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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


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  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

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  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

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  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Entitlement Princess

Mormon Single Mom Seeks Second Husband
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Darth_Turbo

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ThenCheesecake5701 4y ago

At least point 8 is in her favor as far as I'm concerned.

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incarnate1 4y ago

NGL, I like the Biden tho.

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Ari9000plus 4y ago

Isn't she bending church standards by demanding monogamy? Oh well, I'm still glad she's putting herself out there because this was worth some laughs...

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JayMeadows 4y ago

Being from Utah... yeah, that's pretty much just women who have "Found Jesus again" after hoeing around.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

The LDS church is facing the same problem as so many other congregations: pews full of single mothers praying for a bailout and chasing men who are genuine and fervent in their faith but still know a bad investment when they see one.

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

Well, yikes, it's not like a young lady can go fun around with the kind of dude who comes from an intact, two-parent family, was brought up with traditional values, gets straight As and has gainful employment and an eye on the future. Ick! How boring would that be?

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Yeah when I see a “Catholic” single mom, about 95% of them are totally FOS and trying to hook a high value and moral man. They’re totally ready to have 3 more kids for that good man, until they get married. Suddenly she can only have 1.

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Hannibal_Irasius 4y ago

Oof.

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Sceonas 4y ago

Oof. I bet LOTS of dudes are trying to get her attention! /s

How very "I demand ONLY the best!" of her.

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Lawyerdogg 4y ago

Old Joe plead guilty to starting a fraudulent religion before he came up with Mormanism

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velesxrxe 4y ago

You also get your own planet

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Darth_Turbo 4y ago

That was Mohammed. In Mormonism there was no limit to the number of wives a man could have … Joseph Smith had at least 40, Brigham Young had close to 50.

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MelkorHimself Mod 4y ago

Joseph Smith had at least 40

Those are rookie numbers...literally.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

Huh. I've never heard him having more than the one wife. My understanding was Young was the one started the polygamy train, ol' Jo's problem was he couldn't keep his hands off other men's wives - which is a large part of why his "new church" faced so much opposition in the States, and a large part of why he was killed in prison.

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PapaDragonHH 4y ago

How did he achieve that?? I mean which women is gonna take a man that has already got a woman or 2, let alone 20 or 30???

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PapaDragonHH 4y ago

I wanna have that too!

But I don't need 30 women. I think I'd be happy with 4 or 5 women. Can you give me an advice?

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AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Jim Jones and David Koresh were swimming in pussy. The last guys you would think to have all that female attention. Although apparently Jones was pretty charismatic (before he drank the purple koolaid).

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DecimatingDarkDeceit 4y ago

they're the most hen-pecked dudes on the planet.

E-X-A-C-T-L-Y. Unironically; specifically ones around Malay, Indonesia; Pakistan even arabia

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

"Men, do your duties! Ladies, do, like, whatever!"

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thejynxed 4y ago

Yeah, that's because culturally the woman rules supreme inside of the home while the husband rules all affairs outside of the home. She absolutely can and will demand certain things like money and under Islamic law he must provide all of it. If he does not, she is free to berate him as she sees fit.

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kidruhil 4y ago

Does that really surprise you though?

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

I want to say I don't remember there being much in the Book of Mormon about the woman's duties in a relationship but it's been far too long since I read the damned thing. At least 20 years, and I never took scripture study all that seriously, even at my most fervent.

Regardless, there's plenty enough the church teaches with regard to men's and women's roles within the family to back up your point. Sadly, as with women in general, most ostensibly faithful LDS women are only too happy to subordinate their beliefs beneath current cultural mores.

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LD4LD 4y ago

Is this a quote from stranger in a strange land lol

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Darth_Turbo 4y ago

Hah! I know, right?

I wonder why she divorced her husband? Since she doesn’t allege that she was abused or cheated on, I’m guessing the divorce was her idea.

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AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

She has co-opted her religion to serve her feminine imperative. She thinks she is the "Temple". Similar to feminist Catholic women who believe that females are part of the holy trinity.

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Ok-Adeptness4906 4y ago

"Sex addiction" = wanted it more than once a year on his birthday.

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SeedsOfDoubt 4y ago

More likely he left the church. Hence the "argue, debate, insult", "church standards" and "love the temple" stuff.

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Cristoff13 4y ago

She probably got bored with him once she had a couple of kids and he couldn't provide her with anything new. She acted cold and irritable towards him. Then she caught him accessing porn. There's the "sex addiction" and the perfect excuse, in her mind, to divorce him.

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OhBarnacles_007 4y ago

Muslim men today aren't what they used to be. Many of the current generation are eating up the feminist crap.

Muslim women expect all their islamic rights while telling men they dont' deserve theirs. If anything muslim women ate that shit up faster then other. The wildest hypergamy and "my shit don't stink" behavior you will see, very manipulative and experts at taking sly jabs at their men to emasculate them.

Islam already says that most women will be in hell. I'm starting to see it.

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MORPHUES_ 4y ago

The Prophet (ﷺ) said:

“I was shown hell. I saw that most of its inhabitants were ungrateful women… The Prophet was asked: ‘Were they ungrateful to Allāh?’ He replied: ‘They were ungrateful to their husbands and for the favors and the good done to them. If you show benevolence to one of them and then she sees something in you, not to her liking, she will say: ‘I have never seen any good in you.’”[2]

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jmpires 4y ago

My guess is that his intended audience would be his own wives, but as saying goes, you can’t be a prophet in your own turf

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ratchet_noclank 4y ago

Mohammedans? What are we? In the 1800s?

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askntithies 4y ago

I have no idea why some people choose to say that instead of simply saying Muslims. Then again I think that's the point. They misuse the word to be passive-aggresively mocking.

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ratchet_noclank 4y ago

Exactly. It’s meant to mock. Mohammedan means that Muslims “worship” Prophet Muhammad, that is that they’re trying to infer, for anyone who reads this comment.

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askntithies 4y ago

I didn't reply to this but seeing the odd reaction in these comments I think I will now.

The actual etymology of the term 'Muhammadan' is a Christian term. Upon hearing of a new religion in the Middle East, the Christians were principally concerned with the central figure 'Muhammad'. Given their own doctrine, they assumed that this new religion was built on the worship of this figure so they proliferated the term. Nowadays, 9/10 times when someone says Muhammadan it is often meant in a mocking sense. Kind of a rebellion against using the regular term, because they know the insuation of human worship angers Muslims. Same as saying 'Abdool' or 'Achmed' it's up there with those shitty quips. I think the people of the sub aren't clued up on any of this so they don't understand where I'm coming from.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

Or it's simply borne from ignorance. Or lack of giving a shit.

It's no different than most people referring to members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints as Mormons. Members of the church generally don't appreciate the term but most understand those using it aren't doing so maliciously, that's just what folks who don't know any better think they're called.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

Fair point. I certainly can't give two shits about Islam beyond not wanting it anywhere near me.

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Cavannah 4y ago

In the same way that calling people who follow the teachings of Christ "Christians," it at least makes sense on a surface level to call people who follow the teachings of Muhammad "Muhammadans."

That being said, as someone who has no scholarly religious interest, any deeper meaning is beyond the scope of my knowledge.

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askntithies 4y ago

I understand what you mean, but when Muslims make clear what they prefer to be called, to go out of one's way to call them 'Mohammadans' only comes across as grimly mocking. On the point of Christ-Christians as well, there's a dynamic there that doesn't exist in Islam – namely the worship of the central figure.

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Traksimuss 4y ago

It is because when measured by modern standards, Muhammad does not stand up to scrutiny to people who are not Muslims.

So by calling them followers of Muhammad they point out they were following imperfect man.

As Jesus Christ being son of God was quite perfect, so comparison is on the side Christianity being "better" because of that.

So yes, kinda cheap jab.

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Disastrous-Ad1334 4y ago

But we know Mohammed existed where as there's not much evidence for Christ existing. Why would they subvert pagan festivals such as Yule a pagan mid winter celebration or their spring celebration and make it Easter. To each their own as far as religion goes.

For me being an atheist means I have no religion

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askntithies 4y ago

Guru Granth Sahib the central figure of Sikhism doesn't stand up to my scrutiny either. That doesn't mean I go out of my way to tantalise Sikhs by calling them 'Sahibists' or whatever. I didn't need your break down, I understand quite well what they're insinuating and it isn't any less mocking.

Maybe if you read the Old Testament your 'quite perfect' image of Jesus will be soured.

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Carvemynameinstone 4y ago

You really need to reread his comment, sahbe.

He is explaining, not jabbing you.

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velesxrxe 4y ago

Who cares what they care to be called?

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askntithies 4y ago

Of course, you don't. And many of you here don't. That's kinda the point I'm stating, it's a point of mockery. Are you denying that?

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velesxrxe 4y ago

What am I supposed to be mocking exactly?

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SpicyPoaster 4y ago

Classic case of "I'm a single mother, here is a list of my demands." This one is especially graceless and Karen-ish.

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40moreyears 4y ago

Who does she thinks is jumping to date someone with all those demands? You can go kick rocks, lady.

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panzer22222 4y ago

Honestly I am glad when women do this, I like my snakes to have big red colours

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

This one is especially graceless and Karen-ish.

Yes, she does sound shrill and naggy.

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Dumloko 4y ago

And using her religious background just for virtue signaling.

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lemko1968 4y ago

Religion is the last refuge of a scoundrel.

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jzdelona 4y ago

Speaking of scoundrels Joseph Smith was a delusional cult leader and renowned pedophile. A deep dive into the history of Mormonism and the fundamentalist beliefs are truly disturbing.

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MelkorHimself Mod 4y ago

If she were such a devout Mormon, she would list how she would be a biblical wife and always serve her husband.

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UwUkraine_RussiaChan 4y ago

**her first and only husband

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JohnnySkidmarx 4y ago

Funny how it works like that.

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Carvemynameinstone 4y ago

Bro, she is very specific about "raising someone else's kids", this is a trad-thot to the T lol.

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tiernach 4y ago

Yeah all of these chicks that fuck up and suddenly find God and expect to find a good man out of it can go eat another dick.

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ProbablyNotYourSon 4y ago

This is her one moment to have a say in something

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OraleEse13 4y ago

She's divorced so we know she didn't do it the first time around. You can just feel her power complex in her post. She would definitely trying to wear the pants and be the masculine figure.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

How do you know she's divorced?

We can infer she's a single mother based on the "other people's kids" line but she doesn't say anything about having been married.

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DrDog09 4y ago

Yes, but the SO might have croaked from over work.

Not a mormon so I am out of the running so to speak.

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MelkorHimself Mod 4y ago

If she's a widow, she would have my condolences. However, it doesn't change the fact that she is presenting herself poorly. If you want people to buy a product, you have to explain why the product itself is worth the money. You don't make demands of the buyers.

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DrDog09 4y ago

Don't disagree about presentation. However that could apply to practically every posting we see here. Its almost the lack of presentation goes hand in hand with single motherhood. Put another way, Profile Sucks == Single Mother without ever mentioning the fact.

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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

But seriously guys, think of how good the sex that you won’t have will be!

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bowhunter6 4y ago

You made me lol. Nice job.

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IntroductionNew3421 4y ago

Seems like her list takes all the joy out of life. Probably her personality too.

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CentralAdmin 4y ago

A single mom who wants to control men's sexuality using the church for moral justification due to her own past insecurities.

She is nuts. And a hypocrite. Even if she's a single mom after a divorce, divorce is very much against Christian morals (unless there are extreme circumstances). If she is a single mom due to premarital sex, she cannot complain about men who want to have fun too.

Coaching someone out of porn and sex addiction? Is she a therapist? Because women like this will claim a healthy sex life is addiction because it happens more than once a week.

It seems like she is sex negative and just wants someone to finance her lifestyle without bothering her for intimacy. She wants extreme control over another person's sexuality. She should marry a gay man if that's what she wants.

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

Coaching someone out of porn and sex addiction? Is she a therapist?

She doesn't sound like a therapist, it sounds as if it's her hobby. Or her fetish.

She should marry a gay man if that's what she wants.

No way, it'll be off to the conversion compound in the desert for the likes of him. On the first day "We don't have a fence here, gents. It's nothin' but 100 klicks of dry wasteland and coyotes in every direction. No where to go, so y'all better set to prayin' 'till the devil goes out of yer loins."

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datboi3637 4y ago

Who is Joseph Smith

joseph Smith deez nuts

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logan4179 4y ago

Wow, this is the first time I've had the urge to tell someone I like Joe Biden.

That's saying a lot...

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widal 4y ago

XD?

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Tiki-Tiger 4y ago

Is there no picture?

Some of those Mormon women are nutty. Real life Maude Flanders twho prance about it in public with their various pretenduons, then reveal themselves to be total freaks behind closed doors.

"Financially ready" means she wants a meal ticket.

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East_IndiaCompany 4y ago

TBH, if it wasn't for the kids and the church, shes good relationship / mother material. Wholesome and anti-degeneracy. Big wins these days

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

She's really not.

She may not be actively reveling in degeneracy the way so many other women do but she still comes across very entitled, angry and confrontational, which isn't a good look on any woman - let alone a single mother.

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Cristoff13 4y ago

She probably divorced her husband because she was no longer sexually attracted to him, yet was still craving passionate sex. If she meets some guy who makes her tingle, then all her anti-degeneracy posturing will go out the windows.

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jack_Me_hoffman 4y ago

This is a bailout beyond belief

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Snoid_ 4y ago

There's a reason the movie was called Downfall

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concreteghost 4y ago

Oh sweet she coaches men Also. Wtf is up with the no debating???? Huge turn off m. debate is my fucking foreplay. No lie

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Wtf is up with the no debating????

No debating because she's the coach! What she says, you must obey! Do you think Michael Jordan would've gotten as far if he had debates with his coach? /s

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CSM_Pepper 4y ago

As the old saying goes, Dean Smith was the only guy to keep Jordan under 20 ppg.

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mtb312000 4y ago

God bless her she is never going to find anyone

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xXheil_Pokywan420_Xx 4y ago

"Dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb"

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Overkillengine 4y ago

Yeah I'm betting her personal finances resembles a Sarlacc pit.

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Qwesterly 4y ago

I wish it was possible to browse tinder/fetlife/allthesites with a set of powerful linux command-line tools, so I could go through the database and cull any profile with the phrase "don't even think about" in it. That phrase tells me all I need to know.

I realize I could cobble together some scripts to do this... I just wish someone already did this, so I don't have to spend the aggravation debugging and refining.

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Traksimuss 4y ago

Add also "swipe left", because it is usually shit test where she starts "Swipe left if you do not like skanks like me".

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APathWellTraveled 4y ago

Disgusting & Delusional

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DankCommander7 4y ago

Shes a single mom so now even some dirty old mormon lord wont make her one of his dozens of wives

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SquirtBurt 4y ago

Why would she think anyone would want this?

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jzdelona 4y ago

I can't imagine what her "anti porn coaching" consists of, I'm guessing it comes with a healthy dose of shaming and controlling behavior.

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KangarooCrapper 4y ago

She's got a cooch that squirts holy water...

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Okayokayokay9999 4y ago

Because she is the prize, duh.

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rit255 4y ago

Even though she doesn't list much of what she offer. Oh but she can help you lose your addiction to porn. Ya okay, maybe the guy just wants to jerk off quickly and then get back to what he was doing

If I was in a relationship and needed that release, the last thing I would do is constantly have sex with my wife regardless if she accepts it or not

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

I mean, I take your meaning with just needing a quick release but, given the choice, I can't imagine why you'd choose jerking off to porn over sex.

Provided your wife isn't a frigid bitch who makes that more trouble than it's worth, of course. And if that's the case you should already be on your way out the door.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Please don't directly link to other subreddits.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

I think that's what she's using. She mentions "swiping up" at the beginning of her screed. If I remember correctly Mutual users swipe up and down rather than left and right.

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Roughneck16 4y ago

If this is Mutual, then it has changed since my now-wife and I matched on there four years ago.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

Given you actually used it I'll assume you're correct and I'm mistaken. My brother used it briefly, before realizing OLD is a waste of time no matter how you dress it up, so my only familiarity with the platform comes from him telling me about it.

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RedditSlayer2020 4y ago

First in Line! Pick ME Queen!

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

“You must be devoted to the church”. Also: “I’m a single mom”.

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TrumpSucksALotOfCock 4y ago

Who tf is Joe Smith?

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AzLibDem 4y ago

Con artist that wrote the Book of Mormon. Same type of guy as Saul of Tarsus or L. Ron Hubbard.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

To be fair, the LDS church has grown well beyond ol' Joe's scheme to bilk people out of their savings and fuck other men's wives. The church itself can still be shady as fuck in some respects but most regular members are pretty decent people.

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

The church itself can still be shady as fuck

But any group of "elders" who meet in a private temple like this can't be too shady. Comic book villain stuff surely doesn't happen in real life.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

Heh. I don't know about comic book villainy, but the church can certainly act like a mafia at times. Shops run by non-members competing with church-owned businesses (or owned by members who are in good with the church) have burned down or suddenly found themselves in trouble with civil authorities; people owning land the church wants to build a temple (or a mall) on have stories of being leaned on and threatened by city officials, sometimes outright blackmailed.

None of it can be proven in a court of law, of course, and there a contingent of folks with an axe to grind who are only too happy to latch onto (or start) any negative rumor to make the church look bad, but it happens consistently enough to make it seem reasonably likely there's at least some truth to the stories.

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AzLibDem 4y ago

I live in Mesa, AZ; I'm really familiar with them. Some of them are very nice, and I count several as friends.

However, as a group, they are not as nice as most people think. What they are is polite, which many folks misinterpret as being nice.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

That's fair. The worse among them could teach lessons in passive-aggressive nastiness to the stereotypical southern grandma with her "bless their heart" affectation.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Oh look, she's such a lady that she didn't even want to spell out the word PORN.

PORN PORN PORN PORN PORN

There! You have to chant that several times to ward off people like her.

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TheBlindNeo 4y ago

Almost like she doesn't realize that

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

Why you think the net was born?

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polishknightusa 4y ago

So I suppose messaging her if she's into a threesome with her and the baby daddy wouldn't go over too well?

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

HA!

Thank you, sir. I needed that laugh.

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NBA_MSG 4y ago

Oh no, I play video games and I THOUGHT about swiping on her. She's going to be so mad

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bryonwart 4y ago

Single for life with that list.

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Flat_Eric_1200 4y ago

So many times no.

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emerald_engineer_08 4y ago

Wow. What a prize

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biccat 4y ago

I must be pretty jaded from this sub. These demands are not that unreasonable. No demands about income, height, type of car he drives, "my kids come first," or any of the other regular bullshit. She's looking for someone with a similar faith and values.

Then again, if she'd taken that approach with the kids' father she wouldn't be looking for a new one.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

You need to read between the lines. As /u/Loud-Bottle-7879 noted, "financially ready to have a family" is code for being well off both monetarily and professionally.

Mentally ready

combines with

Have "Netflix binger" in your tags or play video games regularly

This is code for "mature" - i.e. you're not allowed to have any hobbies that don't directly serve her interests. To be a Good Man™ is to exist solely to provide for her and her children. Speaking of...

you don't want "someone else's kids"

Here is her "my kids come first."

Like arguing, debating, or insulting others

She's always right. About everything. If you disagree it's because you're too stupid to see how right she is.

This isn't hypocritical but, given you're too stupid to understand her obvious correctness in all things, you can't very well be expected to understand the nuance at work here either.

"Bend church standards"

Says the single mother. If she were a widow she'd say so, and the fact she doesn't speak ill of an ex indicates she likely left him. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she was married to her child(ren)'s father when they were born.

Damning with faint praise, you say? Absolutely.

Are still interested in someone else or you enjoy "dating around" "hooking up" and/or romance just for fun

She is, or at some point was a Chad chaser. Maybe these were good little Mormon Chads (yes, they exist, and yes, they pull just as much poon as their non-LDS brethren). Maybe that's where the "other peoples kids" came from. Either way, she's putting out all the signs of being damaged goods.

Hrm. Maybe I should reevaluate the benefit of the doubt thing above.

I coach men in quitting p*rn and s€x addiction so I take that seriously too

You only get sex when she wants it, which won't be often, and when she doesn't want it you just have to suffer. No taking matters into your own hands, as it were. You might discover you have a more fulfilling sex life jerking off to porn than you do fucking the tranquilized mattress she'll turn into. Can't have that.

Ultimately she's just another entitled single mother with a long list of demands, a boatload of baggage and absolutely nothing to offer any man who might actually consider a relationship with her - let alone the "high quality" men she actually wants.

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Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago

Bruh you missed line one where she said financially ready to start a family. That’s code speak for near 6 figures at least. She thinks she is slick!

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rit255 4y ago

I thought dating is also suppose to be fun. Seems like a job with no pay sort of setup

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Tiki-Tiger 4y ago

He sure missed that, and a whole lot more!

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NutsLikeMelons 4y ago

Thought I’d seen it all, but the mandatory gardening is a new one. Give her everything else but don’t like pruning roses? Next!

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Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

“Like arguing, debating and insulting others”

Can’t have that. That’s a privilege for HER only to direct towards you at her discretion. And if you can’t handle that, then you’re just not man enough to be with a girl like me!

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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

No doubt. From her tone you can tell that she reserves these rights for herself. What kind of traditional Mormon marriage does she think she is going to get? The delusion is strong in this one.

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poloppoyop 4y ago

I coach men

Poor boys. Still in need of mommy for guidance instead of a real mentor.

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ihnrva 4y ago

"Coaching men" is a fancy way of saying "I complain to men about X"

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panzer22222 4y ago

Question Joseph Smith as a prophet??

Oh lordy, this guy set up a whole church just to get more asre.

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genealojist 4y ago

Mormon here. She sounds like the kind of Mormon that going to church, temple marriage, etc are boxes to be ticked so she doesn’t lose social cred with the neighbors. She’s gotta have that house on the hill (if the church congregation has apartments in the boundaries, it’s too trashy). She’s not looking for a true husband. She’s looking for an accessory. This one has no tolerance for anything that doesn’t look pretty on the outside. I hope she doesn’t ensnare anyone else in this praying mantis of a trap.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

She’s not looking for a true husband. She’s looking for an accessory.

Bang on. Most of the women we feature here aren't looking for a healthy, respectful relationship with another human being. As you say, they're looking for a human accessory to slot into the man-shaped hole in the perfect little life they've planned for themselves.

Surely it's not their fault when us rotten men stubbornly insist on being human beings, complete with thoughts, feelings and desires of our own rather than purse puppies for their childish Disney princess fantasies.

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Neurismus 4y ago

And she is porn addiction coach lool

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OraleEse13 4y ago

She sounds like a riot to be with. /s

Alternative caption: Boring Mormon judgmental single mom seeks new benefactor that follows all of my rules and expectations. No room for you to be you."

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LVL50JustThisGuy 4y ago

Her requirements are at odds with her faith.

Joe Smith deemed polygamy as acceptable, so her issue with other women is untenable with the "prophet".

Shut up and get back in the kitchen; it's your sister-wife's turn. You're not up for quality-time for another eight days.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

The LDS church hasn't sanctioned or practiced plural marriage since 1890. Even when they did, the vast majority of men who engaged in the practice only had two wives.

I understand the polygamy jab is an easy go-to for mockery of an entitled LDS woman, but you're talking about it like it's still happening today when the reality is the LDS church has forbidden the practice of polygyny for more than twice as long as they originally allowed it.

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LVL50JustThisGuy 4y ago

She mentioned Joe as a Prophet, specifically.

You cannot serve two masters.

Mormons that speak of Joe in like terms are very active polygamists.
Redditor polyamourists I've come across are equally vociferous of their lifestyle.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

Dude. I was raised in the LDS church. My parents and most of my siblings are still active members. Every one of them, and every other member I've ever known, considers Joseph Smith a genuine prophet of God.

None of them practice or sanction polygamy. In fact, they all believe doing so to be directly contrary to the will of God as revealed by the prophet Wilford Woodruff in 1890.

Her specifically mentioning Smith as a prophet isn't some conspiratorial wink and nod. It's standard practice among the LDS faithful. I don't even know what the fuck you're getting at with that "cannot serve two masters" bit.

You're just wrong on this one. Take the L and move on.

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WhereasSpiritual 4y ago

Takes the time to make a list of demands, not once saying what she brings besides a kid......okay, boring lady. Sounds like a real catch.

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rit255 4y ago

She helps men stop jerking off. But fuck that noise. I rather be single and get escorts once in a blue moon then deal with that kind of woman

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Gabriele231 4y ago

Wow.... the mistake has already been made

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GasMaskGhou1 4y ago

The last one is pathetic, fishing for conservative when you can be damn sure she was all about the "fun" before.

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3-10 4y ago

I’m not a huge fan of porn, but I’d pick porn over her.

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Traksimuss 4y ago

She has discovered her Marriage market value and is very unhappy about results.

Hence prerejection and vitriol.

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kidruhil 4y ago

I earned my flair from a mormon single mom like her. Tbf, I'm the kind of doubting lax mormon she's probably bitter that she keeps finding and wasting her time

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vic_vega_is_fake 4y ago

Hostage note with Joseph Smith thrown in for good measure

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SCCock 4y ago

She better cool her jets or she won't get that temple wedding.

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Dunkman83 4y ago

she wants it to go from friendship to marriage.lol

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Destroya12 4y ago

I'm not sure about the Mormon faith specifically, but isn't divorce a sin? And isn't it taught in the Bible that women are to submit to their husbands?

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Disastrous-Ad1334 4y ago

That's very Misogynistic of you Holy books from most religions state that but religious feminists know their holy books are wrong as they are tools of the patriarchy .

If she's divorced she is in fact still married according to the Bible. The whole " till death do us part for better for worse" in the wedding vows is from the bible saying marriage is for life so chose your spouse carefully. Women seeking divorceis in fact a mortal sin as well as a breach of contract. Divorce initiated by women is one of the few times you can't sue for brach of contract.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Divorce initiated by women

In today's environment, ALL divorces are initiated by women. I'd like to know about the case where the man leaves a devoted wife who submits in all things and is always sexually available. Filing court paperwork is just a legal technicality.

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

The LDS church, much like most Protestant denominations and far too many Catholic parishes, has taken a much softer stance on divorce and single motherhood than it used to.

Apparently they even undo sealings now. By way of explanation, if you get married in the temple the union is generally sealed as well. As I understand it that's supposed to effectively bind your souls together for all eternity.

My brother got divorced several years back after getting married in the temple. Came as a real gut punch when he learned, via the church contacting him, his ex-wife was also seeking to have their sealing undone.

A real fuckin' peach, is that cunt.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Yeah, my Protestant friend asked me why so many Catholic priests aren’t denying pro-choice politicians communion. Simply not enough based dudes

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

why so many Catholic priests aren’t denying pro-choice politicians communion

Money. Apparently single mothers tithe more than the men that have simply stopped attending. I'm one of those men. I will not give money to a church that gave money to my ex-wife for an attorney to leave me.

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SCCock 4y ago

She brings the kids. You bring the ATM card.

What a deal!

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago

Ps. I coach men quitting porn and sex addiction so I take that seriously too

So the closest to any action you'll get is a sermon about it? I thought baby-trapping was bad, but at least you'd be getting some.

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thefudmaster 4y ago

Joseph Smith was a pedophile who made up a religion where he could perform these disposable acts. I recently read a documentary about him. Norman’s are very nice people though.

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KangarooCrapper 4y ago

https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/6e57047d-795a-4904-bdcf-784de3ed0066

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BeholdTheHair 4y ago

Did he diddle kids? I know the man was a con artist who couldn't keep his hands off other men's wives (which is largely why he was killed in prison), but the pedo accusation is new to me.

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thefudmaster 4y ago

According to the biography I read yes.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Norman’s are very nice people though.

Especially that William the Conqueror. You can ask the Anglo-Saxons about him.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Fucker beat me to it!

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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 4y ago

I rather liked that Rollo gentleman with the battle axe.

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thefudmaster 4y ago

Fuck me and my autocorrect.

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KangarooCrapper 4y ago

Normans are very underrated...

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Overkillengine 4y ago

More like autoincorrect, amirite?

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thefudmaster 4y ago

Yep!

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Heh heh heh. I hate autocorrect too.

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thefudmaster 4y ago

I loved your comment though on Billy the Conquerer.

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DontwantaFairOne 4y ago

She coaches men on sex addiction & porn???

Who on earth views her as an authority?

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saberwarthog 4y ago

Or even let her BE one if we follow the texts of her religion...

I mean, from what I know about it, Mormon's texts didn't erased the "women should be silent in church or around anything related to it, and should defer to men" part from the new testament, right ?
I'm not against religious people, but as usual they are handpicking what is convenient to them & forget the rest...

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Coach men in quitting porn and sex addiction? Does she send them her nudes or something?

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Coach men in quitting porn and sex addiction? Does she send them her nudes or something?

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Invictus_44 4y ago

Zero inquiries

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Pemrocks 4y ago

She sounds fun

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Okayokayokay9999 4y ago

"Bend church standards" - Is a single mother.

Lol.

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cautionTomorrow555 4y ago

Conservative women keep demanding conservative guys, but then have a kid and act like a bitch that is also very demanding then wonder why those kinds of guys are not interested. They are not interested because those kinds of guys won't date single mothers and want a woman who is submissive and feminine not a bitch like you. I am not a conservative guy and even I know this just from knowing conservative guys! But somehow they don't understand it.

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