How do you deal with mother issues? Spent my entire life in depression without knowing what was wrong with me, now that i realized it was childhood neglect, how do I deal with it?

How do I stop defaulting to looking for an "innocent mommy" type woman?

I realize this is probably a common question, but as someone who was bullied throughout high school, how do I act confident or 'alpha' once I get to college? Are there any exercises to build confidence or things I can do to build my own self esteem? I'm asking for little things that can be done everyday, like I read on another thread that someone recommended "saying whatever you think" as a way to help build confidence.

Any late bloomers/people who lost their virginity late here?

I'm 20 year old university student in the Detroit area. Due the fact that I went to an all boys Catholic School, have Asperger (legit autism), bipolar dad, suffer from social anxiety, speech problems, and a racial minority that has a bad connotation (I'm not a race troll), I have no girls and even friends in general.

I do lift and get the occasional girl checking me out.

I am curious if and how anyone got out of this type void, and any tips?

Edit: I'm half way into 48 laws of power.

Dating has been rocky for me. I never see the girl after the first date. It's getting frustrating. I would take them out, drinks or coffee. Sometimes I'll get the make out and other times I don't. If I go out with a woman, there is a 80% chance that she'll either ghost me or text me that she's not interested. Any ideas? Tips? Not kiss on the first date? I had many dates where it went well, she's enjoying herself and I don't hear from her again. Thanks.

Young college lurker here for a few months. Turned my life around for the better (broke up from a feminist, working hard, learning, lifting, saving, etc.). I have a question for the older and wiser ones here. To get married or not to get married? Some here say never get married, while some say marry under certain conditions. If, in the future, through family, I do find a super dutiful wife who is raised up by a traditional family, is marriage then worth it? Basically, I want to know what I'm losing and gaining in each case.

After returning from work abroad with no results in getting laid, tinder/bumble/online dating is the only real option to get laid for me now.

After following thought catalogues tinder guide, I have set up a decent looking profile, and being fairly muscular and 7/10, have been getting some results. A few questions however.

Naturally, I swipe right on everything as not to waste time, but the last few days my swipe to match ratio has been terrible. Is that to be expected, or am I doing something wrong?

Also, I believe my openers regarding something on their profile/bio are fairly witty. However, I haven't seen more/less success with an original opener and simply saying hey:)(despite some bio's expressly stating not to open saying just hey, but, bitches don't know what they want, so ignored) Which works best for you?

At which point, after messaging a girl that has not replied, do I send another? Granted they have the attention span of a goldfish on acid, but if they matched with me, shouldn't they be replying? I don't send more than two as that comes off as needy(abundance mentality)

Finally, after how much comfort/ sexual tension building do I shoot for a number, and, consecutively after that, setting up a date? To be honest, I only want the fucc, so how do I screen effectively for chicks that are DTF? Is there such thing as too much negging?

Sorry for the long list, I haven't been able to find much on tinder game, but have been trying my best to employ all the knowledge I have learned from TRP sidebar. Thanks.

In my 20s dating was fun and I had a lot of good times doing it. Lately, (I'm 31 btw) I have had some pretty big strikeouts and I'm not sure I want to keep going on and meeting girls. It can get lonely - I'm not sure what to do next. I ended a pretty big relationship 2 years ago and my life hasn't been the same. I'm over my ex, have had a few fwb's since then but nothing fulfilling. I just feel empty. I basically go to work, go to the gym, come home, sleep and repeat. I golf on the weekends with the guys (my friends are all married btw - so they don't get it). Anyone out there dealing with this? Any recommended solutions?

Any roided out superhumans have any observations on how differently women treat them or how their dating life changed after hopping on the juice?

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Any field reports from running game on girls at gay bars?

Should I send my ex gf a happy birthday text?

I have a lot of questions about our breakup. Feel like I need closure but I'm sure I wont get it.

Where does everyone meet women aside bars and clubs?

Can someone explain the females need for sexual variety. They seem to have massive notch counts despite science claiming they're less promiscuous,and seem to find monogamous relationships harder. Their actions prove otherwise to what is stated here. If they rele desire commitment,they won't engage in sex when they specifically target NSA sex on holiday knowing there isn't commitment.

I have a hard time believing the CC is a byproduct of pumping and dumping and I even had a mate who enjoyed banging 5men at a time rotating them out when she got bored. I feel women are polygamous in a hypergamic manner

What's a good response to the shit test "You amuse me"?

I just walked away, but I feel like there's ground there to pressure flip

How to develop discipline starting from zero? Whole life I've been coasting off of my moderate intelligence and lenient parents so when it comes to making myself do something... I just don't do it. I know what has to be done/ what i want to do, yet I never get around to doing it. I get that I'm just a lazy, unmotivated, and undisciplined young adult, but what would you all recommend to someone that has a REALLY hard time not giving in to every urge and male hamstering scenario?

One thing that has been on my mind lately:

How to make a smooth transition from Beta to Alpha without setting off so many 'red' flags to people in your social circle that you get categorized as "that loser that found TRP"? Ironic or not, its a concerning thought, given what we all know about how women hate TRP with a passion.

Some of the changes are fairly ambiguous, like losing a significant amount of weight in a few months, but others are a little harder to explain away. When a year ago I was the bluest beta bob working from the "couldnt work even if a miracle happened" playbook for getting women, the sudden ability to understand a lot of whats going on in a womans head has to look suspicious.

When do you flip the script between going for heavier kino, a kiss, etc and acting aloof/indifferent/non committal in your conversation

It seems to be possible to be aloof and flirtatious at the same time but I need a little more guidance.

I can hold a conversation well.

How does one go about getting a date?

What's up with the redpillwomen sub? How can such a sub exist when AWALT exists?