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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Leftovers

F40+ Gets Musty Taco Smashed Into By 20+ Dudes In 2 Years & Complains They Ghost. Probably After Finding Out Everyone’s Had A Turn On The Portapotty.
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Vaxel00 5y ago

The sexual liberation movement worked wonders, thank you women, for devaluing yourselves.

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b_a_d_r0b0t 5y ago

The fact that she misspelled "and" tells me she has never read a book, like not even in grade 1.

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BillyBronze09 5y ago

40+ years old and you can't tell that a guy is using you for sex? You're either stupid or desperate, no third option.

And why dont these women understand that admitting guys only use them for sex, tells the world that they aren't worth committing to.

I really wish women would stop using me for my money. They always cheat on me and never wanna have sex with me. Dont you wanna go out on a date with me and be my GF?

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SilkyPatricia 5y ago

I see one common denominator here.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

It's men, isn't it? Failing to recognize Her Royal Highness, the Kweeeeeeennn.

/s for anyone too dense to tell.

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SoakMyBigCork 5y ago

That was pointed out to her but she was too dense to get it:

If 20 guys in 2 years has not led to anything, some instrospection is needed from your side.

You are the common denominator, it seems.

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I said 3 years thanks!! Maybe I am the common denominator but they were all liars and had bad intentions.

There's that big ol' BUT deflecting all of the blame to the guys SHE chose. Hey sweetheart, let me fix that final reply for you:

I said 3 years thanks!! Maybe I am the common denominator but they were all liars and had bad intentions and I suck at choosing men.

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SomeSqueakyCleanButt 5y ago

Females are such fucking hypocrites. They're boring as shit, whine about everything under the sun oppressing them and offer nothing but a cock holster then demand to be treated like they're some kind of actual good woman worth keeping around. Meanwhile they treat men like ATMs and disposable labor despite being responsible for 100% of everything they've come to rely upon and demand in life. Ridiculous children all of them.

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markus_brutus 5y ago

If I was to write a good rant, this would be it. Can’t take them more seriously than I would take a 5 year old.

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[deleted] 5y ago

I'm kind an of easy

FTFY

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nicethingyoucanthave 5y ago

Sounds like she needs a "female dating strategy"

Seriously though, I wonder what they'd say to her. From what I've seen on their subreddit, they definitely would not suggest that she change anything about herself. All they ever seem to suggest is that you be more selective. So maybe (probably not, but maybe) she'd reject 19 of those guys ...then still be ghosted by number 20. Bottom line: she's going to be alone until she drastically lowers her standards and/or raises her value - but I don't see the ladies at FDS suggesting either of those things.

It's funny because all of the male-centric subs do suggest raising your value. That's like the core message - so much so that people make fun of it. They say "lol TRP says 'lift all the things'" - yeah, exercise, get in shape, change yourself so that women will find you attractive.

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jihocech 5y ago

Their advice will be: let him wait for sex for months, let him show you he is serious, let him invest into you...

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nicethingyoucanthave 5y ago

And when he doesn't wait, but instead of ghosts you, that proves he wasn't a high value male. Q.E.D.

...which is like saying, "put your 1992 Camry on craigslist for $50k. If someone isn't willing to pay $50k that proves they don't have $50k." It seemingly never occurs to them that they need to offer something of value, and they need to offer it at a reasonable price.

My advice for the woman in op is two things: first, the way you stop being used for sex is through negotiation. FDS almost has the right idea here - if you want a relationship then you shouldn't hop into bed with a man right away. Where they miss the ball is that their alternative is just more and more demands. They say "take me on an expensive date and then we'll see what happens" - well, why would a man trust you if that's the deal you propose? Chances are, if he pays for that expensive date, you're going to ghost him, then he's going to feel used just like you feel used when chad pump-n-dumps you.

...and btw FDS lurkers, if your response to what I just said about a man feeling "used" is for you to laugh and say "lol who cares" well that's exactly the attitude that makes you undatable.

The first part of my advice is to women is, build commitment on the part of both parties, and don't have sex until you're prepared to be monogamous. The first date should be casually hanging out - go listen to some live music or go to a cookout at a friend's house. If you think you might like a guy and he offers to take you on some extravagant date, tell him to save that for date two and counter-offer something simple. If you're serious about wanting a relationship and you're not just a gold digger, then the most important quality is just getting along with him, and you'll figure that on a casual date, not a formal dinner.

If you're compatible - if the conversation is easy and you feel comfortable, and there's sexual attraction, then a second date can be a bigger deal. But for the second date, you should both agree to stop dating other people while you explore the possibility that the two of you are a match. And you, the woman, have to agree to that too. Otherwise, this is a bullshit deal for a man. If you're holding on to your FWB situation (you know you have one) and you're still on tinder getting that sweet sweet ego validation, then you're not relationship material yet, and you might as well suck his dick and cut him loose.

But if you were open to that level of commitment, and so was he, and you demonstrate it to each other, then by the third date you should be ready to see if you're sexually compatible (and not everybody is). So for this date, go over to his house (because sure, I get it, you want to date a man with a descent living situation - nothing wrong with that) and he'll cook dinner for you, and then you can bang. Maybe give it a few tries because not everybody hits it out of the park the first time they're at bat.

The second part of my advice to women is: you are going to have to be reasonable about the men you pursue. If you've been on the cock carousel since you were 18 - if you've been getting picked up in clubs by top 10% men - then your ego is likely visible from outer space and you need a reality check. So here it is: those hot guys that were willing to fuck you were never going to date you. Making additional demands (per FDS) isn't going to change that. Every single second of every single day you get older, and the quality of man who will actually date you decreases. The more stubborn you are, the longer you wait, he worse your situation gets.

Worse, you too have to get past that first "let's get to know each other" date. Oh yes. That's right. He has to be willing to put up with you too. If you're insufferable, then he's not going to suffer you to pass. If you act like these ladies (and the vibe I get from FDS, particularly comments like this is that you do act that way) you're gonna have a bad time.

All that being said, my advice for men is: make yourself as attractive as you possibly can. Get fit, get some style, project confidence. Play these women. Give them those happy feelings they chase. Bang the shit out of them. And when they want more, give it to them on your terms. Most women are neither smart enough to follow the advice in the preceding paragraphs, nor do they have the discipline for it. As a man, you'll be happier spinning them than committing to them, and they'll treat you better too.

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askmrcia 5y ago

Well said. Your advice should be stickied on FDS sub. That's a pipe dream though

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PlanetSquare 5y ago

What could she even do to raise her value?

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steelcityblue 5y ago

A great blow job given often goes a long way.

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nicethingyoucanthave 5y ago

You know how we often talk about women having a dual mating strategy? Genes + resources (or sometimes, AF/BB). So if you have good genes, then stay fit and play up that aspect of yourself and you'll attract women following their AF strategy.

But what if you don't have good genes, or maybe you're just old as fuck; you might ask:

What could she even do to raise her value?

Well, you'd be asking, "what can I as a man do to raise my value, given that my genetics aren't that great" - but it's clearly the same question, right? The answer would be, "play up the resources angle." So as a guy, if you've done all you can to be fit and physically attractive, you can increase your value by chasing women's other strategy. You might do that by updating your clothing style, or going to different venues where different types of women hang out.

So woman can this woman do to raise her value? Well, it turns out, men have a dual mating strategy too. I don't have catchy names for them, but it's basically (a) put your penis in all the things and (b) concentrate on just one woman. As an aside, I'm getting some of this from the work of psychologist, Helen Fisher.

Anyway, just as a man might present himself as an alpha bad boy in an attempt to trigger the "AF" strategy in a woman, a woman can be "sexy" in the way she presents herself in an attempt to trigger male strategy (a). And if you look around, that seems to be the only strategy that women have in their toolbox. Most women appear to be competing with each other to out-sexy everybody.

There's another side to female sexuality which is designed, by natural selection, to trigger strategy (b) in men. It's just not in fashion right now, and there's a hilariously misguided social movement called feminism which actively discourages it (how's that working out for women, by the way?). Okay, I've danced around the answer to the question for a while. What can she do to raise her value? She could try being more feminine.

You may have noticed that we don't see women posted in this subreddit who describe themselves as feminine, or who you'd look at and assume they're especially feminine. We see lots of sexy (and again, how's that working out? Not well, apparently) but no femininity. The way the dating market is right now, any woman who plays up this aspect of herself through her behaviors and appearance, will find herself with far less competition, and will find herself triggering strategy (b) in men.

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DDD50_ 5y ago

Been following you since a few months ago when I got red pilled by a "Good Girl" -- you stay dropping knowledge. Thank you sir.

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nicethingyoucanthave 5y ago

Thanks man, I really appreciate it. Good luck to you.

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lorum_ipsum_dolor 5y ago

Translation: "so much love to give" = So much attention, validation and resources to absorb

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Rottinghere 5y ago

Exactly.

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BenchoteMankoManko 5y ago

why the fuck do they NEED "someone to enjoy life with", can you not enjoy shit on your own?

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Uhtred_McUhtredson 5y ago

Huge red flag. She can’t just live her life doing her own thing. She requires constant external validation. What is she gonna do when her looks begin fading even faster and even your words of reassurance no longer work? Crazy town.

Also, these types are prone to cheating as soon as some other guy starts paying them more attention than you after you’ve been with her for years, supporting her ass and sick of her shit.

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AskLwsTmh 5y ago

You know the answer to this lmao

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KingChronos 5y ago

Absolutely retarded question only a literal autist would ask holy shit.

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Cadiz215 5y ago

Exactly what I was going to write.

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zdul 5y ago

The only time she enjoys her life is when she is sucking the life and resources out of yours

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digitalEarthling 5y ago

Women are the world's biggest parasites. Some are just wrapped in a pretty bow.

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MrHistoryLesson 5y ago

Spot on mate

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JohnWicksSpentBrass 5y ago

She gonna suck out your sole, man!!!!

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Donnage 5y ago

I have athlete's foot so I hope she'd think twice before doing that to my sole.

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JohnWicksSpentBrass 5y ago

Hahahahahaha! Happy cake day. That made me laugh out loud!

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PlainTundra 5y ago

"He could use me for sex" = "I wanted to obtain something in exchange of sex (a relationship in this case) but I didn't succeed"

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LotBuilder 5y ago

She sounds like your average thirsty recently divorced chick. What she doesn’t realize is those same guys have a constant flow of thirsty recently divorced chicks who “just wanna have funnnn” so why would they want to settle down with her now that she got the funnnn out of her system and is looking for a new ATM. That 2/3 year mark is dangerous because that is when most women have blown through their divorce settlement.

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DeeplyDisturbed1 5y ago

Ewe should awl be ashamed of yourselfs. This pour woman beared her sole and you couldn't racist making fan of her.

My sole has been crushed before and I hat to get a hole new pear of shoos. It costs a lot and no won seams two understand. If you halve ever bin in a dark plays, you wood no how dark it is in their. It snow fan at all, let me tail you.

She keeps giving away her booty to men and they never want to comet to hurr. She has so much in sighed, and no on wands it.

You are all massage-inists.

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Rottinghere 5y ago

Well done, Good Sir! Go ahead and take my upvote!

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

I actually understood that shit. I either had an aneurysm or I have been spending too much time reading tinder profiles.

Fuck, I need a quiet place and a book for about 6 months.

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DeeplyDisturbed1 5y ago

Ha!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

It hertz two reed that. Two mini miss steaks.

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DeeplyDisturbed1 5y ago

What the hell did you just say?

lol

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Aye fur git. Kin ewe naught Dee sigh fur?

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Funkydirigidoo 5y ago

is her clam as stinky as her spelling?

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Corotrangl 5y ago

Oh crap, that sounds the same as a coworker who once told me her story. She's a 47 year old woman, she used to be married but cheated her husband multiple times with more than ten guys. Of course, she got mad when he took a look at her phone, blaming him for "invading her privacy" instead of assuming the consequences.

But anyways, she still has a big amount of orbiters for her age, and to be fair, her face doesn't look that bad, consider that I live in a country where most people look like utter shit when they reach 35 years and almost every guy is extreme bluepilled. She normally wears revealing clothes and regularly makes sexual comments, so pretty much the whole bunch of 40-50 year old men from the storage orbit around her.

Oh, and once I accidentally took a quick look at her phone on Valentine's, she was sending a typical message full of heart emojis to a huge amount of guys. Funny enough, she complains that there are no honest and loyal men anymore and only use her for sex.

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almostgraduatingsoon 5y ago

LOLOLOLOLOL

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anakinvsyounglings 5y ago

Obviously wouldnt be interested. But i do feel bad for her as well. Like she probably needs therapy and an english class

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drewc99 5y ago

As colorful and hilarious the idea is of an old bag getting wrecked by 20 guys in 2 years, I don't think that's what happened.

It sounds like she gave it up to 2 of those guys, and let the other 18 guys buy her dinner, or go dutch or whatever, and sighed because she wasn't feeling the chemistry with them because they weren't hawwwwwtttt like the guys who used to ask her out.

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RRFdev 5y ago

Most are just wanting sex an not a relationship.

Classic blaming men!

I think I'm a pretty good looking woman I'm kind an easy to get along with.

So she thinks. She's a pump and dump hole as demonstrated by 20+ previous men, because men don't see her as attractive. They see her at worst, a desperate last choice to end a dry spell, or at best, a 'safe choice' for a guy before a hotter woman appears.

I have so much love to give an no one wants it.

You actually don't have any to give. That's why nobody is interested.

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ifuc---pipeline 5y ago

At some point there was a really great guy that cared for her and he just wasent good enough and there wernt enough tingles.bank on it.

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Miggymoggy 5y ago

Why wont these deluded women get it into their thick skulls that most men will happily have sex with them as she is clearly easy like the village bike but no sane man would commit to such a trashy woman.

Enjoy lala land.

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yuvrajsama 5y ago

kinda sad for them .but hey she did also participated in s*x . so might loved that also that is why she want to continue

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HAROLD-SHIPMAN-FAN 5y ago

The ‘leftovers’ tag cracks me up every time. It’s so simple and brutal and exactly right.

Fucking F bro should have settled down 20 years ago

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bigdaveyl 5y ago

If everyone smells like shit.... maybe check the bottom of your shoes....

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SilliestOfGeese 5y ago

Could that be the "sole crushing" she was referring to?

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Freelance_Sector 5y ago

44 yo woman and still cannot spell or use English correctly. I'd ghost her too. I probably wouldn't even waste a couple hours having sex with her. Another post wall female crying WHAATGM?!? They're out picking up your 22yo daughter in a bar. Hopefully she has better grammar than you.

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VetteVet83 5y ago

Guessing she divorced at 41, because her husband was no longer “good enough”. She expected to go right back to being to highly desirable like she was when she was young, childless and cellulite/wrinkle/stretch mark free.

Not going to happen honey. As men age, most of us get wiser, our resources grow, and our sex drives becomes far more manageable....which makes commitment and sharing our resources far less attractive to us unless we absolutely adore a woman.

Good luck. You should’ve stayed married.

Note: this could be my ex wife. She’s 44 and we split about 3 years ago.

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jihocech 5y ago

Yep. The older we are, the more we appreciate peace, silence and solitude.

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MattyK414 5y ago

"But...I have several successful men at the office who want to date meeee!"

This is the aftermath.

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VetteVet83 5y ago

They want to fuck her, and probably not more than once.

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MattyK414 5y ago

That's the rub.

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kyledontcare 5y ago

Please, do give up. There are no good 40-year old plus women. And learn how to spell too,. . . Dang. . . .smh.

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madamebovary01 5y ago

She should really give up, it’s not like she will find someone to even look at her when there are so many young girls ( but mature for their age ) out there. men 40’s are practically kids, they will want someone to go with their mentality.

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ramaga 5y ago

There are no good 40-year old plus women.

Totally agree. I'm in my late 40s and I've taken good care of myself physically and financially my entire life. Women my age usually look like my grandma, act like spoiled teenagers, have debt the size of the federal government, and carry more baggage than Southwest Airlines. And then they have the nerve to wonder why men like me date women significantly younger.

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kyledontcare 5y ago

So true, man, so stinking true.

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Nobodyinc1 5y ago

No I actually know a few. They are just super rare and usually have one thing in common.

They are either widows or lost the person they were gonna marry young and never dated after.

Now if they are single at 40 by anything other then loss of their partner run the fuck away.

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markus_brutus 5y ago

Just like Dave Chappelle said... there’s no such thing as good 35 year old pussy.

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Uhtred_McUhtredson 5y ago

from my experience, around their 30’s women just get too bitter and dejected to be worth most men’s time. By 40 it’s even worse.

They either rejected or been rejected so often that they expect it, creating self fulfilling prophecies and then they wonder how they got where they are. Belief is incredibly powerful and by a certain age, they have some fucked up beliefs.

Better to marry someone young and naive who still believes in fairytales than a middle aged dating veteran.

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corytrevor710 5y ago

Nooo please keep trying and failing you strong independent 44 year old kweeeeen. Keep believing it was all the mens fault they don’t want to commit to your sagging face and tits. No need to changed just keep being the insufferable pitty lay to all the chadlets pretending to be doctors and lawyers so they can easily slide in you’re used up hypergamous hallway.

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mustangfrank 5y ago

http://thenewfem.com/im-43-and-alone-can-i-find-a-good-man/

from this site.

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polakfury 5y ago

If she is over 40 and still looking .

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kyledontcare 5y ago

And royally.

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Dean_Clean 5y ago

Sole crushing. LOL

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McUserton 5y ago

She can't even spell the word "and"

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I-am-the-lul 5y ago

Many of her shoes have been ruined by men not committing somehow.

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thugsapuggin 5y ago

The seams of her sole

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kyledontcare 5y ago

Nothing seams to work out for her. . . The way it should be. . . .Go become an alcoholic, ugly woman, and disappear for the sake of us all.

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I_CAPE_RUNTS 5y ago

About 15 cats should do it. They’ll provide all the company that spinster will need

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steelcityblue 5y ago

Why does everyone think the cats deserve this bitch? Fucking spare tabby, not his fault.

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I_CAPE_RUNTS 5y ago

I agree but she will still use the cats as a replacement for a real relationship

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riskyClick420 5y ago

I bet her sole is crushing

Freudian slip there

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Honest_Solution 5y ago

Just a singular crushing, not multiple. Guess that’s a good thing.lol

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Dean_Clean 5y ago

Actually, I'm a big guy, so I crush the soles of my shoes every day just walking around.

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otakuzod 5y ago

You heartless sole crusher!

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febreezing_hobos 5y ago

I think the presumption here is that she has had too much Haagen Dazs and boxed wine and she actually spelled sole correctly hoping people would miss it.

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Dean_Clean 5y ago

Indeed

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

Disagree, older women tend to be more skilled at blowjobs, anecdotal experiences of course, more desperate too so they'll do anything. Just got to know how to work around certain issues

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Riderschoice117 5y ago

Stop spreading that garbage, just because you can't get young pussy.

Young pussy always looks better and is better.

Get in shape and up your game or you're going to be stuck banging those used up trash bags forever.

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Ass_Guzzle 5y ago

I find skill and effort are two totally unrelated things and it always comes down to the latter.

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RRFdev 5y ago

Being good at sex doesn't take a whole damn lot. It's like saying you need 20 years of experience to be a pro at cooking rice.

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plainnsimpleforever 5y ago

They may be more skilled but their aversion to bjs increases as age increases.

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markus_brutus 5y ago

If you’re looking for “experience” that is. Although I appreciate a good bj, it’s a non factor if I’m choosing a girlfriend. You can always teach her.

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

Indeed, older single women (non widows and company) tend to be incredibly unfit for non sexual relationships.

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SevehnSyth 5y ago

I agree.... the individual girl masters the art of the blowjob after about the 10th time she sucks dick. In my experience age has nothing to do if they ever master the craft.... some females give great head and others do not; either have the gift or they don’t, but age is not the determining factor.

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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

It's pleasure. If she wants a throbbing meat stick in her mouth or not is pretty impossible to teach. It either lights her quim or she only does it until the vows.

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feanors_gem 5y ago

I’d rather break in a pair of boots myself, than wear a pair some other guy has broken in. I don’t view that as saving me the hassle. It’s like renting bowling shoes.

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KingRobotPrince 5y ago

I have never understood any of the arguments in favour of needing a girl with experience or of a virgin/low experience being bad, especially in a long term girlfriend.

I find most "sex-positive" arguments about N-count not mattering come with a very triggered and aggressive tone that suggests to me some sort of underline issues the person has (such as having a girl with a high N-count and needing it to be seen as a positive or OK thing).

"They don't know what they're doing", anyone can learn a thing and if they turn out to be selfish or have freakishly low libido then that probably would have been a problem in other areas of the relationship, and this can also be masked at the beginning.

"Virgin girls are clingy", obviously a personal preference, but would you want to be with someone who was closer to her first boyfriend and this has subsequently been worn away by multiple guys being with her? That sounds like the opposite of what I would want.

I can think of very few reasons that a less experienced girl would be worse. I think it's just coping/cognitive dissonance.

(I would just add the caveat that any cultural issue that means no sex before marriage might be an issue. In case they are deformed in some way or lying/hiding something and you don't find out until after you get married, especially where the man has some sort of obligation or has to pay something based on virginity.)

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feanors_gem 5y ago

I agree good Sir! It’s sour grapes. As if a virgin is even an option for most guys. It’s obvious that the more a woman sleeps around, the more damaged she becomes. But even here where we know better, the same lies are told.

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Indumentum97 5y ago

Yes, they're experienced for sure, but they usually come with huge baggage. If she doesn't look exceptionally good for her age, you can forget it. Not dealing with this post-wall mess.

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

Older women are easier, shallow but since they stopped receiving compliments as soon as someone gives them one, even if its bullshit, they get transported back to their 20s, the same 20s when they were on the cc. kinda pathetic honestly.

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SouthWilshire 5y ago

You reminded me of a joke.

How are women like dog shit?

!The older they both get, the easier they are to pick up!<

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mustangfrank 5y ago

they get transported back to their 20s, the same 20s when they were on the cc.

Do you think if she chose a good man instead of Chads and Bad Boys, she might not be in the position she is?

She: He is not tall enogh, he is not a 10, I don't like his car, etc.

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

I dunno. I want to say yes but i have a feeling she'd probably just get bored and cheat and be back to her current state. Maybe if she had better parents or thought less with her vagina she might be better off. Would take god level foresight to really be sure.

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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

Even the death penalty barely curbed hypergamous cheating. Nothing even slows it down today except the wall.

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SupremeGentleman92 5y ago

Maybe if she didn’t drink the feminist Kool-aid and got married shortly after graduation instead of waiting for “Prince Charming” or “trying to find herself” then this trap could be avoided by many women.

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

If a woman ever asks if you have a 6 inch dick, just reply yes. Most women are notoriously bad at estimating metrics so she wouldn't be able to tell if your lieing anyway. It also shows that she is incredibly bad in bed believing in the mantra of bigger=better. She probably has never had good oral or probably even good vaginal sex, so if you can bring that to the table, you'll have a backup plan if you dont want to use your hand. Dont marry or date her though,keep it purely sexual. These type of women tend to be shallow and egotistical believing others to be the root cause of their issues although i imagine you probably already know that.

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Uhtred_McUhtredson 5y ago

Most women are notoriously bad at estimating metrics so she wouldn't be able to tell if your lieing anyway.

This is true! According to a few exes I’m 4 inches taller and 2 inches longer than reality.

I don’t want to ruin their memories of me being 6’2” with an 8” dick.

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

Have some more. If your big and want to look small wear loose clothing. If you're small and want to look big wear tight clothing. Deadlifts are basically the only exercise you need to keep your knees and back healthy. Shave your legs and ass. Trust me its a quality of life improvement.

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SLEEPY_Cigar 5y ago

I understand manscaping your ass/crotch, but shaving your legs? Any particular reason?

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

Me personally? Im a hairy bastard, and my leg hair is all over my bathroom floor. Shaving my legs helps with that. Other than that its easier to clean, faster to dry after a shower, and it can make your legs look leaner and more vascular.

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Broncoli 5y ago

If your big and want to look small wear loose clothing

I've found the opposite to be true. As a larger dude, wearing larger clothing only tends to accentuate size, unless they're particularly well-tailored.

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LOLED_AKAASI 5y ago

A large fat guy wearing a tent can't really look small. A large lean muscular guy looks less lean in baggy clothing. Of course there are exceptions.

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Westernhagen 5y ago

“Constant rejection”? But you’ve had sex with 20 guys! Twenty men wanted all the love you had to give... temporarily, anyway.

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tosernameschescksout 5y ago

Good point.

What man gets to date about 20 people in that same period of time? You can pull it off if you don't have a quality filter, but even if you're hot shit and doing everything perfect, you can find like maybe 3-4 good people in a year to go on a date with and then experience that sweet sweet rejection.

Women complain about their numbers as if they're working hard, sincerely trying, and something must be wrong with everybody else. The world falls right into their laps and they can't accept any of it.

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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

Even while the men were drowning and freezing in the North sea, the woman in the roomy lifeboats complained bitterly how hard they had it.

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KingRobotPrince 5y ago

Twenty partners in two years is like Hugh Hefner or something to most young guys (almost one a month, could you imagine?). But she didn't get a husband out of it so poor her...

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2muchtequila 5y ago

One of my previous roommates was a very cool gay guy. He'd occasionally invite me to gay bars with him and I'd go because he was fun to hang out with and I'm comfortable enough in my sexuality not to worry about people I'm not into hitting on me.

Maybe it's just because he would introduce me to people as his straight friend 2muchtequilia and his other friends took that as a challenge, but I'd never been hit on more in my life. Granted it was by people I had absolutely no interest in hooking up with, but if that's what it's like for women I can see why their definition of rejection is so out of wack.

Every time we'd go out I'd end up leaving feeling the like most attractive guy around because I would have had more guys hit on me in two hours than all the women in the past two years. It was a massive ego boost. So I can kind of understand how women get to be so jaded when it comes to dudes lusting after them.

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KingRobotPrince 5y ago

It was a massive ego boost. So I can kind of understand how women get to be so jaded when it comes to dudes lusting after them.

I'm sure it's a gift and a curse, but if you asked either gender which one they would prefer, I think I know the answer.

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altair43 5y ago

Yes yes you should!! Have mercy... LOL

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No-thing-ness 5y ago

Should have figured this out 20 years ago maybe

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BanjoWalrus 5y ago

All her poor shoes got crushed? Seriously, who uses sole instead of soul?

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Schlag96 5y ago

I hope she can heel from this soon

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DrPsychGainz 5y ago

Her malapropism suede me to her side of the story

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

You just fell right on instep, didn't you?

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Funkydirigidoo 5y ago

It seams her education wasn't so good.

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xMB99 5y ago

None of it matters when you got the eyes of an angle.

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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

The truth is awalt.

The answer is dngaf.

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Sic_Semper_Trannys 5y ago

sole crushing

Illiterate trash.

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tosernameschescksout 5y ago

I read this and felt sorry for her since she actually wants a relationship, then I noticed one thing...

She's 44 and has been dating for three years? So you were just fucking around straight through your twenties and thirties? Well, fuck. It's too late, lady.

Here's one thing I see that she needs to understand. If a man wants sex, then he wants a relationship too. Those things go hand in hand. Women are always trying to separate them and that leads to so much fucked up shit.

I like this guy, he's my friend guy. That's a problem because I don't want to fuck him because I have fuck boys for that. I want to have my cake and eat it too. Guys for a woman's every need.

I have a fuck boy and I'm starting to like him as a relationship guy, but I can never combine the two.

My husband is a great provider, but I fuck other guys because I don't fuck the men that provide for me. You see, he's my relationship guy, not the sex guy.

See, women are always accusing men of ONLY wanting sex, but that's totally not true. It's the women that want a relationship without the sex, or want the sex without a relationship, and women... god bless them, they NEVER want BOTH at the same time.

In fact, they find it confusing if they ever do begin to want both from the same man. That's when they ask friends or an advice columnist for help because it's totally scary, weird, foreign, and unnatural for them. They're like, whoa, I've never been in this territory before, I don't know how to handle it.

Fucking hell. Guys, you need to know this. Women rarely want a guy to be both a source of sex and a source of relationship. This is why there's so many men pulling their hair out because they've been friend zoned while she fucks chad after chad. He tries to make a move, and she only sees him as a friend.

You can't be their friend AND be their boyfriend. Those two are separate teams of the same ballgame, and only people on one of those teams ever gets to make it past first base.

Then women finally grow up a little bit, and they're pissed off at men because all the men want to be fuck boys instead of chasing commitment. Well, you stupid bitch... Through dozens of relationships and decades of treating men like shit... you've shown us that you don't value love. You don't want commitment, not really. You want another fuck boy. Always one more.

You delay marriage and seriousness until you think that you can't get 'one more' because it's too late now. You have to maximize those dick profits. You wait until it's too fucking late. Is sex and validation so good it's actually worth ruining your life over? After you hit the wall and realize that the dick party is over, you expect men to magically and instantly change? You tell a few hundred men that you only want to fuck, you don't want a relationship... and then you do.

No, it doesn't work like that. You shit all over all of those men through all of your life for so long. You totally deserve to die alone. You don't deserve love, affection, understanding, kindness, or care. You deserve the same shit that you dished out.

It's fucking crazy that women get away with that and then they still get saved. They'll find their beta provider in their fifties if that's what it takes. MGTOW. Opt out of that shit now. You think she's really going to love a man after that? She's never loved a man in her life.

She says she's suddenly ready for love, but fuck that. No. Don't trust any woman over 30 with that shit. They've been screwing around way too much if they're still single at that age and have never had anything serious.

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CuckedIndianAmerican 5y ago

Every man must read this. Your comments were very well put together.

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tosernameschescksout 5y ago

See, women are always accusing men of ONLY wanting sex, but that's totally not true. It's the women that want a relationship without the sex, or want the sex without a relationship, and women... god bless them, they NEVER want BOTH at the same time.

THIS, explains sexless marriage and why women stop making an effort after crossing that finish line.

In addition to being unable to combine sex and love, they also have this idea... this story arch of an idea that they'll fuck a lot when they're young, with lots of men. Then they'll settle down (when they're ready to stop fucking).

That story almost never has the idea that they'll go out, find love, and settle down... and keep fucking because they're in love.

Women fuck men they don't love, and love men they don't fuck. They'll get super intimate with their friend-zone guys, but they won't fuck or make out.

They fuck the men that they don't love. They're more comfortable with that. It fits their narrative.

They love the men they don't fuck. They'll date you for YEARS and call you "friend". They'll take your money, your gifts, your affectionate overtures. But sex ain't on the table. No matter how good you are, she will never just finally fall in love with you. You're her type for a friend, but you're not her type for a fuck buddy.

I have to say that the 'nice guys' thing is totally real. They are getting used. They are providing for her companionship needs while she gets everything else from other men. And she'll keep all those plates spinning for a good long time.

So who would want to be a husband? The fucking is over at that point. She's done. "I'm ready for a husband now." - Oh hell no. You're just not able to attract studs anymore, so you're going to find a barn horse to play house with, and you aren't going to love him or even have sex with him. He gets nothing out of that deal. No deal.

Be very careful about getting married to a woman. Think about all the failed relationships you've seen. You've seen great guys get kicked out of their own family because what? She wasn't feeling it. She needed to sleep around or have that freedom. She NEVER really loved him. Not one day. He got used.

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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

The romance novels always ends with the wedding. The story is over. No more sex! surprise motherfucker

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jihocech 5y ago

You're just not able to attract studs anymore

No. She can attract studs, but only for cheap sex, with ZERO chance of relationship.

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NohoTwoPointOh 5y ago

. If a man wants sex, then he wants a relationship too.

The hell you say!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Yeah, that kind of jumped out at me too.

I fucked quite a few women with whom I didn't want a relationship.

Hell, I lost my virginity to a single mom who seduced me at a party. She was fun for a night, but no way in hell was I going to be serious about her.

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NohoTwoPointOh 5y ago

If I'm reading that right, the poster is a woman. If so, this might be a classic case of projection.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Rule 1.

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I_CAPE_RUNTS 5y ago

Based mod.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

No one reads the rules tough guy

People who want to stick around do.

Here's the door.

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Cristoff13 5y ago

"used me for sex" what an asinine statement. She enjoyed the sex. She enjoyed it in large part because the guys weren't boring stable guys. "used me for sex" is something she's saying to save face. She doesn't really mean it.

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frikabg 5y ago

What a pathetic old stupid unpleasant creature... These women have lived in lala land for so long they lose touch with reality. If you are pleasant and easy going and you can't keep a men that is not men's fault. I love it how it is all men that are fucke up and wrong and totally not her... what sane person would say that ??!? It is literally half of the world that is fucked up not I?! Ok honey sure you are such a sexy good looking pleasant superstar and no man wants you because men want to use you just for sex. Because men don't want to find good looking pleasant easy going partners naaah they want to find someone to fuck all day every day.

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Stupid cunt #3,341,023,819 good luck with your mental illness and cats lady

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8last 5y ago

What number would tell her she is the problem? 1/20 is a really high failure rate.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

how has this sub not been quarantined as a hate sub ? you fucking incels.

I see that you are dumb enough to not understand hypocrisy and irony.

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slowsuby 5y ago

What does the term "so much love to give" mean? I've never understood it. Sounds like desperation.

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[deleted] 5y ago

LOL, I saw that too. Let's face it, Reddit can a great source of entertainment!

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drewc99 5y ago

It's actually incredibly easy for a woman in her 40s to find the kind of guy you describe. She just needs to be willing to humble herself, realize that she's not playing in the major leagues anymore, and start dating men in her league, I.e men in their 60s and 70s.

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WeWillAllDie666 5y ago

So just a reality check for this dear lady.

that's 20 people who find you sexually attractive, but due to your personality/character they don't want to long term pairbond or commit to you.

Time to start asking yourself some questions.

(This is the beauty of feminist media, because any actual genuinely true or valid feedback is labelled as misogyny, guys wont bother, so you will never take informed corrective action, and you will stay lonely and broken)

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Rule 4. Don't ask for that.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Dude, it doesn't matter which one you ask for.

Going from here and commenting there is considered brigading by the reddit admins, and can get this sub shut down.

Therefore, we cannot allow people to ask for the origin.

If we catch you there, we'll ban you here.

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bos_gee_ 5y ago

Nevermind i found it

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

Calm down dude

I AM CALM! GOD DAMMIT! FUCK!

Kidding around aside, don't ask for that info in here, and don't comment there.

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The_Whorror_Show 5y ago

Please do give up. These ladies would be better off on the grave than divorced. Wish they should just do it properly like the men do and delete themselves so the genetic pool and society isn't infested with solipsistic parasites.

Like imagine being 40, and single. Literally no proof that you can love a man and be committed. You'd is the equivalent of a man being broke at 40 trying to marry a rich 18 year old woman and convincing her he is the the one who provides. Disgusting.

These women have no consideration for a man's preferences, yet don't see is3 as human, they see us as donkeys to ride into the desert until we drop dead and find another ride. These women are the ones who pump and dump it were being honest here, they know they have no chance at a relationship with a ton of these guys and they still go out there and throw pussy at the guys who are obviously just using them for sex.

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ThrowawayGhostGuy1 5y ago

It is “sole crushing” because she’s the sole one feeling crushed. Enjoy dying alone, Queen.

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ILikeToArgueALot 5y ago

So much love to give means being an attention seeker 24/7

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Drp345 5y ago

Ahhh, it never ceases to amaze me. She "...dated almost 20 guys...". Now, I could be wrong, but most likely (IMO) she either used 18 of the 20 dudes for foodie calls, OR, she had a ONS with her other candidates and nothing came of it. Well, apart from 2 of course.

Then there's the other part, her age and almost non-existent fertility. Painfully unaware of her own circumstances. Let us hope that the next generation of females realise the mistakes their single mothers made.

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Overkillengine 5y ago

I mean, whatever she is doing is not working, so yes she should give that up and do something different.

Though at this point it's probably too late. The damage of her choices has already been done. Can't unfuck the football team tier body count she accrued in a horrifyingly short period of time.

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X___III___X 5y ago

F40+ cumdumpster offering love that no one wants - ROFL! There's no escaping the wall.

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Stupyyy 5y ago

Swapped 20 dicks in 2 years?

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TakeaChillPillWill 5y ago

20 men in 3 years. Holy fuck

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evergreen35 5y ago

"I have so much love to give..." No you don't bitch. You want to GET Love.

Women are incapable of GIVING Love.

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Sintar07 5y ago

"The constant sex is sole crushing"

Trying to figure out which position crushes soles like O.o

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[deleted] 5y ago

I wonder how long until a whole crop of women realizes that blindly following the rootless cosmopolitan brainwashing program leaves you washed up and lonely past your 20s.

It would be nice. I've got a 4 year old son and I don't want him to have to wade through this degeneracy to find a decent woman.

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