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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


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  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

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  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

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  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Single Mom Tears

Why can’t I attract the right guy?
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Seneca1992

Posted 4y ago in Single Mom Tears - Permalink - Locked - 1.3K Views



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Chief_Beef__ 4y ago

A+ at throwing caution to the wind in terms of contraception. “Just pull out if you can

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halfastgimp 4y ago

"But I used lemon juice and garlic, with a little bleach, and essential oils of all kinds, I think my chakra is cloudy..."

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Wesley_Son 4y ago

I’d clap cheecks

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4y ago

emotionally unavailable man = (in feminist speak) a man who knows his worth and isn't going to be exploited for unpaid emotional labor.

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WornBlueCarpet 4y ago

A+ in attracting all of the emotionally unavailable men.

I find that hard to believe. The reality is probably that the the men SHE is ATTRACTED TO are "emotionally unavailable" aka only looking for a FWB or ONS. The guys who were interested in more were really good friends and not remotely exciting enough.

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Overkillengine 4y ago

Tripped, slipped and landed on some uninvested Chad dick. And it's always after she's been on Tinder and swiped right.

"How/why does this keep happening?"

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jstsohpnsImfckngChad 4y ago

She's like a 5. Doesn't look fat from the pic, but she has noticeably weird looking eyes.And she's bringing baggage (kid, baby daddy issues, etc) into the fold.

She probably can still get an okay guy since she's not horrible looking, but it's not going to be the chad football jocks she was fucking in her early twenties. Hope she likes geeky looking provider men.

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Devilsgun 4y ago

A+ in attracting all of the emotionally unavailable men

Also going for a masters in pedo baiting, it would seem...

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Harry_Teak 4y ago

"Whatever it takes" seems to be the general rule of thumb these days.

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sdwdqw65 4y ago

“A+ at attracting emotionally unavailable men”

I have an A+ in running away from women who are attracted to abusive men.

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Itburns12345 4y ago

Attractive and a teacher so is probably decently educated/smart Wont have any toxic anger issues or criminal backgroumd or she wouldnt have been working with kids long

This leaves by process of elimination her being single is a result of personality red flags so bad they driving guys off by the dozen!!!!

Emotionaly unavilable guys = the married dads of kids i teach have passed me around like a towel in a sauna, at this stage im more uncomfortable with parent teacher night than any of the kids could ever be as im always expecting a mum to scream whore and bounce over a table at me.

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Master_Shitshow 4y ago

This leaves by process of elimination her being single is a result of personality red flags so bad they driving guys off by the dozen!!!!

I think there's one more factor at play

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AccomplishedAndHappy 4y ago

"A+ in attracting all of the emotionally unavailable men" - that's because, she goes out of her way to attract them. She only gets tingles from fuckboys and criminals.

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silly_birb 4y ago

Thots end up nurses or teachers.

These are the female teachers that punish good students because they will be the decent men she cannot settle with.

All while closing 1000 eyes on the bully because he is just like her ex.

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TryLambda 4y ago

this is so true its not funny, they end up sleeping with some of their students too, cos they remind them of chad. Turning the next generation more violent, as the ave student will see to get women, you have to be a violent thug.

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silly_birb 4y ago

Ben Shapiro once answered to a feminist saying

"When women don't cherish good men they induce them to have toxic behaviors"

He's religious but the basic truth is there, just look at toktok that is filled with guys saying they need to be toxic to get women. Like "when you want to answer her message but you remember you need to be toxic or she will lose interest"

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TryLambda 4y ago

thank you brother for these facts, it validates that society is turning into a pile of sh*t cos women are dictating the type of people in it, i.e. violent, toxic thugs.... and then they ask "where are all the good men" duh you turned them into toxic thugs dumbass women

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silly_birb 4y ago

Feminism managed to do what communism failed to do

destroy the family unit

Because men will die for their families, thus you cannot control them.

Men turning their back to women makes society controllable by the government and women easily submit to whoever is stronger.

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TryLambda 4y ago

Agree brother, feminism is cancer, its destroys a healthy functioning society where men and women should work together in a complimentary manner to create a solid foundation for the next generation. Instead you have women screaming from the rooftops that "all men must die", what kind of sh*t world do we live in when you see and hear that being spewed by the masses.

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silly_birb 4y ago

I remember an article using employment data to show how "kill all men" would end up badly because sewers, water, electricity and transports are 99.9% men.

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TryLambda 4y ago

100% brother, men are what keeps society running as we are the ones doing the jobs women hate to do, if you delete males from it, society will collapse.

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Harry_Teak 4y ago

Look to your right Cupcake. There's one obvious reason. Even one brat consigns you to pump & dump status until you market yourself to your new potential customer base.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Damn! She got them crazy eyes!

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thisisnotyourconcern 4y ago

A+ in attracting all of the emotionably unavailable men

Bullshit. I have little doubt she attracts unavilable men, hell, most women do. That's only because women attract practically all men.

The fact of the matter is, you're angry that you appear to have a sexual attraction to the kind of man you simply cannot obtain for committment.

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Traksimuss 4y ago

She is going through her rage phase, next comes acceptance of her place in hierarchy.

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MrNeurotypical 4y ago

No, they stay in denial into their 50's nowadays

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SeparatePicture 4y ago

Love the careful word choice. What it should say is, "I select emotionally unavailable men." Because the chance that literally ZERO "emotionally available" men are trying to talk to her is incredibly slim.

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Harry_Teak 4y ago

Plus the obvious implication that they were nonetheless physically available. If you know what I mean.

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Jihocech_Honza 4y ago

Of course. Every woman with "bad luck in dating" had at least one decent man who was seriously interested. But he was too "nice".

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Corn_in_your_pussy 4y ago

I got called "too nice" one time because I wasn't trying to fuck in an hour of meeting.

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chuck-u_farley 4y ago

But muh...all guys are pigs and are only interested in objectifying women.

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Corn_in_your_pussy 4y ago

It's because the rules are different for 38 year old Tyrones.

If a beta simp doesn't want to fuck, that's expected. If I don't want to fuck, they get upset.

Remember, every time a woman complains about men, she's complaining about the top 10%. The bottom 90% don't exist to her.

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DeeplyDisturbed1 4y ago

"Emotionally unavailable" = Immune to my emotional manipulations.

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meerita Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Next beer on my account.

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DoTheSnoopyDance 4y ago

A+ in being attracted to all of the emotionally unavailable men. - Fixed it for her.

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[deleted] 4y ago

how do women not get that it's a bad idea to broadcast how much they've been used by the men they've chosen?

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KangarooCrapper 4y ago

Carry the victim banner and appeal to men's protective instincts / nature.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Correction: A+ for *picking* all the emotionally unavailable men. FFS. She is not completely passive in all this

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smitty537 4y ago

Putting the kid aside, dating a teacher is a pain. You can only go on vacations certain times of the year, their pay sucks, you're always hearing about other people's kids and sad as it's to say, if one of their students passes away, it takes them months to get over it and you have to go to the wake for support.

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Convergent_Series 4y ago

Good forbid you’d ever have to support your partner when someone in their life passes away…such a hard and difficult life dating a teacher is

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42252252 4y ago

I think the worst though, is the hero complex they have. Even administrative pencil pushers act like they're building society from the ground up. Everything their students do in life is all because of them.

"oh that kid who cured cancer was in my 2nd grade class, he probably did that because I inspired him!"

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sdwdqw65 4y ago

Damn that actually sounds like something I legitimately wouldn’t want to hear about.

Good to know.

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Frequentbadideas 4y ago

Ex wife was a teacher, you hit nothing but bullseye. Although the pay only sucks if you consider it at a full years wage . Looking at it as pay for 190 days it's a whole lot better.

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Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

Bingo, this is rarely pointed out, teaching is seasonal work. When their pay is calculated per day worked, it’s favorable for sure.

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MintTimeWalk 4y ago

My wife teaches high school in Canada and makes a few thousand into six figures.

The pay only sucks in the states.

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MrNeurotypical 4y ago

Agreed. I can make more in China than in the US.

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steveguster 4y ago

Pay is regional and very much based on supply and demand.

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ssredditor_ 4y ago

In Canada, there is no supply issue, but the teachers unions have plenty of demands... And pliant governments give them anything they want.

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legion8784 4y ago

Former male teacher here, meeting single mom's with kids is equally bad. Some mom's reek with desperation and often try to flirt to "help" get their child's grades up. Luckily for me I got out of that career and venture into other work

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Overkillengine 4y ago

Looking back I suddenly understand why so many male teachers even a few decades ago had the personality of a porcupine.

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vtec__ 4y ago

did you ever pipe any down?

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Traksimuss 4y ago

And burn his whole life down?

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vtec__ 4y ago

nothing illegal about piping down single moms

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Traksimuss 4y ago

Metoo and 'trust all women' will kill your career as a minimum.

When man gets simply accused, most friends and often even relatives will drop you in instant. You will be hated by all without any proof. Also often your job will fire you quickly to avoid bad PR.

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ChadTheImpailer 4y ago

What is she teaching? Married Chad's how to blow a nut?

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Funderwoodsxbox 4y ago

She’s definitely an uber-lefty. I can just tell. Not to be tangled with.

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CSM_Pepper 4y ago

Teacher, single mom, uses phrases like "emotionally unavailable".

Throw in some toxic-problematic-nuance-cognizant-oof-yikes-"I can't even" and you'd have a three-alarm fire under that smoke.

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cleverbutnotoverlyso 4y ago

Solid 7 (w/o kid). Kid is a dealbreaker.

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thotts_n_prayers 4y ago

"I only fuck the hottest guys I can find but can't get any of them to commit to me"

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Gaiinahat 4y ago

Because all you're good for is a one-night lesson. Racking up the A+'s going to graduate summa cum loudly.

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Big_Duke_Six 4y ago

Summa Cum Loudly... I'm fucking DYING!

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Joaquino7997 4y ago

I suppose if she likes them big she'd graduate magnum cum loudly

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1500minus12 4y ago

Please tell me you didn’t steal that is hilarious

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CarlSpackler87 4y ago

"If I let him dump his baby batter in me he will surely Love Me fOrEvEr!"

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sdwdqw65 4y ago

Summa cum loudly hahaha bruh

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niks2592 4y ago

Lol... Noice...

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Enough-Staff-2976 4y ago

She's a slump buster in the middle of the night.

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evil-doraemon 4y ago

At least this one presumably has a car, clean criminal record, insurance, and summers off. But on top of raising Chad’s kid, she’ll ask you to grade papers...

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Glittering-Meat3088 4y ago

You're not that attractive and you have a kid. It ain't fucking quantum physics baby doll.

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Groundbreaking_Tax52 4y ago

She thinks she’s an 8 I bet

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NameGiver0 4y ago

She’s a 6 at best but a kid is -11.

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TheSpiderDungeon 4y ago

Bruh she's a solid 6 on a bad day

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herpy_McDerpster 4y ago

But kids are automatically a -4 to -8 depending on age, quantity and gender(s).

Who would EVER want to be step dad to angry, angst filled teenage boys, for instance?

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skint_back 4y ago

Nah, she’s got on lots of makeup and still somewhat carries the cuteness of youth.

You can tell by looking at her facial structure that The Wall will hit this one hard. Look at the part in her hair- it’s already starting to thin. She will be hideous in 10 years.

She’s a solid 5 as is, but not a “solid 6 on a bad day”

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Long_Range_Shooter 4y ago

I have a friend 53, when she throws on the warpaint she can easily pass for less than 35 years of age. She went on POF put up a profile, with a picture, no filters, her real age and at least 25% of the 300 plus messages she got within two days, were from guys under 35 years of age.

Yes they can drop several years off their looks with makeup.

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TheSpiderDungeon 4y ago

Mm. You have a point; Perhaps I'm still too young to really understand.

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skint_back 4y ago

It’s all good, brother. I went to high school in the 90’s, so I’ve had the opportunity to witness many women age (aka hit The Wall). I’m a pretty good judge of how well a woman will age (most of them do not age well), and I can 100% assure you that this one is going to get ravaged by The Wall.

Woman are almost universally cute when they are young, and this one is no exception- it’s the only thing she has going for her. She’s in the 25-29 age group if I had to guess, and her time is dwindling... fast.

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[deleted] 4y ago

1 kids isn't that bad but she's not very good looking. Dating a girl with zero to 1 kid isn't that bad but when dudes date girls that have 2 or more now that something I have never understood

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annahunstone 4y ago

I think we can all agree rating people with numbers is a terrible rating scale. Especially since there’s 7.6 billion people on the earth and not everyone has the same desires

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[deleted] 4y ago

Most women know men like sex but not every man can be controlled by it. I guy dating a single mom now that's different with everyone.

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annahunstone 4y ago

Moral of the story is don’t let losers cum in you or pay 25 dollars for fucking the pill or other long term contraceptive. which for some reason none of these people got taught about in school ???? no empathy for people who “accidentally” had a kid and are now struggling. good job on opening your legs to any loser who asks and having questionable judgement on your own fertility

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richscott440 4y ago

The kid I agree with but for me she's about an 8.5/9. I like slight imperfections actually

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Glittering-Meat3088 4y ago

She's a 3, and that's being generous. With the kid, she doesn't even register.

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richscott440 4y ago

Lol well I guess we have different standards

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NetherIndy 4y ago

I'm not quite buying in, but I'm also not going to disagree either. Because it reflects a bigger point. Men's tastes are more variant. Probably some deep bio-evo reasons for it. But, while a 10 is a 10, I'd suggest that somewhere between 40% and 50% of women were some guy's 8 or 9, at least at her peak of attractiveness. (One point in the other direction... a lot more women of any age will find a top-tier guy in his 50s attractive than the other way around). And guys will have pretty strong crushes on women he doesn't even really think are 8s. Mousy librarian types, tattooed biker chicks, androgynous bob-haired bi gals, makeup tutorial youtube vapids, even a lot of fat gals, you'll find guys into it...

Meanwhile, I don't think a whole lot more than 10% of guys ever meet any woman's "8+" criteria. They'll settle for them. They'll get married and have kids. But, it's transactional.

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InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

There are stats that prove this as well

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warlocc_ 4y ago

It's that old study that was released by OkCupid. Men rated women on a nice bell curve- in such a fashion that almost no women were rated very low. The way you'd expect averages to work out.

Meanwhile, women think 80% of men are 2's.

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poloppoyop 4y ago

9 on a 1 to 20 scale?

Or are you one of those people who uses the 1 to 10 scale like this:

  • 0-6 = bad
  • 7 = average
  • 8-9 = good
  • 10 = very good
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richscott440 4y ago

Nah man, I genuinely find her pretty attractive. Like she is honestly my type. I'm not sure why everyone is bagging on her. And like, people are upset because my taste doesn't match their own. She's cute. I'm sorry

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Bluecherrysoft 4y ago

lol 9, take that shit out of your eyes.

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richscott440 4y ago

What really? Am I just not seeing her right? She looks pretty attractive. Guess I'm the crazy one

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ltde5150 4y ago

She's not unattractive, but A) without a full body shot you can't make a good assessment, and B) face alone she's merely cute, not remotely "hot."

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richscott440 4y ago

Well yeah. I tend to like cute girls more anyway, but you're right, full body would be helpful

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Funderwoodsxbox 4y ago

A NINE???? Ain’t no fuckin way bro. A nine is like Sofia Vergara or some shit. She’s a 5

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richscott440 4y ago

Okay, had to look her up and I know you're gonna be mad, but Sofia is more of a 6/7 for me. Not even trolling right now. This mom has the kind of features that I'm typically attracted to, whereas the other lady just looks too old or mature

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givemethatrandom 4y ago

Young Sofia Vergara

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TheSpiderDungeon 4y ago

Yeah that's a 4 on a good day

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HolyGourdofJerusalem 4y ago

lol... if she is a 4 in that pic, I would love an example (in your mind) of an 8

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givemethatrandom 4y ago

Yeah that's a 4 on a good day

Damn

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TheSpiderDungeon 4y ago

Haha! Fair enough!

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AmbitiousHornet 4y ago

She ain’t fishing with the right bait.

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misciblelove2021 4y ago

Come and talk to me lets see how we add up after we subtract all the lossers daring!

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  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

  • 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

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