Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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Zerochances121 4y ago
I feel like women are never as desperate as they think they are. Lazy? Probably. They don't want to plan the first date but throw hints at the guy. Instead of having actual conversations with guys, it's so much emphasis on their own clothes. They have a high standard on how guys should dress(until they are desperate) and insist they need to look attractive... to attract guys. But ultimately a lot of guys don't really seem to care about clothes and hardly use that as a metric when comparing girls.
The secret for girls to land decent guys is talking to them in general. Clothes/makeup can all be forgiven. Even a super model body isn't entirely a deal breaker. But heaven forbid they put effort into it. Just them looking nice and that's it.
something_about_ 4y ago
Crazy eyes, men
LilLexi20 4y ago
So if a woman gets a divorce she isn’t allowed to remarry? Or ever date again? She didn’t say anything wrong here. She has a job, and she has kids that I’m sure she’s providing for. If you don’t want to date a single mom you could just swipe left on her. She seems legit
roberto_2103 4y ago
Genuine question. If a woman has kids and then splits with her husband/bf for whatever reason, what should they do after in regards to relationships? Do they just stay alone forever?
asdf333aza 4y ago
1) Find another guy with kids and do a blended family like braddy bunch thing.
However, a lot of entitled females nowadays will have kids of their own, but refuse to date a gut with kids. They want men to be step Dads for them, but refuse to be step moms.
Also understand there aren't enough single dads for all these single moms. The good single dad is a rarity amongst the community of single parents.
2) accept that she will most likely never find a forever partner. Divorce rate for regular ppl with no kids is 50/50. Divorce rate when marrying a single mother is 70%. You have a 70% failure rate when you marry a single mom. Basically, if you can't make it work with the father you are most likely just going to a revolving door for various men until your kids are grown and out of the house. But forever or death til we part, is gone once you're a single mom, unless you find a high value guy after your kids are out the house at ages 40s,50s and up.
3) Give up on dating and put all your energy into raising your kids. Become one of those moms whose only goals and personality revoles around her kids. Probably the best option for female who doesn't like the idea of casual sex for many many many years to come.
4) accept casual dating. As a single mom, you can still get sex. Having kids doesn't make a guy not want to sleep with you. It makes a guy not want to seriously date or marry you for long term stuff. Cause long term a guynwill eventually have to put his resources, time and attention into a kid that isn't his to consider anything long term with a single mom. And that is biologically disgusting to most men. It's almost like cuckholdry. Putting energy and effort to make sure someone else's seed thrives, while your own failures or is wasted. It's like putting in work for a project and someone else weeps the world but on a much bigger and serious scales. Society (feminism) has done women a huge disservice. Most women aren't aware how much having another man's kid will limit their dating option. You just think guys will always be there. And they will be there to fuck and that's about it. Maybe some light dating over 3 months or something, but most single moms find themselves struggling to get commitment and various guys in and out of their lives. Men won't tell you this cause they want to fuck you and society won't tell you cause it's politically incorrect. But lots of guys cut off any idea of long term dating or marriage the second they know she has a kid. They will fuck you, date you for a bit, keep you around for sex and then move on. That's why most single moms don't end up getting married. And even if they do, right back to that 70% chance of failure.
5) date a deadbeat. No hvm with options is going to choose a single mom unless he is a simp. And hvms who are simp enough to date a single mom are RARE. There aren't enough Russell Wilsons for all the single moms. So the alternative is date a dead beat guy who will essentially become another kid for her to take care of and finance.
roberto_2103 4y ago
Okay but put a guy in that situation, say you have a single dad, what should he do if his relationship with his wife/gf breaks down? Would you apply the same standards and say he should be alone or only date a deadbeat? Are you/have you been in a relationship before?
asdf333aza 4y ago
Males and females are not the same. They don't have the same standards. The things a female values in a male are vastly different from what a male values in a female. Same thing happens when you try to call a girl a slut for sleeping around, while a guy gets called a player. The male and female are not equals.
This situation hardly ever exist, as court systems rarely give custody to males even when the mom is a Crack head or unemployed. But say they did, than yes we can apply those same standards to the male and he would thrive and do well with it. Telling a single dad, he won't get commitment and only sex from girls? Doubt that's gonna hurt his feeling. Telling him to story trying to long term date women and to just focus on his kids? Doubt thats gonna hurt his feelings. Telling him to that marriage is not going to happen? He will probably look at you shrug. Telling men that women don't want to date him and only want him for his dick because he has a kid will probably make him happy as fuck. Might even convince him to go have another kid. See how that situation doesn't work when applied to men.
Men and women aren't equals. They value different things. And society values different things in them.
More than you, surely. But I've learned to keep them short. Smash them for a few months and then find a reason to leave them. Back to the streets from which she came.
roberto_2103 4y ago
Been in a relationship with my GF for 3 years so I am not talking without experience. Totally disagree with what you're saying but I guess thats your oppinion. Do you think theres a chance that looking at this sub all day might be influencing you to think this way? You seem to hate women, but grouping them all together under the same brush doesn't really seem different from grouping all guys together because some were rapists.
asdf333aza 4y ago
I'm not your therapist, guy. Schedule an appointment for all your questions.
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asdf333aza 4y ago
After having a kid she has MORE baggage and her looks are likely worse than at the time when she conceived.
Literally everything is against her in terms of trying to move up and date a guy who was better than her baby's father. When she decided to have a kid with a guy at that level she showed the world what she was worth and she can't ask for anymore than that. Only less as her value declines
bartbitsu 4y ago
Yup, looks like she is busy.
Just leave her alone guys.
ronoda12 4y ago
Reject them all. Almost all single mothers are trash.
yellomachine 4y ago
Almost. There is one incredible exception. Emmylou Harris.
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yellomachine 4y ago
Have you heard her sing with Gram Parsons? Spine tingling stuff! Check out Love Hurts.
riggie33 4y ago
Wow, so not much time for a boyfriend then either right?
Old_snowboarder 4y ago
She doesn't have any free time - how the hell does she expect anything 'serious'.
Harry_Teak 4y ago
She seriously needs someone to pay for the kid's dinners she has delivered most any night because cooking is hard. And perhaps some serious help with the rent.
meerita Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
She wants for her not for you. It’s all about her her her her her
Martellus732 4y ago
She needs to focus on her kids.
jzdelona 4y ago
I think it's important for kids to have a good male role model growing up. She didn't choose wisely when she bred. I would want my kids to have a father figure too if I were in her position, but a single mom needs to bring a LOT to the table to get a decent guy to stick around. She's basically advertising that she has nothing to offer except the chance for a guy to pay everything he has for the privilege of babysitting her kids and a dead bedroom.
Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago
Right? Get off the dating app and go be a mom. Pathetic.
Old_snowboarder 4y ago
She won't though. Her poor kids are doomed.
Corn_in_your_pussy 4y ago
You are a single mother - you already have something quite fucking serious.
It's just not the thing you want.
Overkillengine 4y ago
A really expensive STD that needs about 18 years of treatment, then maybe it goes away.
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Enough-Staff-2976 4y ago
You are absolutely correct, she is a thief of a man's time and money. She will not provide any support and very little sex. She'll handout sex, piece meal, whenever she feels up to it. You can expect quiet, starfish sex. She will constantly complain about her ex, kids and family while throwing comparisons here and there.
Stahlboden 4y ago
She is not a slave for the government, but it's potential slave driver.
Joaquino7997 4y ago
Who the hell is she kidding?? She's looking for a babysitting benefactor, not a boyfriend.
Hard pass on that ass.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 4y ago
Well the answer to the title's question is that it would take both foresight and true appreciation for the type of man she now seeks. This woman would not be a single mother if she had both of these traits. Foresight could save her from becoming a single mother in the first place regardless of any other factors. Appreciating a man who is responsible and good father material would mean that she would have to not ever choose the kind of man that knocked her up.
ess2019 4y ago
just take care of your kids lady you don’t need a relationship.
[deleted] 4y ago
She has them crazy eyes. Like you know she wont put out and throw a glass cup at you.
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 4y ago
I see that you've met my ex-wife.
[deleted] 4y ago
Thank goodness she's your ex, and isn't stuck to you like a shard!
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 4y ago
With her it would have been more like "stuck in you like a shiv" but I get your point.
Yes, thank God and Greyhound she's gone.
[deleted] 4y ago
Lol Greyhound. That's the bus people board when they go to the "school of hard knocks: life university".
goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 4y ago
It was popular before I was a kid but dad liked old country music.
Roy Clark
ltde5150 4y ago
Roy Clark was a national treasure.
[deleted] 4y ago
Thank you for tuning me in to Roy Clark!
HolyGourdofJerusalem 4y ago
she seriously needs a dentist
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HolyGourdofJerusalem 4y ago
i meant she needs her teeth fixed
droden 4y ago
her feet are free so...foot jobs?
Blogginginvicecity 4y ago
She couldn't wait bc it was too hard; Chad dongus was too hard, that is.
AccomplishedAndHappy 4y ago
Chad dongus did it's job.
skint_back 4y ago
She got elite DNA, now she’s looking for an elite IRA
AccomplishedAndHappy 4y ago
Irish Republican Army?
Harry_Teak 4y ago
Busy schedule? Hands full? No problem sweetheart. I'll be by around 2 AM or so. Maybe 11ish on a weekday. You can fit me right in, so to speak.
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Harry_Teak 4y ago
I'm nocturnal. 2 AM is midafternoon for me.
DurangoLSD 4y ago
If your a single mom who’s hands are full with kids and work, YOU. DONT. NEED. A. RELATIONSHIP.
No_Sign_1264 4y ago
The Pattern:
I want something serious.
Get bf or hubby. Have kid. BF or hubby doesnt make her feel special anymore.
Dump baby daddy. Financially rape the living Hell out of him.
Find new Simp. Repeat.
jmpires 4y ago
The problem is, nowadays everybody knows the plot by heart.
Otherwise it’d be a good sequel to “Edge of Tomorrow”.
MekelLane 4y ago
Hahahahahahahahah.
BigSmokey0986 4y ago
Nobody wants your bagagge as a single mother. I'm sorry but the decision we make in life have consequences and guys aren't going to want to date you knowing and being reminded of past guys you've fucked.
lorum_ipsum_dolor 4y ago
Translation: Looking for someone to take care of me and my kid(s) so I don't have to.
DoTheSnoopyDance 4y ago
By something serious she means right damn now. Immediately move into serious with you paying the bills and taking on your fair share of the chores because she doesn’t have time for games or fun.
You start dating this one and she’s gonna expect to move into your place and have you taking the kids to soccer in about 5 minutes. Oh yeah, and when the hell are you going to get that place with more bedrooms and an extra bathroom because she can’t stand to keep living like this.
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Looking for someone who has a job so she doesn't have to
DrDog09 4y ago
And pay my orthodontist bill.....
RealMcGonzo 4y ago
Gonna need another mortgage for that.
SCCock 4y ago
Little girl can eat corn on the cob through a chain link face.
SirGuileSir 4y ago
She's got that left tooth thing goin on. Named it Rip.
No_Exercise_8670 4y ago
I see so much OLD profiles of single moms here. Do they get any attention at all??
Gundamsafety 4y ago
Guys, guys be fair she is a strong women who just happens to be single. She is single yes, but it was most likely for good reason. It is not her fault. She could really be a great person you just need to give her another chance....................
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HOLY CRAP WHAT HAPPENED TO ME? Last I knew I was watching NASCAR and drinking a cold beer and something hit me in the back of the head. The world went black and I heard strange noises. A screeching sound like thousands of Karens calling for the manager at the same time. What happened I hope I didn't say or do something I would regret.
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/S LOL
Harry_Teak 4y ago
Last time that happened to me, I woke up in a strange bed in an area of town I didn't know and a kid with an accent was playing with my toes.
me_at_myhouse 4y ago
Oh she's serious all right. Seriously tired of not having any cash or someone to pick up the tab.
Serious men, the line starts over there!
RatingsOutOfTen 4y ago
"sHo0t uR sHOt :)"
TheApricotCavalier 4y ago
A lot of these girls just arent very smart & make stupid mistakes
ONEJOHNSON 4y ago
The only thing women are serious about when they are young and wild and free is sexual irresponsibility...
Melek_Taus666 4y ago
You'll be looking after her kids whilst she goes to work
SCCock 4y ago
You'll be going to work whilst she "looks after" her kids.
Traksimuss 4y ago
And mommy needs more money for her fun, so go work 70 hours in a werk for me now, slave.
lorum_ipsum_dolor 4y ago
Bingo. The first thing she's going to do after landing some poor sucker is quit her job so she can "take care of the kids".
Help you with the rent - Aint gonna happen
Do laundry and cook dinner - Aint gonna happen
Drive the kids to soccer practice - Aint gonna happen
Nag and complain - Now we're talking!
NickTesla2018 4y ago
The smile of a thousand dongs. And dirty diapers.
bottomLobster 4y ago
I understand her, she already had all the fun, now it's time for us all to man up and line up to deal with all the serious issues she has. No time to have fun at all - when you are done paying her bills you can also do the dishes.
Shiny_Snorlax_1961 4y ago
What's up Doc?