women are jumping and IDK how to manage dating.

awesome.

Work out what YOU want.

Then stick to it at all costs.

The hardest part if you're successful is stopping women from doing "make him wait" dating to try and get your commitment.

Before I used to date monogamously in LTR, cute, submissive family oriented women, thats was fine, but realized that marriage is not for me, atleast not now dunno if later, and stopped doing it because i was "wasting" this good material girls time. Plus I moved cities so it was impossible to continue a relationship by distance.

Right

Do you guys are still looking for "the one" unicorn to marry, and avoid spinning plate meanwhile ? (Cute, young, submissive, and family oriented)

Gave up on the one. No intention of ever doing monogamy again, because it's frankly shit.

Do you guys just spin plates? carelessly? Forever or until you wanna settle?

I go for more like multiple relationships. I wouldn't say "plates", it's more like MLTR.

Do you date and just have an honest talk with women saying you dont wanna be monogamous?

Yep

I dont know what to do, I get a lot of cute girls hitting on me, but I know most of them will inevitable end with the marriage talk,

This is not true.

which is also tiresome to deal with. So thats why Im asking for your advice. What works best for you?

Tell them up front (after mutual interest is established, but before sex) that you date multiple people at a time and then say "are you ok with that?".

50% will bail, and that's great.

I know this is hard for you to believe, but 50% will be ok with it..... some for a few months..... others for literally years.

You need to recalibrate your expectations..... if you think most will end with a marriage talk, you're doing it all wrong.

You need to not lead with anything beta or provider-ish. Do not provide for them. Drinks, meals, ...... you start paying, and you start to make them think you are investing rather than them, and they'll pretend to be a nice girl, and start with the "make him wait" shit.

Instead you flirt hard, sexually escalate, have "the talk", fuck and enjoy.

And when they do the old "make him wait", you politely tell them that you don't think you want the same things and you escort them to the door, thanking them for their time and buying them a cab.

Have you read the sidebar yet?

Do you guys are still looking for "the one" unicorn to marry, and avoid spinning plate meanwhile ?

Apparently not. Read it.

Start with these two posts, but read the entire thing:

There is no "One" by Rollo Tomassi

HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches by HumanSockPuppet (duh).

I mean dude, the whole reason a perfect woman is called a "unicorn" is because it doesn't fucking exist.

i was "wasting" this good material girls time

As a man, your goal is to get sex. If a woman chooses to give this to you and waste her own time, that's her problem, not yours. I don't advocate lying to them or making promises you have no intention of keeping, but there is no reason to let a woman go if she's doing the things you want (primarily sex, but anything else, too).

Anyway, read the sidebar. I recommend reading MRP's sidebar as well, even though you should never get married (and I say this as a guy who celebrated his 20th anniversary a couple of months ago). From their sidebar, I especially recommend these two books: "No More Mr. NiceGuy" by Dr. Robert Glover and "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" by Dr. Manuel Smith. I don't think TRP has those in its sidebar, which is a shame.

Everyone here is going to have a slightly different answer because the truth is that it comes down to what you ultimately want.

1. We've established you're not into marriage, at least not for now. So vet for that early with the girls you are interested in - let them know you're not interested in marriage, and see if they either feel the same way, or if it's a deal-breaker. This will filter out a lot of girls.

2. You're still young, technically, still good looking and your financial situation is good. Girls aren't going to stop showing interest in you any time soon. So this is good. This means the ball is almost indefinitely in your court, and you have no abundance issues.

3. You don't have to do multiple relationships, you don't even have to spin plates if you don't want to because you're already in a good position in life. Girls are coming to you, so you get to pick and choose. My advice would be to figure out exactly what you want, and then start vetting girls early. Don't be defeatist and assume they all want marriage.

To add to that, what @mattyanon said too. Don't flash the cash, don't provide for them. Money is irrelevant to a girl who's all in on you. So filter the gold diggers out early too. Vet vet vet.