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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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kevin32

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killr4dayzXD 4y ago

Reddit is where God goes every night after having to answer women’s desperate prayers for Prince Charming all day

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butt_uglee 4y ago

Men are not vending machines you put physical intimacy tokens into and get long term relationships….

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Traksimuss 4y ago

Women get furious when you remind them this.

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fuzzy_brb 4y ago

Women: why won't he commit? Where are the men who are willing and aren't scared of commitment.

Men: you aren't entitled to commitment.

Women: perplexed face.

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upsidedownbackwards 4y ago

They weren't willing to commit from 15 to 35, men don't want to commit from 30 up. I don't see where they think it's unfair. Below 30 they have something we want (unless they are a single mother), above 30 we have something they want (unless they're a single mother, then they start younger than 30).

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PaulMurrayCbr 4y ago

"Ok, Ladies, one rule: whoever files for divorce loses the kids and has to pay CS."

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ONEJOHNSON 4y ago

Women: How dare you!

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DrDog09 4y ago

Men: you have not earned commitment.

Those women that have, get it. That is the bit that whymen don't understand.

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[deleted] 4y ago

Its simple, if you want a commitment do not offer sex until you have a commitment. If only there was an institution for that...

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SpearWeasel 4y ago

Problem is that that institution has been corrupted and coopted. With marriage and property laws being what they are, NO WAY i'm getting married, even to a "good girl".

Not all women WILL be bad, but ALL women CAN be bad, and at the time and place of their choice...

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polishknightusa 4y ago

And this is the problem with modern dating: Women love the attention and the freebies from dinner dating but this is quid-pro-quo prostitution. In the old days, before pre-marital sex and the pill, a woman would get a bad "reputation" without even sleeping with guys. If she was going out on lots of dinner dates and not getting serious with someone ("going steady"), the men would be the ones sharing information that she was a flirt and waste of money. Also, back then, women sought to get married young.

On men's side, what would be the point of being a "gentleman" and going out on hundreds of dates where they didn't get laid for a decade before getting married? I remember a gal who set me up saying "If you paid for the date you could have had such a great time" and I chuckled that for men, dating itself is a chore. It's like trying to chat up a cop hoping to get out of a ticket. You're on your best behavior.

So "traditional dating" back then meant that women and men both were on the hook to not waste each others' time or money.

During the transition phase, the 70's and 80's, men were suckers by being a gentleman. They would get used as an ATM party clown but oftentimes, after a woman played the field and enjoyed all the attention, she'd get a beta bucks but have a pretty low body count. IMO, back then, I still thought the system stank.

Now whether this was a blessing, guys started pushing back: After a certain number of dates, with 3 being the "lucky" number, if she didn't put out you'd assume she was going to friendzone you because many did and women also seemed to rather like men being "Forceful" and regarding the "nice guys" as shit-tested wimps.

Keep in mind that this was all driven by women's addiction to the paid "dinner date" in a modern time when men are not guaranteed that she won't sleep around with someone else.

I'm going to advice my daughter (she's only 5 now) that no free dinner is worth becoming a whore over. A decent man won't mind waiting for commitment if he's not being treated like an ATM machine and she doesn't play the field too much. If after a few dates it doesn't work out, he doesn't feel used. In other words, radical concept: Treat people with respect and don't put them in a position to be taken advantage of or owing them anything. You know, you can't cheat an honest man.

Something like that happened with me recently on a timeshare presentation: The pushy salesman was trying to push his narrative that I'd save money if I bought a timeshare for $20,000. I said that I didn't see much gain for the risk of losing at most about $300 a year. So he responded: "You're just going to be ok then with losing $300 a year rather than buying in the long term now?"

And I answered "yes". I didn't argue with him about it. I accepted his judgement that my rejection of his proposal was a bad decision (as he claimed, I think it's BS) but he had nowhere left to go. The presentation was over by his own fiat.

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mustangfrank 4y ago

But, but what about Chad and Mongo the Bad Ass Biker?

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_Mecc_ 4y ago

That institution won't help most of them either, there is a reason you pay far less for open box items not to mention used....

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Overkillengine 4y ago

And some of them get this dumb idea that they can just hold out forever and forget that people usually don't want to buy something past the expiration date either unless its got bargain pricing active.

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_Mecc_ 4y ago

nah i always look out for those original nes consoles where buttons are missing in the controllers, all the ports are way to big and cant hold the cables anymore... for full msrp ( with adjusted inflation ) those are the best deals /s

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ronoda12 4y ago

Any woman who thinks that is trash

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NuclearTheology 4y ago

Reminds me of that old joke:

A millionaire approaches an attractive young woman in a bar and asks if she would be willing to spend the weekend with him at the country’s most expensive and luxurious hotel, waited on hand and foot and receiving a million pounds to sleep with him. The girl considers that it’s worth it for a million pounds, and agrees. The millionaire then suggests that they immediately sneak into the men’s toilet for quick sex for £5. She is shocked and insulted, and says “That’s disgusting! What kind of girl do you think I am?” He replies “We’ve already decided that. Now we’re just haggling over the price.”

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

I was going to tell that joke. Fucker beat me to it!

That's one of my favorites, and you've been contributing many quality comments. Have some Junior Hamster Analyst flair, customized slightly.

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NuclearTheology 4y ago

Many thanks my good man!

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MAureliusTRP 4y ago

I think Churchhill said a version of this

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NuclearTheology 4y ago

Churchill had a lot of good burns in his time, but In my research I think this one isn’t really attributable to him.

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[deleted] 4y ago

Love the username!

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manfrom-nantucket 4y ago

A wise man indeed. It is no mistake that it's referred to as the Sexual Marketplace. Because you literally are purchasing sex.

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FiftyWaysOfRape 4y ago

A wise man once also said, “the cheapest ones tend to be the ones you pay for”

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PaulMurrayCbr 4y ago

All relationships between adults are transactional. The only relationship that isn't is that between parent and child, and even then in some cultures the point of having a child is to secure your old age.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

[Sounds like you had been talking to this man.] (http://pm1.narvii.com/7772/5c96cc13e440d318bfcd521a2a49f6ad130f1172r1-1080-1080v2_uhq.jpg)

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DankCommander7 4y ago

Yes and most of them set the price way too high.

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[deleted] 4y ago

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[deleted] 4y ago

All men fall into one of those categories. Just like a man will say "not my type, but if she's tossing out spare pussy I'll keep her around", women are more than happy to keep men for their resources and validation.

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chuck-u_farley 4y ago

The irony of this is these same women will bemoan that "all guys are assholes." I once queried a girl who brought up "niceness token" as follows: "Wait, let me get this straight--the men whom you sleep with are not nice and you won't sleep with the men who are nice?" Her: Thats EXACTLY the problem. I followed up: "Well, why would the men you sleep with be nice to you if you fuck them for being assholes; conversely, why should guys you don't sleep with continue to be nice to you"? I was called all sorts of names and then she said...."you make it seem like I should have to do something in order for men to be nice to me." I said, "Well, yeah, you act like you are entitled to attention and niceness simply for existing, whereas men are either ignored or treated with disdain unless they are useful to people." She looks at me dumbfounded: "So, are you saying all the guys who are nice to me want to sleep with me"?

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ATHdelphinos 4y ago

"you make it seem like I should have to do something in order for men to be nice to me."

well, yeah. Of course you do

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chuck-u_farley 4y ago

ewwwww. Thats like so creepy and gaw-rooooosssss

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Overkillengine 4y ago

Plus trying to shove it in the coin slot is a good way to give them a UTI.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago

They have another slot but only Chad's coins are accepted.

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Overkillengine 4y ago

When you're Chad, every slot is a coin slot.

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SwordfishActual3588 4y ago

im sorry to ask this but what is a uti if you dont mind explaining

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SeedsOfDoubt 4y ago

It's a shot of cranberry juice.

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styckx 4y ago

Urinary tract infection

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SwordfishActual3588 4y ago

oh ok thxs

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Disciple_Of_Cheesus 4y ago

Every interaction with a woman is transactional in some way. Time, money, attention—they'll always make you pay something.

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Francafrique 4y ago

Like every human interaction. I am hanging out with my friends not because of the fact that they are my friends rather because they fullfil my needs of social validation and lingual intercourse.

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YouPeopleAreGarbage 4y ago

"lingual intercourse" this guy talks

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SnuSnuClownWorld 4y ago

You might say he's a, Cunning Linguist?

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[deleted] 4y ago

Are "tequila shots" == "niceness tokens"?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Nah, those actually work. Niceness tokens backfire.

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[deleted] 4y ago

No. Plying women with alcohol and abusive behavior actually works.

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gentle_lemon 4y ago

Can't drink tequila anymore. It makes me naked.

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otterlyclueless 4y ago

I used to know a girl like that. Tequila made her clothes fall of.

The number of guys that approached me about her at the bar she frequented to tell me that was astounding.

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Z_Ronnin 4y ago

"A woman that can be bought is not worth to have"

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BluepillProfessor 4y ago

So no woman? You go to far, sir. We have already established that all the women have a price........

So if all women can be bought then your logic says no woman is worth to have.

Oh.

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Geofffffreak 4y ago

r slash madlads

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago

Please don't directly link to other subreddits.

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Geofffffreak 4y ago

My bad

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ONEJOHNSON 4y ago

Money and/or status are the commodities men can vendor for sex from women..

Not niceties.

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thewatisit 4y ago

Lootboxes more like.

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a-corsican-pimp 4y ago

HAHAHAHA

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WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Sidebar

We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

  • 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

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