This bitch wants the entire world. It doesn't matter that she already has custody over the children, the house, and a boat for crying out load, she is stalking the man and actively trying to sabotage the man's life with his new GF.

Women view men in two lights: service or entertainment.

This woman's ex is pure entertainment to her. It's pure malice, but it's entertainment. That is why she has such a laser-like focus on him, even divorced he still provides her with feels and she doesn't want to give that up.

Edit: I just read the rest:

This woman is so vindictive she doesn't even want her son and her son's father playing minecraft. For godsakes the man isn't taking the kid skydiving or doing anything dangerous; he simply wants to play a videogame with him. But that would mean that the kid and the father are having fun, which is a big no-no for women.

I have money that she's running some serious PAS on the son. Taking to his father on a daily basis would mitigate the narrative she's tryng so desperately to create.

Now this is a RP response

Had a client whose soon-to-be-ex-husband used her email address and phone number to sign her up for every bank, loan, religious, mental illness, and pornographic site he could think of. She was bombarded by people contacting her about her interest in their product/services. He even put out ads for sex partners on Craigslist with her information. The kicker is that she actually went out with a guy who contacted her! If I learned anything being a divorce attorney (I no longer practice), it was that if the opposing party sounded like a nutcase, I would soon see the nutcase come out of my own client. Normal people don't just accidentally marry crazies (not often)!

No one with options would even touch these hoes. Men you need to be in the top 10%

Represented the husband. Tried to get court to eliminate his spousal support obligations. Wife insisted she needed the support. It took way longer than it should have because she was regularly taking vacations to Mexico. Regularly=at least once a month. EDIT: It took longer than it should have because we had to reschedule a few times, but the Court eventually ended the spousal support. Contrary to what the silly people at TRP would have you believe, family law is not designed forward a radical feminist agenda.

OMG the patriarchy is so oppressive. In the name of equality she can take frequent trips to mexico with her ex husbands money and draw out the proceedings.

WOW that thread you linked with the guy getting financially raped by his ex wife WOW.

Seriously guys, I live somewhere in Europe where the legal courts are pretty similar, in that they are heavily in favour of women, although america seems to be the worst, But isn't there a way to circumvent this bullshit? I find one can pretty much get away with anything if you are clever. I mean killing his wife sounds fair from the story but aside from that, there has to come a point where a man stands up and just says FUCK YOU, whether its to his wife, the courts, whoever, I would NEVER stand for this shit. Collect all your resources and move abroad if you have to, that guys life sounds miserable.

Oh FFS, I'm trying here to overcome my approach anxiety!

women change in a relationship.

Nah. They just don't bother to hide their true nature anymore once they think they have enough hooks in.

That angelic virgin priestess saint you were head over heels for in your college days? 1 decade from now she's going to become that level of crazy. Very few women are quality material that have the willpower to not fuck you over in the courts.

This is the most important part. Even if unicorns exist, and even if you did find one, you have no idea who she'll be a decade from now. You're betting your life on her continuing to be a good person even when she has no incentive to do so.

It doesn't matter that she already has custody over the children, the house, and a boat for crying out load, she is stalking the man and actively trying to sabotage the man's life with his new GF. Sure, this is an example of "don't stick your dick in crazy," but what BP men and some of you newbies don't realize is that women change in a relationship. That angelic virgin priestess saint you were head over heels for in your college days? 1 decade from now she's going to become that level of crazy. Very few women are quality material that have the willpower to not fuck you over in the courts.

They get SPECIAL TINGLES when they hurt you. It's not just shit testing. Once they hit the wall and know they've lost "it," they want the entire world to PAY.

The only way for there to be a fair 50/50 split is if you fucking kill yourself. This is how bad the divorce courts have gotten for men. Women have an INCREDIBLE advantage.

Think of the courts as a giant WHITE KNIGHT who profits everytime your psycho ex acts spiteful.

If you are thinking about killing yourself, why not kill someone else instead?

Honestly, the collapse of society is coming. And in that lots of innocent people would die. I much rather read about people deserving to die being killed in retaliation for trying to destroy other people than seeing innocent people suffer now and what I know I will have to see in the future.

But the trouble is, men really are nice guys. If only feminists were right! I wish they were right. If feminists were right about men then feminism wouldn't exist because men would just destroy it and anything else stupid that resembled it.

Did some reading in the thread. How come OP did not post about how a court agreed that a woman was a whore with the ex husband? Hilarious read.

Yep. Fully agree.

I broke with my ex 18 months ago roughly. She cost me every friend I had, she made it so I don't speak to my Mother anymore.

I broke it off and put the flat up for sale; she told some bullshit to my friends and every one of them took her side immediately. The first I found out was friends texting me that I was an asshole and that sort of thing. Some of these guys I'd known for 20 years or so.

My Mother did not agree with our breakup and pretty much told me I'd ruined my life. My ex had made out that it was a complete surprise and she had done everything as right as possible and it was out of nowhere. I even resorted to telling my Mother that she was abusive, dead bedroom etc. She went nuts.

I pretty much had to move area to get away from her. We used to live in a small town, everyone knows everyone. Shit, even some lady I'd never even met before at the dry cleaner knew about us splitting up. It did my fucking head in.

Moved, cut contact with one and all, no regrets.

I have always said that misery is a natural state for women. If a woman is not sufficiently in a state of dread and a small bit of misery where she is at least a little bit insecure about her future, she will not know what to do with herself. A woman is incapable of happiness, for when a woman has everything she should want or need, then the first thing she will do is make her husband or boyfriend as miserable as she can so that she can fill the empty void in her soul.

Basically, a woman is only happy when someone is miserable, herself or her lover.

All women are a little crazy, it just depends on How crazy. My dad once taught me, a way to find out is to meet her mom. He was right, I would meet anywhere from single cat collectors, to good family oriented home makers. The daughter's always ended up behaving like their mom. If I like the mom, its easy to love the girl. And if there's a dad in the house, that's even better. Unless he's a supplicating beta. If dad's beta, leave and don't look back.

My ex wife thought she should have the kids full time, the house (which I should pay for), and whatever was left over from my paycheck. Essentially, she thought divorce meant I should just disappear from her life with ZERO changes, except for the free child care she had every night when she went out with "friends."

And she was angry that she didn't get all that. She was genuinely pissed off, and remains so years later, that she didn't get literally everything.

My mother was addicted to spending. My dad was making $300,000 per year at the time and we were living hand to mouth because she'd buy so much shit off the internet to store in a room and never look at again. Eventually my dad got a new job which paid exponentially higher than that one. His first year he got a million dollar bonus so my mom chose to split. We were still not sure if we'd be financially stable at the time just due to things like pilling debt, the divorce, and not knowing if the paycheck would be a permanent thing.

The divorce process took a full year. She was living in an apartment funded by my dad (who wasn't even court ordered to do so) and tried to act like she wanted a relationship with me. I was 16 at the time and going through suicidal depression which I was self medicating with just shit loads upon shit load upon shit loads of hard drugs. She got me to confide in her that I'd been using. When the divorce went to court, she gave the judge everything I told her about drug usage and went after my college fund claiming that I'd probably just sell drugs there and end up in prison anyways. The judge didn't give her a cent of it but she still makes a doctor's salary without having ever graduated high school.

Amazingly, my dad doesn't understand why I don't want to get married. He's blue pill as fuck.

Women are always going to be women, that hasn't been an issue for thousands of years.

The real problem is large government. That is a pretty new thing. Kings didn't give a shit about angry housewives and weren't going to expend tremendous resources to let these women walk all over men. So the women couldn't act like this.

Our current government however, it seemingly exists just to do things like this. Agencies pop up, usually filled with women, designed to extract resources from men. A court system designed to screw men over. Law enforcement designed to keep men in line as these other agencies define it.

Without the government, women are utterly powerless and they know it. They marry by 16 and then stick with their husbands, because there is no child support or alimony, and no man was going to support a woman that had other dicks inside of her. So they had to be virgins as well. Turns out the "beta BPer" wins in that arrangement, as he has the provider role and best raises children and protects her.

But in the current environment, the government fulfills that role, and forcibly extracts resources from all men in society to give to the female. So there is no incentive, actually either for the beta males or these women.

So spin plates my brothers, and don't marry, and don't worry about the BS the system pulls. It only has power over you if you let it (although of course it will still steal your productivity in the form of taxes, but in the long run that's cheaper than supporting these sluts too).

If even half the children figure out what their mothers did to their fathers, the world tomorrow will be more red pill than just reddit.

Women aren't just not making a good case for themselves, they're Bashar al Assad-ing themselves and their children.

This is why you never give women any power.

"Most recently she took her husband to court over: 1) He switched the beneficiary of his life insurance policy from her (the ex-wife) to their children."

Another reminder that women don't really care about childrens, but what childrens can bring to them.

My psychotic half sister attempted to frame her ex-husband for child molestation. She claimed he touched her, the court ordered a forensic investigation, he was completely exonerated and no evidence of any wrong doing was found.

This half sister of mine is an evil bitch, my father knew it from day one of adopting her, but she knew how to lay on the nice sweet girl veneer in order to masquerade as a normal human being and land a sucker.

Luckily said ex husband in the story made really good money (oh did I mention said half sister claims she divorced him because he 'didnt have enough time for her') from having a very good video editing gig for a major tv show. So because he was able to pull out big lawyer guns he was able to keep at least half of his shit.

Beware men, you may lose more than your possessions and assets. You may find yourself being accused of criminal actions against your own child and find you suddenly have to defend yourself from a cunt's allegations.

The Family Court system is like Disney World for married women, and they have a perennial Annual Pass. Do not let yourselves be fooled, men. You may be married to a woman who:

• couldn't find Iraq on a world map to save her life
• couldn't cook a Chicken Parmesan without a YouTube video
• thinks an oil change in her car is just a "recommendation"
• thinks a "gangbang facial" is a group therapy event at her day spa

But trust me, when she gets the divorce she will be the nightmare armchair paralegal from hell. When it comes to divorce law, every damn woman in the world is a certified paralegal. She will spend hours upon hours (the hours when she used to fuck you in the bedroom) Googling divorce law, trying to find 7 different ways from Sunday to fuck you as hard as the court will possibly allow her to.

Simps way to avoid it? Don't fucking marry.

Please guys, I understand the sentiment, but don't take NPD psychos as example of AWALT. That doesn't explain anything. The few NPDs I've had the misfortune to meet, or whose abuse I've been made aware because it was targeted at friends and family, were of both sexes.

The expression of their abusive nature was different based on gender, obviously, but the salient point is the cluster B disorder, not hypergamy.

Incidentally knowing how to identify NPD/BPD/HPD early is a very useful skill to have. You don't want these people in your life. Trust me. You will lose years of your life, money, self-esteem and social standing because of them. They are inhuman. They have no empathy but abuse that of others, especially in order to hurt you. Go read \/r \/raidebynarcissists to see what they do to their own children. Think a bully stealing your lunch money is bad? Well what if it's your mother or father?

It's a good thread, but read the format rules or it will get deleted.

I mentioned a guy who lost his children to crazy right? Well he had all of his money off-shore wife had no idea how to touch it, he was actually a retired millionaire, what he then did was signed onto our benefits system so that the government had to pay the court fees to get him visitation rights. To this day he has not paid a single penny in child support, but he obviously gave money to the son whenever he needed it. The woman got his house, but she couldn't make the mortgage payments so she lost it, she gets to live there, but only as a tenant.

She got the house (and the house payments), the kids, the boat, and the marriot points. He doesn't pay alimony or child support, so it seems like it worked out well.

Oh, so the government didn't steal his money for alimony, and more alimony child support. You should be grateful!

(Comment)She may have had a reason for it? He might be a horrible parent and she wants to monitor the kind of stuff he says to the kid? We can't judge from a simple snippet.

How ingrained into the matrix do you have to be to say something like this? It's fucking minecraft....over the internet.

(Comment) My Ex-Wife use to use cell phones as a means to check up and instigate anger when the boys where in my home. I had to take plenty of screenshots.

You may have a legal right to visitation, but I'll make it miserable for you.

Conclusion: There is a clear difference between men and women in divorce. The man may hit his wife and kids, he may even rape or just abandon the family, but I've never seen a husband attempt to divorce rape his wife. I've never seen a man be disgusted with a woman for no other reason than that she's no longer attractive in his eyes. Have you ever heard of a man place his ex in permanent financial depression (jailed for no ability to pay), snatch away the kids from her, and make/threaten to make false rape and abuse accusations just to have a sense of superiority and acquire some extra change so as to not have to work? Women view men they aren't attracted to as lesser beings. If you can't be used as a tool, you should die.

I have a very close friend of my family (who I grew up with) marry a really prissy bitch from the neighborhood. I won't go into details about her, but her whole family was so crazy, even I could see something was wrong with those girls when I was pre-teen. Fast forward 20 years. The ex-wife taught her 3-4 year-old daughter to tell the court "he put his potty in my mouth". She also, somehow got the teenage son to hate his dad too (dad takes his kid out fishing and hunting constantly, and I've seen him with his kids on weekends, before the divorce). I know this accused man from my childhood, he is one of the best men I have ever had the privilege of knowing, and he is still a dear, close friend of the family. Fortunately, the judge only took my friend's money, pride, and children. He was not convicted of child molestation. I haven't seen him in a while, but my brother says he's doing alright. He gets to see his kids again, after the prosecution failed to convict him. I can't stress this enough..For The Love Of God And All That Is Holy, Do Not Under Any Circumstances Get Married.

They name-checked TRP twice that I saw. Once was with a neckbeard reference too. Story after story of father's getting fucked in divorce, but we're the assholes for daring to support men? LOL I love it.

Saying that women hate men being happy is way too general. These are a couple of really crazy women. These few examples absolutely do not prove that ALL women want to see men suffer.

Don't be stupid and marry any good looking slut, 'cause marriage is a hell of a commitment and you don't want to find yourself stuck in a crappy one, but if you find the right girl, a woman you feel you could spend your life with, fuck this red pill bullshit and go for it.

The best part was the comments on the minecraft story. Everyone was saying to assume the dad had done terrible shit. The argument was that there was lack of info so the dad must have done something to warrant that. The kicker was they said not to make a judgement, but they were assuming judgments on the dad. Because, you know, it's not like men and her get fleeced on visitation with their children....

And of course, thousands of hamsters showed up to this thread - ready to defend every instance of a woman's vindictive & hateful behavior. Pretty much every excuse for all egregious abuses of power in divorce courts goes along the lines of:

"I'm sure she had her reasons."

Yeah, fucking Hitler had reasons. Every crazed maniac behind a shooting has had reasons. Doesn't make 'em right. People are judged by their actions, not their intent.

So, some Father can't play Minecraft with his kids over the internet because it's "unmonitored"? Who the fuck gets to be that petty and have society pretend like they're acting in their children's best interests? Oh, right, women.

It doesn't even make sense. Minecraft has a 90 character limit per message. What, that Father's gonna slowly transcribe some anti-Wife essay piece by piece? Worst case, save chat logs. Even worse case, you can disable chat via a menu. It takes, like, 10 seconds. Shit's not even "unmonitored" on a functional level.

What makes this shit bad isn't the fact that it happens, it's the fact that other people defend it en masse. Thousands of upvotes for people implying that shit like this is excusable.

You can't even direct link other TRP posts? o_O

legal prostitution when? Red pill me on why women don't want it legal?

Can't you avoid all the problems with a good prenup?

The trick isn't "don't get married", the trick is "don't get divorced". It's pretty easy to find two researched and established truths: married men are happier and live longer than single men, and (no-fault) divorce is the single largest suicide risk factor among men in the western world.

I spent 4 years as a divorce lawyer and had to deal with women pulling all kinds of shit. Then again, when I was representing women it was not uncommon for the guys to do all sorts of bone-headed things.

On the one hand, about half of marriages end in divorce; on the other hand, about half of marriages survive. (Or you can look for a Chinese farm girl where the odds of her divorcing you are about 4%.) Among divorces, most amount to basically filing paperwork and working out a schedule if there are kids. Legal fees work out to a few thousand dollars.

If you had a prenup the courts have become less and less likely to throw them out, especially if you have been updating them every few years. Women's incomes are increasing and alimony is getting smaller and smaller. Shared custody agreements are also making child support payments smaller and smaller.

The problem isn't lawyers, the problem is clients. If either one - male or female - wants to be a complete cunt about it, then they are fucking with their kids' heads and pissing away a pile of money that both they and the kids could use for something better. It is only in those exceptional cases (perhaps 5% or less of divorces) that I was dealing with in court.

So maybe there are about 20-30 million divorced women running about, but even if only 5% are cunts, then that means well over a million guys who had to go through some serious heartache, more than half of whom probably got a shitty deal (given the admittedly lop-sided nature of family law and courts) and probably a few hundred thousand who got "divorce raped". That amounts to a lot of horror stories that gain more press than maybe they should, as with terrorist bombings, plane crashes and shark attacks.

And yet, if you are college educated, over 27, conservative, same religious faith, not too much older than your bride, have a decent income and that is reflected in a kickass wedding and honeymoon, then you cut you chances of getting divorced to maybe 10%. A professional couple who have similar incomes and share parental time will tend to split assets, share custody, have little or no alimony or child support or child support issues and can get on with their life if they do in fact divorce. Realistically, if you are smart about it, the chance of you marrying a cunt and getting divorce raped is only about 1%.

Meanwhile, married men typically live longer and earn more than single men. You also have more stability and legal leverage if you actually want to have children (regardless of whether you actually want to marry).