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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / The Big Question

Are There Any MEN Left? NO BOYS!
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thrownawayyyyyyy11

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Admirable_Bee_8714 3y ago

Lady who wipes ass for a living wants a man.

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Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis 3y ago

You do what I say: You're a man.

You don't do what I say: You're a boy.

Woman logic. So predictable.

Yet very ironic. All these women have wasted their youth chasing these "boys" and only now when they are getting less desirable and their reproductive window is rapidly closing they are going after the real "men".

What doctor with self respect will even bother with women like these? Imagine studying subjects you don't even care about just to get into med school. Then study all day and night to finish med school. Then get a residency, work like a dog and finish said residency. That's more than a decade of hard work. Meanwhile said lady was jumping from the bartender's meatpole to the dj's meatpole to the drug dealer's meatpole to the guitarist's meatpole. An endless orgasmic ride of ecstasy that has warped her view on everything.

And now these doctors are expected to bow down and let her walk over them. To be "real men" as they say. Thank god most of those guys have above average intelligence and don't fall for shit like that.

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maremmanosiciliano 3y ago

These dating apps are so awful. “Pet free non smoker” sounds like you’re browsing hotels for a holiday break.

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[deleted] 3y ago

There are plenty of men out there, just a shame that they're all married to women instead of dating silly little girls like you.

Every time a woman asks "Where are all the good men?" I answer in my head: "with all the good women."

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Itburns12345 3y ago

Define real man then lil missy

Il bet it involves words like 'generous, a provider,career minded,stable job' etc

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Enough-Staff-2976 3y ago

She's a dumb nursing assistant. This is a profession you can learn at trade school. So I have to assume she has a kid or been through other bs to be there at 31.

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Blackbarnabyjones 3y ago

A nurse, tattoos, AND Netflix. Each one of them on their own says "I fuck indescriminately at the drop of a hat"

But all three? Fuck a relationship you are better off getting her as a "staircase b" fuck where you sneak into your friends hospital job and he introduces you as one of the new docs only to her, and you wear a labcoat

And she "gets to you first before all the others have a chance" with the new doc in the back of staircase b. You know, the one with no cameras that everybody on staff fucks in

Then leave and never visit your friend at work. This might sound like wishfull thinking,

But my sensei AND two married friends work on hospitals and can confirm because I witnessed it myself in person.

Hospital girlz is Hoez.

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TokenyTaken 3y ago

There are , but not for her.

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denvercaniac 3y ago

"passions"

"tattoos"

"dancing"

so you're a drunk whore with no class.

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silly_birb_Banned 3y ago

Do not underestimate "photography" aka posting pictures of herself with a camera she bought at college thinking she could become good without studying actual photography.

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Traksimuss 3y ago

Nurses sex up all those doctors with their hope of landing one and then being SAHM. So yes, one of sluttier professions out there with numbers easily in hundreds.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Nurses sex up all those doctors with their hope of landing one and then being SAHM.

Nurses are also some of the most filthy, revolting, vapid, shallow, bitches in existence!

When you get to see nurses in the backend of the hospital - even for 5 minutes - you'll see how disgusting they are.

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Traksimuss 3y ago

Oh yea, I remember nurses discussing the veteran dying, it was really disgusting what they were talking about and how much fun they were having.

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Hayekr 3y ago

I work in medicine and this is absolutely true. The nurses sleep with everyone. They sleep with doctors, PA's, residents, and even medical students that are rotating through their clinic. They're also completely used up and bitter by the time they hit early 30's since no one wants to wife them up. Then they're overweight and busting out of their scrubs that fit them well 5 years ago, wondering where all the good men have gone.

The only field I think that exceeds nurses for female promiscuity is Flight Attendants. These women make nurses look celibate by comparison. Flying around the country, staying at hotels and hitting up the hotel bar at 1a, sleeping with the pilot (who is cheating on his wife with half the crew), sleeping with other male flight attendants, sleeping with hotel staff or some dude on a business trip there. It's crazy.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

A personal friend became a doctor. The stories he told me match what you say about nurses. When he was interning, he would work weekends at hospital in Louisiana. He could pick up $2,000 to $3,000 a weekend. He would stay in a trailer, and was on call 24/7. If no one came in, he still got paid.

He mentioned to a nurse that in 2 weeks was his birthday. 2 weeks later, she came to his trailer wearing a tedie, under a lab long coat. In one hand she had a cake, in the other a bottle of Champaign. She spent the night with him.

He and I are out for a few drinks. We meet 2 girls. He goes to the bathroom, and I mention to one of the girls he is a doctor. When the girls go to the bathroom, he asks me if I told them he was a doctor. I said yes. Why? One girl had the wedding already planned out. She wanted him to meet her parents the next day. He and I left ASAP.

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Crushed_95 3y ago

Yeah I was about to say that all the time flew in my lifetime, I have never detected a straight male "Stewartress"(yes. I have been flying a very long time).

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Holy-poop 3y ago

My gay friend constantly talks about applying for the job

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3-10 3y ago

I think female soldiers rank up there with those professions.

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rockstar2022 3y ago

This is true. I've seen it in the military.

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ShortWarrior 3y ago

The only field I think that exceeds nurses for female promiscuity is Flight Attendants

Good Lord, man, are you saying even prostitutes don't come close?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

That doesn't count! It's just work!

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mustangfrank 3y ago

That doesn't count! It's just work! And my past is my past.

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ShortWarrior 3y ago

Why would you have two children you never see, pay someone else to raise, and you don't even get to do the fun part?

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Anonymous_fiend 3y ago

A lot of drs just marry other drs then they split the costs of a nanny, maid, food out, and other help. I often wonder how those marriages go since they both barely see each other but maybe that’s how it works out. At least they won’t have to pay alimony if there’s a divorce.

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Anonymous_fiend 3y ago

“Unmistakable and unwilling to make compromises”

So like every other modern marriage lol

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Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

I can see that being the case. Although in this case I wonder who files for divorce more between men and women doctors. My guess is women still take the gold medal in filing.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

I’ve also heard doctors tend to be horrible at decisions that aren’t medical. Like financial decisions, but I assume marital goes south too.

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YungUrbanTurban 3y ago

I would take offense but mail scams, nah you got it chief lol

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thrownawayyyyyyy11 3y ago

Listen guys, cut her some slack! She’s 31 now and it’s time to shake off the boys and find a REAL MAN!

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Listen guys, cut her some slack! She’s 31 and a reborn virgin.

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MGTOWManofMystery 3y ago

She's done playing around. She's had her fun (so no fun for you).

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Notice a N count is missing.

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Sumpm 3y ago

She's fucked dozens of boys, but now it's time to get her hands on a real man's bank account and have some kids.

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MGTOWManofMystery 3y ago

Well, the kids are from the bad boys, not from billy beta.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

She's fucked dozens of boys, but now it's time to get her hands on a real man's bank account and have some kids.

That's for sure. Or she got it on with thugs, druggies, bikers, criminals, etc, who never put a ring on it, so she is looking at men from the other side of the track.

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PaulWrit 3y ago

We're looking back pointing and laughing at her stupidity. No time attention or resources for you. No cash and prizes. Gtfo you lose.

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Invisible22M 3y ago

No there aren't any men left she hasn't fucked

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knucklz74 3y ago

Now all there is left is to get a man to take a Walk avout in her pussy.

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vegasbadboy702 3y ago

The arrogance of these modern women. Her entire profile consists of “are there any men left out there, no boys allowed”. Not one thing describing what she would bring to said man in a relationship or what she offers. Perhaps she should check her friendzone for all the guys she rejected while chasing Chad.

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I-am-the-lul 3y ago

And that is assuming that there are still any guys left in her friendzone hoping to be chosen, after all she is over 30 now, chances are they moved on.

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Silver-Discipline550 3y ago

Her entire profile consists of “are there any men left out there, no boys allowed”.

All while she still being a little grown-up girl. Bold of her to think that good men are actually looking for her.

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Crushed_95 3y ago

While reading this do anyone else hear carousel music playing in the background?

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mustangfrank 3y ago

While reading this do anyone else hear carousel music playing in the background, with plenty of bad bois, bikers, criminals, ex-cons, etc.?

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MRMRising 3y ago

She passed me by when I was 21, so I'm gonna return the favor and pass her by at 31.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

She passed me by when I was 21, so I'm gonna return the favor and pass her by at 31.

Fair is fair.

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meissnerhotchkiss 3y ago

Are there any WOMEN left? NO GIRLS!

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[deleted] 3y ago

I get so irritated by this men vs. boys thing. Whatever women like they deem "man" behavior and whatever they don't like they deem "boy" behavior. And even worse is the men who reinforce this nonsense because they think propagandizing themselves as falling into the "man" category and shitting on other guys will help them get laid. It's a bullshit dichotomy that both women and men perpetuate.

Something tells me it wouldn't go over so well if men went around defining womanhood for women and shaming them for behaving in any way that didn't meet our criteria.

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NickTesla2018 3y ago

She's so brave and empowered!

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Boys aren't allowed on Tinder...

So what is she admitting to...?

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Liberal_follies 3y ago

Boys (and girls) are on Tinder all the damn time because they don't implement any KYC.

Neither does any of the zillions of porn sites on the Internet.

We're just kidding ourselves at this point.

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I-am-the-lul 3y ago

Underaged boys shouldn't be on Tinder, but as for "fuck boys", there are enough of those guys there.

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CuntSniffer9001 3y ago

Such unique passions.

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reignoferror00 3y ago

Sorry, he didn't get out of jail early for good behaviour; you'll have to wait another 10 years. In the mean time you can write some letters and go out and get some tattoos to match his.

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago

Yup.. Lots of men out there. We're not interested in desperate post wall women.

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago

Once we have something to lose we're significantly more picky who is in our lives.

Bro, I think you just fucking hacked the Matrix! When we're young we have nothing/very little to lose so we're willing to take a chance on a risky chick for some positive reinforcement and some ass. I'm guilty just like any other guy.

For the last 15ish years, I've been living for myself, improving, and getting steady ass because I stopped giving a shit about chicks.

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Liberal_follies 3y ago

Went to buy some girl scout cookies and lo and behold the girls daughter

We actually had a fun time chatting, realized how much I missed her (and all my old HS friends) so I looked up her Facebook...annnnd she has a new boytoy every month if not more often for the last several years, a very obvious alcohol problem and 'employed' at a 1099 joke-job. Thot with a capital T.

My brain played a sound effect of dishes breaking in my head to signify my breaking heart. It fucking HURT. But I knew that even though I could get in line if I tried, it would be a terrible idea with a guaranteed bad outcome.

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rockstar2022 3y ago

Theres a couple of women that i use to like so much when I was younger. But now both of them are in their early 30s. And have wrinkles around their eyes and OMG they have to wear make up just to cover that shit up every day. One of them works out constantly thinking that they can keep their thighs from getting to fat by embracing her masculinity by using a trainer who is also a post wall used up thot. Its really just awful to see. I wish more men would recognize that the Wall is real with these women.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I was 28 and married. I was to meet my wife at a bar that was close to her office after work. We both knew the bartender, so he saved 2 seats for my wife and me I decided to take a walk around, just to see who was there. I was not looking to cheat. I had my wedding band on. I came across 4-5 women in a group. Their ages I will guess as 32-35. I was shocked at how they aged and how physically they had deteriorated. One woman’s face was hanging down on the corners of her mouth, so she looked like she was frowning all the time. I saw flabby arms, saggy butts, muffin tops, bellies, etc. These women were only 4 -7 years older than me and looked terrible.

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Silver-Discipline550 3y ago

The Wall is absolute evil, they have so little time to choose the one. yet they behave like they have all their life. This made me think of something Jordan Peterson said:

"As women move towards their 30s the power relationship between men and women also starts to transform because there's almost nothing less valued than a young man, but that starts to change as men move towards their 30s if they're successful. Whereas there is almost nothing more valued than a young woman but that changes as women move towards their 30s." – Jordan Peterson

Cheers

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Heh, Rollo Tomassi said it better and earlier.

What's even funnier is that 30. 40, 50 years ago, that was considered common sense rather than revolutionary or insightful.

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago

I'm on an SEC college campus a few times a week. It is unbelievable to see the difference between the hot young women who make no effort and look amazing and the older women on campus who are trying to keep up and can't come close.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

FDS How dare you say that!!!! Women don't hit the wall. Men just say that.

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sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago

Yes.. men say that because it's an observable truth..

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Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Boys become men for a reason. When the majority of guys see the women their age sleeping their way through an endless array of bad boys for sport it disincentivizes them to "grow up" as it were to provide what they could get just by emulating the bad boys. I'm not entirely surprised that they are then shocked when the guys their age don't bother establishing themselves enough just to get the prize of a beat up post wall tainted roast beef curtains who'll divorce them as soon as another guy gives them the tingles. More guys are waking up and so many of these post wallers will be in for a rude awakening. The majority of millenial women are either 30 or rapidly approaching 30 and it will be a long lonely road for about half of them. I'm starting to see it now and in 10 years the screeching of the harpies will be music to my ears.

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I-am-the-lul 3y ago

The youngest Millennial women are going to be 26 this year, so they all aged out of their prime years, so with few exceptions, only the Epiphany Phase and then the Leftover stages awaits that generation of women.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

I'm starting to see it now and in 10 years the screeching of the harpies will be music to my ears.

I love happy endings.

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Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis 3y ago

In other words the juice is not worth the squeeze.

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AngryCockOfJustice 3y ago

Men have other important things to do..

Where is her pic by the way? How does she look like? Inquiring minds would like to know what she's offering

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I-am-the-lul 3y ago

She must really be icky, since we have seen all sorts of old slappers and even blubbernaughts post their pictures before.

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Blackbarnabyjones 3y ago

Blubbernaughts.

This is why I love this sub.

The burns are magnificent.

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CarFreak777 3y ago

I've never seen such a boring bio. I should know, I've made some terrible ones before but I actually managed to blank out before reading it completely.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

What does that say next to the "Pet-free"? That she's a "Virgin"? My eyesight isn't so good.....

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I-am-the-lul 3y ago

Virgo as in the star-sign, unless it is one of those automatic things that show up when you write up your profile, treat it as another red flag.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago

I mean, how could she not get a man now? It's clearly specified, and all in caps. What else is needed?

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Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

How fascinating to base your profile around an obviously rhetorical question. Obviously we can infer 1. She’s telling on herself about her past taste guys. She’s got a thing for shitheads, but doesn’t have the juice to domesticate one 2. Once a shithead lover, always a shithead lover. She doesn’t suddenly like good guys 3. Any non-Chad would be a fool to get with her, she’d only be in the relationship to bide her time.

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Zuez420 3y ago

Spot.on.

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AtomicMGTOW 3y ago

My passions: sitting and looking at things and sometimes listening to stuff, sometimes both. Also, sometimes I get up and move around to the beat.

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NBA_MSG 3y ago

I like to go out and stay in. I'm an introvert and an extrovert.

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FormerBTfan 3y ago

So when this tinder tart says tats is that tats on guys? or is this special princess full of tats? Without a photo of the offending individual it is a question I have to ask.

I would also point out she has no pets and that really says something about her personality. So unless she is allergic to dogs cats ect she is a cold ass bitch. Usually even the most hardened wall smashed pumped and dumped man hating femcunts has a little furry critter to show her the love and affection she can not get from men that are wise to the game and shoot and scoot.

My opinion posting of dating profiles should always include the picture of the protagonist of these sagas we endeavour to decode in the pursuit to educate all brothers on how to arrive at the summit of Mount Olympus.

Well back to swilling beer and watching red neck racing. "Yall have a good in fullers"

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CuntSniffer9001 3y ago

I would also point out she has no pets and that really says something about her personality.

I learned this one the hard way. Now I believe this is one of the biggest red flags there is.

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I-am-the-lul 3y ago

So when this tinder tart says tats is that tats on guys? or is this special princess full of tats?

The odds are, the answer is YES to both.

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Uranusinjurpooder 3y ago

Why would you tell tinder exactly where you work lol.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Sounds like a ho that does not realize she is not worth saving....

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lee1028 3y ago

31years old broke, ran through now needs a man.....

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mustangfrank 3y ago

31years old broke, ran through now needs a man

Where have I seen this before?

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redsenior 3y ago

Not for you.

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MenOnFire96 3y ago

Women who are single approaching wall or past are single for a reason. I mean she might be beautiful and smart, a total catch. But once you know the reason why she's single you'll get it.

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rockstar2022 3y ago

This is true.

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Silver-Discipline550 3y ago

Always thought about that, one day she'll realize too, and that day will be already too late.

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WeRAllOnThisBlessedD 3y ago

There’s plenty of MEN out there. They just want nothing to do with her, or she’s still after the Chads that will never commit. She could try checking her friendzone, but hopefully at her ripe old age of 31 its been abandoned by those guys that were stuck there. Oh well. There’s probably room for one more cat in her studio apartment.

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mustangfrank 3y ago

You are correct. A woman can swing a cat by the tail and hit a dozen good men, when she is 22, but at 31, WAATM?

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ronoda12 3y ago

Some of the nice guys in her friend zone probably observed the type of guys she was sleeping with and became bad boy like them

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Blackbarnabyjones 3y ago

This. I used to be such a good boy. This past weekend I lied to my fwb to go get some other pussy while she hung out with her bf and gf (Vegas) Then on the way back I ducked into their party and hot both my friend and her gf while her bf watched.

You think I bragged to be proud? No. I'm intensely sad. All I want is a nice wife and a nice life, but this is what I get.

Insanity or nothing. Because if I pull either of them aside and try to have a conversation about acting right (as I have and constantly do) I am met with a wave of stupid, denial, and ignorance that would make Ol' Ollie North stand up and clap.

And before you think I'm some Chad, I'm not. I'm an ex semi Chad on the weekends maybe. As of this morning I weighed myself at 310lbs.

But I talk alot of shit So what the hell? But even this shit is getting old.

But I did realize why I do it. I want to be touched. I realized that women don't ever really do anything physically affectionate unless the are performing or have no where else to run.

Now the gf and bf are mad cause "I made them sleep on the couch" because their wasn't enough room in a California king bed.

You can't make this shit up. I am living a 14 year old boys wet dream, but I just want to be a normal man.

But normal men get nothing.

I'm about to choose nothing.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3y ago

I love your story :-)

Let me say something that might be considered heresy on this sub but is actually something a lot of us believe (many of the mods are married, after all): there are good women out there.

Note, I didn't say there are perfect goddesses out there. Good *women* i.e. human beings who have good points and bad points, but whose particular set of good and bad points mesh nicely with yours such that you can build a joint life that's better than either of you could build alone. Not perfect. But better. With hard work. And occasional stumbles and mistakes.

The problem with being a NiceGuy is they put a woman on a pedestal and treat her like a goddess. But she's not a goddess, she's just a human being. And the guy gets hugely disappointed when he inevitably realizes this. It's sort of the male version of being an Alpha Widow.

If you truly want a good woman in your life, you're going to have to do some work to find her. In many ways, you've already done the hard part, if you're charming enough to be able to walk into a threesome, but haven't yet killed your core desire to have one great woman instead. If you can convince a woman to fuck you on the reg *and* bring her gf along for the ride, that's far more charm than you'll need to attract a good woman when you're offering sincere, actual commitment.

But realize this: good women have options too, and they don't like the manwhore :-) I once roomed with a guy who was extremely successful with women. He looked like a 90lb nerd, but would date the most incredible women. When I first met him, I was amazed by his success and felt he could probably literally get any woman on this Earth that he wanted. But once I got to know him, I realized it wasn't true. Even though I was desirable enough to play the field, I generally didn't, because I wanted an LTR with a good woman too. And I started to see that while there were women who would choose my friend over me, there were plenty who chose me over him, even if my friend cranked up all his charm, and I was ambivalent or didn't pursue her as hard.

The difference was that there actually are beautiful, fun, great women who are looking for an LTR and would choose it over short term fun and excitement as part of my friend's harem.

It sounds like you have your heart in the right place. But how is a woman supposed to see that? Just like we say a woman's past history is a good predictor of her future behavior, the same applies to men. Which means you're going to have change your outer life and actions to reflect what you say your true inner desires are. And then start spending time with women who want the same things. They won't go out with you right away, but if you prove your sincerity with your outward actions, then over time, they'll trust that you're really sincere, and at that point, they'll give you a chance. It's a hard road, just like it is for any woman who wants to change from riding the CC to becoming a good wife. But if you really want it, it's still there.

For example, say the perfect woman of your NiceGuy dreams landed in your lap today. What type of date would you take her on? If your usual go-to date for your fwb's is to take her gambling at a showy casino on the strip, then maybe a trendy club where you can grind up for a few hours while getting drunk, then a quick bounce to the strip club for an hour, before going back home and fucking your brains out until the sun rises... well, I don't think the type of woman you're looking for is going to enjoy that (at least not as a first date). She couldn't care less about the excitement of a casino floor, and isn't impressed that you know the bouncer and can skip the line at the club. Do you even know what she's looking to get out of a first date? And if you do, would you be bored out of your skull doing it with her, or could you genuinely enjoy it as well?

Bottomline is it's not as easy as continuing in your current ways and hoping someone is willing to stake her entire future life's happiness on the premise that your outward actions don't reflect who you really are and that you will change them and stick to them, if she decides to date you.

Hope you don't mind a random reddit stranger giving you life advice, but there you go.

P.S. Also, good women don't live in Vegas. That might be your first problem :-)

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Blackbarnabyjones 3y ago

Thank you for the advice and the reply, I loved every word. And yes this brand of thinking has been weighing on me heavily as of late. You can't be what you are not so I have begun to make the change.

The craziest thing about me is I have learned that I don't have those answers. Where does a normal woman want to go? What do normal women want to see / do? These are things that I go to my long married friends to sit at their feet and get some wisdom. You know the one guy I know who isn't terrified of divorce

And no no sir Vegas is not the place for long term relationships. If you have a long-term relationship in Vegas you usually bring it here with you when you move here, or you are both party animals, swingers, drug addicts, gamblers, drug sellers, or family people.

The ones that aren't in relationships out here are Street cats not house cats. An alarming amount of these relationships are farces or Shills/shields or some kind of loose swinging/polyamorous situation where it was fun when I was a younger kid but now I'm just old, fat, been there done that.

So thanks for your words I hope the speech to text doesn't screw me too bad when the translation but yes I agree with you wholeheartedly and yeah you have to commit to making the change and I have begun and it looks like it's going to be interesting journey.

My friend already got upset when she heard the dickbulance is going out of business but she's trying to support me in her own way.

I know bro, I know, thanks for the kind words.

EDIT: Also, I forgot to add the juicy tidbit that I am a product of not only a black single mom, but two so I don't have any visual experience in seeing a coherent family and what a man actually does for a family outside of

  1. run for his life from a black womans shit
  2. Get shit on for as long as he can by black woman and then get replaced, flee, or pass away.

So as an adult I have begun gleaning information from new married friends that I have made at the job with kids in tow and family trip picks/stories every 5 minutes. What I learned, are many of them are outrunning the reaper. They are about 4 atv payments, 1 boat payment, and 1 summer house payment away from loosing it all. You talk about pay for play? The financial amounts put hookers to shame.

$15-25K for a new kitchen and all you get is 1/2 month of less bitching, a soggy blowjob, and no talk of divorce this year. Man. During my learning process I saw several of them get divorced and financially ruined, moved home to live with parents and afford alimony (I even went to some court cases) and hang on by a thread of sanity at work everyday while the ex did nothing but try to destroy the crumb of life the man was clinging to. TWICE. After my own debacle with nearly being arrested for trying to break up with a woman like an adult I had put all that relationship shit in the bin and went on a walkabout with my nutsack.

But now, its time to stop.

It all has to fall so something better can be built in its place.

I'm looking forward to it.

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Old_snowboarder 3y ago

31.

Nursing assistant = she'll be wanting your money then

Likes tattoos - oh dear.

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CuntSniffer9001 3y ago

31 and she's not even a nurse yet? Still just a nurse's assistant? Sad. And what a surprise she loves tattoos.

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Gundamsafety 3y ago

Sorry I didn't make it past "Nursing assistant" did she keep talking or something?

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mustangfrank 3y ago

Sorry I didn't make it past "Nursing assistant" did she keep talking or something?

You didn't miss anything.

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[deleted] 3y ago

Passions: Taking Instagram photos, twerking on TikTok, more tattoos than an MS13 gang member, Netflix and chill with Chad and Tyrone, Boot Scootin' Boogie to twerk to on TikTok. Pet free, at least 2 kids.

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wtbrift 3y ago

She cycled through all the local Chad's and now wants a real man.

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