Mine is “I don’t love you anymore!” - doubt I’ll ever forget it lol, as basic as it is. The context is what makes it so bad to me.
Someone said their wife said sex with him felt like rape. Wtf.
What’s some fucked up nasty bullshit women have said to you? Specifically women you have been close to. Your wife. Your gf. Your mother. That you sometimes replay in your mind… I’m curious.
MrSupreme 1y ago
I was gonna say something my ex-wife said to me, but at the same time I remember how it didn't matter much to me because her words lost all meaning and validity after every argument turned into a fight of "let's see who can hurt the other one more". Women are like children for sure. It was all in the midst of my red pilling days
AsianDude 1y ago
Mine was:
Girl 1: "You are so cruel. Why won't you marry me? I'll give you US$1,000,000 to buy you out from all your other commitments, please." Really messed with my head, I even went to ask my dude friends if I should consider marrying a close female friend who I was not attracted to. At that point I had just broke up with another girl and started dating someone new, both girls were more attractive and younger (but poorer).
Girl 2: "I can't come with you, let's just be good friends." Mostly my fault here, I was leaving for another city and asked her to come with me because she was my "most favorite girl among all the other girls I was with at time". I was super depressed, I spent the next 2 weeks with the ~7 other girls I was with, shit I don't even remember all their names and faces now.
Girl 3: "I'll go out with you if you can get Girl 4 to chaperon us on a date." Girl 3 and 4 are acquaintances. Girl 4 dated me in the past but I didn't want it to get serious (I had better choices) and Girl 4 was recently engaged to be married (to someone else). The potential complications of asking out an engaged woman who I rejected previously, to date another girl, really messed with my head.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 1y ago
Relevant post: Every unhappy wife is a rape victim by @archwinger.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
"You're so much better than my husband."
Yeah, that fucked with my head pretty good. WHOOP! WHOOP!
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No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
You didn't say they had to be negative sentences. There's some great positive ones out there!
MovinCruisin 1y ago
"One shouldn't cling to the past." Basically the moment I realized TRP is the truth. The past doesn't matter, promises don't matter. If she's got nothing to gain from me it's just over and done. She couldn't even straight up tell me what changed - because as a man you just have to get it, right? Luckily I figured out myself it's cause I turned beta.
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MovinCruisin 1y ago
What stings the most is that I had the illusion she was faithful. For over a year I was constantly mean to her. She could easily forgive all the times that I ignored, berated and insulted her until I felt bad over it and then she couldn't forgive me for becoming weak. Make it make sense.
FrancoAP 1y ago
You are fucking feminine and nerdy - That really hit home
dirtymikeandtheboyz 1y ago
hahahaha that girl is hilarious
FrancoAP 1y ago
lol agreed
Funnily enough that was one of my most redpill moments
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financehardo420 1y ago
“We don’t share the same values. You embarrass me”
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
so, how did you embarrass her?
your values, views on things?
financehardo420 1y ago
By not being a humble person.
Showing off my rolex watches/lifestyle on social media, wearing designer clothes, etc.
Doing stupid shit while drunk and posting about it. Stuff like that lol
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financehardo420 1y ago
Even today lol “I literally can’t stand you sometimes”
Appreciate it brotha. Fuck all these hoes starting to get to the point where I truly despise women lmfao.
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financehardo420 1y ago
man oh mannnnn.
I *almost feel bad for all the shawties ego’s that I’m about to destroy just cause of one bird
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
"WTF Intrepid, we are old (40), grow up sex doesn't matter anymore".
about 20 year later, many other girls later and I'm still enjoying it quite frequently thank you
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Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
nah, not a chad, well was in college for a few years. It's not my style, didn't like the girls I hooked up with. good looking, but messed up. My style is more a FWB or LTR, that's just me though.
Yup, some of us old guys around still in the game. It really is true, as you move into 40's and beyond and in shape, you stand apart from most men. If a guy keeps in shape, he's got a lot of options.
Trouble is finding women who are still in shape and low drama.
OPPTRP 1y ago
ex said - no intimacy in your sex.. ex sa victim that never had mentioned it. we got back together never got a chance to rectify it.. was a weird thing to say
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AbusiveFather1 1y ago
"If you are not going to marry me, then at least I am going to get an orgasm." - i see this as an absolute win
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
"you're awkward as fuck" (gave me shit about my autism before I hit my stride) -bpd plate
"I liked sex better with the guy i fucked before you" - a FWB i fucked 100 times talking about a guy she fucked one night (probably to get at me)
"I'm going to crash this car into that wall and kill both of us" - schizophrenic multiple personality ex girlfriend while revving the engine
"You're a stalker" some bitch I dropped out of high school to avoid because she falsely accused me over some harmless autistic mistake I made while AT school
There are probably more but I probably repressed them and don't remember
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
"I'm going to crash this car into that wall and kill both of us" - lmao this is the winner right here
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
It might have won worst line of this post but it was one of the biggest L's I've ever taken
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Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
The second one would disgust me "I liked sex better with a guy I fucked before you".
It's a major shit test, she was probably pissed that he would not LTR her.
Yes, that's a nasty girl, he definitely dodged a bullet.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
The irony of the girl comparing me was the whole 2 months we'd been fucking she kept telling me it was only a short term thing and didn't want a relationship with me (i didn't ask) and she went over to that guys house at least once.
She initially didn't want to go out with me for even one date cause she was holding out for him and then when he kept refusing plans after their ons she finally went out with me. She wouldn't stop telling me the whole time were fucking how much it hurt that he didn't want her (they were coworkers so she had to see him every week)
Then she hits me with that disgusting line 2 months in and then I told her that I had several other girls wanting to fuck me as a response.
It was THEN that she asked if I wanted to be in a relationship and I said no and the smile slowly wiped off her face until she started hamstering why it would be a bad idea anyway
That girl was messed up in the head and I have no idea what her issue was
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
damn, that is messed up
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
She was a messed up hoe. She had undeniable genuine desire for me but then shat on me for autism and saying that's why she wouldn't relationship me (again I never asked for one. Ever) and then after trying to nuke my self esteem asked for one
This hoe also had me be exclusive with her (I was still finding my stride so i stupidly agreed and the sex was too frequent to think better) while she was still wanting that dude and saying his social skills were superior and social skills are her favorite quality in a man and flirting in front of me etc
She def made me bitter for a while. This hoe was running a campaign of sorts on me and then i fucked another chick and told her and we split
Edit: I was clapping another girls cheeks raw on Christmas Eve and nutting straight in her while she was stuck at work during a holiday with that guy being depressed and crying on the clock lmao
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
wow, yup this type of stuff got me out of the chad hookup phase quick.
chose girls for not just looks, but, low drama/sanity/RMV go a long way with me
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
This one really opened up my eyes.
I've had a lot of chances to hook up with cute and willing women but have opted not to most of the time if i suspect they'll be headaches
I've passed up a lot of women since her. Made a couple misjudgements along the way but for the most part since her been selecting for women that won't take a scythe to my mental health
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
Exactly
Quality over Quantity, at least for me. Not looking for short term.
Not sure if it was Rollo, who said, focus on the girls at your SMV or 1 below you, not more than 2 below you.
It's worked well for me.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I would rather have something long term and meaningful, but I settle for short term and meaningful instead of being celibate
Hence why i reject so often. It drives them nuts
I've lasted 2-4 months with short term relationships and to me that's better than nothing at all but yeah
I avoid the hell out of ONS and girls too low beneath my SMV. Which is also why I've been lifting like a mofo lately and making other improvements
Works better for me than meaningless flings
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I nutted in her like 90 times.
Then some giant asshole that taught me how to dip when I was new at country dance who was always a giant faggot to me started dating her and found out I used to bang her
She tried ditching him for me one night and he got big salty
Good times. We don't really talk any more thank fuck