab4Trump 4y ago

Updoot for DS9 reference

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More like hard pressed splatinum.

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NickTesla2018 4y ago

Ferengi reference!

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Scourmont 4y ago

Yes indeed! Loved DS9!

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edgelord666777 4y ago

Except if they think you're a Chad and you get it at bargain basement prices

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Enough-Staff-2976 4y ago

Chad price... buy none and get two free.

Everyone else... treat her like a virgin Queen of England Elizabeth I.

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RealThirsty 4y ago

And chad always return the goods after a few days

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P_A_W_S_TTG 4y ago

Holy shit this. Lol

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Overkillengine 4y ago

Some are deluded and think that the kind of men they like will like the same things that they like; they think men use preselection strategy like women tend to do. Which is blatantly wrong.

Some know otherwise and also know they can't completely hide their past so they trickle truth in the hopes that a prospect won't look further into it.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Similar to the posts you see sometime where the woman thinks she can get decent guys to compete for her. They just won’t be interested. And the sort of guys she would want in the competition do not need to compete for who they want

It is why things like the bachelorette and Bridget jones’ diary are absurd

In the bachelorette every guy can be on “The Bachelor” in his own right. By default that means he will have women actively fighting for him. But it is a very important part of the female power fantasy

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

I remember seeing some YouTube video where they tried something along the lines of "The Bachelorette", but it was a surprise to the male contestants that they would be competing.

It was very satisfying to see the handful of men just walk out as soon as that aspect was revealed.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I vaguely remember something like that

I’m just thinking about that post the other day about the woman talking about her rotation and then buying herself flowers on Valentines to try and keep them all on their toes.

She was trying to make excuses as to why none of the guys go her flowers but it appeared to be lost on her that she was just a side piece/FWB for every single one of these guys

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago

Why do women so freely admit/ brag about being whores in their youth then proclaim they are no more and expect that to be a selling point for men?

Shhhh. Let them keep at it. It's better for us this way.

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urbana1 4y ago

Yes putting a price on speech drives it underground and we need to know what we are up against lol

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mustangfrank 4y ago

hhhh. Let them keep at it. It's better for us this way.

It is better to know the truth.

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pdoherty972 4y ago

Truth in advertising is better, true.

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P_A_W_S_TTG 4y ago

Right? Then we know who's tried to catch them all.

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polishknightusa 4y ago

I found it funny that when I really did tell them openly what they needed to do to land a better man, basic responsibility, they dismissed and blocked me.

They simply don't want good advice which, considering their ethics, probably is a good thing.

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RunawayGrain 4y ago

They simply don't want good advice

When I was a young man, every time mom and dad tried to get their daughter to date me, she dried up like the Sahara. If they didn't approve, it was wet and wild. It's less that they don't want good advice, and more like they want to do the exact opposite out of spite ...

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

I experienced similar. Parents' approval = girl lost interest.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Same. Every relationship I have had where I have met the parents they really liked me

And the relationship didn’t last long after that became clear

Even for seemingly normal “nice” girls with intact families etc

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P_A_W_S_TTG 4y ago

This makes a lot of sense. No one's parents approved of me. Lol

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YaBoiMarcuss 4y ago

Why do women so freely admit/ brag about being whores in their youth then proclaim they are no more and expect that to be a selling point for men?

Because there are plenty of men, who think women with lots of sexual partners are "experienced" and they actually believe that it's a good thing.

Modern feminism was always about getting as much sex as women possibly can with good looking men without any repercussions. Very soon men will be forced to share a woman with 10s of men and cuckoldry will be normalized. Mark my words.

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YaBoiMarcuss 4y ago

You'd be shocked to know just how many men believe that women can't ever do any wrong. We are in the minority.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Putting "men" in quotes and your phrasing is a rule 1 violation.

The men who have been brainwashed by the gynocentric conditioning are not to be shamed for it here.

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YaBoiMarcuss 4y ago

Edited my comment.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Reapproved

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Are there ? Where have you seen men say this ?

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YaBoiMarcuss 4y ago

IncelTear and literally every feminist sub on reddit.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Please don't directly link to other subreddits, especially misandrist, bloopie shitholes like "incel tear". If you remove the direct link, I'll reapprove the comment.

That particular subreddit is amusing. I've seen my words featured there, and I'm about as far from INvoluntary CELibate as a man can get, and the only ones crying are the ones posting and commenting there!

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YaBoiMarcuss 4y ago

Edited.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Reapproved

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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 4y ago

My theory is that they are trying to sell themselves as being serious, which will supposedly signal to guys that they are now a "good woman" who is "worth it." They are probably not thinking about how guys see women who have slept around with many other guys is a turnoff. They are used to being prized for their existence, so they think that if they declare that they are only wanting a serious relationship, guys will still prize them even though they no longer can command the same attention that they would be able to when they were in their 20s.

It does show that they really do not understand men very well. Or that they really do not care about what men want. Either way, they suffer from their decisions based on what they do not/did not know or do not care to do.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

They’ve always gotten what they wanted from men, they simply expect the train to keep rolling. In this case, this woman had her “fun” for 15 years and still beat the buzzer for 2 kids. The fact that she doesn’t workout (most likely: fat) and that she smokes (so double the unhealthy) signals that she’s really not used to putting any effort at all in.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago

She beat the buzzer but still lost the game. Doing the math, she had her children at 37 and 39. I bet for the first one, she was with a guy for a while who wouldn't commit, and she tried to baby trap him and it failed. The second time, she tried again, and failed again. Either that, or she's divorced, and those kids are from her first marriage.

Either way, I doubt her life plan was to end up a single mother. And once she realized how much her relationship value plummeted after having them (in contrast to the lies she was fed by her feminist sisters about how "real men won't care that you have a few bastards!") she's now on Bumble desperately playing the role of a "good woman" in hopes that the type of boring, stable guy she would never have touched with a 10 foot pole in her 20s and 30s will now rescue her from her nightmare.

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pdoherty972 4y ago

I can only upvote so many times...

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

When I see woman with a “graduate degree”, my impression is that it’s more likely that she suckered a dude into thinking that he was going to get a happy family, then divorced him and went right back into the dating market. Though it does remind me of the Think Before You Sleep video centered around Jesse Lee Peterson’s interview with Laurel Hodge, who is a double divorced “dating guru” that magically got pregnant when she was almost 40. There was a video from a few years before of her sobbing due to not having kids. Methinks she “arranged” that pregnancy

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

I have probably seen it but I don’t remember it . What was it called ?

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

It was called “Single Mother Relationships Expert”

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Growupchildrenn 4y ago

There are 2 girls from my high school( I went to a TINY school, 50 people across 4 grades) who chose to get pump and dumped so they could have a kid. No interest in any relationship with the father, just gimme those swimmers and fuck off. Of course both of them are claiming child support too

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Do the dads have any relationship with the kids, or are they purely for cash money purposes for these women? Gross either way

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Growupchildrenn 4y ago

1 is allowed in to see his kid, definitely not allowed to be an actual father. The other is not. Things may have changed since I quit Facebook a few years ago, not holding my breath though

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Natuasi 4y ago

I played enough in my 20s to last me a lifetime, so I’m done with the games.

Translation: I’m now in full ‘resource’ extraction mode.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Sure. She's "done with the games".....now that it's Game Over for her. How convenient.

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pdoherty972 4y ago

#ItsTimeForABailout

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MGTOWManofMystery 4y ago

Apex fallacy. Women assume ALL men have the ease of obtaining LOTS of casual sex that the top 10% of men and ALL women do. They are oblivious to the fact that most men are relatively sexless (and this trend has increased in recent years). They have no idea they are kicking beta billy when he's down by saying this.

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pdoherty972 4y ago

Or, worse, they don't care whether men had that access or not. She's done, and that's all that matters, right?

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MGTOWManofMystery 4y ago

In her mind, yes.

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five_eight 4y ago

Solipsism.

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Machomuk89 4y ago

If you were done with games in your 20s you wouldn't still be single at 44.

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BritishTeeth11 4y ago

In almost every other community on Reddit, if you don’t accept her rotten turnstile cunt, you’re a neck-beard or Incel or some shit.

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Yggdrasill4 4y ago

I'm not a neck- beard incel (shave and either cardio or lift for 1 hour every single day), but I rather be one if it meant I am not forced to take care of that mess of a nightmare women. I would still have my time, energy, and resources that I wouldn't have to otherwise give away to entitled people who don't know how to appreciate others when they do something good for them.

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Fast_Box_8509 4y ago

God bless everything about this, from your evocative user name to the content and verbiage of your comment.

I want to buy you a beer.

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urbana1 4y ago

She’s so done with games.,..continues to constantly shit test every man she’s with lol

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mateymate123 4y ago

You sir Are a very well informed individual

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pdoherty972 4y ago

"I wouldn't want to belong to a club that would have me as a member."

-- Groucho Marx

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Snoid_ 4y ago

wHo HUrT YoU????!!!!11one

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Noob_master_slayer 4y ago

Just reply with "your worthless existence". Absolute Chad move.

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

Based.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Doesn’t it instead give them exactly the answer they want ?

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panzer22222 4y ago

you’re a neck-beard or Incel or some shit.

You missed out 'you arent man enough' and 'who hurt you'

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Noob_master_slayer 4y ago

Funny thing is, it's the SAME people who bitch and moan about "tOxiC mAsCuLinIty rEeEe!!" and they are also the same people to say "yOu ArEnT mAn EnOuGh". Irony.

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fantasticfantasy69 4y ago

The only “toxic” dudes are the ones that they choose but want to conflate that with ALL Men. It’s f’g stupid.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

It’s easier the introspection

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fantasticfantasy69 4y ago

Or the “Bilities” Responsi and Accounta.

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Halflotus1 4y ago

When they tell on themselves

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RuskinBondFan 4y ago

No gym

Social Drinker

Regular Smoker

Single mother with 2 kids 7 & 5

Is 42

Wants a relationship

Ah yes, the perfect catch. Women are so out of touch from what men want. Any relationship she will get into would be a dumpster fire.

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pdoherty972 4y ago

Embrace the cat-lady lifestyle - it's almost inevitable for this one.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Rule 3

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alldaycray 4y ago

What about it?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Did you read it?

Relevant excerpt:

No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest".

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alldaycray 4y ago

And did you read my entire comment?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

The rest of it didn't undo the rulebreaking portion, so the entire comment is removed.

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alldaycray 4y ago

I appreciate your honesty.

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