Are reddit dating subs a waste of time?
I contact women on subs like r4r, foreveralonedating, r4r30plus etc but they either disappear after I tell them I was born in a muslim country or they disappear the next day.
There would be times that the conversation would be going so well but the girl doesn't reply when I contact her the next day.
I have tried making my own posts and have gotten a few messages but again the women messaging me just ghost after a day or two.
The reason I continue to browse these subs is cause I have met one hookup from these subs.
I asked this question on the dating_advice subreddit and the responses I got there were "you should be trying everywhere, on dating subreddits and dating apps". But recently I have started realizing that I don't have the energy to go on dating apps after I am done with these subreddits
Are these dating subreddits worst than dating apps? Should I stop wasting my time on these dating subreddits?
I know most of you will probably say that I should be cold approaching but I am still losing weight and dont feel confident enough to cold approach.
coolsocks00 1 2y ago
Stop trolling and get off your lardy ass. You have nothing to do on any sort of OLD until you increase your SMV and even then it can be a total waste of time.
Hooktenay 2y ago
Lardy ass? I am losing weight evwry week as fast as i can. But this is not something I can do in a single day just cause you said "stop it and lose weight"
coolsocks00 1 2y ago
So focus on something meaningful instead of wasting the rest of your time on shitty online "dating".
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I've never even thought of using reddit to find women. Last I checked it was full of women who hate men, fat chicks, simps, etc.
RedPill115 2y ago
I think it's mainly full of older married women.
There's a whole game of older women controlling who younger women sleep with, and I think reddit is full older married women playing this game - but all they have left is the negative part. It's like a compulsion for them, like a guy playing video games, this is the only thing they have that keeps them entertained with no real effort or real world risk.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Competition sabotage. Also echo chambers and attention seeking.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Look at recent history and see if you can work out any reasons why they might have a problem...
No idea what the fuck this is, but it sounds fucking awful - are there any women on there at all??
reddit is full of feminazis, I doubt any decent girls are on there
dating apps are fine if you are top 1% hot.
You're not slim, you're not confident.
What are the two things women want in a man? Slim and confident.
Dude, get your fucking act together. You can't compensate by doing it all online because THIS IS WHAT EVERY MAN ON THE PLANET IS DOING.