So I actually messaged with her for several months last year. She had posted about a breakup and I reached out to encourage her. Over and over and over this was her story. I didn't have the heart to tell her that regardless of her looks, men don't date ==> marry based on a resume. I just essentially ghosted her. I've since seen her increase the number of posts like this. She's actually a pretty nice person, but I honestly think she is mentally ill. I hope she figures it out.

Women after 30 are a pain in the a$$, they just want full committment from day 1 and behave like queens (entitled) or alike.

Femenism ruined their lives.

They believe they can do whatever and still settle in their 30's. The thing is, man, as long he aint a simp, beta or whatever you wanna say it, are not gonna do it.

And look, maybe their beauty is still there, but the mental issues man, those are the worst. If they mid 30's and single, thats a red flag, a big one. You dont need to be a hardcore red piller to see behind their "im a superwoman you can commit to" facade.

Be strong my friends, I dont like the revenge fantasy some of this posts are, but at the same time I really dont feel sad about this women hitting the wall or something. Its just reality. You have to play with whatever cards youve been dealt with.

Peace out.

I would rather walk my dog than fuck you

Oh, how the turntables ...

You say you are attractive, but I am not attracted

Just what kind of men is she going for? It is important to know the answer to that question because if she is going for the same men the majority of women are chasing, those are the very men who are going to have options. Even if she is as attractive as she says, she is still competing for the same high status men that most women want if she has set her standards to narrowly. And not only that, competing with younger women who have the advantage of youth on their side.

"Narrowly" better describes the issue with many women, because they could have far more abundant options without actually compromising on having a quality man if they were to accept men who were perhaps shorter or earning a decent living but not one that would conform to their hypergamic standards of him needing to make more even if he could still provide for her and a family with his income alone. To call such standards "high" would be insulting to men who are good quality men but are eliminated from her set of standards that do not reflect his full ability to be a good boyfriend/husband/father, but rather reflect on her unreasonableness. Narrow therefore is a better term, as "high" standards still eliminate men that should theoretically meet a "high standards" threshold if not for some unreasonable or unnecessary requirement.

While this likely describes this woman, we cannot know that for sure. What we do know is that this woman struggles to get dates with the men she is selecting, as any date can only happen with both parties accepting. I would argue that if she broadened her standards, she could have access to different men who would still be willing to date. She does not realize that yes, at 34, she has less power in the dating market to attract as many men as she could before and the same type of men she wants now that she could have a decade ago. This is just another example of the woman who has been waiting too long in the dating market and is finding out that there is an expiration date on when she can date effortlessly and still get the men that she most desires interested in her. So, she will need to broaden her standards if she wants any chance to find a relationship. Otherwise, the spinster life is in her future.

Here's my thought as to what's happening: Over-Swiping wears down clueless females.

She THINKS she is attractive because she gets so many "matches". A normal looking guy might get 14 matches and perhaps 3 gals to talk to him. She'll get a 100. So she gets validated. She's attractive!

Then... all the guys SHE reaches out to treat her like the 3rd string backup she is. The dog walker really was busy... banging hotter gals that responded to him. She logically believes that because SHE doesn't swipe right on guys that aren't top shelf material for her, they do the same. So she's puzzled.

Back in the 80's on an early internet forum, a gal said that men were lucky because they could "pick any girl they wanted!" while she had to wait for the "one" she wanted to "ask her out." She really believed that her "one" could just ask out any woman he wanted and this was what "men" experienced so she had no realistic standards to hold men or herself to. In her world, men just asked out the hottest they wanted and women should ONLY be asked out by the hottest guy she wanted.

At least with the dating apps, they're slowly figuring this out... just in time to hit The Wall.

I ignore the traits that people attribute to themselves.

He was walking with his dog? Yes he is busy spending time with his doggo.

Zero ability to do any kind of self assessment and maybe realize its your caustic personality.

Well, women are men after 30

many women said me that the older they are, the more difficult they are in their choices of men ... YES they want higher men the older they are ... female logic ...

"I wait for men to set up plans and when nothing happens I unmatch them. No other options exist."

You know every man is a rapist or just wants sex and men are not being perverts and bothering her so......

What is she complaining about?

I’ve just read the post more clearly. The audacity of this bitch. She saw him twice out ! The outrage!

Once was walking his dog (hint he does this every day and kind of has to. This is a good trait anyway)

The other at an event that for all she knows he had already committed to going to

She is a proper psycho

"I am on all the apps and make an effort to an effort to interact with them everyday"

I'm sure you're interacting with the apps; likely along with every type of social media out there. "Great convos" by whose standards? yours? I'm sure they listened to you vapidly drone on and made a small effort to keep the conversation going - that gave you some of the validation you crave. You're no longer a cute young thing they'll put in EXTRA effort for - expect to have to start pulling some of your weight. You have spent your youth perfecting your flakiness and indifference to most men; expect some of that back from men now.

Why are they on a dating site if they don't want to date? Are some of these hook-up apps? If so, you should have your answer.

Ain't mama nature a b*tch...

The Wall is undefeated.

Hahaha my dude had to walk his dog rather than chase a post wall woman…

I am an attractive 34 year old in a big city

Obviously not that attractive. Sorry lady, but nobody owes you attention.

She's not as 'attractive' as she thinks but she'll never admit that so clearly the fault can only be elsewhere. The idea that it might be her - well, the very idea is clearly ludicrous.

Alpha Widow right there. She fails to realize there are ALWAYS younger, more attractive Women for the guys she thinks she deserves.

Is she saying she goes to different countries for ice cream?

Must be “The Wall” blocking the view .

I find it hard to get attracted to women once they are 25+.

Most of them don't even register on the attraction scale - so they get 0 (I use binary).

THE WALL IS UNDEFEATED!

Sounds like she stalked the guy who walked his dog.

Wall, dumb dumb. The Wall blocks you out at 30, that's why!

So accustomed to getting whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted. Oh, to be a woman.

34

The men she wants have a plethora of options as good or better than her.

Any age -- Hit if she's Fit. Any age -- Flee if she's Fat.

The problem for most over the age of 30 starts as soon as they open their mouth.

The guys probably watched some porn and realized they really don't want the problems that women bring lmao

Probably has a good profile that turns out not to be representative of her after 5 minutes of talking, but the men are too polite to be like "Wow, you're awful! You should work on that." And why are men like that today, that is, less blunt? Because women decided it was mean and rude to be masculine like that and call a spade, a spade. So congrats, ladies.

Does this mean that the hot dog buffet has closed up for the evening?

Lmao!

Maybe she should not eat so much ice cream?

Women are NOT entitled to men's attention either. Don't be hypocrites, ladies.

Lol if she was truly attractive she would have men hitting her up left and right. im willing to bet this burd is a 6 at best

Maybe she can't tell the chads apart so she's mistaking the dog walking chad for the chad she matched with. <_<

Is 34 leftovers yet? I thought it was danger zone

All these old broads are going to eventually have children, and as a society, we will be in for hell dealing with all the depression, autism, downs syndrome, and all the other chromosomal abnormalities these kids will have. Not to mention All the single mother-raised simps and psychopaths that can't adjust to the real world we will be saddled with. The future looks bleak.

I can't see the second half of it.