TLDR; TRP changes you and you start seeing how blue-pilled even your closest friends are and thus relating to them gets difficult.

Intro

Disclaimer: I, by no means, consider myself a very red-pilled person or anything close to an alpha. I am still very much a beta and still a lot of BP things are left in me.

That said, I have been on TRP for about half an year now and it has really changed a lot of my perceptions about the world and for the better. One thing that made me stay here and read the content of TRP is that it all made sense to me, it felt logical, especially when you look at things from their evolutionary and biological standpoints. A lot of issues I have had/am having that seem to be occurring for no apparent reason were now explained to me in a way that really makes sense and also shows you what you are doing wrong. This made it easy for me to accept most of the RP's main points and theories. However, after some time I came to the conclusion that once you start seeing things from a RP perspective, you no longer relate to how people around you understand things. Oftentimes I'd catch myself saying something that I have learned here only to be looked at with confusion. Now, I get that we aren't supposed to talk about RP and soon I stopped doing that and kept my opinions for myself. As time passed and I started seeing a lot of RP principles and theories come true in real life experiences I really started to appreciate the pill. It helped me better myself in more than one way.

Body

However, this slow change I have been undergoing has also been slowly detaching me from my friends and even family to the point where I can no longer relate. The most glaring example of that is my group of three friends (me and two more guys). We all had similar female-related LTR issues and used to bitch about them all the time when we got together for a drink. We used to bitch about how we never get any luck with females, how only assholes get the girls and how it's super unfair. I used to relate to that. I deeply believed that it was the system and the game that was fucking us up and it even felt good at times to let off some steam that way. However, as RP preaches, you just gotta find a way and you either better yourself to get bitches or you stay at home and wank all day. And here it is, my perspective, although not so drastically changed has shifted quite a lot due to RP and now I can't help but see things differently.

My two mates, however, are the same way they used to be years ago - still bitching about not being able to talk to girls, still saying how it's all stacked up against them and that kind of crap while at the same time they do nothing to change that. I try to tell myself I used to be like that (I actually used to be much, much worse). I also try to show them that this is not DE WAE (sry) but they won't listen. I really hate how I sometimes get angry at them for refusing to see reason but it gets more difficult to relate to them. Even if I am still very blue-pilled and still very much a beta, at least I am trying to change it and it just becomes more and more apparent how they aren't. I don't want to be self-righteous or anything, I don't consider myself superior just because I now know about TRP. However, I value my friendships and it somewhat saddens me that I have started to become detached from people that I used to share and have so much in common with.

Mini field report

Just a quick example of how it feels trying to implement RP when your mates are still unaware of it: One night we went out to a bar and I had told myself that I'd approach any group of girls that have no guys with them and try to get them to hang out with use for the night. Told my friends that and we went to play some table football (the 3 of us). Soon I went to look around and told them to wait and keep the table occupied in case something comes up. The bar was full but most girls had guys with them.

Finally I noticed two solitary chicks dancing by themselves and went for it. I felt good, I was in a good mood and was whatever, doesn't matter if they reject me. Went to them said hi, then asked them if they wanted to join me and my two friends for a game of table football. They were reserved and it was difficult to persuade them but in the end they agreed. So we 3 go back to the table and then I see that two other guys are playing vs my 2 friends and my 2 friends couldn't give less fucks about the girls I brought as they were just so into the game. I tried to tell them to tell the other 2 guys to fuck off so that the girls can come hang with us but was utterly ignored as the game seemed to be more important. Naturally, the girls lost interest and I was left hanging. I admit, I got angry (though I shouldn't have) and left the place for the night. In the end my friends didn't even understand why I got so mad but I just find it difficult to accept their constant whining related to the severe lack of females and then, once I bring two 6-7/10s to them, they'd just ignore it for some game with two other dudes.

Outro

I am still a newbie but I have improved. An year ago I'd never think about approaching a girl and I'd never think that it is possible for me to get a date just from going to the bar. Although I still have a lot of emotional issues (maybe even more than before) at least now I have a direction and there is a lot of practical, in-field proof that RP is working when used properly. However, it'd be nice if close to me people would get me because guy friends are, in my opinion, of a very big importance in a man's life. Your friends don't really change after you take TRP but the way you see them does.