TLDR: Single Mothers ≠ Widows

We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.

Rules of conduct:

• 1. No shaming men for any reason.

• 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

• 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

• 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

• 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

• 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

• 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

• 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

• 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

• 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

• Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

• Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

• OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

• Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

• r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

• Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

• Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

• Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

• Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

• Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

• WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

• Michael's Story

• u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

• "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

• Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

• Feminism has succeeded

• Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

• Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

• "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

• To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

• To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

• The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

• The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

• Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

• The Life Story of Carol

• Memes

• Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

• The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

• Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

• Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

• Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

• Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

• Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

• New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

• https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

• WhereAllTheGoodMenAre