So Im dominant down to every detail in the bedroom, hence why i ask this question..
I saw one of my plates a few days ago. We went two rounds, and I was getting ready to leave. As I was putting on my jeans she grabbed them away from me in a cute way, and I was confused. She told me she wanted to have sex one more time. So I lay down to recharge a bit, just chill... watching TV and listening to music.
Within a few minutes she starts sucking my dick and it doesnt get fully hard yet because going 3 times in 45-60 minutes is a tough task. I need maybe like 10 minutes at minimum. But i never turn down a blowjob. As im lying down I tell her that i need to chill for like 10 more minutes and she agrees. She then gets up to sit on my face as im already laying down after the blowjob, and i start eating her out.
I also dont turn down pussy in my face, and I do enjoy eating her out in particular because she has a pretty pussy and a nice scent/taste. She also knows I love eating her out in particular because i tell her this all the time, that sometimes girls dont taste good or have a scent, and she seems really flattered that i like eating her out. Anyways After 10 minutes She ends up "cumming" although im never 100% sure since some girls do fake it, and shes happy after.
Not sure if that was a weird shit test though, that i somehow submitted to her facesitting me. Like a real dom would have told her to wait, or that i dont do oral in X position, or whatever. It didnt feel beta at the time but i could admit that it didnt feel super dominant either, felt neutral to me, because my frame was not thinking it was submitting in the bedroom.
Does small shit like this make girls think youre beta? I know they are very covert. I also have general knowledge of facesitting and some girls admit it is what dommes do (girls who dominate male betas lol). But i also know not to be this gung-hoe alpha that has to be dominant in 100/100 situations that presents itself, because thats cringy too.
I honestly dont view it that way, i saw it as her initiating sex and wanting to get off with me once more when my dick wasnt working. I actually view it as a compliment to my tongue game, considering i havent been suuuper good at giving oral in the past because i didnt enjoy it that much. I only liked it recently once it became a sexual strength/asset of mine
Anyone know how to read into this situation?
DragonNuts 10mo ago
Ask us a couple years ago, the answer'd be yes I.e "You're literally below her physically, shell lose respect for you lil bitch"
dongking 10mo ago
Yep bro, you're her beta now.
Einsamer 10mo ago
You're good. Apha and Beta is not a lightswitch it's a spectrum. If you feel in the mood to lick her then do it. Problems start if you don't want to lick her but do it anyways to get something from her, like a BJ, sex or whatever.
Bozza 10mo ago
This is the key, you can do submissive shit in the bedroom when you want to, on your terms.
I'm partial to a bit of submissive shit in the bedroom to spice things up. But all of my plates know instructively that I'm being submissive and letting them do things to me because I allow them to. At any moment I can rip the handcuffs or whatever off with force and seize back control.
nicknack 10mo ago
Eating your masters genitals is submissive, but just like playing basketball one time does not make you Michael Jordan, giving head once doesn't make you submissive.
MidgetSpinner 10mo ago
Dude, go to town on that pussy if you like doing that. If eating pussy makes you beta, then I'm beta as fuck. Who cares? Eating pussy turns me on, and 1000% turns her on. If you think something like eating pussy makes you submissive or beta, then the problem isn't eating the pussy, the problem is a warped mindset and overthinking shit like this.
amazonri 10mo ago
Its not eating pussy = beta
Its more the act of facesitting since thats a "domme" move. When I eat pussy its normally in 69 or from behind (my favorite way to do it)
MidgetSpinner 10mo ago
There's nothing better than a girl sitting on my face. I get to grab their ass and eat pussy at the same time.
Whatever idiot is downvoting us must have a tragically bad sex life.
amazonri 10mo ago
I much prefer 69 or eating from behind. A girl in doggystyle position on the edge of the bed and you eating her out... oh my god.
From the front is not as aesthetic. Pussy looks a lot better from the back in my opinion. Plus you get the view of her ass...
I also been told that its a more rare position to eat pussy from... its not vanilla and feels more submissive for them because theyre in 4.
But nothing turns me on than a girl with a slight musk that my pheromones are attracted too. I only met one girl like that. Thing is she had a nice ass body and a meh face. But the scent and ass was crazy bro. She was from Venezuela too. I should call her brb
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 10mo ago
You worry too much.
User4566 10mo ago
Real alphas lick feet
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whytehorse2021 10mo ago
I think we evolved to be able to taste hormones in vaginal fluid for the purpose of detecting if a woman was ready to reproduce. With what people are doing now with birth control and casual sex it's really hard to tell the latent purpose behind some things. From my knowledge of female anatomy, they don't typically get stimulated by cocks inside them, but rather cocks/tongues rubbing their clitoris.
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
Then why do women prefer larger dicks?
whytehorse2021 10mo ago
It stretches the opening which pulls the clitoris down and stimulates it.
amazonri 10mo ago
Nah for normal girls its usually just girth. But length doesnt mean girth. And there is such thing as too fat where the pain outweighs the pleasure
And for some girls its the mental of having a huge cock in her, these are called size queens.
amazonri 10mo ago
They honestly dont. Theres a study or theory about the perfect sized dick i think its called a "golden cock ratio" or something. Its something between 6-7.5 inches length and 5.1-5.6 inches girth. Its just big enough to hit every nerve without stabbing the cervix and thick enough to stretch them out without it being overbearing.
The golden cock does technically lie on both the upper ends of average length and girth however, so in theory it is above average, but not "huge".
Then like 10% of women are size queens and this doesnt apply to them. Bigger is better. Generally I think this is big in the black community, typically black females who chase bbc is a real thing.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
There are 3 types of women who prefer larger dicks:
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
Have you not seen interracial porn? White bitches love bbc aswell
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
And vice-versa! MWAHAHA!!!
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
Well no 3 contradicts what a well known EC here has stated that women’s vagina’s don’t stretch out.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
I tell you, brother, there are so many chicks out there that have had so many dicks, or if they've ever squatted out kids, it's like trying to fuck a bucket of water. Try fucking a virgin, and then try fucking a cougar or a milf. You'll get what I mean. ;)
amazonri 10mo ago
Honestly not sure about that. That seems to be the #1 misconception about girls Ive heard in the manosphere.
Loose girls dont = bigger hoe.
I havent been with many loose girls but generally they were on larger women. Notice i didnt say fat. But like I hooked up with a 5'11 girl amazon body type, thick thighs and tall. She had a looser vagina, but damn she was hot and it was hardly noticeable.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
Have you ever heard the phrase "powder her puss"? Back in the Olden Days, prostitutes would powder their pussies with alum. Why would they do that? That's a good question. I'm glad you asked. The answer is because over time and with constant use, a woman's pussy does get stretched out, and they would use alum in order to make their pussies tighter.
Another fun fact was that back then prostitutes also used to put belladonna eye-drops in their eyes to make their pupils dilate. Made them look all cute and seductive. Belladonna is derived from the words bella (fair) and donna (lady). The downside is, Belladonna is also known as Deadly Nightshade, and is a highly poisonous plant. Extended use as eye-drops also left many women blind.
Lone_Ranger 1 10mo ago
100% not beta. What is a bit beta is going on some forum and asking a bunch of random dudes for 'permission' to have sex with your lady in this or that way.
Do whatever you want to do. Make sure that the driving motivation for what you do in the bedroom is that you want to do it. Not because you read in some post that its more beta to do this or that. Or because you think the woman will like it more if you do it this or that way.
The number 1 rule of red pill - women lie all the time, and they dont even realise that they are doing it. They say that they want a sensitive man, that is a considerate lover and is focused on their needs. This is horseshit. That gives them the ick and the dry. They want a man that knows what he wants and acts accordingly.
MidgetSpinner 10mo ago
You, myself and some others got downvoted in here for saying the same thing you said. Do we have a troll in our midst?
Lone_Ranger 1 10mo ago
I know Midget, I am also seeing slightly weird posts more recently. Not an issue (yet) but wtf.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 10mo ago
Severe overthink