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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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Glittering-Meat3088 4y ago
I wasn't popular with women when I was a younger man. Right up until I turned 30. This was primarily due to the fact that I was incredibly desperate and put the pussy on a pedestal. You could smell the desperation coming off of me from miles away. At 28, I started to change. By 30, a lot of the changes had taken affect. Many of the women I wanted but wouldn't give me the time of day started chasing me instead. And almost all of these women were in relationships. Most were married, some were engaged, others had long term boyfriends. This post really captures the mindset, word vomit, and drama they would spew after we were hooking up for a while.
Having been on both sides of that divide, being the guy they would never fuck to being the guy they can't get enough of, I've seen enough of women to know that the vast majority of them are out of control, delusion, entitled, and in denial. They're a resource consuming pit and not worth the headache they inevitably bring into a man's life.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
She won't feel bad until, inevitably, the fiance finds out and John dumps her. But, she won't feel bad about the cheating just that she lost her meal ticket.
make_reddit_great 4y ago
"Like everyone else, I've made some mistakes and I've grown as a person. Looking for something REAL now. No timewasters!"
Goldmansachs3030 4y ago
Ask christians when they justify anything by jesus died for our sins or some other bullshittery. That has been called out before my country got independence, but the shit remains same. Now church going born again daddys little fighter uses this excuse. PS: A big woke group of christians.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 4y ago
It's sad and very useful that everyone here knows the script.
drift318 4y ago
no joke, I just saw that on a dating profile for a 35 year old....word for fucking word.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
The correct response to it would be “so why did you waste your time 10-15 years ago?”
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
Yet another tale of dual mating strategy - but this one doesn't even pretend to be feeling bad. Outsorcing a key component of a relationship is far easier than dealing with one's own inadequacies, so why take the hard road and build a long lasting relationship over shared effort and commitment when you can just spread your legs for some rando?
Fairwareprovidence 4y ago
She doesn't feel bad because she hasn't been caught yet.
NutsLikeMelons 4y ago
I’ve been married 10+ years and was always pro marriage. I’m now 100% against it for any guy who has to deal with these tik-tok-Instagram-snap-chat-only-fans generation women. Smartphones have ruined them all. They will destroy your life for dick or a handbag. Stay single men. No marriage, no cohabitation.
Fantasiadreamcicle 4y ago
Clearly black pilled, you are.
askntithies 4y ago
No he isn't, he's pragmatic. A modern male has next to nothing to gain from marriage.
Fantasiadreamcicle 4y ago
Unless you have a great wife who serves you and gives you kids to prolongs your legacy. Though I will add, it is harder to find these days. You are also black pilled, it seems.
Fairwareprovidence 4y ago
A wife who serves her man? I'm married and that sort of behavior is nigh guaranteed to disappear once the kids start popping out regardless of any other factors.
askntithies 4y ago
Where can I find one of those? See, the thing is, you're more likely to get a bad deal than a good one out of marriage. Women are not obligated to be the way you described. They are rather incentivised to behave poorly. I'm only 20 years old, having kids and wife is definitely on my radar, but I know my chances are slim. If that makes me black pilled, so be it.
Fantasiadreamcicle 4y ago
Lol. Church, and even then some are still pretty feminist. Hispanic cultures are very heavy on family as well. You just have to find someone who shares your values. For me my Christian religious values keep me loving and respecting my husband above all. Following his lead, serving him when I can. It is truly fulfilling because men and women clearly were made biologically for this. We operate better when falling into that rather than fighting it. I'm not saying the woman's got stay at home and churn the butter, but have values that she wants to honor and protect her man as well as children.
If you have values like you want to fuck bitches get money, you're also going to attract people with less than ideal values. You want to live out the values you believe with integrity, have a mission that is not dependant on a woman, live that out, find one along the way who will fall into your frame. #redpill
askntithies 4y ago
All good stuff. You failed to mention marital and cohabitation laws however. Those throw a wrench into things, big time. A woman taking half of your stuff and your kids too when things go south is enough to keep most men away.
You did touch on a point I've come to accept and that is that without religion marriage rarely ever works.
Goldmansachs3030 4y ago
Laws are the problem. In my place, you wanna be a bitch, ok be one. But then my state High Court rules that if a woman commits occasional adultery, she will get maintenance.
Literally these fucked up judges told men without arms or legs to beg,borrow or steal to give maintenace to wives during pandemic bcz they have the child. Lmao. Then why is she independent,strong whaymen?
AllUpInTheCut 4y ago
Men lack basic human rights. They are merely resource generation machines for the state.
LingonberrySuitable 4y ago
If she wants rough fast exciting sex, she is welcomed to mount him and set the pace. Why is it his duty to perform for her like some circus clown?
warlocc_ 4y ago
Because the modern world has given women more and more agency with no responsibility. Not even their own decisions are their fault.
OddBelt987 4y ago
Women don't like doing in general. They want things to happen to them.
Edit: It also goes against the common mindset among women that men should just "get it." (whatever "it" is). Having to explain it to a man apparently makes that man very unattractive.
silly_birb_Banned 4y ago
Meanwhile a man is shamed if he spends money on a mistress because the wife gives starfish sex (fucking a starfish faster like she wants doesn't make it better)
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Sounds like fiancé is blue pill. Probably thinks dominating his woman in the sack is “misogynist” or something. Hopefully he learns this one is for the streets. And that his “friend” sucks.
guachumalakegua 4y ago
UPDATE
“OMG my beta fiancé just found out I’m banging another guy! I proposed an open relationship but he call me a WHORE I’m afraid I’m going to loose his money….I mean our relationship WHAT CAN I DO?!?”
Goldmansachs3030 4y ago
Whore? How dare you, i just wanted to get that "human touch", to just "find myself", to "explore my sexuality".
What is this explore my sexuality thing btw? You got a pussy and bobba, he got penis and men bobba or pecs. Thats it. Whats there to explore like you gonna take drugs and go to Wonderland.
jahnamal 4y ago
Just amazing. I feel bad for the guy...I wonder what she is bringing to the table that would make him stay if he ever finds out.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 4y ago
Right now, nothing. But soon, another guy's kid.
TriumphAnt462X0 4y ago
She's right about one thing - John is a douche bag. He's banging his buddy's girl. That's a good way to get on the wrong end of a whoopin.
Her, well shit, it's clearly to much trouble to take some initiative with her beta male provider. no, just bang his friend.
People suck.
Wide-Illustrator2906 4y ago
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
She is already justifying the paternity fraud. Never get married.
CartAgain 4y ago
every mans dream