I'm going out on a date with a 4/10 from OLD, my same league. I don't dislike her, I find her interesting (so far) but she keeps insisting on going out. In her profile, she says she wants to at least find something meaningful and is tired/not a fan of hookups. I've shown signs that I'm not the exclusive type, I even reply after long periods of time talking to other women. If I want to set the tone in the very beginning, do I say it after sex? Or show the subtlety of my wanted lifestyle?